₦airaland Forum

Mamiwater:
Don't mind the moniker. I am a guy . I am 23 . But I am physically challenged. It was caused by accident which resulted to me using wheelchair. I don't depend on anybody or anything in life. I am financially independent. I have hand work. Well I can't say I am handsome but I am good looking.
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Recently I started searching for a life partner. It is a very difficult task . As no lady wanna give me attention. The ones that try to do so just wanna be friends. I am tired of facing rejection every now and then. I am not pity looking type . I dress nicely, infact I dress like a star . I go-to high places like clubs and etc. But yet I do all these alone. And loneliness is been the order of the day in my life. I am feeling depressed. I mean so depressed.
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Please what do you think I should do. I need your advice please. Seriously no joking and no insult please. God you all

Hhansome:
You are the problem of yourself. Change your negative thoughts.

favoryte33:
Have you tried a physically challenged woman?

Davash222:
Your moniker though.

Love is a beautiful thing that no one can deny no matter how it is conceived. Have you tried girls outside Nigeria?

MrBrownJay1:
have you tried looking at other physically challenged ladies?!

the reality is that many dont have the emotional/physical strength to date a man like you... as we shouldnt fool herself and pretend that it is "easy" to date a physically challenged person.

chatinent:
Hi, man, I want to be your friend. I am male (not homosexuality). I just want to show you the happiest side of the world with good friends; we'll also meet some of the best friends you cannot imagine.

Mamiwater:
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I can't do that. Is not good . For the fact that I'm physically challenge. Doesn't mean that I should settle down with a physically challenged woman too. Come on it doesn't make sense at all

Mamiwater:
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Please don't include the physical strength because I am not the type that will stress anybody in my life. I've been living alone for complete 5 years. Nobody does anything for me, I cook, I wash. Even when people offer to help I don't allow them. And I move around the whole state by myself. I mean every day I don't allow people to push me at all.

MrBrownJay1:
as much as the above is great, you cant expect a person dating you to NOT physically help you in anyway.... thats contrary to the idea of being in a r/ship with someone that you care for.

i think you are looking at this issue from your own perspective, and need to understand where the other person is coming from, and what they will have to go through dating someone physically challenged.... its not as easy as you make it to be.

SweetCunt97:
The way u saying You Can't Do That might b how those ladies are saying They can't do that. Simply have an open mind. One can find love in strange places.

Mamiwater:
I can't do that. Is not good . For the fact that I'm physically challenge. Doesn't mean that I should settle down with a physically challenged woman too. Come on it doesn't make sense at all

MrBrownJay1:
whats NOT good about dating a physically challenged woman?
so you look down on physically challenged women but want people to "see" you for who you are? however you want to deny it, you guys have something in common, you understand each other. you cant deny that.

Mamiwater:
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I am not looking down on them . If we date each other or marry who wan help who . Lol

favoryte33:
Have you tried a physically challenged woman?

favoryte33:
Have you tried a physically challenged woman?

MrBrownJay1:
... but you said earlier that, as a physically challenged person, you didnt need help from anybody. see how you quickly changed when looking at other women who are just like you?

CAPSLOCKED:
SELL A KIDNEY AND MAKE SOME CASH. THAT'S ALL I CAN SAY.

Mamiwater:
is cash the problem?

MrBrownJay1:
... but you said earlier that, as a physically challenged person, you didnt need help from anybody. see how you quickly changed when looking at other women who are just like you?