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D nerve to bring in a man into your matrimonial home,whatever happened to hotels? Or of you're tired of d marriage why not walk away . This is freaking bad, the feminists will support this one now as if she paid his bride price metwwwww

Egungun be careful
Na express you dey go...

RisenPhoenix:
So why are the men fighting? What are they fighting over? To be honest, if it is me I will walk out and let them finish. I'll even say 'sorry' to them for accidentally disturbing them. When they have finished, I will conduct mini marriage ceremony for them, collect dowry from him and give them my blessing. I will even help his new wife pack her things inside his car and if his car doesn't start, I will help him push it.

mad o

Petyprincess:
Wow!!! I just dnt understand why married people cheat! If you are tired of the relationship why can't you just leave peacefully? She's a disgrace to womanhood!!!

Not like dat oo my dear,,,, Warri say "na who nor dey house dey beat police". If you know u know.

Nn3muka:
If a man is responsible, a responsible woman will locate him.

Do you understand?

so if a woman is responsible, a responsible man will locate her right?

All these women whose husbands cheat on them must have been cheaters themselves right?

Petyprincess:
Wow!!! I just dnt understand why married people cheat! If you are tired of the relationship why can't you just leave peacefully? She's a disgrace to womanhood!!!

collosal disgrace. U can see she was even trying to shield her accomplice.

A lot of you judge before hearing the other side of this story, the couple in question have been separated for over two years, the husband just came in with other guys and police, to disgrace his ex wife. Don't you wonder why she was defending the guy?

sholapot:
A lot of you judge before hearing the other side of this story, the couple in question have been separated for over two years, the husband just came in with other guys and police, to disgrace his ex wife. Don't you wonder why she was defending the guy?

separated but in her husband’s house,?
Or you didn’t hear the man say “on our matrimonial bed”. While her brother in-law said “he’s fucking you in my brother’s house” in yoruba.

Uniquekriss:
collosal disgrace. U can see she was even trying to shield her accomplice.

from the video it’s quite obvious the man didn’t know she’s married or still with her husband. She could have told him she’s single, divorced or widowed. Cos you can see the man didn’t understand what was going on. Reason he kept shouting “I didn’t do anything (wrong)” and the woman was ready to face the music alone since the guy was ignorant.

You’ll hardly find a guy go to the house of a married woman to commit adultery.

Made4naijalove:
A trending video on social media shows the moment a married woman was caught in bed with a man she brought into her matrimonial home.

The married woman invited her ‘side guy‘ into her matrimonial home but was caught by her husband and his family in bed with him. One of the family member made a video of her on a towel while the man was being confronted by some of the people present.

The woman can be heard defending the ‘Side guy’.

Watch the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UW9G45L29fs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4SQv6vIxdFg

A lot of married women have lost it. They abort like no man's business. My advise to any young man stay clear of married women because na from clap den dey enter dance.

A foolish post from a foolish fool.

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

U lie. U can't use that as a yardstick for judgment. Who will cheat will cheat. When some virgin open eye u can't hold them. Cheating is a choice

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

sholapot:
A lot of you judge before hearing the other side of this story, the couple in question have been separated for over two years, the husband just came in with other guys and police, to disgrace his ex wife. Don't you wonder why she was defending the guy?

Dont mind them. I doubt if any woman in her right senses will do that

this thing mad gan, see as the wife dey support her machine house, dey beg for him, i swear this woman no get shame at all.
daddy e fi si le, kia

contact me for your NYSC deployment and relocation

Brother, it all started from the south b4 crossing over to the east. Igbo women sleep around now like dogs. No every yoruba lady, igbo lady mess around. Social media and western thing has come to stay and is breaking homes. May we not marry useless women in this life... and may good women not marry useless men.

Tmb78:
That's why it's not good to rely on hearsay as a source of information.
I am a Yoruba man,married to a wonderful Yoruba lady and her family didn't pay shishi for the wedding,though they hosted my family during the introduction with their money but the gifts we brought were paid for by me.
So also a lot of family weddings that I have personally witnessed.
Though we have cases where the man will be financially deficient and the family of the bride rises up to the occasion, depending on the rapport btw the two families
That is not the norm in Yoruba land at all.
Pls,do your research very well yourself, stop taking every thing your people say here or in your place hook line and sinker.
As for the sleeping around thingy,let me tell you it's not a tribe thing at all.
If I tell you my experience as a corper in Enugu and my friends
with some married Igbo women, you won't believe it.
That doesn't mean I will now generalize.
Stop generalizing.
Enough said!!!

Lot of sentiment comments nd misconceptions ova d issue of discourse.

No doubt, wat d woman did was kind of insane which made me believe there is more 2 dis incident. Most of us are just basing our judgement on wat dey project 4 us, nd not d 'cause' of it.

Naturally, u can't be caught in a wrong act nd not feel remorse or downcast ova it no mata how brave u cud be. Just like catching a thief nd such thief actin like wat he did was right just cos he is macho in appearance, so felt no one cud dare challenge him in d act. Definitely, smtin isn't adding up. 4 d woman despite been caught in such ugly scene 2 still got d nerve 2 stand in defense of d man she cheated wif, without feeling remorse ova her action, den smtin is definitely fishy. Thou, no amount of reasons cud justify her action, but one getin 2 know wat led her in2 such or wat really transpired wud av serve as a lesson 2 us ol, but unfortunately, we might not get 2 see or hear d complete story.

