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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Wallace2107: 10:34pm On Feb 23, 2020
DKM123:
I don't blame this girls. We see our men even following old grandmas and marrying them just to go to the abroad. They thought they were in love and were going to have a better life abroad and there is nothing wrong with that. It is the devilish men who maltreated them that should rot in hell.
I remember ya story..na u write that story on how u eat shit in Dubai,porta party abi na poo party.. So I understand ya pain grin

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by franchasng: 10:35pm On Feb 23, 2020
MiztaFabuloz:
These things mostly happen to gold diggers and ladies that really have nothing to offer. How many hard working ladies can you see telling same story. There are millions of African ladies overseas doing very fine so the fact few have bitter stories don't mean its a bitter story for everyone.
You follow a man overseas just to go and eat, sleep, have sex, enjoy life without any plan for yourself and you expect to live a beautiful life. Your name is sorry.
99.99% of black ladies of today believe that all what men need from them is sex, they fail to develop other sustainable qualities that can endear them to a man forever.

They believe with their pussy, a whiteman will do anything for them, but they don't know that white guys only see black ladies as sex slaves, unless the black lady has other endearing and sustainable qualities to silence the white man.


Go to clubs on Lagos Islands, you will see many of them, especially Benin girls hustling for white men lipsrsealed

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by omobaba1759: 10:35pm On Feb 23, 2020
Your write up already tell how stupid you are. Most of this girls are in love and they believe those men


MiztaFabuloz:


If not that you are dull, what's the difference. So because a man promises you a job abroad you will just carry yourself and jump for it without any plans if things don't go so smooth. If its a 10 year old girl that was deceived, we will understand, not a full grown adult ready marriage jumping into such a thing and now crying out. Now I am not saying its not unfortunate she found herself in such a situation, the truth is always bitter because she is just one out of millions that are overseas and many are doing well irrespective of how they left the country.
If you are telling me that as you are now, a man will promise job and heaven on earth to follow him oversea and you just jump at the opportunity, then you should know what am talking about in my first comment.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by babyfaceafrica: 10:36pm On Feb 23, 2020
Nat404:
Women always love fake men.
they love lies and sweet mouth

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SoNature(m): 10:37pm On Feb 23, 2020
Majikmoment:
I think the problem is the women ain’t wise...

Most black men getting married to white older women are more focused and determined and may not likely be sharing this kind of heart breaking stories, because they always go into the relationship with the hope of achieving some already set goals...

While The women go there with the hope of falling in love and having kids...

why won’t the oyinbo man treat you like rag when you’ve got nothing to offer?

Biko, women should be more woke, the world doesn’t revolve around your kpekus


You are on point.

A Nigerian lady who eventually marries a white man will keep insulting Nigerian guys

It's a common trait in them

I hope the rational ones who want to marry white men learn from these lachrymose stories

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by godsonalumona: 10:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
sheybi we de beg u for here u no free , my German people don use u and dump u , we de wait IDIOT

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by sayisayi(m): 10:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
Lol....African women are foolish sef. Do you think slavery happened by chance. They get serious mental problem which needs deep cleansing for 500 years...keep on chasing them sha....ur burial is near. Low self esteem biaaatches

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 10:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
Mogajunior:
Racism is well rooted in Germany. There was a time in Germany before the 1930's that blacks were treated as inferior citizens so much that they had a zoo for humans were Africans were put on display for ethnological expeditions and the viewing pleasure of the German people. It was that bad.
which racism? One fool rush go meet stranger for overseas, stranger she doesn't know his family background whether they're sane im their lineage or not she just enter plane travel how many thousands of miles? All these brainless fools all over Instagram looking for easy money because they have a stinking hole will now come and be disturbing us when they get what they are looking for.
Is it racism that cause all those corpses without breasst in Porthacourt and Lagos?

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Passionate1(m): 10:40pm On Feb 23, 2020
She was supposed thank God ,he no cut her into pieces and dump am inside freezer.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by franchasng: 10:41pm On Feb 23, 2020
Petyprincess:

Sorry to disappoint you polish guys ain't like that?thats why i recommend knowing at least a year b4 visiting your foreign boyfriend which i did b4 we met so mind the business that pays you!!
Be careful, white guys just want black ladies as sex slave, it's like a fantasy for them to have a black girl to order around to do crazy things in bed for them. One day, he will tie you on the bed and flog you with big cane just as a sexual fetish while you bleed and reel in pains to his ecstasy. They also love to watch black ladies lick their an us and eat their poo as a sexual fetish cry

I have worked with them to understand them better. I had one I was close to at work, what I saw in his laptop one day got me wondering what our black ladies do to please white men angry


If you must date or marry a white guy as a black lady, make sure you are educated, have a good job, and forging a meaningful life on your own and he is aware that your family are not dependent on you or him for survival, if not, it's a suicide mission.


