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Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Goodmarlian(op): 12:07am On Mar 03, 2020

It is possible to run mad trying to understand women trust me sometimes I feel like our brains are wired differently from them. there are some behaviours women exhibit that is totally out of this world and I will like to get a straight logical answer from women or experts here .

1)why would a woman gladly give you her phone number but when you call she will not pick it when you WhatsApp her she will not reply or reply you with one word leaving you confused at why she even gave you the number in the first place .

2)why do women complain that most men do not approach them but when a man garners courage to approach them they will insult or embarrass him straight up not caring about his feelings he will wish he never did.

3)why do women find it hard to let go of a guy that they love even even when they are sure he doesn't love them one bit but they keep pressing even when it is obvious she is not his spec while they are men who value them like Gold but they will reject them.

4) why do women like a guy that is already taken by another girl I noticed that married men and guys in a relationship are very attractive to women.ever since I started dating that beautiful girl I talked about I notice how many females adore me.

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Nobody: 12:13am On Mar 03, 2020

We want "God when? " not "God anyhow"

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Goodmarlian(op): 12:20am On Mar 03, 2020

Amakavula:
We want "God when? " not "God anyhow"

Another confused womanbeing angry

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Offpoint: 12:25am On Mar 03, 2020

It's seems you've not read the book "Understanding Women"

Don't bother trying to get, it's over a billion pages.

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Goodmarlian(op): 12:35am On Mar 03, 2020

Offpoint:
It's seems you've not read the book "Understanding Women"

Don't bother trying to get, it's over a billion pages.

my bro it's so surprising that this creature the bible called helper is actually the opposite .

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 12:36am On Mar 03, 2020

Chairman, we are in the 3rd month of the year. This year is running very fast. Women should not be your priority for now. Try to be focused on your life goals while striving to be become a better man.

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:38am On Mar 03, 2020

Goodmarlian:
It is possible to run mad trying to understand women trust me sometimes I feel like our brains are wired differently from them. there are some behaviours women exhibit that is totally out of this world and I will like to get a straight logical answer from women or experts here .

1)why would a woman gladly give you her phone number but when you call she will not pick it when you WhatsApp her she will not reply or reply you with one word leaving you confused at why she even gave you the number in the first place .
so how can women get rid of pestering men, if not by giving them fake numbers? now that guys understood this con, these woman have no options but to give their real numbers and ignore these dudes

2)why do women complain that most men do not approach them but when a man garners courage to approach them they will insult or embarrass him straight up not caring about his feelings he will wish he never did.
so you want women to accept any donkeys out there, just because they want to be in a r/ship, abi?

3)why do women find it hard to let go of a guy that they love even even when they are sure he doesn't love them one bit but they keep pressing even when it is obvious she is not his spec while they are men who value them like Gold but they will reject them.
you cant turn LOVE off, like a light switch. it takestime to get over someone, and as we know women are more emotional than us men, it does take a while for them to be fully over a dude....but regardless, that shouldnt be a reason for them to go with any donkey that isnt their spec, just because he is interested (when they are not)

4) why do women like a guy that is already taken by another girl I noticed that married men and guys in a relationship are very attractive to women.ever since I started dating that beautiful girl I talked about I notice how many females adore me.
its called OJUKOKORO.... they want what others have, at any cost, even if they have to break a r/ship to get it.

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Nobody: 2:37am On Mar 03, 2020

Amakavula:
We want "God when? " not "God anyhow"

You want "God-when" by waiting hopelessly and aimlessly for the perfect/right one without achieving a "God-win" result because of your inability to work on self to be perfectly right first before attracting a "God-anyhow" that is available amongst the numerous "anyhows" to be perfectly right for you through your aromatic influence of self working attributes, virtues and values?? Read "DON'T UNDERSTIMATE THE POWER OF A WOMAN." Note: not for virtueless and valueless woman.

Oh! Winners expanded from 50k to 100k seaters. RCCG's new camp expanded and stretched by miles. Na now I come understand wella. Na shiloh candidates expand am oo!

My candid advice: Grab your own "God-anyhow" partner now! now!! now!!! before you follow add one seat at shiloh 2030. No time!

