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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by berbs: 4:25am On Feb 24, 2020 |
cRobo:Please, don't. |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 4:26am On Feb 24, 2020 |
The main point from this story is that you cannot go abroad unless you have these things 1.Qualificaitons 2.A job offer abroad from a company/instiution, not from your boyfriend or girlfriend. Yes, I know, people fall in love and all that, but, the thing is, most first world countries don't want you there UNLESS you have something doing there. 5 Likes |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by 2buffagain(m): 4:27am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Though I don't doubt her maga is a fucking racist that boys should arrange, I can tell when a woman is leaving bits and pieces of a story just to make herself sound like a saint. Her story is disjointed and full of those moments. Men like me don hear woman pity-story tire so we know these things instinctively . This woman did something to that maga for him to hate her with such pure hatred and likely validated all the racist stereotypes he was initally trying to keep at bay. She for sure went there to be a liability to the man, and probably worse, and then he realized he was being played and decided to show her pepper. But of-course, trust women, that part will never be added to the story when she is seeking sympathy. It's much better for her narrative to appear pristine. Don't be surprised if he caught her sleeping with his friend, and don't expect women to put out details like that about the part she played when trying to fish the internet for thot-sympathy. In fact, I can only respect a girl's story like this and defend her if she comes clean right from the get go with "I messed up and did this thing to him....and then he became cruel". That is only when my sympathy begins, but short of that....all these "I was an angel and he was the devil" stories just make me yawn. Who you wan manipulate? 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kiddllc: 4:28am On Feb 24, 2020 |
franchasng:You have said it all.. i know of a girl who worked for a single white man in lekki here and the things she went through while working with him when she told me gave me chills. He would even invite his friends over all the way to Naija to take turns and do all manner of unspeakable things to her. In Nigeria oooh talk more when u go there without any preparations on ur own to face the new environment... its well advising these ladies is like ur hating them. They will not listen until its too late. Even most of those guys too that marry old/ young white women for papers still live restricted lives. No freedom to come home, can't get great jobs, the arrangement is all to enslave u & keep u all to themselves. When i see them taking stupid pics pretending its all good & posting it on social media i just laugh because i know what it is. What's good about limiting ur potentials? There's no better movement like business moves to foreign countries,education or ur hustle on ur own terms. Germany is even heaven compared to those Eastern European nations. Even blacks born there are not finding it as easy as their white counterparts talk more of an original African that came there on hopes & dreams 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kiddllc: 4:42am On Feb 24, 2020 |
franchasng:True just go to Shades in VI u go see them useless set of girls hungrily hovering over those white men.. And how u take know say na mostly Benin girls. Pls don't bring tribe into this. Stick to the topic |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kingrexyl(m): 6:23am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Kingsteve:So you believe that cheap broke girl |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by greatseed: 6:23am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Nat404:Especially the ones that disregard their parents advise |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kingrexyl(m): 6:25am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Petyprincess:You think everyone is gullible like you are. |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Bluntemperor: 6:29am On Feb 24, 2020 |
GuestLog: There is no wrong to love,but something is wrong if you are not a professional and you are going to Europe-Germany and Sweden for a love affairs!. •you are not a serious being because of language barriers(you should understand their language first). •you should have their education at back of your mind(stop being fooled that one oyinbo-man or woman in love-it's deceitful) for any Nigerian or African to think they can gate-crash into a structured economy of the West, America inclusive) Stop deceiving yourself for any Western person spending money on you -i have seen a Labourer from the West that stayed in Abuja Hotel for over 2years-just to change dollars into Naira(you know the Currency denominations is high),yet at home he is nobody.Our girls are too loosed!!. Shameful!!!. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by madridsta007(m): 6:36am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Nat404: Dont mind these grown women. You read about Germany and you are exposed to Hitler and the evil Nazi machine, yet you were convinced that a German man is the best human being for you. Especially one whom, from reading your piece, isnt a Christian and doesn't walk by the Spirit. Hitler and the Third Reich is their ancestor. They didnt just murder 6 million Jews; they used African bodies for experiements and kept them in caves. And yes, murdered them. Generally, a white man sees a black woman as a sex slave, a sex symbol. Especially if they are pretty. It didnt start today. They called their offspring Mullato- mixed race children born, usually, after a white man rapes a black woman. I have no pity to give you. Many will read this and still look for white men at clubs. You don’t know what you are doing. 1 Like |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Anextin(f): 6:43am On Feb 24, 2020 |
