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"What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 8:14am On Feb 23, 2020
Moving abroad has always been the dream of many, but a recent story by Twitter user Ama Cherries (@EweGirl_) has shade light on the real situation of African women who follow white men abroad.

In 2017 I wanted to leave Ghana for good. My plan was to get work in Germany because I was dating a German man. He managed to book me a ticket to Germany. I even got a visa s3f Cat face with tears of joyCat face with tears of joy he was living in Munich (most racist)

He used to take me with him to see his friends and family. That also stopped. When someone came over he would tell me to stay in the room.
I started sleeping on the floor. We used to share a bed. But I was on the floor with just a sheet.

One day I cooked meat for him. It was well done. He threw the meat back at me and told me that I should not cook my bush food for him. In the process of all that I scored a burn on my chest. Which I treated alone.

When I had my periods. He would find me on the floor because I could not sleep on his bed. And he would kick me and say how I am lying and that I do not want to work and clean the house. Guys. Fear Germans. Fear them. I used to cry every night.

One day. We were out at a restaurant and I order burger and chips with milkshake. He told me that I am fat and ugly and when we got home. He made me strip and stand infront of the mirror. He started pinching my fat and calling me a black bitch.

Then one day I wanted to leave. I just said I will go to the airport and tell them to take me back to Ghana. But I couldn't find my passport. He had taken it. That night I asked him to buy for me a flight back to Ghana. He told me that he is not my parent and I should call my mom

All this time I had lied to my family that I was enjoying Germany. I could not handle embarrassment and shame. I kept calm.

This is now 2018 August. I still had not fallen pregnant. He was also using condom when we had sex to avoid me from getting pregnant. He started to starve me. Everytime I wanted to eat I would have to ask him because the fridge was lock.

One day when I was cleaning. I found my passport and I kept it. Chale. When he came from work. I hadn't clean the bathroom. He kicked me out on the streets. I went to a police station and told them that I was kicked out. I show am my passport. They locked me up Cat face with tears of joyCat face with tears of joyCat face with tears of joyCat face with tears of joy
Ama Cherries

I gave them his address in Munich. He came to the police cell. He told them that he found me on the streets because I had overstayed and that I had nowhere else to go and he housed me and fed me.
https://mobile.twitter.com/EweGirl_/status/1230549823167848448

Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by xcabczyxabczzzz: 8:16am On Feb 23, 2020
This own na gossip gist naw.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 8:24am On Feb 23, 2020
Other women share their stories

Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nat404: 8:27am On Feb 23, 2020
Women always love fake men.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Equal2DeTask(m): 8:29am On Feb 23, 2020
angry


Fish brains here and there...
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by cRobo: 8:32am On Feb 23, 2020
My experience was the opposite when I went


I won't say a word
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by GuestLog: 9:11am On Feb 23, 2020
The wise will learn and work hard to make their own money.

The foolish ones will continue to galavant in Europe till their visa expires.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by MiztaFabuloz(m): 9:28am On Feb 23, 2020
These things mostly happen to gold diggers and ladies that really have nothing to offer. How many hard working ladies can you see telling same story. There are millions of African ladies overseas doing very fine so the fact few have bitter stories don't mean its a bitter story for everyone.
You follow a man overseas just to go and eat, sleep, have sex, enjoy life without any plan for yourself and you expect to live a beautiful life. Your name is sorry.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kingsteve(m): 9:31am On Feb 23, 2020
Petyprincess
Food don done.
A good read...you need it!
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by BlackfireX: 10:07am On Feb 23, 2020
Gold digger...
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by sunshineV(f): 12:04pm On Feb 23, 2020
cRobo:
My experience was the opposite when I went


I won't say a word
I've been seeing your post and I think u like nl likes and share. U just ask nuisance
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by cRobo: 12:42pm On Feb 23, 2020
sunshineV:
I've been seeing your post and I think u like nl likes and share. U just ask nuisance
Will the like put food on my table


I have also been seeing your post and I think you are too dull to reason for your self


No insult intended
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SaintHilary(m):
Kingsteve:
Petyprincess
Food don done.
A good read...you need it!
grin grin grin
Too late bro. The Poland guy don already carry am.

In some months time we await her own story on FP

Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by DKM123: 3:31pm On Feb 23, 2020
I don't blame this girls. We see our men even following old grandmas and marrying them just to go to the abroad. They thought they were in love and were going to have a better life abroad and there is nothing wrong with that. It is the devilish men who maltreated them that should rot in hell.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by iLegendd(m): 3:47pm On Feb 23, 2020
Hmm. We know.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Newyam: 3:49pm On Feb 23, 2020
I won't show any sign of sympathy. Same thing go happen to those ladies that do tag boys broke.