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Ilufoye00(m): 5:42am On Mar 03, 2020

I also met a lady on Facebook. The lady is single, but immediately I start asking her out, her first sentence was.
Have you check my profile?
Are you sure you can afford me?
The lady here in term of age is nothing below 26-27...
So you see, that is lady for you....

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Nobody: 8:44am On Mar 03, 2020

Goodmarlian:
It is possible to run mad trying to understand women trust me sometimes I feel like our brains are wired differently from them. there are some behaviours women exhibit that is totally out of this world and I will like to get a straight logical answer from women or experts here .

1)why would a woman gladly give you her phone number but when you call she will not pick it when you WhatsApp her she will not reply or reply you with one word leaving you confused at why she even gave you the number in the first place .

When a guy asks me for my number and I say no he doesn't let me be and start bugging me. Before I will give fake numbers,but now they insist on dialing the number to be sure its accurate. So I give them the right number and block them immediately they dial it. I never get to receive their calls.

2)why do women complain that most men do not approach them but when a man garners courage to approach them they will insult or embarrass him straight up not caring about his feelings he will wish he never did.

I have never complained of men not approaching me. Also, I don't insult or act rudely to any man.

3)why do women find it hard to let go of a guy that they love even even when they are sure he doesn't love them one bit but they keep pressing even when it is obvious she is not his spec while they are men who value them like Gold but they will reject them.

if I ever find myself in such a situation I will walk away to save some dignity.

4) why do women like a guy that is already taken by another girl I noticed that married men and guys in a relationship are very attractive to women.ever since I started dating that beautiful girl I talked about I notice how many females adore me.

Well....who doesn't like good thing? I can never eat the remnants of another woman though

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by MJBOLT: 9:21am On Mar 03, 2020

by their comments,we shall know them

Michellekabod2:
When a guy asks me for my number and I say no he doesn't let me be and start bugging me. Before I will give fake numbers,but now they insist on dialing the number to be sure its accurate. So I give them the right number and block them immediately they dial it. I never get to receive their calls.
I have never complained of men not approaching me. Also, I don't insult or act rudely to any man.
if I ever find myself in such a situation I will walk away to save some dignity.

Well....who doesn't like good thing? I can never eat the remnants of another woman though

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Omar09(m): 9:26am On Mar 03, 2020

Goodmarlian:

1)It depends on how you approached her. If you make a girl feel like getting her number is jackpot, she will treat you like shit. Your approach matters. Moreover the guys who usually get these kind of treatment are those guys who don't understand the words "no I'm not interested in you" as Michelle.kabod2 rightly put. But most times the manipulative women will not block or ignore such men, rather the give the impression of how you play out will determine how I will respond to your innate desire (sex) and this is the loop hole which they defraud men off their money, time and energy.

2)Once a woman complains that men are not approaching her, doesn't mean that men are not approaching her. It means a particular type of man/men are not approaching her hence her rude behavior towards when others approach her.

3)This part has to do with validation. Ever get the feeling of trying to be wanted where you are not wanted, yes that's how a woman feels when a man whom she thinks is supposed to fall heads over hills for her doesn't give a crap about her existence. Some men knows how to achieve this before having sex with the woman, whilst others achieve this fear after having sex with the girl. Be the first and not the latter.

4) It is because women operate like they are in a herd. Plus once you buy something, you give review right? So maybe your girl subconsciously has given reviews about you and others instead of getting theirs will want you

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:28am On Mar 03, 2020*

IT'S MORE PROFITABLE TO CHASE YOUR OWN SHADOW EVERY NIGHT, THAN SPEND AN HOUR GOING AFTER A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T WANT YOU. THE FIRST ONE COULD ONLY BE A WASTE OF TIME, BUT THE OTHER ONE INCLUDES A WASTE OF EVERYTHING - YOUR TIME, MONEY, EFFORTS, EMOTIONS, AND SOMETIMES, A WASTE OF YOUR LIFE.

LEARN TO KNOW YOUR WORTH FOLKS. YOU KEEP ROLLING YOURSELVES IN MUD FOR THESE WOMEN, WHEN HAVE THEY EVER ROLLED IN MUD FOR YOU?
YOU GO OUT OF YOUR WAY AND DO UNIMAGINABLE THINGS TO PLEASE THEM AND KEEP THEM HAPPY, BUT WHAT DO THEY EVER DO FOR YOU?

