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See as all these non virgin girls are shouting run run run

When they were about to be disvirgined why didn't they run?

He'll Bleep hard several times, make you dirty, and still move on without conscience.

Love suffereth long!

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am, truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do I do?

Anti I want to give you a simple and straight advice as someone who has experienced a lot of things in life

number one we don't know this guy I don't know this guy I don't know how he looks like I don't know his character and I don't know anything about him except what you are telling us now

but I want you to look at this guy how good is he? does he have a good heart? does he have a good history? does he have a good character? is he someone you can live with? Is he a nice person? Is he a player? Is he responsible. keep your feelings and emotions aside and think

ask yourself questions about him and not just jump into conclusions. The fact of Life is that every man wants to have sex. very few men can keep themselves without having sex and that is the way life and nature created us as men. any man that says he doesn't want sex or he doesn't like sex is either lying or something is wrong with his hormones

and for a man to want to have sex with you it's not necessarily that he wants to use you and dump you get to understand that

It ould be that he loves you sincerely it could also be that he is a player I can't say for sure but I want you to ask yourself questions and look at this guy

keeping your virginity that's good and fine and great but I want to tell you that it guarantees nothing for you in the future she finally settle down with the wrong person. I have a personal experience from someone close that proves this


I want to tell you that it is not a guarantee that anybody that you marry in the future is going to love you and cherish you forever simply because you were a virgin when you married him


If this guy is a bad person nothing stops him from agreeing to your terms and still getting sex outside from numerous ladies until he finally marries you and shows you his real color. you have to be wise my dear

virginity is like a candle when it goes off its off. if someone at the end of the day marries you as a virgin, there's no guarantee that he's going to be caring

there's no guarantee that is going to be have a nice heart there's no guarantee that he won't cheat in the future

so now, observe this guy and if you come to the conclusion that he loves you sincerely and he wants the best for you in life and he supports your dreams aspirations and goals and you can live with him be wise and do not let him go

what I'm telling you is the fact of life when you get into troubles in the future and your marriage all because of this no one is going to come out there to help you including everyone writing above I'm just giving you reality of life

if you love this guy he loves you with all his heart and he has a good heart then don't let him go. its difficult enough to find someone you love with all your heart don't let this one go. I'm telling you. if however he is a player and wants to destroy your life and your future drop him like a hot potato and move on with your life

Aunty why are you advising her to stay single? she’s ready for marriage if the guy proposes, she just doesn’t want sex before marriage. It was stated in her write up that the guy wants to get married this year, though that may be a lie to get the coochie, but she obviously knows what she wants... Read and comprehend pls ?

Ladylite:
I know you may not take my advice but you should never have dated him in the first place.

Guys do not use their ear to hear FARGIN.... They will become anything just to claim the glory of disvirgining you.

Sister run and end it quickly. Any guy who is not ready to wait till wedding night should go to hell.

Sex is not a rehearsal for marriage.


You need to be comfortable being single. Singleness is not a disease and relationship is not the cure.


God has blessed you with beauty and brains. Protect it.

I feel you really do not know what you want.

Read relationship books, go for real relationship seminars and conferences where you can get mature successfully married female mentors that can help guide you to make better choices in future.

Men are hunters.... There is the okafors law that states that the guy that disvirgins you or gives you orgasms will always have future accesses to sleep with you even if you are married or not.

Pls be wise.

You don't need anybody to tell you he's telling you a blatant lie... If indeed he hopes to settle down next year as he said he would be bickering with you about sex. And the snubbing likely shows that he's after your pussy and since you had to deprive him of it he has picked race. (if you can't keep a virgin, don't date a virgin) because the outcome after the breakup could cause you heartbreak.
And to you, if you wish to remain a virgin till marriage keep off relationships. In a world where sex outside is a norm what do you expect?

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

move on dear, if a man can't scope you enuf to get your kpekus, he doesn't deserve you. He's even annoying me as I'm reading it.

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

Please don't fold. Don't bend to his wishes. Never. Even if the pressure becomes to much, quit if you have too.

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

We know their type, once they get down they flew.

So sex has turn to one of characteristics to look upon before contracting marriage...