Polish men have some similar traits with Germans, just be very cautious, interracial marriage doesn't always favor black women as much as it favors black men

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 10:42pm On Feb 23, 2020
SweetCunt97:
lolzzzz, fees for both of them ke? You didn't give her mouth backhand slap? See if u wanna know who truly loves you for you, u gotta pretend to b broke.

The worst thing they are just in 100 level so when will i stop paying the so-called school fees ? But they begin to change gradually when they are approaching 30 or in their 30's. If ladies are well behaved, they aren't supposed to be looking for husband. Painfully, they only wake up when they are in their 30's except the chronic Arabs
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 10:45pm On Feb 23, 2020
Olatara:
My neighbor is chatting with a German this very minute, the guy even sent some money to her and he is planning sent her money for visa. She is married o with a 7 month old baby.
Guys should not form holy there, who married those grannies I am seeing on Nairaland, Facebook.
do you see guys crying here and playing victim?

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by husbandsnatcha(f): 10:45pm On Feb 23, 2020
YorubaAmaka:
hmmm
We
Some WOMEN can lie for AFRICA

WOMEN and the DEVIL are now doing competition


Devil is boasting of being better than some WOMEN because they LIE better than him

WOMEN don't just travel abroad without a mission, if something is not after them, then they are after some


We know business some WOMEN do ABROAD, but we will not mention them, they should use their TONGUE to count their TEETH.

WOMEN OF NOWADAYS!
...Talk of a Lagos drunkard

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by udemzyudex(m): 10:49pm On Feb 23, 2020
This story reminds me of one lady here on nairaland that have been posting ill about Nigerian guys and claiming her oyinbo boyfriend loves her and will soon be going over there to meet him.


I can remember a lot of people telling her she will be used as sex slave.
I can't remember her moniker but I hope she reads this.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Designerdollars: 10:53pm On Feb 23, 2020
no advice am bro grin
Leave her make she suffer grin
franchasng:
Be careful, white guys just want black ladies as sex slave, it's like a fantasy for them to have a black girl to order around to do crazy things in bed for them. One day, he will tie you on the bed and flog you with big cane just as a sexual fetish while you bleed and reel in pains to his ecstasy. They also love to watch black ladies lick their an us and eat their poo as a sexual fetish cry

I have worked with them to understand them better. I had one I was close to at work, what I saw in his laptop one day got me wondering what our black ladies do to please white men angry


If you must date or marry a white guy as a black lady, make sure you are educated, have a good job, and forging a meaningful life on your own and he is aware that your family are not dependent on you or him for survival, if not, it's a suicide mission.


Polish men have some similar traits with Germans, just be very cautious, interracial marriage doesn't always favor black women as much as it favors black men

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Makavelli25: 10:53pm On Feb 23, 2020
Hmmmmm. Women eh
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SweetCunt97(f): 10:54pm On Feb 23, 2020
prekumohtim:


The worst thing they are just in 100 level so when will i stop paying the so-called school fees ? But they begin to change gradually when they are approaching 30 or in their 30's. If ladies are well behaved, they aren't supposed to be looking for husband. Painfully, they only wake up when they are in their 30's except the chronic Arabs
So u think ladies in their 30s treated men badly in their 20s? That's not a good mentality. There are people who are naturally selfish and insensitive, age got nothing to do with that.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by jaxxy(m): 10:56pm On Feb 23, 2020
How can u be suffering, malhandled and in distress and ure still forming fake life abroad? The other one says she waiting to die on the streets? The white man must have ruined not just her self-esteem bt her senses. When she has family and frnds out there who may be willing to help ure ashamed? Fake life and the desperation for the good life the easy way is what gets gals into trouble. Imagine all the nonesense im reading.

