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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SocialJustice: 11:34pm On Feb 23, 2020
Typical poverty stricken Black woman. You thought oyibo German was your Moses. You deserve the treatment you got.

Instead of working to earn her money and be in control of her life, all the typical poverty stricken Black girl wants is a man that will shoulder her poverty and that of her family.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Sarang(f): 11:40pm On Feb 23, 2020
SocialJustice:
Typical poverty stricken Black woman. You thought oyibo German was your Moses. You deserve the treatment you got.

Instead of working to earn her money and be in control of her life, all the typical poverty stricken Black girl wants is a man that will shoulder her poverty and that of her family.


Blame her. Easy eh angry
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Brightgem(f): 11:41pm On Feb 23, 2020
Powersurge:


Most NIgerian girls are hungry and gold diggers. I am 98% sure they were dating before running away with a mouthing off Oyinbo. Perhaps insulted their bf for not being able to fly them to Dubai for dinner at she 28.

Bro I can tell you categorically that if you can afford a nice car, stays in Lekki, you can have sex with at least 70% of Nigerian girls. Even the ones that are working will still be looking for how to twist your hands to collect from you. You can't have a meaningful conversation with most NIgerian girls without them asking you for one thing or the other. They are always needing one thing or the other. The shit is getting worse.
You men folks should fix it. Ladies would probably sit up if men stop acting like all women need or want is money.

It's a behavior the ladies are getting away with cuz of men folk. A man should be turned off by a lady that's quick to ask him for money, but no, they'll be feeling like something, the women won't change.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by fabienjoe: 11:46pm On Feb 23, 2020
husbandsnatcha:
...Do you see y me and my ladies forever sisters kill these men in so many ways , curse be on the calm girls who talk and no action,
.... Just last month a dick was chopped off in Siberia Soviet region,isn't it great? Hahahah ahaha grin grin

Stop! Internet is NOT actually faceless..

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by pansophist(m): 12:03am On Feb 24, 2020
franchasng:
99.99% of black ladies of today believe that all what men need from them is sex, they fail to develop other sustainable qualities that can endear them to a man forever.

They believe with their pussy, a whiteman will do anything for them, but they don't know that white guys only see black ladies as sex slaves, unless the black lady has other endearing and sustainable qualities to silence the white man.


Go to clubs on Lagos Islands, you will see many of them, especially Benin girls hustling for white men lipsrsealed


This reminds me of one igbo girl I met two years ago in Rotterdam, she was a student doing her masters, and she had a Dutch boyfriend that she recently moved in to live with. She was so pissed off at him because he expected her to contribute half of the rent and household spendings.

When they go out, he spends for himself and expect her to spend for herself, and this drives her crazy. The guy is actually a good guy from how she explained him. She was able to change her temporary student visa to a continuous one that will make her eligible for citizenship courtesy of him, but she still cant get her head around the fact that she has to be responsible for herself financially. Mind you, the guy is a student too.

If she had become a citizen, she will dump him. And this mentality makes many African women a victim of men, because their mentality is not about what they can offer, to make them valuable, but what they can take, to make themselves a liability.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by kenx1(m): 12:13am On Feb 24, 2020
I'm not supprise, Germans are wicked people...... REMENBER THE HOLOCAUST wickedness is in thier blood!!
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Exodora: 12:20am On Feb 24, 2020
Zu Sie viel Africans faul sind.Ich mag Deutschland und möchte das ich meinem studium fortsetzen.
Nicht alle Deutshe sind narcissistishe.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Elipsis: 12:28am On Feb 24, 2020
vince96w2:
and when the meet genuine ones they would be like, i can't cook,let him employ a cook. I can't do chores,let him employ a maid. I can't take care of kids,let him employ nanny. I can't give birth, let him employ baby mama. I can't have sex, let him employ prostitute.
My sister stay single.
This is the funniest comment I've read in a long time! lol
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by maeola(f): 12:40am On Feb 24, 2020
See where 'awoof' land these girls...
Shay what they're looking for, they have seen ba?