If truly u are virgin as u claimed don't let one boyi to disflower u under the pretence of marrying you.

Wise up this is 2020.

Mykel51:
All I see from him is Lust !

A guy asking you for Mouthaction while knowing you are a virgin tells a lot about his morals. I just hope he is responsible !. If he walks away, your own will come.

Love is Patient and does not make threats !
If he loves you, he should be able to respect your decision to wait till the wedding night.
If he disvirgins you, you would be the one at his mercy. I might come out blunt but this is reality.

Nothing like patient .av been with my gf for over one year....no sex too....

It has its own effect. D lady would NVR be fully committed to d guy without sex. I buy her stuffs as much as I can. Carry, sh works much more productively than me sef

OK. Common loan to expand bix with a well laid repayment plan...sh will still refuse even when sh is far far worth more than am asking.....sh will say,we are in relationship nd not marriage so sh can't sacrifice her money....

Now tell me.what am I gaining from d relationship....?

Guys shouldn't listen to I don't want sex relationships. Its not worth it

Ashawoboi27:
This is almost the kids or relationship I am in now
Mine is even worst
This girl don't like kissing because she said it irritates her I haven't even kissed her before
Since we started dating
And she keeps checking my phone anyhow
And no caressing
And no sex
Me I don't even know what to do
All she wants us to talk about is how to make money and our future together
A very boring relationship
I really do love her so much if not I would have been out since
I don't know what to do for her to at least oblige us to be kissing and caressing before I listen to my friends advice

Better try to stick and bring out the naughtiness in her out. Her gem is rare majority out there are looking for ready made not someone (Man) rebuilding like Arsenal and Man United

bigpicture001:
Nothing like patient .av been with my gf for over one year....no sex too....

It has its own effect. D lady would NVR be fully committed to d guy without sex. I buy her stuffs as much as I can. Carry, sh works much more productively than me sef

OK. Common loan to expand bix with a well laid repayment plan...sh will still refuse even when sh is far far worth more than am asking.....sh will say,we are in relationship nd not marriage so sh can't sacrifice her money....

Now tell me.what am I gaining from d relationship....?

Guys shouldn't listen to I don't want sex relationships. Its not worth it

You shoot yourself ryt from the onset why start what you can't finish...

She tricked you to comit with ur cash and u failed to trick her to comit with her pussy so, why ranting?

If you are tired of the financial responsibilities of the relationship biko leave the girl alone shes not forcing u to imagine her reminding u ur job to "Man up"...

Akinbahm:
You shoot yourself ryt from the onset why start what you can't finish...

She tricked you to comit with ur cash and u failed to trick her to comit with her pussy so, why ranting?

If you are tired of the financial responsibilities of the relationship biko leave the girl alone shes not forcing u to imagine her reminding u ur job to "Man up"...

No sh doesn't ask me for a dime...sh is way richer than I am.

namiji2598:
lol
...so Virgin girls still dey? God give me one biko, i would oblige to her rules

Na so una go talk until u get one, u will know it's not by words

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

100% he just wants to dominate you. He'd so rejoice over u when he wins. Lots of guys are like that. Don't even give him a chance to defend himself. Since he's rejecting ur calls already completely cut ties with him and get a third party especially a strict fellow to know abt this issue and completely prevent him from prevailing cos his color might just burst out when u outrightly reject him.

niphemey:
Aunty why are you advising her to stay single? she’s ready for marriage if the guy proposes, she just doesn’t want sex before marriage. It was stated in her write up that the guy wants to get married this year, though that may be a lie to get the coochie, but she obviously knows what she wants... Read and comprehend pls ?

So broken marriage is better abi?