As per cheating, it's wat d society has molded 4 herself, one will only be bias or avin wrong conception shud one attribute it 2 a particular tribe, culture or religion, even thou such act might be common in sm part, but ol in ol, individual character nd discipline goes a long way.

KIDfurniture:
Brother, it all started from the south b4 crossing over to the east. Igbo women sleep around now like dogs. No every yoruba lady, igbo lady mess around. Social media and western thing has come to stay and is breaking homes. May we not marry useless women in this life... and may good women not marry useless men.

Yeah!!!!

iLegendd:
You don't avoid women, but control how they come to you. Control is the key.

You literally can't avoid them. I'm just opining that if you're on a road to achieving a dream it's best one stay off any emotional engagements with them.
Cause I think indulging them will cause a big distraction.

Stumbled on this piece regarding this story, don't know how true it is thou, hence need for sharing maybe someone could attest to it.



THE TRUTH BEHIND THE STORY

You leave a woman for over TWO years. You moved on with another woman, effectively living together, even when you are not officially divorced. 

Now you see your estranged 'wife' with another man and you start a war. 

Oh, she is not a human being? She has no blood in her veins? She too does not have sexual urges? Her body is made of wood abi?

Mr. Idiot, even if you abandon your wife in your so-called matrimonial home for two years and she brings another man to that home to 'service' her, I will NEVER join some fake moralists to hang her. 

It is high time men realised that women are not materials you abandon and come back to when you need them...

On the contrary, I discovered most times irresponsible guys are attracted to responsible ladies and vice versa, don't know why it's so...

Korllami007:
If a man is responsible, a responsible woman will locate him.

So, you mean all the women that are having irresponsible husbands, that means they are irresponsible as well. This is your own logic funny die.

oazeez1991:
Stumbled on this piece regarding this story, don't know how true it is thou, hence need for sharing maybe someone could attest to it.



THE TRUTH BEHIND THE STORY

You leave a woman for over TWO years. You moved on with another woman, effectively living together, even when you are not officially divorced. 

Now you see your estranged 'wife' with another man and you start a war. 

Oh, she is not a human being? She has no blood in her veins? She too does not have sexual urges? Her body is made of wood abi?

Mr. Idiot, even if you abandon your wife in your so-called matrimonial home for two years and she brings another man to that home to 'service' her, I will NEVER join some fake moralists to hang her. 

It is high time men realised that women are not materials you abandon and come back to when you need them...

she should have divorced the man and left the house so she can move on with her life.

Nn3muka:
Shut up
Tomorrow it might be an Igbo woman or hausa, it's not a tribal thing.

Deal with it. Not a tribal thing now because of Yoruba renowned promiscuous lifestyle.

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

Your ignorance is (almost) admirable

Why aren't both the man and the woman receiving the beating together?


Why is it only the man reviewing beating?

Na small tin
Me that my 4 wives are waiting for me
Wetin concern me
The thing that burst my head is the man no even sure of himself, he had to go and contract his whole family to catch the woman together.
He already knew if he was the only one, the woman no go even send. The woman no fear am, no even fear the whole husband family.
It starts from calling family to settle fight sha.
If you cant talk sense into her brain by yourself now, bro beta dont marry her.
What will this guy's family think of him??

PureGoldh:
Bro...permit me to say that the husband ain't man enough.....truth be told....If I were to be in that picture...but God no go even gree make I marry woman wey go dey do nonsense...but see eeh,if na me...I will not even utter a word....I will jejely go to my children's room and play with them....just to ease the anger...when they are done...I will put a call across to her parents and I will even go there in person...I will tell them my mind...even if the cloud touches the ground...it's over between us

the most sensible reply of this post!!!

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

This is not true, esp your 'NEVER' emphasis. Don't be deceived, you can't predict how people move and change.

Blu03:
you're naive. It's kinda adorable.

I laughed when I read that position. Lots of women married as virgins change with time. Cheating is not rooted only in ability to have sex with a woman. What attracts women goes beyond that and he did not factor environmental influences before taking that position.

Ttrrffyyghuuh:
It’s sarcasm and I believe that monicker is a female

Hmmm.....you may be right sha and of course, that would be understandable.

mynextLevel:
You are perfectly correct. I married a virgin and after 10 years she is still learning about sex. She is easily satisfied during sex. And after 3 kids, she is still very tight down there.

Mine is 6years with 2 boys now, she's still learning about sex as well, super tightly firm down there compared to single ladies we engaged in sexual acts when I still dey the game before marriage. Her naive to sex will just dey make me smile sometimes because ladies we rolled together in school/nysc days don spoilt me. All styles I knew today were learnt from ladies of different species . I pray God continue to help me not and never to cheat in marriage.

Getting married to virgin is cool but as a man on the street before, you might be tempted to cheat because her sex life won't follow yours if truly she's a tear rubber. But a woman as a virgin doesn't guaranteed she won't cheat o. As a gameboy turn holyman...omo na to shine your eyes. Though Virgins gives some level of assurance and confidence you're not living with a hoe.

To some extent, some of my married exs will easily slip into my dick for free without any stress if only I'll give room for it to happen, and that's why I'm extra careful not to go back to my vomit. A woman wey don taste several dicks in different sizes will almost cheat especially when married to a man with low libido. Just my opinion.

Petyprincess:
Wow!!! I just dnt understand why married people cheat! If you are tired of the relationship why can't you just leave peacefully? She's a disgrace to womanhood!!!

You will understand by the time you get married.