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| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by udemzyudex(m): 8:46am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Hadampson:Lol..confirm. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by husbandsnatcha(f): 8:52am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Blyzz:...Not in Nigeria at d moment |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by TheKingIsHere: 8:55am On Feb 24, 2020 |
This will continue to happen because most African women are always looking for guys to leech on. Now, the white men have perfected a strategy to turn them into sex slaves abroad. Women be wise and work for your money |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by philip0906(m): 8:57am On Feb 24, 2020 |
husbandsnatcha:The men have a clear game plan and stick with it...The women? Just spread legs and chop oyinbo money Or how many times have you seen men come here to wail? |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Lovelypet28: 9:07am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Eyhaaa, oyinbo has put pepper in your eye. Haq haq haq. The rubbish nigerian women do to their men cant be tolerated by other races, let's stop this entitlement attitude, that's why African women are the least desired by other races, it's not that we are not beautiful or smart, it's this chop and clean mouth attitude, use and dump, entitlement nonesense. Be wise too, no man who is not your father can tolerate you for a long time, even your husband, if you dont have something going on in your life, he will treat you like trash, this cuts across all races. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Sarang(f): 9:14am On Feb 24, 2020 |
SocialJustice:Blame her because she is a woman and easy to blame shikina! |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Dpundict: 9:18am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Black girls all want a white man as husband because of dollars or whatever so they treat us like shit because we don't have dollars. Well! I can only imagine if they were not better off in Africa and whether someone planning to go too who has read these stories will learn |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by AreaFada2: 9:23am On Feb 24, 2020*. Modified: 3:01pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
MiztaFabuloz:Dude you exaggerate. Unless you are talking from people you have seen in real life abroad regarding laziness. Listen, not all women abroad have sad stories. But try to piece together the commonality in the stories of these women. They were not traditional hustlers who moved abroad on their own. If you move abroad on your own you will likely face the rough life first and later find your way among fellow Africans. But the women in this case were taken abroad mostly by white men who promised them a good life. They hoped it was just for a visit or to stay and get married and live there legally. As such they were cut off from fellow Africans. Most of those white men are much older, some divorced multiple times and paying huge alimony, angry people and damaged goods. They sought women who would have no legal rights in Europe (they deliberately let the women's visas expire first) to abuse and threaten with deportation. I saw exact same thing like 20 years ago. A white guy basically trapped an Arab girl in his house. Would not do long stay to work for her, no friends allowed, she could not speak the language. A very fine older guy. He worked part-time with a cargo service so I had opportunity to visit his house for business. He would travel away for weeks and this girl would be alone at home. When he didn't answer my calls and he was not in the office, I went to his House. There I met the Arab girl again. She soon began crying. Luckily we both speak another popular colonial European language. She narrated her story. I was shocked. Thereafter I tried to avoid going to that House. An old oyinbo lady in opposite flat kept watch over her. When she left home, when she returned, who came into the house when and for how long with dates, etc. My impression was that the lady wanted an affair. Probably due to neglect but I fled very quickly. The worst wife beater of a Nigerian woman I have seen was a white guy. We 9ja guys gathered to go and warn him to desist immediately. He stopped. There are predators everywhere and the victim does not have to be lazy or gold digger. Let's face it, even in 9ja most girls will still prefer to follow guys who make lofty promises than the modest but honest ones. Our sisters and daughters would do same. It's sadly human nature. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SocialJustice: 9:29am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Sarang:Lol, if the victim was a guy, I would have blamed him too. If she went to Germany having a job or independent source of income, nobody can abuse her. You better learn to take responsibility when bad things happen even though it's not your fault, by taking responsibility, you give yourself power to control future reoccurrence. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Sarang(f): 9:31am On Feb 24, 2020 |
SocialJustice:We both know you wouldn’t You would have found a way to dump it on the woman too. That’s how Nigerian men are |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SocialJustice: 9:40am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Sarang:Are you depressed, what exactly is your problem? I don't even care. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by husbandsnatcha(f): 9:44am On Feb 24, 2020 |
philip0906:...One wailed last week , but I have forgotten the thread |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by philip0906(m): 9:59am On Feb 24, 2020 |
husbandsnatcha:Wailed that a white woman left his sorry azz and was racist to him?? ![]() |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by cocolacec(m): 9:59am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Amakavula:Our African sisters are very naive.Any white man who only apply for visa for you promising you a job is lying and has bad intentions. A genuine Europe man will apply for a residence permit as a spouse or unmarried partner to work and enter legally. Another angle,if these women overstayed and thrown into the streets, they can seek aduro on basis of human trafficking . |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:05am On Feb 24, 2020 |
