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Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by udemzyudex(m): 8:46am On Feb 24, 2020
Hadampson:
Are you talking about Petyprincess cheesy
Lol..confirm.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by husbandsnatcha(f): 8:52am On Feb 24, 2020
Blyzz:
Metal Lady grin grin. I like dey with you oh. Make you host me nah
...Not in Nigeria at d moment
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by TheKingIsHere: 8:55am On Feb 24, 2020
This will continue to happen because most African women are always looking for guys to leech on.

Now, the white men have perfected a strategy to turn them into sex slaves abroad.

Women be wise and work for your money
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by philip0906(m): 8:57am On Feb 24, 2020
husbandsnatcha:
...Don't divert wickedness is wickedness ,no justification...

Don't worry when whitemen comes here( nairaland) writing about ladies chopping off their dicks and fingers ,just know is us(L.A) inconievance with some foreign ladies ,

No be only ona sabi wickedness ....shuuuu sad shocked
The men have a clear game plan and stick with it...The women? Just spread legs and chop oyinbo money

Or how many times have you seen men come here to wail?
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Lovelypet28: 9:07am On Feb 24, 2020
Eyhaaa, oyinbo has put pepper in your eye. Haq haq haq.
The rubbish nigerian women do to their men cant be tolerated by other races, let's stop this entitlement attitude, that's why African women are the least desired by other races, it's not that we are not beautiful or smart, it's this chop and clean mouth attitude, use and dump, entitlement nonesense.
Be wise too, no man who is not your father can tolerate you for a long time, even your husband, if you dont have something going on in your life, he will treat you like trash, this cuts across all races.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Sarang(f): 9:14am On Feb 24, 2020
SocialJustice:
Should I blame the predator instead? She set the ground for the calamity that came her way. I hate adults in their prime who decide to be lazy and choose to depend on another for their livelihood. It is the very recipe for exploitation and disaster.
Blame her because she is a woman and easy to blame shikina!
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Dpundict: 9:18am On Feb 24, 2020
Black girls all want a white man as husband because of dollars or whatever so they treat us like shit because we don't have dollars. Well! I can only imagine if they were not better off in Africa and whether someone planning to go too who has read these stories will learn
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by AreaFada2:
MiztaFabuloz:
These things mostly happen to gold diggers and ladies that really have nothing to offer. How many hard working ladies can you see telling same story. There are millions of African ladies overseas doing very fine so the fact few have bitter stories don't mean its a bitter story for everyone.
You follow a man overseas just to go and eat, sleep, have sex, enjoy life without any plan for yourself and you expect to live a beautiful life. Your name is sorry.
Dude you exaggerate. Unless you are talking from people you have seen in real life abroad regarding laziness.

Listen, not all women abroad have sad stories. But try to piece together the commonality in the stories of these women.
They were not traditional hustlers who moved abroad on their own. If you move abroad on your own you will likely face the rough life first and later find your way among fellow Africans.

But the women in this case were taken abroad mostly by white men who promised them a good life. They hoped it was just for a visit or to stay and get married and live there legally.

As such they were cut off from fellow Africans. Most of those white men are much older, some divorced multiple times and paying huge alimony, angry people and damaged goods. They sought women who would have no legal rights in Europe (they deliberately let the women's visas expire first) to abuse and threaten with deportation.

I saw exact same thing like 20 years ago. A white guy basically trapped an Arab girl in his house. Would not do long stay to work for her, no friends allowed, she could not speak the language. A very fine older guy. He worked part-time with a cargo service so I had opportunity to visit his house for business. He would travel away for weeks and this girl would be alone at home.

When he didn't answer my calls and he was not in the office, I went to his House.

There I met the Arab girl again. She soon began crying. Luckily we both speak another popular colonial European language. She narrated her story. I was shocked. Thereafter I tried to avoid going to that House. An old oyinbo lady in opposite flat kept watch over her. When she left home, when she returned, who came into the house when and for how long with dates, etc.

My impression was that the lady wanted an affair. Probably due to neglect but I fled very quickly.

The worst wife beater of a Nigerian woman I have seen was a white guy. We 9ja guys gathered to go and warn him to desist immediately. He stopped.

