I pity you

Problem every where.

Why do we fear loneliness?. Why do we always long for someone’s company?. You feel this way because you have never gone deep into your inner self.
You have not met your self. The moment you become aware and realize your inner true self, all fears and negativity simply disappear

Ok

Give your life to Christ instead of engaging in immorality.

Nn3muka:

You sincerely need a woman in your life...
not just random toto ooo but a good woman that will keep you away from Nairaland so you can think of being better in life.

Just shut up biko!

Hmm

Have one girl
Plan your life’s together
Push yourselves
Travel together

You can still be focused and pursue your dreams. Let’s not forget it’s not all about the girl, you too have an important role to play.

Love is sweet with the right person trust me

murphyibiam15:
Nothing special in your write-up..Having a girlfriend is only good and beneficial to the woman..period

If that is your perspective, please remain single for life. You don’t need a girlfriend or wife.

PrincewithGod:
Give your life to Christ instead of engaging in immorality.

so Christ said we shouldn't date Abi you just bump into a girl today and declare her your wife .no courtship no nothing continue confusing us.

bigpriik:
Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.

Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.

Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.

There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life

1)Determination to be successful

let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful

2) Strife to be a better man

I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.

3) Confidence boost and self esteem

Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.

Correct yarn..

Papanwamaikpe:
Just shut up biko!

Crazy how you like me but can't express yourself.
Continue stalking me

This is crazy love

freethinker01:
This is the girlfriend I hope to have. I haven't had any girlfriend in years now and I've never been happier.
@op, if having a gf is a driving factor and it's what motivates u, it's very pathetic and totally unreasonable. What should be your driving factor is how to enjoy the good things life has to offer, being there for those that helped you to where you are and striving for happiness. If you think you find that in a girlfriend, your case is quite beyond redemption.

God bless you man..

You just enumerated some of the advantages of having a girlfriend without telling us the numerous disadvantages of having a Nigerian lady as a girlfriend..

Horus:
Why do we fear loneliness?. Why do we always long for someone’s company?. You feel this way because you have never gone deep into your inner self.
You have not met your self. The moment you become aware and realize your inner true self, all fears and negativity simply disappear

you have said it all,all these small boys with their nonsense opinion about life,they keep talking about companionship and also about finding good woman ,i guess that is what there misrable life is about ,looking for what does not exist and is not lost in life.....thank you for your contribution!!

Nn3muka:

Crazy how you like me but can't express yourself.
Continue stalking me

This is crazy love

I don't do fat girls with big tummy. Sorry

Papanwamaikpe:
I don't do fat girls with big tummy. Sorry

you wish....

Nn3muka:

you wish....

True talk

Sometimes people will never stop to amaze me with their unsecure foolishness trying to paint a fact that is not factual in real life. Getting married is what is ideal when you are sound and intellectually prepared for it.

Nonsense !

Nnemuka:

Kid asin goat?
You wanna buy a goat so you can spend all your hard earned money on it?
Goodluck with your choice

Lol Ode!! na only you come know weda na goat you wan born.. My kid means pikin

marvelous000:
A better heap of crap have never been written.

I've been single for the past 18yrs and it would be vulgar trying to put into word the amount of bliss I've experienced taking into cognisance the gruelling task it take to service a relationship and in Nigeria most especially.

Wetin?
Hi never reach like this bros. Easy. Are u vexing ni?

Hmm to those guys who are looking for girlfriend up and Dan.... If you know you love yourself.. If you know you value your peace of mind, finances and future.... Avoid this so called women..... 99.9% of them have nothing good to offer you apart from sex and draining you emotionally and financially... I never believed it before but I later regretted and paid dearly for it... Remember love is dead... Women don't love.... I repeat women don't love... Remember this "male love is a caring and giving love but female love is a taking and receiving only love. Because women are greedy and extremely selfish in nature... Swallow the red pill guys... It's a bitter pill but these days.. We live in a harsh world... Cold as Bleep... Just bleep and move on.... Probably if you find a good woman.. Don't ever lose guard.. Women will always be women........ Because when a man says I love you then he means ' I want to dedicate myself to you but when a woman says I love you then she means' you are stimulating my emotions in the right way NOW '... Stay woke guys.....

Load of crap

Living a single is totally boring tho. But I'm the shy type. I can't approach a girl talkless of the one I like. It's really bad and the toll on me is huge.

biGDhAp:
... na morale. lol

Thank you.