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by izibili44: 12:40am On Feb 24, 2020
If what you just said his true.I stay in Europe,but not Germany.who posted the message if you can get in touch with me via email.I can try and help you.We African should learn how to be our brother keeper. inbox me

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Kennyswagz1(m): 12:53am On Feb 24, 2020
Urchmanc:
Africans manage yourself and if you must move to other countries be careful... I rest my case
she get luck say those nazis nor give am jewish style gringrin

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Passionate1(m): 12:55am On Feb 24, 2020
Exodora:
Zu Sie viel Africans faul sind.Ich mag Deutschland und möchte das ich meinem studium fortsetzen.
Nicht alle Deutshe sind narcissistishe.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Bizibi(m): 12:57am On Feb 24, 2020
Brightgem:
You men folks should fix it. Ladies would probably sit up if men stop acting like all women need or want is money.

It's a behavior the ladies are getting away with cuz of men folk. A man should be turned off by a lady that's quick to ask him for money, but no, they'll be feeling like something, the women won't change.
this comment is funny....we should fix what exactly

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Justmemyself1(m): 1:09am On Feb 24, 2020
Zooposki:


The least marriages likely to last out of all interracial marriages are Black Men/White Women, while the most likely to last are White men/Black women.

The common denominator for successful interracial marriages are Black women.

Correct and informed.

Nice for updating him.

If he demands proof, you should send him the statistics...It's all online.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SweetDipBenny(m): 1:19am On Feb 24, 2020
Whyy?Some men sef.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by generationz(f): 1:32am On Feb 24, 2020
Kiddllc:


He is not far from the truth.. Living on promises is foolish. You want a good life earn it. There are Nigerian ladies making legitimate money in foreign countries. You don't need the promises of a white man u just met without ur own realistic plan towards ur happiness.

It's easy to judge. Very easy.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by generationz(f): 1:33am On Feb 24, 2020
MiztaFabuloz:


[s]If not that you are dull, what's the difference. So because a man promises you a job abroad you will just carry yourself and jump for it without any plans if things don't go so smooth. If its a 10 year old girl that was deceived, we will understand, not a full grown adult ready marriage jumping into such a thing and now crying out. Now I am not saying its not unfortunate she found herself in such a situation, the truth is always bitter because she is just one out of millions that are overseas and many are doing well irrespective of how they left the country.
If you are telling me that as you are now, a man will promise job and heaven on earth to follow him oversea and you just jump at the opportunity, then you should know what am talking about in my first comment[/s].
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by PHijo(m): 1:36am On Feb 24, 2020
Virtually all of them are less educated or gold diggers. I wonder what they think when they follow white men abroad!

Most white women ( except they meet you in Africa). Will insist you remain with them in their country.

Our desperate women, with only sex to offer, elope with oyibo at the slightest opportunity.

What most of them fail to realise is that, if all a man gets from you is sex, you are not different from the prostitutes they meet along the streets.

Spending on African women in West or East Africa is for the most part not expensive. When these men finally get to Germany or some other Western country, they count the cost of maintaining their "exotic animals " and get pissed off!

That's what causes much of these atrocities.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by delishpot: 1:53am On Feb 24, 2020
DKM123:
I don't blame this girls. We see our men even following old grandmas and marrying them just to go to the abroad. They thought they were in love and were going to have a better life abroad and there is nothing wrong with that. It is the devilish men who maltreated them that should rot in hell.

Wise comment. Some black men hate their women so my h that they rejoice over any evil that befalls them.


@Topic, it just goes to show that anyone visiting the abroad must know the laws concerning immigration and follow them. Do not break the rule. These users will make you break the rule and then hold you captive with threats. If you don't achieve your aim while legal, pack and move unless you plan to leave your sponsor and hussle on your own.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Churchill6767: 1:56am On Feb 24, 2020
kenx1:
I'm not supprise, Germans are wicked people...... REMENBER THE HOLOCAUST wickedness is in thier blood!!

The girl is STUPID, stop mentioning any holocaust nonsense here. Don't justify foolishness on any historical background.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by delishpot: 1:57am On Feb 24, 2020
PHijo:
Virtually all of them are less educated or gold diggers. I wonder what they think when tell follow white men abroad!

Most white women ( except they meet you in Africa). Will insist you remain with them in their country.

Our desperate women, with only sex to offer, elope with oyibo at the slightest opportunity.

What most of them fail to realise is that, if all a man gets from you is sex, you are not different from the prostitutes they meet along the streets.

Spending on African women in West or East Africa is for the most part not expensive. When these men finally get to Germany or some other Western country, they count the cost of maintaining their "exotic animals " and get pissed off!

That's what causes much of these atrocities.