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Omar09(m): 9:33am On Mar 03, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:
IT'S MORE PROFITABLE TO CHASE YOUR OWN SHADOW EVERY NIGHT, THAN SPEND AN HOUR GOING AFTER A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T WANT YOU. THE FIRST ONE COULD ONLY BE A WASTE OF TIME, BUT THE OTHER ONE INCLUDES A WASTE OF EVERYTHING - YOUR TIME, MONEY, EFFORTS, EMOTIONS, AND SOMETIMES, A WASTE OF YOUR LIFE.

LEARN TO KNOW YOUR WORTH FOLKS. YOU KEEP ROLLING YOURSELVES IN MUD FOR THESE WOMEN, WHEN HAVE THEY EVER ROLLED IN MUD FOR YOU?

@the bolded, when they want money from me.

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by skywalker240(m): 9:34am On Mar 03, 2020

Michellekabod2:
When a guy asks me for my number and I say no he doesn't let me be and start bugging me. Before I will give fake numbers,but now they insist on dialing the number to be sure its accurate. So I give them the right number and block them immediately they dial it. I never get to receive their calls.
I have never complained of men not approaching me. Also, I don't insult or act rudely to any man.
if I ever find myself in such a situation I will walk away to save some dignity.

Well....who doesn't like good thing? I can never eat the remnants of another woman though

A Classic case of what the poster is saying @ bolded.

baby you just proved it.

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:36am On Mar 03, 2020*

Goodmarlian:
It is possible to run mad trying to understand women trust me sometimes I feel like our brains are wired differently from them. there are some behaviours women exhibit that is totally out of this world and I will like to get a straight logical answer from women or experts here .

1)why would a woman gladly give you her phone number but when you call she will not pick it when you WhatsApp her she will not reply or reply you with one word leaving you confused at why she even gave you the number in the first place .

2)why do women complain that most men do not approach them but when a man garners courage to approach them they will insult or embarrass him straight up not caring about his feelings he will wish he never did.

3)why do women find it hard to let go of a guy that they love even even when they are sure he doesn't love them one bit but they keep pressing even when it is obvious she is not his spec while they are men who value them like Gold but they will reject them.

4) why do women like a guy that is already taken by another girl I noticed that married men and guys in a relationship are very attractive to women.ever since I started dating that beautiful girl I talked about I notice how many females adore me.

These are some odd behaviours, but I'll try to answer them from a woman's perspective, even though I cannot relate to any of them myself.

1. Are you a random stranger she just met? There's no familiarity there, so you can't expect her to be enthusiastic early on. To avoid this, be interesting, lighthearted & don't come on too strong when you 1st meet, that gives you an advantage over the rest of the guys probably holding vigils on her line & blowing up her phone, repeating the same things. Basically, be different if you wanna stand out. Start off friendly. Most importantly, start slow. Give it a couple of days before you contact her. Go something like, "Hey it's "So & so", we met at "such & such place", it was nice chatting to you the other day & leave it at that. Now the ball is in her court. If she doesn't respond, don't contact her again.

As a rule of thumb, I don't give people I'm not interested in my number because I don't wanna have meaningless conversations & be bored. I don't even explain myself. I don't owe them any explanation for why I'm not giving them my number. That cuts out all the BS & forced conversations for me.

2. IDK about that, it seems childish...the rudeness.

3. IDK about that either. I got too much pride to be chasing after someone that doesn't want me.

4. Not me. Again, it's a pride thing. If he's taken, he's not for me because I'm not about to put myself in a situation where I'm competing with someone else for a man's attention/affections. That's NEVER going to happen.

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:49am On Mar 03, 2020

Omar09:
@the bolded, when they want money from me.

UBUNJA AND THE MONK MARTINEZ39S HAVE TO STEP UP THEIR GAME. SEEMS LIKE THE MORE THEY PREACH, THE MORE FOOLS EMERGE.

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Raydans: 9:51am On Mar 03, 2020

Lol. One recently told me she was a virgin. I told her its fine but I will have to confirm to be on the safer side. She asked if I was gonna take her for a virginity test. I said no since I can easily make use of my God given gift. I had promised myself to keep her if she truly was. She became defensive. Right there and then i knew it were all lies.

She managed to somehow manipulated everything, guilt tripped me on trust that I started to feel guilty for wanting a confirmation in the first place. I gave her an example of a friend who in similar situation was deceived by her supposed gf until it was too late for him.

