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Ariza:
The ones I find very annoying are the educated ones! Like their parents send them to school, they burn candles for exams, attend morning afternoon, evening even night classes, sometimes go on hunger strike, leave their comfort zones for some unfamiliar places for years only to his their certificates under bed and beg for everything? Seriously isn't that lunacy?
Ask the average Nigerian lady why she attends the university, you hear things like: to get certificates, because my friends and cousins are in school.. total hogwash!

The truth is,Men aren't daft. Yes we have the insecure unfortunate low thinking ones among them who will feel threatened by a successful independent women but a close look into this one will realize these sets are Control freaks. The Wise men appreciate women who have things going for themselves. There's this satisfaction and joy that comes with knowing that one's woman can run things in his absence and such woman will be respected and treated like partners and sometimes queens. Unlike the zombie with no value who only knows how to spend and beg.

Seriously our women can do better! All this I never chop attitude has to end!

chinchonglee:
dis one go school at all

better go and buy lexis and structure. so that you can practice spellings

realokopi:
If Musa done tire to dey see make e move go another gate

Ariza:
You mean he is a midnight newspaper?

A forty year old man should have a child in University these days! That lady had better run while she's got the chance.

XhosaNostra:
So what's the correct spelling of "idiocy", mumu? You need those lessons more than I do by the looks of it. I'm not going to explain "Taday" to you, it'll be so lost on you, poor thing.

Riele:
Liar ! .

Oga, She slept with your friends when she wasn't in a relationship with you . Do you know how of her friends you've slept with without knowing ? .

You can't make peace with the idea ? . Are you a virgin ? . You keep numerous girlfriends and you still can't make peace with the idea that she has slept with your friends ? . Hypocrite!

She has never spent a dime on you because according to you , you can't accept a dime from a lady . See Pride !!! .

Please free the young lady .

chinchonglee:
we re in nigeria dumb ass!!!
u need a nigerian lexis and structure.

continue crying
mind u that ur grammar is absolutely wrong!

XhosaNostra:
You are in Nigeria, I'm not, fool!

Michellekabod2:
NL is getting interesting by the day.
Why didn't you end things with her and move on ?is not by force to marry her,but if you don't want to kindly leave her in peace instead of wasting her time



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chinchonglee:
Wasting her time kill you dere!

Abi ogun wan kill you why dont she break up with him.

why can't y'all think for once?

Sixfeetbelle:
Did you read the thread?

[s]If you did, you'd understand she has broken up with him numerous times yet he still finds ways to convince her to get back with him[/s].

The main issue here is that he should let her go. He sounds embittered by her promiscuity yet he hasn't shown willingness to let her go. He didn't even say he broke up with her and she's the one refusing to cut the relationship loose. Or don't you see it??

chinchonglee:
scam... no one can make life decisions for anyone especially for an adult of 27yrs.

if she has ended the relationship she shuld stand firm on her decision and nt allow the guy manipulate her.

ProfDview:
I know y'all must've seen this thread below, where my supposed fiancee painted me black on a public forum

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266


Dear nairalanders, pls disregard the submissions she made.

She's my supposed fiancee , some of her stories are false or well edited to paint me black.

Here's the truth:

1. She has slept with three of my friends before, though not while I knew her. Conversely , my two friends are her exes and my third friend she supposedly had a one night stand with him. I do love her but my manly ego can't make peace with the above truths hence, my decision to keep the relationship open.

2. She has never spent a dime on me, my manly ego won't even allow me take 2kobo from a lady. Never!

Kiddllc:
She's a cheerful giver... gimme number Op

Bragalane:
He doesn't have to call it quit, any girl with common sense no matter how poor should understand if she as been fuxqed in a committee of guys she should look elsewhere for serious relationship to avoid stories that hurt or how will she feel on wedding day n all her husband friend that fuxqed her start popping out 1 by 1 ?!

funmisticqueen2:
then free her.

Why are you wasting her time and yours

Stop trying to gather pity abeg

DavidEsq:
Did he tie her? I didn't any tie part in his story or her story o

victorian:
This issue about women depending on men like their life's depend on men, all started from home , our traditions and society we live in.

There are independent women amongst us like myself. And we enjoy life with total freedom and peace of mind.

Out there in the real world, no man on earth dares walk all over me or batter me or take my friendship or love for granted. I've worked and earned myself some accolade and respect to be on a high pedestal outside nairaland and people know me in here and out there. I don't take rubbish from anyone even though i have a calm look. And i hate being at the mercy of anyone. God knows I hate it with my whole being.

When I see women helpless and placing themselves in torturous marriage or relationship, I simply say to myself, this woman is not normal.

Nope she's not.

Anyways na dem sabi jare. I have my own life to live. I've not finished sorting and understanding my life finish, I will now worry myself about women who wish to be emotionally caged , battered with constant abuse and all forms of gimmicks from men?

Na dem sabi.

All man for himself. With time the ones sleeping will wake up, when they can't take the abuse anymore.

I wish them well.

Riele:
Did you read the first post where he keeps begging the girl to return to him ? .

As emotional as she is , she keeps returning to him. He's blackmailing her emotionally .

Only him end this .

DavidEsq:
U have confirmed that there is nowhere in the post where he mentioned that he tied her. Good u confirmed that.

Riele:
Have you read the girl's side of the story ? .

DavidEsq:
Yes. She was tied right?

ProfDview:
I do love her but my manly ego can't make peace with the above truths hence, my decision to keep the relationship open.

Riele:
Did you read the first post where he keeps begging the girl to return to him ? .

As emotional as she is , she keeps returning to him. He's blackmailing her emotionally .

Only him end this .