Stop being ignorant. Those guys knew what they wanted. Even if those women were skilled and ready to pull their weight by getting jobs and earning decent living in their host country, those men would block them so that they will be in total control. You guys have this deep hatred for your Nigerian women it's so sad and such a shame.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Hadampson(m): 3:07am On Feb 24, 2020
Kingsteve:
Petyprincess
Food don done.
A good read...you need it!


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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Hadampson(m): 3:09am On Feb 24, 2020
SaintHilary:

grin grin grin
Too late bro. The Poland guy don already carry am.

In some months time we await her own story on FP


Laugh wan kill me die grin grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by PHijo(m): 3:14am On Feb 24, 2020
delishpot:


Stop being ignorant. Those guys knew what they wanted. Even if those women were skilled and ready to pull their weight by getting jobs and earning decent living in their host country, those men would block them so that they will be in total control. You guys have this deep hatred for your Nigerian women it's so sad and such a shame.

The signs are always there!
It is only ignorant and desperate women that will follow such men to their home countries.
On the contrary, you have limited knowledge on this issue. These guys go for women they know will be dependent. How often do you hear women working in blue chip companies follow such men?

Their victims are mostly whores or very young, ignorant women.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Hadampson(m): 3:32am On Feb 24, 2020
Mogajunior:
Racism is well rooted in Germany. There was a time in Germany before the 1930's that blacks were treated as inferior citizens so much that they had a zoo for humans were Africans were put on display for ethnological expeditions and the viewing pleasure of the German people. It was that bad.

Racism is everywhere in western world
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Hadampson(m): 3:41am On Feb 24, 2020
udemzyudex:
This story reminds me of one lady here on nairaland that have been posting ill about Nigerian guys and claiming her oyinbo boyfriend loves her and will soon be going over there to meet him.


I can remember a lot of people telling her she will used as sex slave.
I can't remember her moniker but I hope she reads this.


Are you talking about Petyprincess cheesy

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Hadampson(m): 3:47am On Feb 24, 2020
Exodora:
Zu Sie viel Africans faul sind.Ich mag Deutschland und möchte das ich meinem studium fortsetzen.
Nicht alle Deutshe sind narcissistishe.

Das ist wahr
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by adidison(m): 3:50am On Feb 24, 2020
MiztaFabuloz:
These things mostly happen to gold diggers and ladies that really have nothing to offer. How many hard working ladies can you see telling same story. There are millions of African ladies overseas doing very fine so the fact few have bitter stories don't mean its a bitter story for everyone.
You follow a man overseas just to go and eat, sleep, have sex, enjoy life without any plan for yourself and you expect to live a beautiful life. Your name is sorry.

Oga relax. Not everybody has the same story, it is all hustling, same goes to a young man who marries a 75 year old. Here the ladies follow men they think are their bf's who promise them heaven on earth and understand that it is her boyfriend not just a random person.

Same advice I will give every woman I know, never rely on any man only your father and bro's. Fine you get to Europe on the 1st day give him your CV, go out and check companies tell him this is where you want to work. Let the man respect you. Obviously if he did respect you before he probably lost it when you started doing stuff like posting fake life on Facebook and Instagram instead of looking for work.

That being said we need to look out for each other esp our women, some will be forming and can be annoying but at the end of the day we are all fam. Good thing the person shared this so other ladies know regardless of who they meet (good or bad guy) they always have to be careful and smart.

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by tiredoflife(m): 4:04am On Feb 24, 2020
Brightgem:
You men folks should fix it. Ladies would probably sit up if men stop acting like all women need or want is money.

It's a behavior the ladies are getting away with cuz of men folk. A man should be turned off by a lady that's quick to ask him for money, but no, they'll be feeling like something, the women won't change.

So u blame us for ur greed
We should fix ur greed

Why am I surprised
My people talk say na only one day woman take senior goat
E remain small una for be age mates

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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by serena111: 4:20am On Feb 24, 2020
lol lol embarassed
Nat404:
Women always love fake men.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by darediamond(m): 4:23am On Feb 24, 2020
generationz:


There is no difference between you and the wicked men described in this stories.

Didn't you see where the men promised these girls jobs?

Bitterness is a disease.

He promised because HE already knows most Naija girls are Mentally LAZY.
And Mental Laziness is the Root of becoming a self-made Liability over men.

A French guy who won big lottery once said that Nigerian Ladies are the easiest to trick of all African ladies.
Does that not speak volumes about you ladies here?

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