OP...let me ask your u a question if someone ask your brother this question in quote
"PREPARE YOUR WILL",

Now what those the above statement mean?
your sister needs to be arrested for contemplating murder,.....No matter how cool or nice she presented her statement to that 37year old man....the statement is heavily loaded.


In fact as it stands now,

if paradventure I know the man in question,I will boldly tell him not to loose guard,it is 50/50 chance now....whoever strike 1st carry the day....NONSENSE.

Before asking the man to write his will, has she written her own will? If she hasn't, then she is evil, abi she no get anything the man go inherit if she kpeme? Is she that poor?

this reminds me of a story that happened in benin last year where a married woman plotted with her boyfriend pastor to murder her wealthy husband.they slung the corpse of the dead man inside his car and set the car on fire.

biafraisdead:

See how u are quick to say naija men are backward, without even acknowledging the stupidity of ur sister. I hate people like u who always support their own stupidly, people like you cause problems in people's homes.

It tells u the kind of family she came from... People have been asking whether the sister has written her will but no reply to that.

The one pointer I hate in relationships with Nigerian women is SELFISHNESS. They are so selfish to the point that they have no sensitive cell left in them.

lefulefu:
this reminds me of a story that happened in benin last year where a married woman plotted with her boyfriend pastor to murder her wealthy husband.they slung the corpse of the dead man inside his car and set the car on fire.

I know the story it happened with the woman's pastor and the car was driven to by pass along sapele Road

They didn't know someone saw them. It happened 2 years prior sha...

robotix:


I know the story it happened with the woman's pastor and the car was driven to by pass along sapele Road

They didn't know someone saw them. It happened 2 years prior sha...

yea thats the one i am talking about.who knows if the lady didnt pressurize the husband to make a will before plotting with her pastor lover to murder the poor man

lefulefu:
yea thats the one i am talking about.who knows if the lady didnt pressurize the husband to make a will before plotting with her pastor lover to murder the poor man

only God knows.

This is not help... All of una want just hear gossip

Robi65:
My sister called yesterday to help her run some stuffs but I couldn’t but notice the unusual in her voice .. so as a sister I decided to ask even though she insisted all is well i was persistent.. later she opened up to me that her husband has not been coming home regularly for the past two weeks and when he does they hardly talk .. all this she said happened when she discussed with him why he should consider writing his will ( the man is 37) .. her reason she told me was because she had been thinking anything could happen God forbid with ways family throws wife and kids outside after incidents and all .. she stated that it’s not like she’s wishing him death but nothing bad in preparing for the worst .. my own issue is why are Nigerian men so backward in thinking.. couldnot stop to think why such advice should be responsible for a problem in marriage..what do you think .. please matured nairalanders alone should contribute as I’ll be screenshooting some feedback for her to see

Ur sister is so wrong...

She say she go screenshot some of our comments show her sister mk she obverse.

Make sure u show ha wetin we all yan for here cuz I sure say nor be wetin u plan hear. U sef don side with ur broke ass sister dey call Nigerian men "backward in thinking". Na ogun go rape you.

Person wen dey marry just dey kill he sef by he sef.

Karleb:
There are better ways to approach this.

The woman should have written her will first and hand it over to the husband for inspection.

...why is it that Nigerian women don't write wills?

Does it mean they have nothing to pass to their family?

Na dia bag most of dem carry come husband houz na. Wetin she get wen she one write will? Bros nor dey mk me laff joor

We go get problem if you no screenshot all this contributions above. I swear.
Why do i have this feeling that you are your sister, and your sister is you. You attacked men, while seeking advise for your "sister". The two of you must be arrogant, unforgivin[color=#990000][/color]g, and wicked!

Robi65:
My sister called yesterday to help her run some stuffs but I couldn’t but notice the unusual in her voice .. so as a sister I decided to ask even though she insisted all is well i was persistent.. later she opened up to me that her husband has not been coming home regularly for the past two weeks and when he does they hardly talk .. all this she said happened when she discussed with him why he should consider writing his will ( the man is 37) .. her reason she told me was because she had been thinking anything could happen God forbid with ways family throws wife and kids outside after incidents and all .. she stated that it’s not like she’s wishing him death but nothing bad in preparing for the worst .. my own issue is why are Nigerian men so backward in thinking.. couldnot stop to think why such advice should be responsible for a problem in marriage..what do you think .. please matured nairalanders alone should contribute as I’ll be screenshooting some feedback for her to see

As an Igbo man wey I be.

My wife and family are planning to kill me. QED



Imagine, ordinary to jokingly tell someone to start writing your will means prepare for your death.

Any woman dat asks her husband 2 prepare his will at such an early age is selfish n dangerous.

Write hin will, she dey d guy mind ni, aw she sure say d man go even leave am anything.. Nothing stops a woman from owning tins and avin a will for her own kids.. Personally nothing for any woman, d 1 I leave for my kids if dey decide give no p... Any woman wey even wish me death go go b4 me

wizdomnzube:
Na dia bag most of dem carry come husband houz na. Wetin she get wen she one write will? Bros nor dey mk me laff joor

baba u be comedian i swear

If a woman has ten million, it is her money, but if the husband has five naira, it is our money!!!