This is ugly and terrible. What's special about a white person? Its same brain and same life.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Olatara(f): 10:58pm On Feb 23, 2020
Lilbest3:
do you see guys crying here and playing victim?
Yes they do.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Ashirioluwa: 11:06pm On Feb 23, 2020
Amakavula:
Moving abroad has always been the dream of many, but a recent story by Twitter user Ama Cherries (@EweGirl_) has shade light on the real situation of African women who follow white men abroad.



https://mobile.twitter.com/EweGirl_/status/1230549823167848448
One sided story
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by ednut1(m): 11:14pm On Feb 23, 2020
Hmmm
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Advancedman(m): 11:15pm On Feb 23, 2020
MiztaFabuloz:
These things mostly happen to gold diggers and ladies that really have nothing to offer. How many hard working ladies can you see telling same story. There are millions of African ladies overseas doing very fine so the fact few have bitter stories don't mean its a bitter story for everyone.
You follow a man overseas just to go and eat, sleep, have sex, enjoy life without any plan for yourself and you expect to live a beautiful life. Your name is sorry.

It started back home when the foreigners were sending them money over time yet they could not come up with any cogent proposal but to travel out and have nothing to show for all they have collected so far.
They think it's Africa where Man work while woman spend mentality is proclaimed.
Foreigners don't do favour for free like African it's a debt.
Entertainment and freebies mentality is their doom.
Sisters enjoy the wealth you built.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Advancedman(m): 11:17pm On Feb 23, 2020
DKM123:
I don't blame this girls. We see our men even following old grandmas and marrying them just to go to the abroad. They thought they were in love and were going to have a better life abroad and there is nothing wrong with that. It is the devilish men who maltreated them that should rot in hell.

Sorry o.
Non of them talk about their profession or what they are offering in return while collecting the money here.
Nothing like he is a civil engineer and I'm structure engineer we met on a project blah blah blah.
Or even as tourist I offer xyz services other than sex.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 11:20pm On Feb 23, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So u think ladies in their 30s treated men badly in their 20s? That's not a good mentality. There are people who are naturally selfish and insensitive, age got nothing to do with that.

I totally agree
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Advancedman(m): 11:23pm On Feb 23, 2020
DKM123:
I don't blame this girls. We see our men even following old grandmas and marrying them just to go to the abroad. They thought they were in love and were going to have a better life abroad and there is nothing wrong with that. It is the devilish men who maltreated them that should rot in hell.

At least the men married that's a legal ground.
Pls stick to the gist.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 11:24pm On Feb 23, 2020
Seriously, one of the main reasons I refused to immigrate abroad, is that I instinctively dislike white people, wether Red necks, chincos, Arabs, labenese etc. My tolerance level na two weeks max!! after that my dislike surfaces

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Zooposki(f): 11:27pm On Feb 23, 2020
franchasng:
Team white men ladies hope you chicks are reading real life stories from your sisters


Interracial marriage is better between a black guy and a white lady, it is hardly good between a white guy and a black lady because white guys see black ladies as sex slaves while black guys see white ladies as angels to be adored and worshipped wink ;

The least likely to last out of all interracial marriages are Black Men/White Women, while the most likely to last are White men/Black women.

The common denominator for successful interracial marriages are Black women.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Advancedman(m): 11:28pm On Feb 23, 2020
MiztaFabuloz:


If not that you are dull, what's the difference. So because a man promises you a job abroad you will just carry yourself and jump for it without any plans if things don't go so smooth. If its a 10 year old girl that was deceived, we will understand, not a full grown adult ready marriage jumping into such a thing and now crying out. Now I am not saying its not unfortunate she found herself in such a situation, the truth is always bitter because she is just one out of millions that are overseas and many are doing well irrespective of how they left the country.
If you are telling me that as you are now, a man will promise job and heaven on earth to follow him oversea and you just jump at the opportunity, then you should know what am talking about in my first comment.

God bless you.
Ladies is synonymous to foolish virgin in the Bible and forming victims they think say Na Naija wey man dey suffer anyhow onto woman foolishness.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Zooposki(f): 11:30pm On Feb 23, 2020
franchasng:
the truth is, interracial marriage between white and black is better between a black man and a white woman, than white man and black woman

It’s the reverse. Studies will prove you wrong. Both are too egocentric for the marriage to last. Check studies.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 11:33pm On Feb 23, 2020
Okay.... When it happens don't come and bother us with your story here.
Petyprincess:

Sorry to disappoint you polish guys ain't like that?thats why i recommend knowing at least a year b4 visiting your foreign boyfriend which i did b4 we met so mind the business that pays you!!

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