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Amhappy:
Reason i don't stay long or hardly go our villa is they drain you. Visiting my parents is a whole lot easier. Though all of them you go still work.

Pray tell who among your in-laws were the culprit?

worworbabe:
What are you saying? Did you read my position on this subject at all?

I didn't have to read to know your stand. You should play cool with how you argue. Understand that everyone will never see from your point of view and you should be able to control yourself and refrain from name calling.

The male gets all that treatment because he is an in law amd a visitor to them

He takes care of his wife and his in laws and he deserve such treatment as a family member by marriage and also a visitor

But the woman, her husband family is her own home, she is not a visitor and is expected to treat them well is she does treats her husband well

She will be expected to do what you mentioned because she is in her home and a woman for that matter, so it's away of showing love

But bear in mind that, not all women can be subjected to such

A carrier woman, who is well established and probably well placed than the husband per say, will not give you the room to expect her do the eye service

As a matter of fact, she will be served and cared for be they are sure of getting goodies from her as she leaves

But an artisan or a market woman, can't just visit and sit down watching them, if she does, she will remain in that chair until they are ready to go because those special treatments will not be given to her as she makes no contribution

I fact, it's her husband that will stand up to meet them in the kitchen and ask for food

Most times, her in laws don't really care about such peoples presence

All though every married woman is expected to show care when she visits her husband family especially those who doesn't come home often

Omar09:
I didn't have to read to know your stand. You should play cool with how you argue. Understand that everyone will never see from your point of view and you should be able to control yourself and refrain from name calling.

You didn't have to read to know my stance and that sounds reasonable to you?

You have had enough of my attention. Now, run along.