MiztaFabuloz:The issue isn't gold digging. The real issue is that these men are abusive. From the start, they wanted someone they could enslave and abuse. These men are sadist.They preyed on their victims. Many girls, who are the very opposite of gold diggers would fall for this. Many white girls in Europe who don't ask you for a dime also llmistakenly fall into the hands of such men. They first make the lady fall head over heels in love and the man seems someone they can't do without and the abuse starts. It usually starts gradually. If things go bad, the poor girl is made to think it's her fault. They were taken advantage of. The best issuance is simply following the Bible. Keep your legs shut, don't be a simpleton (Proverbs 14:15,27:12),, find out more about him and his family and let him put a ring on it. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by pansophist(m): 10:09am On Feb 24, 2020 |
unscripted:You obviously haven't been to poland. Polish racist? Lol |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:12am On Feb 24, 2020 |
cRobo:The desire to judge and tear down is very common on NL. As you said, the experience most often is the opposite. The issue here is that these men are abusive. I don't know whether they are narcissist for I'm still trying to understand the word. They are sadist. Anyway, it's risky flying overseas with a foreigner you're not married to. It's outside the comfort zone of most Nigerians. In Europe, it's no big deal as air travel is affordable and foreign trips normal. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Martinez39s(m): 10:12am On Feb 24, 2020 |
pansophist:No him. If you are looking for racist European countries, go to Ukraine and Bulgaria. ![]() |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:19am On Feb 24, 2020 |
generationz:NL is full of people who just want to condemn. (Read Matthew 7:1-4). Even the best of girls fall into the hands of abusive men. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by ChristineC: 10:20am On Feb 24, 2020 |
things like these will only happen to empty-headed women, it's inevitable. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 10:22am On Feb 24, 2020 |
husbandsnatcha:Really, no qualms. Ni be say you agree to host me . I'm just your neighbor broda from Warri .... Isorite enjoy Ur stay out there. Metal Lady ![]() |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:24am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Olatara:Your neighbor deserves whatever she gets. Gold digging LovePeddler. The man will throw her out if he discovers her true nature |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by pansophist(m): 10:31am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Can be, but Poland? Hell no. I've lived there, and I know lots of blacks living there, who even moved there from western Europe. Like every countries, there are some few individuals racist, but the polish society is not racist. There are many well-accomplished Africans living there. People like John Godson, Izu and osi Ugonoh, and many mixed race kids I met there. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Martinez39s(m): 10:37am On Feb 24, 2020 |
pansophist:Poland is not a racist country. The reason why people think Poland is racist is because of the mainstream media which vigorously and virulently malign Poland for being eurosceptic and shunning muslim immigration. Of course being against the authoritarian and globalist EU (chaired by unelected bureaucrats in Brussels) and islamisation of your country is respectively termed racist and "islamophobic" by the mainstream media. ![]() |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by ForbesHomesNG(m): 10:37am On Feb 24, 2020 |
cRobo:Please let's know... They're might be lessons to be from there. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by elonize(m): 10:50am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Kiddllc:invites his frnds...,d girl no dey quit d work,abi she dey enjoy am...doing a job without peace of mind na waste |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nat404: 10:51am On Feb 24, 2020*. Modified: 5:51am On Feb 29, 2020 |
Mandelus:I know their world. I know a lot about women's world. Women do opposite of what they say. You ought to have known that. ![]() |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by finalboss: 10:52am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Tf is joy cat face ? |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by pansophist(m): 10:53am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Very true. And what's even funny is that the countries labelling Poland as racist involved in slavery, colonialism, imperialism and all kind of systematic racism against non-white, such an hypocrisy. Poland never did such, infact they themselves were a victim of it (nazi and ussr). They know first hand what it is like to be seen as inferior and the experience of such is still within living memory, particularly in the old people. In Poland, there is no such thing as black people's neighbourhood, Islamic ghetto etc as you'll find in the UK, the US and France. As a black person in Eastern Europe, you'll be stared at alot. Though many interpret it as racism, which is also not different from the stares a white man will receive walking in the in the hinterland of Africa. I really feel like home walking the streets of Warsaw and Krakow. To really understand the Poles, one has to speak Polish (which I do), and they are like coconut, they may appear hard in the surface, but inside, it's full of warmth and being human. |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 11:00am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Hadampson:Hi ![]() |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Hadampson(m): 11:12am On Feb 24, 2020 |
| Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 11:15am On Feb 24, 2020 |
franchasng:stop propagating false propaganda. What has loving strictly black men done for black women? We are beginning to see an increase in black women dating and having happy interracial marriages. Black women are waking up and going where they are desired regardless of race. Just go online |
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