You are highly daft

leonard002:
Anti I want to give you a simple and straight advice as someone who has experienced a lot of things in life

number one we don't know this guy I don't know this guy I don't know how he looks like I don't know his character and I don't know anything about him except what you are telling us now

but I want you to look at this guy how good is he? does he have a good heart? does he have a good history? does he have a good character? is he someone you can live with? Is he a nice person? Is he a player? Is he responsible. keep your feelings and emotions aside and think

ask yourself questions about him and not just jump into conclusions. The fact of Life is that every man wants to have sex. very few men can keep themselves without having sex and that is the way life and nature created us as men. any man that says he doesn't want sex or he doesn't like sex is either lying or something is wrong with his hormones

and for a man to want to have sex with you it's not necessarily that he wants to use you and dump you get to understand that

It ould be that he loves you sincerely it could also be that he is a player I can't say for sure but I want you to ask yourself questions and look at this guy

keeping your virginity that's good and fine and great but I want to tell you that it guarantees nothing for you in the future she finally settle down with the wrong person. I have a personal experience from someone close that proves this


I want to tell you that it is not a guarantee that anybody that you marry in the future is going to love you and cherish you forever simply because you were a virgin when you married him


If this guy is a bad person nothing stops him from agreeing to your terms and still getting sex outside from numerous ladies until he finally marries you and shows you his real color. you have to be wise my dear

virginity is like a candle when it goes off its off. if someone at the end of the day marries you as a virgin, there's no guarantee that he's going to be caring

there's no guarantee that is going to be have a nice heart there's no guarantee that he won't cheat in the future

so now, observe this guy and if you come to the conclusion that he loves you sincerely and he wants the best for you in life and he supports your dreams aspirations and goals and you can live with him be wise and do not let him go

what I'm telling you is the fact of life when you get into troubles in the future and your marriage all because of this no one is going to come out there to help you including everyone writing above I'm just giving you reality of life

if you love this guy he loves you with all his heart and he has a good heart then don't let him go. its difficult enough to find someone you love with all your heart don't let this one go. I'm telling you. if however he is a player and wants to destroy your life and your future drop him like a hot potato and move on with your life

. What do you really stand for? Can't men love women with out having erection? The guy in question is already a bad influence. How people interpret lust as love shows the wide acceptance of the devil's definition of love.

Madam op

This your situation is quite sticky everybody that has said you should flee from him are right but on the flip side your fiance wanting to have you is not unfounded (if he truly loves you) he wants to have a feel of the package b4 he pays... Personally i will be skeptical about a lady restricting me ..why?
1. Is that how she will be like in marriage(she can change the story anything can happen)
2. Are our libidos compatible
These are questions that can break a marriage i mean we have seen marriages break because of this same thing.
Advice: you will always fight with him over this same thing you have to leave and be with someone who shares your own ideas ...peace

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

sister!! Run!!!!

Let him go.

If he can't control himself now.

Then he won't control himself in the marriage.

All I see is red flags with this your Bobo.

He cannot take no for an answer.( Upcoming stalker and harasser)

Tries forcing or coercing you to do what you don't want(nipples. He is an upcoming rapist)

He has cut off communication with you. Trying to create scarcity of his presence so that you will become desperate for his validation and compromise on your standards and decision. It's is a common sales and manipulation tactics.


Telling you he wants to get married this year: also another sales/marketing/manipulation tactics to also create urgency and force you to action

My advice: Ignore him. Block him on all social media. He will either move on to the person who is as desperate as he is to settle down. Or he will reply you months later when you have obviously moved on

bigpicture001:
Nothing like patient .av been with my gf for over one year....no sex too....

It has its own effect. D lady would NVR be fully committed to d guy without sex. I buy her stuffs as much as I can. Carry, sh works much more productively than me sef

OK. Common loan to expand bix with a well laid repayment plan...sh will still refuse even when sh is far far worth more than am asking.....sh will say,we are in relationship nd not marriage so sh can't sacrifice her money....

Now tell me.what am I gaining from d relationship....?

Guys shouldn't listen to I don't want sex relationships. Its not worth it

Bros honestly she is right you are in a relationship not marriage.I think rather than ask for money do seek for advice and opportunities.My red yellow girlfriend do give me opportunities she don't collect my dime and I don't ask for her dime.I don't even remember asking my ex girlfriend who happened to be a billionaire daughter any dime.If I want dimes I go to my male friends at least down the line I won't have a nagging wife.Just be of value to her.

Me oo, I cant date without fecking... wetin be my gain?? What if we are not sexually compatible?? I can't choose to ignore avoidable mistakes in marriage jare . If u love the guy, risk am joor, afterall na man go still take the virginity.. no go use marriage to scam the man

bigpicture001:
No sh doesn't ask me for a dime...sh is way richer than I am.