There are predators everywhere and the victim does not have to be lazy or gold digger.
Let's face it, even in 9ja most girls will still prefer to follow guys who make lofty promises than the modest but honest ones. Our sisters and daughters would do same. It's sadly human nature.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SocialJustice: 9:29am On Feb 24, 2020
Sarang:
Blame her because she is a woman and easy to blame shikina!
Lol, if the victim was a guy, I would have blamed him too. If she went to Germany having a job or independent source of income, nobody can abuse her. You better learn to take responsibility when bad things happen even though it's not your fault, by taking responsibility, you give yourself power to control future reoccurrence.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Sarang(f): 9:31am On Feb 24, 2020
SocialJustice:
Lol, if the victim was a guy, I would have blamed him too. If she went to Germany having a job or independent source of income, nobody can abuse her. You better learn to take responsibility when bad things happen even though it's not your fault, by taking responsibility, you give yourself power to control future reoccurrence.
We both know you wouldn’t
You would have found a way to dump it on the woman too. That’s how Nigerian men are
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by SocialJustice: 9:40am On Feb 24, 2020
Sarang:
We both know you wouldn’t
You would have found a way to dump it on the woman too. That’s how Nigerian men are
Are you depressed, what exactly is your problem? I don't even care.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by husbandsnatcha(f): 9:44am On Feb 24, 2020
philip0906:
The men have a clear game plan and stick with it...The women? Just spread legs and chop oyinbo money

Or how many times have you seen men come here to wail?
...One wailed last week , but I have forgotten the thread
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by philip0906(m): 9:59am On Feb 24, 2020
husbandsnatcha:
...One wailed last week , but I have forgotten the thread
Wailed that a white woman left his sorry azz and was racist to him?? grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by cocolacec(m): 9:59am On Feb 24, 2020
Amakavula:
Moving abroad has always been the dream of many, but a recent story by Twitter user Ama Cherries (@EweGirl_) has shade light on the real situation of African women who follow white men abroad.

https://mobile.twitter.com/EweGirl_/status/1230549823167848448
Our African sisters are very naive.Any white man who only apply for visa for you promising you a job is lying and has bad intentions.

A genuine Europe man will apply for a residence permit as a spouse or unmarried partner to work and enter legally.

Another angle,if these women overstayed and thrown into the streets, they can seek aduro on basis of human trafficking .
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:05am On Feb 24, 2020
MiztaFabuloz:
These things mostly happen to gold diggers and ladies that really have nothing to offer. How many hard working ladies can you see telling same story. There are millions of African ladies overseas doing very fine so the fact few have bitter stories don't mean its a bitter story for everyone.
You follow a man overseas just to go and eat, sleep, have sex, enjoy life without any plan for yourself and you expect to live a beautiful life. Your name is sorry.
The issue isn't gold digging. The real issue is that these men are abusive. From the start, they wanted someone they could enslave and abuse. These men are sadist.They preyed on their victims. Many girls, who are the very opposite of gold diggers would fall for this.

Many white girls in Europe who don't ask you for a dime also llmistakenly fall into the hands of such men. They first make the lady fall head over heels in love and the man seems someone they can't do without and the abuse starts. It usually starts gradually. If things go bad, the poor girl is made to think it's her fault.

They were taken advantage of. The best issuance is simply following the Bible. Keep your legs shut, don't be a simpleton (Proverbs 14:15,27:12),, find out more about him and his family and let him put a ring on it.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by pansophist(m): 10:09am On Feb 24, 2020
unscripted:
sister , polish people are horrible racist , I remembered you immediately I saw this post , make sure u have a family in Poland or close , so he knows someone else is watching after u .. Please be careful ..
You obviously haven't been to poland. Polish racist? Lol
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:12am On Feb 24, 2020
cRobo:
Will the like put food on my table


I have also been seeing your post and I think you are too dull to reason for your self


No insult intended
The desire to judge and tear down is very common on NL. As you said, the experience most often is the opposite.

The issue here is that these men are abusive. I don't know whether they are narcissist for I'm still trying to understand the word. They are sadist.

Anyway, it's risky flying overseas with a foreigner you're not married to. It's outside the comfort zone of most Nigerians. In Europe, it's no big deal as air travel is affordable and foreign trips normal.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Martinez39s(m): 10:12am On Feb 24, 2020
pansophist:
You obviously haven't been to poland. Polish racist? Lol
No him. If you are looking for racist European countries, go to Ukraine and Bulgaria. grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:19am On Feb 24, 2020
generationz:
May God bless you. It's like the men up there didn't read how these girls are tortured and maltreated. Or how they were promised jobs and used as househelps.
NL is full of people who just want to condemn. (Read Matthew 7:1-4). Even the best of girls fall into the hands of abusive men.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by ChristineC: 10:20am On Feb 24, 2020
things like these will only happen to empty-headed women, it's inevitable.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 10:22am On Feb 24, 2020
husbandsnatcha:
...Not in Nigeria at d moment
Really, no qualms. Ni be say you agree to host me grin. I'm just your neighbor broda from Warri cheesy.... Isorite enjoy Ur stay out there. Metal Lady grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by grandstar(m): 10:24am On Feb 24, 2020
Olatara:
My neighbor is chatting with a German this very minute, the guy even sent some money to her and he is planning sent her money for visa. She is married o with a 7 month old baby.
Guys should not form holy there, who married those grannies I am seeing on Nairaland, Facebook.
Your neighbor deserves whatever she gets. Gold digging LovePeddler. The man will throw her out if he discovers her true nature
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by pansophist(m): 10:31am On Feb 24, 2020
Martinez39s:
No him. If you are looking for racist European countries, go to Ukraine and Bulgaria. grin
Can be, but Poland? Hell no. I've lived there, and I know lots of blacks living there, who even moved there from western Europe. Like every countries, there are some few individuals racist, but the polish society is not racist. There are many well-accomplished Africans living there. People like John Godson, Izu and osi Ugonoh, and many mixed race kids I met there.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Martinez39s(m): 10:37am On Feb 24, 2020
pansophist:
Can be, but Poland? Hell no. I've lived there, and I know lots of blacks living there, who even moved there from western Europe. Like every countries, there are some few individuals racist, but the polish society is not racist. There are many well-accomplished Africans living there. People like John Godson, Izu and osi Ugonoh, and many mixed race kids I met there.
Poland is not a racist country. The reason why people think Poland is racist is because of the mainstream media which vigorously and virulently malign Poland for being eurosceptic and shunning muslim immigration. Of course being against the authoritarian and globalist EU (chaired by unelected bureaucrats in Brussels) and islamisation of your country is respectively termed racist and "islamophobic" by the mainstream media. grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by ForbesHomesNG(m): 10:37am On Feb 24, 2020
cRobo:
My experience was the opposite when I went

