I am a carpenter and furniture maker and my wife is an hairdresser. I have a building almost at lintel level. I abandoned the project because of uncertainty in construction work. sometimes you have a contract, sometimes you are just at home spending the money you made already with no other source of income.
so I thought of getting a bus for transportation business when I didn't go to work.
now my wife is threatening to continue it with the money I kept with her to get a car for her plus her money. though she doesn't know the money I am saving with her is for her car.
this is someone we recently discussed she should get another shop and employ a stylist to bring weekly commission for her. just because one of our neighbors moved to their own house last week, now she is more interested in being called a landlady than having other shops.
I threatened to get her arrested if she sets her feet on that land. she also refused to return my money with her and changed her phones password so I won't transfer my money.

now its new year and we ain't talking

GROWN kids

And so?

gabazin080:
this is someone we recently discussed she should get another shop and employ a stylist to bring weekly commission for her. just because one of our neighbors moved to their own house last week, now she is more interested in being called a landlady than having other shops.
I threatened to get her arrested if she sets her feet on that land. she also refused to return my money with her and changed her phones password so I won't transfer my money.

now its new year and we ain't talking

Happy married life!

Your wife is smarter than you

...Now my wife is threatening to continue it with the money I kept with her to get a car for her plus her money. though she doesn't know the money I am saving with her is for her car.

Imagine the reason why you decided to be a tenant forever.

This is why poor people remain poor.

You should thank your stars that you have a smart wife

Don't you know that u can attach a store to your newly built house??

This matter big pass me, let the elders arrive.

gabazin080:
I am a carpenter and furniture maker and my wife is an hairdresser. I have a building almost at lintel level. I abandoned the project because of uncertainty in construction work. sometimes you have a contract, sometimes you are just at home spending the money you made already with no other source of income.
so I thought of getting a bus for transportation business when I didn't go to work.
now my wife is threatening to continue it with the money I kept with her to get a car for her plus her money. though she doesn't know the money I am saving with her is for her car.
this is someone we recently discussed she should get another shop and employ a stylist to bring weekly commission for her. just because one of our neighbors moved to their own house last week, now she is more interested in being called a landlady than having other shops.
I threatened to get her arrested if she sets her feet on that land. she also refused to return my money with her and changed her phones password so I won't transfer my money.

now its new year and we ain't talking

New year wahala loading





Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters

KiNg0G:
GROWN kids

no be small

Am still trying to understand her fault in all this

Why did you allow your wife to be hustling too hard in the first place,what is her own whether you build house or not?why can't she divert the money and start building her own house, let her be forming virtuous woman there till you cheat on her and start having kids outside marriage

Irupetepete:
Am still trying to understand her fault in all this

my money is involved here. she can't do it alone. she is saying she will make life difficult for me if I don't continue the house

gabazin080:
I am a carpenter and furniture maker and my wife is an hairdresser. I have a building almost at lintel level. I abandoned the project because of uncertainty in construction work. sometimes you have a contract, sometimes you are just at home spending the money you made already with no other source of income.
so I thought of getting a bus for transportation business when I didn't go to work.
now my wife is threatening to continue it with the money I kept with her to get a car for her plus her money. though she doesn't know the money I am saving with her is for her car.
this is someone we recently discussed she should get another shop and employ a stylist to bring weekly commission for her. just because one of our neighbors moved to their own house last week, now she is more interested in being called a landlady than having other shops.
I threatened to get her arrested if she sets her feet on that land. she also refused to return my money with her and changed her phones password so I won't transfer my money.

now its new year and we ain't talking

Please sir allow her, the money is yours and the house is yours she was meant to assist please allow your beautiful wife to go ahead, let her support you with her best.
She is not using the money to carry out negative act please give her your approval and she will return back the feedback to you.

ETIIKO:


Please sir allow her, the money is yours and the house is yours she was meant to assist please allow your beautiful wife to go ahead, let her support you with her best.
She is not using the money to carry out negative act please give her your approval and she will return back the feedback to you.

she knows I will want to join her when she starts and that will affect the plan of getting a bus

gabazin080:
my money is involved here. she can't do it alone. she is saying she will make life difficult for me if I don't continue the house

that is a very encouraging woman there, this same thing you want to do happened between my parents.. If my mum have listened to him, they will still be in a rented apartment till date and it will have been extremely difficult considering the situation of things now

Benefits of getting married

Nicepoker:
Benefits of getting married

And some are rejecting

Hold her tight bro.
That's all I have to say.

Why are you against completing the house? I don't see the problem here because this will benefit the two of you.

gabazin080:
she knows I will want to join her when she starts and that will affect the plan of getting a bus

Bus is an added advantage but not a basic necessity of life sir, the peace of mind that comes with living in a house built by you with owning a bus are not the same.
Please you can buy the bus later after the completion of the building project.
Thank you

Northernblood5:
Your wife is smarter than you



Imagine the reason why you decided to be a tenant forever.

This is why poor people remain poor.