Liposure:
baba u be comedian i swear

we sabi dem galz naw. U sabi dem join

Tedpgrass:

Yep..
with independent Executors
After checking the kids DNA..

Not looking after anoda man seed!!

.

Succinct.

wizdomnzube:
we sabi dem galz naw. U sabi dem join

i neva marry oh. But if my wife ask 4 my will. I go dey suspect am

BBBells:
If a woman has ten million, it is her money, but if the husband has five naira, it is our money!!!

fact

donbachi:
If u hear sey ur brother of dat age,him wife ask am to write him will..wetin u go do?

My thought exactly! And op sees nothing wrong with her sister's request... Lol I pity Nigerian men oo

Will @ 37? Hain!

Robi65:
My sister called yesterday to help her run some stuffs but I couldn’t but notice the unusual in her voice .. so as a sister I decided to ask even though she insisted all is well i was persistent.. later she opened up to me that her husband has not been coming home regularly for the past two weeks and when he does they hardly talk .. all this she said happened when she discussed with him why he should consider writing his will ( the man is 37) .. her reason she told me was because she had been thinking anything could happen God forbid with ways family throws wife and kids outside after incidents and all .. she stated that it’s not like she’s wishing him death but nothing bad in preparing for the worst .. my own issue is why are Nigerian men so backward in thinking.. couldnot stop to think why such advice should be responsible for a problem in marriage..what do you think .. please matured nairalanders alone should contribute as I’ll be screenshooting some feedback for her to see

Honestly you are the one being very backward and stupid!!! So what do u think, a young man of 37 to write his will and hand everything he has laboured to a woman he just met abandon his family That's stupidity!!! What about your sister? Doesn't she have something doing to write her own will as well? Na only men dey die?
All this stupid African women mentality really has to stop! U want to claim the society as being equal as men, but yet when it comes to working and bringing things to the table, u leave that one for men.. is that not double standards and a sharp paradox? Continue in your stupidity!!
Fool!

Ariza:
My thought exactly! And op sees nothing wrong with her sister's request... Lol I pity Nigerian men oo

Will @ 37? Hain!

am very impressed wit ur unbiased opinion, Considering d fact dat u are a woman.

Ariza:
My thought exactly! And op sees nothing wrong with her sister's request... Lol I pity Nigerian men oo

Will @ 37? Hain!

she wan kill d guy.

Liposure:
am very impressed wit ur unbiased opinion, Considering d fact dat u are a woman.

Lol, sir, I have three brothers, I would be mad as hell if any woman make such request from them.Moreover, if reverse were to be the case, the woman would have reacted badly if her husband had asked for such. It's madness! Like is that all she's after in the marriage?

Robi65:
My sister called yesterday to help her run some stuffs but I couldn’t but notice the unusual in her voice .. so as a sister I decided to ask even though she insisted all is well i was persistent.. later she opened up to me that her husband has not been coming home regularly for the past two weeks and when he does they hardly talk .. all this she said happened when she discussed with him why he should consider writing his will ( the man is 37) .. her reason she told me was because she had been thinking anything could happen God forbid with ways family throws wife and kids outside after incidents and all .. she stated that it’s not like she’s wishing him death but nothing bad in preparing for the worst .. my own issue is why are Nigerian men so backward in thinking.. couldnot stop to think why such advice should be responsible for a problem in marriage..what do you think .. please matured nairalanders alone should contribute as I’ll be screenshooting some feedback for her to see

Firstly, it's u. Let's start with that

donbachi:
she wan kill d guy.

Gbam! That's it!

Do people ask someone to go write his or her will? Isn't it a personal decision people make when they feel it's right? That woman was just plain stupid!

Davash222:
Obviously, your sister has ulterior motives. No sane man should Will his properties to his wife, not in this present age women are something else.

Such woman like the OP's sister can elope with her boyfriend if anything happens to the husband, she can even remarry.

Remember, in your family, the only person that is not your relative is your wife. She can japa anytime and the constitution and tradition will back her. Men, use your heads!!

You are so on point.
Any man that writes his will using the wife is really backward.
I was preparing a list that requires next of kin, I had to place a call to all involved and was surprised that 100% of men used their wives as the next of kin but was shock that 100% of the women used their office sales person as next of kin, I even suggested the women using their husbands and they asked “ is it a must to use their husbands”?

Men should wake up, use your children for your will and not your wives.

Be wise.

evil1:
Will is a sad reminder of death.
I'm a lawyer but if my wife should advice me on making a will I will resent at first and even wonder why she's needs me to make my will Even though as a lawyer I understand the advantages of making a will. I will still feel something suspicious.

But on the other hand, truth be told the way the world us going, if he truly loves his family, no matter how little or assets he has, the man should not be afraid to make a Will, he should rather take the woman's advice secretly without her knowledge because anything could happen at anytime

Yeah right
How is she sure she wont die before the man
Why do Nigerians always believe the man will die first

Guest911:

My only advice is tell your sister to start working or do business and save some money in case anything goes wrong.

There’s no trust in that marriage, the husband could’ve simply replied with “I know what to do”. but no he thinks he’s Dangote carrying shoulder up and down. Truly anything can kill a man.

Tell your sister to apologize and also tell her to get her own money, at least enough to rent a mini flat or self contain and do business in case the man’s ego gets the better of him.
#2cents

Stop being stupid