All these fools blaming these girls and calling them names, are you well. Didnt you read that they were promised a better life of job and family. Don't our men go out there and marry grandmothers just to survive. One said she left her job at Glo because she felt something better was coming her way. You evil tongued lots, brandishing them names and spewing rubbish should go and drown. Stupid people. 1 Like |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by generationz(f): 7:03am On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by generationz(f): 7:04am On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by ImaIma1(f): 7:11am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Newyam: What about the many guys that marry oyibo old women just to cross border? It's not only ladies that are guilty of this |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by luluosas(m): 7:13am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Foolish and stupid African girls. Good for them |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Newyam: 7:17am On Feb 24, 2020 |
ImaIma1:madam, those guys want go hustle, the ladies are not doing that to hustle but to feel comfortable. Everybody is not guilty of it madam. They are guys genuinely hustling amidst the harsh economy, making incremental N1k daily. Dis our ladies no dey even mind them, they shame dem, insult us, and then all of a sudden, one guy from germany comes back and they dump us for him. Them no know say those guys just want a child that will have a foreign nationality and not necessarily marrying them out of love. |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by philip0906(m): 7:21am On Feb 24, 2020 |
2buffagain:You'll live long!! |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by unscripted(m): 7:25am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Petyprincess:sister , polish people are horrible racist , I remembered you immediately I saw this post , make sure u have a family in Poland or close , so he knows someone else is watching after u .. Please be careful .. 3 Likes |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by membranus: 7:28am On Feb 24, 2020 |
husbandsnatcha: Hope it is well with you? You are writing gibberish. Or na Yabaleft u dey? |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SocialJustice: 7:30am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Sarang:Should I blame the predator instead? She set the ground for the calamity that came her way. I hate adults in their prime who decide to be lazy and choose to depend on another for their livelihood. It is the very recipe for exploitation and disaster. |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Realtizzy(m): 7:35am On Feb 24, 2020 |
MiztaFabuloz:You are entitled to ur opinion but even animals are treated with respect |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 7:37am On Feb 24, 2020 |
omobaba1759:you are either a complete novice or a very slow human being. Which love? Those fools up are 100% gold diggers who thought they've hit jackpots. I'm 100% sure they referred to those white men as maga to their their friends |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 7:40am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Next time you are posting and starting a thread please EDIT your post after copying and pasting . Cat Face with tears of joy, Cat face , Cat face made the story annoying. Cat face, cat face. 1 Like |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kiddllc: 7:49am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Hadampson:Yeah but u dare not compare the degree of racism in France, Spain, the UK or Portugal to what u have in certain parts of Germany, Poland and The entire region of former USSR... bro no reason am at all!!! 2 Likes |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by delishpot: 7:51am On Feb 24, 2020 |
PHijo: You have a point there but, any woman blinded by love can fall victim. Although the majority of them are law breakers. I see that those women were made to break the law by overstaying their visas and boom! Their troubles begin. I once saw a Naija man in a village in Eastern Europe in this same wahala. He was looking for a way to cross into western Europe. The thing I see is that they look for women who are interested in trying their luck abroad. Of course top executives will not leave their livelihood to go start afresh abroad. They don't have to do much to get whores to travel abroad. My worry is for naive women. Even if those girls are whores, they do not deserve to be abused. 4 Likes |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Babaken(m): 7:53am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Nat404:You Can say that again |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by franchasng: 7:57am On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by franchasng: 7:59am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Designerdollars:she stole your chocolate ni |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Dpaulie(m): 8:29am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Oyinbo don’t always give a damn for African women, they hate them like shit, only to satisfy their sexual urges for like 2 to 3 months and treat them like a slave afterwards. Our men have more chance, oyinbo woman always love and trust us especially when your credibility and veracity is not on doubt.. they can die for a black man with integrity especially the Americans.. most American women hate racism, I one day called my American girlfriend a white skin girl, we quarrel for almost a week. What their women want is simple YES/NO with integrity 1 Like |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by yeman1(m): 8:35am On Feb 24, 2020 |
What a bad story, eating shit? That man must be crazy. .. It is well my sister . Dont trust anybody just believe in yourself. This will sound as a warning for you. Start a new life and work harder. The rest will be story. I hope other ppl will learn from this also. |
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 8:43am On Feb 24, 2020 |
husbandsnatcha:Metal Lady . I like dey with you oh. Make you host me nah 1 Like |
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