You should thank your stars that you have a smart wife

Don't you know that u can attach a store to your newly built house??

And even his carpentry shop as well... The monies going for both shop rents and house rents will be channeled into something better.....


Op, allow your wife to guide you in this one ..


A house on lintel level is a finished house......

At this junction sit her down and pet let her know what would cost to finished the house and the advantage of getting a bus is for day today expenses and completion of the house.

gabazin080:
I am a carpenter and furniture maker and my wife is an hairdresser. I have a building almost at lintel level. I abandoned the project because of uncertainty in construction work. sometimes you have a contract, sometimes you are just at home spending the money you made already with no other source of income.
so I thought of getting a bus for transportation business when I didn't go to work.
now my wife is threatening to continue it with the money I kept with her to get a car for her plus her money. though she doesn't know the money I am saving with her is for her car.
this is someone we recently discussed she should get another shop and employ a stylist to bring weekly commission for her. just because one of our neighbors moved to their own house last week, now she is more interested in being called a landlady than having other shops.
I threatened to get her arrested if she sets her feet on that land. she also refused to return my money with her and changed her phones password so I won't transfer my money.

now its new year and we ain't talking

Hear this

My father saw a land in our state capital. He didn't have money with so he didn't buy.
Two weeks later, my father got more than the price of the land. Instead of buying the land, he changed his mind to go for a car.
My mother disagreed and they quarrelled for weeks.
Non of them told us, that has been their way of life. They quarrel and settle without any third party.
When my mom got tired of not talking to her husband, she asked him to go for the car.
My father got the car.
Seven years on, the car was bad. It was sold.
No landed property in the city. New car was bought but still develops fault here and there.
Let your wife finish the building.
The car can be bought later provided the money at hand can finish the building.

Talk to her and beg her. You can kneel down and cry for her and tell her that shop and car is more important than house.

Cry for her and lick her feet.

Men dey oh

hakeemhakeem:
At this junction sit her down and pet let her know what would cost to finished the house and the advantage of getting a bus is for day today expenses and completion of the house.

I support you boss, create more channel of business avenues and you are going to build a bigger house than what your wife is pushing for . Talk to your wife, all this I must do pass my neighbor syndrome will only put you in trouble. Durotoye said the first house he built was for rent , he was still in a rented apartment meanwhile he had a house. Being at your comfort is great but what makes you more comfortable is your net income. Trust me if you told your wife the money with her is for her car she definitely going to change gear but you can’t tell her because she will make that her new focus. The building is yours already just tell her you got some bigger dreams you want for you guys that will wow her( includes all the things you want to do her lol she definitely going chill ) I like your guts telling her to open another shop you trying to get a bus and also saving money for your wife’s car. Nice bro I like your style

Una no get problem at all. Konji go fix this issue.

yuping:
Una no get problem at all. Konji go fix this issue.

no be everything be sex. marriage if 8 years no be today na

Tobijays:
I support you boss, create more channel of business avenues and you are going to build a bigger house than what your wife is pushing for . Talk to your wife, all this I must do pass my neighbor syndrome will only put you in trouble. Durotoye said the first house he built was for rent , he was still in a rented apartment meanwhile he had a house. Being at your comfort is great but what makes you more comfortable is your net income. Trust me if you told your wife the money with her is for her car she definitely going to change gear but you can’t tell her because she will make that her new focus. The building is yours already just tell her you got some bigger dreams you want for you guys that will wow her( includes all the things you want to do her lol she definitely going chill ) I like your guts telling her to open another shop you trying to get a bus and also saving money for your wife’s car. Nice bro I like your style

I think I will give with this your comment. I will sit her down and talk to her in the morning

gabazin080:
no be everything be sex. marriage if 8 years no be today na

This should not be an issue, husband want surprise wife, wife is going for something more assure that she sees. I understand where the wife is coming from, but for everything to be smooth husband open and tell her what the money is for and see if she will agree with you.

gabazin080:
I am a carpenter and furniture maker and my wife is an hairdresser. I have a building almost at lintel level. I abandoned the project because of uncertainty in construction work. sometimes you have a contract, sometimes you are just at home spending the money you made already with no other source of income.
so I thought of getting a bus for transportation business when I didn't go to work.
now my wife is threatening to continue it with the money I kept with her to get a car for her plus her money. though she doesn't know the money I am saving with her is for her car.
this is someone we recently discussed she should get another shop and employ a stylist to bring weekly commission for her. just because one of our neighbors moved to their own house last week, now she is more interested in being called a landlady than having other shops.
I threatened to get her arrested if she sets her feet on that land. she also refused to return my money with her and changed her phones password so I won't transfer my money.

now its new year and we ain't talking

You want to arrest your wife for coming on your one or both of you land?
How can you be keeping money for her car I’m her hand?
Which kind people be this one
There should be no secret between you guys na
Omo this Kind marriage dey make me fear oo

This story is not making sense to me.

If not for my mom, we wouldn't have a house today......that woman got a loan .............today we have car or we don't,I no send.