So many confusing questions ran through my mind but I held on to my resolve that you can't completely understand a woman. And sometimes you have to let it go.

Later got to know she was a pro. But in my mind she already lost me.

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Omar09(m): 1:38pm On Mar 03, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:
UBUNJA AND THE MONK MARTINEZ39S HAVE TO STEP UP THEIR GAME. SEEMS LIKE THE MORE THEY PREACH, THE MORE FOOLS EMERGE.

Honestly. They really need to put in more effort.

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Unpussified: 4:20pm On Mar 03, 2020

Omar09:
1)It depends on how you approached her. If you make a girl feel like getting her number is jackpot, she will treat you like shit. Your approach matters. Moreover the guys who usually get these kind of treatment are those guys who don't understand the words "no I'm not interested in you" as Michelle.kabod2 rightly put. But most times the manipulative women will not block or ignore such men, rather the give the impression of how you play out will determine how I will respond to your innate desire (sex) and this is the loop hole which they defraud men off their money, time and energy.

2)Once a woman complains that men are not approaching her, doesn't mean that men are not approaching her. It means a particular type of man/men are not approaching her hence her rude behavior towards when others approach her.

3)This part has to do with validation. Ever get the feeling of trying to be wanted where you are not wanted, yes that's how a woman feels when a man whom she thinks is supposed to fall heads over hills for her doesn't give a crap about her existence. Some men knows how to achieve this before having sex with the woman, whilst others achieve this fear after having sex with the girl. Be the first and not the latter.

4) It is because women operate like they are in a herd. Plus once you buy something, you give review right? So maybe your girl subconsciously has given reviews about you and others instead of getting theirs will want you

Most accurate response so far

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Westernlove: 7:46pm On Mar 03, 2020

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
Chairman, we are in the 3rd month of the year. This year is running very fast. Women should not be your priority for now. Try to be focused on your life goals while striving to be become a better man.

My Highest Priority & Headache!!!

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Mar 03, 2020

Its a mystery.. You can never understand women..
They dont even understand themselves!

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by IamPlato(m): 9:16pm On Mar 03, 2020

Amakavula:
We want "God when? " not "God anyhow"

Amaka baby I Know The Village People That Is Doing You.

They Dont Plan On Stopping Anytime Soon

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by saladinnoir: 10:18pm On Mar 03, 2020

Women can make you question the existence of god, seriously

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Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by CosmicJames(m): 1:01am On Mar 04, 2020

Omar09:
Honestly. They really need to put in more effort.

No amount of effort can save this situation. The reason is because women is a thing of the heart. It is not a thing of the head. The information you get goes to your head. But feelings is in your heart.
So no matter the level of information, there are people who can't handle women matter. For such people, they feel or see women as a big issue. And they act accordingly. Trying to help them is a waste of time.

Sometimes I wonder why people keep saying words like " Fear Women, You can't understand Women".

Usually, I'm like WTF!
The way to control external forces is to first control the once within yourself

Don't try to understand women. Understand yourself instead. That way, you will understand women. Another way is to let women try to understand you.

This is reverse psychology in action and it works every single time

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Omar09(m): 7:35am On Mar 04, 2020

CosmicJames:
No amount of effort can save this situation. The reason is because women is a thing of the heart. It is not a thing of the head. The information you get goes to your head. But feelings is in your heart.
So no matter the level of information, there are people who can't handle women matter. For such people, they feel or see women as a big issue. And they act accordingly. Trying to help them is a waste of time.

Sometimes I wonder why people keep saying words like " Fear Women, You can't understand Women".

Usually, I'm like WTF!
The way to control external forces is to first control the once within yourself

Don't try to understand women. Understand yourself instead. That way, you will understand women. Another way is to let women try to understand you.

This is reverse psychology in action and it works every single time

Everyday we learn! Some don't.

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by 21cents: 7:47am On Mar 04, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:
UBUNJA AND THE MONK MARTINEZ39S HAVE TO STEP UP THEIR GAME. SEEMS LIKE THE MORE THEY PREACH, THE MORE FOOLS EMERGE.

Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Tim16(m): 8:01am On Mar 04, 2020

Goodmarlian:
Another confused womanbeing

You just spoke my mind

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