As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? - Family (3)

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Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by owiko(m): 4:21pm On Mar 09, 2020

I think it is her own way of saying she's not in the union for material benefits. But that's such an unnecessary thing to say since they are H/W

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by yvesboss(m): 9:26pm On Mar 09, 2020

CsRockefeller:
That's because u don't know the real meaning of love.

I’m honestly open to be tutored

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by yvesboss(m): 9:28pm On Mar 09, 2020

Mariangeles:
It still does not answer the question...

Time is the greatest test
If the worst happens will her quote still be the case?

I doubt

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by Mariangeles(op): 10:57pm On Mar 09, 2020

yvesboss:
I’m honestly open to be tutored

It's not something to be "tutored"
It just happens. You'll know when it does. cheesy

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:25am On Mar 10, 2020

Mariangeles:
Does the context matter?

To "need" someone, it means you can't do without them.
It is a very deep feeling.

I believe a man would rather you need him than love him because there's deeper love for someone you need.

Isn't it the other way round? Needing someone because of what they're doing for you or what you're getting from them?

Need is a powerful thing. It can be negative—destructive and very sucking. Create an helplessly dependent situation.

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:05am On Mar 10, 2020

yvesboss:
I’m honestly open to be tutored

Alright. It's a broad topic by the way. Busy now.

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by SensualMan1(m): 8:25pm On Mar 10, 2020

sisisioge:
Everyman should hope to get a wife that's with them for love, not for material security. Lucky dude.

With all ur wonderful rela/marital advice I wonder y u still single.

Cc: jakandeola

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by Whyzaid(f): 8:52pm On Mar 10, 2020

It means she's stable financially and she chose to stick to him because she wanted to help the man

Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by RagnarKlavan: 7:40am On Mar 11, 2020

When you love someone, they fulfill some needs. It doesn't have to be financial, it could be emotional needs. Heck, the concept of love is premised on the idea of fulfilling emotional needs first. Other things are secondary. Except the woman is trying to imply this, something is wrong. She either doesn't understand the statement or not finding the right words to describe her feelings for the man.

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