You are doing some pretty stuffs for her without her requesting for them nd you expected her to reciprocate such petty stuff with s_x ryt?

My dear that dude is definitely for the sex once you give it to him voom he is gone.
If he can't respect your decision so be it.
Don't allow him mess up with your intelligence .

Akinbahm:
You are doing some pretty stuffs for her without her requesting for them nd you expected her to reciprocate such petty stuff with s_x ryt?

Brother..no one is pushing for sex between us. I asked her for a loan for expansion of a biz sh knows I do..nd sh rejected saying we are not married nd we Myt break up anytime...even if I paid her back,sh said thats a thing ppl do for spouses not partners in relationship.....

Now I tell u now and advice's than person previously,that a woman's heart is only opened to a man when sh feels subdued..and that is only achieved through sex with her.....

A lady UV not slept with is a lady not totally committd to u

Hmmm

uruba23:
Bros honestly she is right you are in a relationship not marriage.I think rather than ask for money do seek for advice and opportunities.My red yellow girlfriend do give me opportunities she don't collect my dime and I don't ask for her dime.I don't even remember asking my ex girlfriend who happened to be a billionaire daughter any dime.If I want dimes I go to my male friends at least down the line I won't have a nagging wife.Just be of value to her.

Thats where I think u guys are getting it wrong.....

Is sh just a Bleep mate or a friend and a gf as well...?

You ppl treat relationship like its something ur living g to wait for a fault to break up...

So if see a great opportunities..nd it requires cash nd ur deeply involved with ur gf..nd UV exhausted all ur channeled to get funding for the biz opportunity....

You will not ask ur friend who is ur gf just cuz sh is female...?

[quote author=bigpicture001 post=87082492]Brother..no one is pushing for sex between us. I asked her for a loan for expansion of a biz sh knows I do..nd sh rejected saying we are not married nd we Myt break up anytime...even if I paid her back,sh said thats a thing ppl do for spouses not partners in relationship.....

Now I tell u now and advice's than person previously,that a woman's heart is only opened to a man when sh feels subdued..and that is only achieved through sex with her.....

A lady UV not slept with is a lady not totally committd to u[this is just wrong�]

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

Some men are liars oo, if u agree to that mouth action, he'll definitely have his way with u. Simply tell him you wanna b chaste, if him no gree, he should leave.

bigpicture001:
Brother..no one is pushing for sex between us. I asked her for a loan for expansion of a biz sh knows I do..nd sh rejected saying we are not married nd we Myt break up anytime...even if I paid her back,sh said thats a thing ppl do for spouses not partners in relationship.....

You've deviated from my question just answer it judiciously without being bias...

bigpicture001:
Now I tell u now and advice's than person previously,that a woman's heart is only opened to a man when sh feels subdued..and that is only achieved through sex with her.....

A lady UV not slept with is a lady not totally committd to u

Going with this logic of yours then why do some women still sleep around after being married legally with their man doing the job of the other room diligently

They suppose to commit fully with the fact that sex had been involved....

Exodora:
My dear that dude is definitely for the sex once you give it to him voom he is gone.
If he can't respect your decision so be it.
Don't allow him mess up with your intelligence .

You are right. The guy is just looking for where to bust his nut.. Pathetic

[quote author=Phayvii post=87083398][/quote]You know deep down it is not wrong. It only sounds improper...but in reality its correct.

If u don't sleep with a lady....sh can NVR b wholly committed to u

bigpicture001:
Thats where I think u guys are getting it wrong.....

Is sh just a Bleep mate or a friend and a gf as well...?

You ppl treat relationship like its something ur living g to wait for a fault to break up...

So if see a great opportunities..nd it requires cash nd ur deeply involved with ur gf..nd UV exhausted all ur channeled to get funding for the biz opportunity....

You will not ask ur friend who is ur gf just cuz sh is female...?

There is nothing wrong if she wants to.....but don't make it look like it is compulsory she must do it simply because she earns more and you are in a relationship ....money is always a big issue in marriage and I guess relationships.