I won't say a word
Please let's know... They're might be lessons to be from there.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by elonize(m): 10:50am On Feb 24, 2020
Kiddllc:
You have said it all.. i know of a girl who worked for a single white man in lekki here and the things she went through while working with him when she told me gave me chills. He would even invite his friends over all the way to Naija to take turns and do all manner of unspeakable things to her. In Nigeria oooh talk more when u go there without any preparations on ur own to face the new environment... its well advising these ladies is like ur hating them. They will not listen until its too late. Even most of those guys too that marry old/ young white women for papers still live restricted lives. No freedom to come home, can't get great jobs, the arrangement is all to enslave u & keep u all to themselves. When i see them taking stupid pics pretending its all good & posting it on social media i just laugh because i know what it is. What's good about limiting ur potentials? There's no better movement like business moves to foreign countries,education or ur hustle on ur own terms. Germany is even heaven compared to those Eastern European nations. Even blacks born there are not finding it as easy as their white counterparts talk more of an original African that came there on hopes & dreams grin
invites his frnds...,d girl no dey quit d work,abi she dey enjoy am...doing a job without peace of mind na waste
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nat404:
Mandelus:
real G my guy woman always love the dude who is using them...
The one that love them the will manipulate same as guys grin
I know their world. I know a lot about women's world.

Women do opposite of what they say. You ought to have known that. cheesy grin
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by finalboss: 10:52am On Feb 24, 2020
Tf is joy cat face ?
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by pansophist(m): 10:53am On Feb 24, 2020
Martinez39s:
Poland is not a racist country. The reason why people think Poland is racist is because of the mainstream media which vigorously and virulently malign Poland for being eurosceptic and shunning muslim immigration. Of course being against the authoritarian and globalist EU (chaired by unelected bureaucrats in Brussels) and islamisation of your country is respectively termed racist and "islamophobic" by the mainstream media. grin
Very true. And what's even funny is that the countries labelling Poland as racist involved in slavery, colonialism, imperialism and all kind of systematic racism against non-white, such an hypocrisy. Poland never did such, infact they themselves were a victim of it (nazi and ussr). They know first hand what it is like to be seen as inferior and the experience of such is still within living memory, particularly in the old people.

In Poland, there is no such thing as black people's neighbourhood, Islamic ghetto etc as you'll find in the UK, the US and France. As a black person in Eastern Europe, you'll be stared at alot. Though many interpret it as racism, which is also not different from the stares a white man will receive walking in the in the hinterland of Africa.

I really feel like home walking the streets of Warsaw and Krakow. To really understand the Poles, one has to speak Polish (which I do), and they are like coconut, they may appear hard in the surface, but inside, it's full of warmth and being human.
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 11:00am On Feb 24, 2020
Hadampson:
Are you talking about Petyprincess cheesy
Hi cheesy
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Hadampson(m): 11:12am On Feb 24, 2020
tohyorsih2:
Hi cheesy
Who am i seeing shocked

Toyo baby, how are you doing?!
Re: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by Nobody: 11:15am On Feb 24, 2020
franchasng:
Team white men ladies hope you chicks are reading real life stories from your sistershuh


Interracial marriage is better between a black guy and a white lady, it is hardly good between a white guy and a black lady because white guys see black ladies as sex slaves while black guys see white ladies as angels to be adored and worshipped wink ;
stop propagating false propaganda.

What has loving strictly black men done for black women?

We are beginning to see an increase in black women dating and having happy interracial marriages.

Black women are waking up and going where they are desired regardless of race. Just go online
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