Start life small and build it up, no. You want already made, wey be obodo oyibo guy. You want snap picture, oppress your friends for facebook.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Joystark(f): 4:54pm On Feb 23, 2020
Damn.
These stories are sad.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by proclinician: 6:17pm On Feb 23, 2020
What do you expect when you are just empty, useless and without reasonable education and of all places you traveled to its in the land of the Neonazis. Thank goodness you're alive.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Petyprincess(f): 6:23pm On Feb 23, 2020
Kingsteve:
Petyprincess
Food don done.
A good read...you need it!
Sorry to disappoint you polish guys ain't like that?thats why i recommend knowing at least a year b4 visiting your foreign boyfriend which i did b4 we met so mind the business that pays you!!
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kingsteve(m): 6:27pm On Feb 23, 2020
Petyprincess:
Sorry to disappoint you polish guys ain't like that?thats why i recommend knowing at least a year b4 visiting your foreign boyfriend which i did b4 we met so mind the business that pays you!!
Ok ooo.
All the best in your adventures.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Petyprincess(f): 6:28pm On Feb 23, 2020
SaintHilary:
grin grin grin
Too late bro. The Poland guy don already carry am.

In some months time we await her own story on FP
You still never get sense this new year? A fool at 40 is a fool indeed!!
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 6:49pm On Feb 23, 2020
Nat404:
Women always love fake men.
real G my guy woman always love the dude who is using them...
The one that love them the will manipulate same as guys grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by ecstasy357(m): 6:53pm On Feb 23, 2020
DKM123:
I don't blame this girls. We see our men even following old grandmas and marrying them just to go to the abroad. They thought they were in love and were going to have a better life abroad and there is nothing wrong with that. It is the devilish men who maltreated them that should rot in hell.
The men know why they are there, to hustle not to fall in love and sit at home all day with no plan
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:00pm On Feb 23, 2020
...Do you see y me and my ladies forever sisters kill these men in so many ways , curse be on the calm girls who talk and no action,
.... Just last month a dick was chopped off in Siberia Soviet region,isn't it great? Hahahah ahaha grin grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by donoro(m): 7:01pm On Feb 23, 2020
Petyprincess:
Sorry to disappoint you polish guys ain't like that?thats why i recommend knowing at least a year b4 visiting your foreign boyfriend which i did b4 we met so mind the business that pays you!!
lmao am sure that's what those girls also thought, I hope your story doesn't end up like theirs cause of all these your comments on NL cheesy grin grin

Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by donoro(m): 7:04pm On Feb 23, 2020
SaintHilary:
grin grin grin
Too late bro. The Poland guy don already carry am.

In some months time we await her own story on FP

Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Petyprincess(f): 7:05pm On Feb 23, 2020
donoro:
lmao am sure that's what those girls also thought, I hope your story doesn't end up like theirs cause of all these your comments on NL cheesy grin grin
Blah blah blah lipsrsealed
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:05pm On Feb 23, 2020
Mandelus:
real G my guy woman always love the dude who is using them...
The one that love them the will manipulate same as guys grin
...Don't divert wickedness is wickedness ,no justification...

Don't worry when whitemen comes here( nairaland) writing about ladies chopping off their dicks and fingers ,just know is us(L.A) inconievance with some foreign ladies ,

No be only ona sabi wickedness ....shuuuu sad shocked
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Omar09(m): 7:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
husbandsnatcha:
...Do you see y me and my ladies forever sisters kill these men in so many ways , curse be on the calm girls who talk and no action,
.... Just last month a dick was chopped off in Siberia Soviet region,isn't it great? Hahahah ahaha grin grin
Have you seen MissGhosted?
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 8:02pm On Feb 23, 2020
husbandsnatcha:
...Don't divert wickedness is wickedness ,no justification...

Don't worry when whitemen comes here( nairaland) writing about ladies chopping off their dicks and fingers ,just know is us(L.A) inconievance with some foreign ladies ,

No be only ona sabi wickedness ....shuuuu sad shocked
The word same as guys did you omit it when reading the comment....
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by generationz(f): 8:03pm On Feb 23, 2020
DKM123:
I don't blame this girls. We see our men even following old grandmas and marrying them just to go to the abroad. They thought they were in love and were going to have a better life abroad and there is nothing wrong with that. It is the devilish men who maltreated them that should rot in hell.
May God bless you. It's like the men up there didn't read how these girls are tortured and maltreated. Or how they were promised jobs and used as househelps.
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