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ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]It depends on what you stand to benefit in the short term or long term...but what I do most cases is not to cater to every whim but to hold the promise that I am more than capable via GAMEing her so that she sees me as the prize and proceeds to struggle for my validation and attention amongst all other ladies so much so that she tries to spend and/or Fvcks me...[/color]

That's the issue. It's the game I am concerned about

Luckyhubby55:
That's the issue. It's the game I am concerned about

[color=#1980BC]Then you've got to find ladies who have insecurities and vulnerabilities....just "hold the promise" that you can solve her problems or find a way to "blow smoke up her ass" the way pastors spellbound their women worshippers and boom! you are swimming in pussies without having to do too much..[/color]

Op scope kwa
Tell her straight
Sorry babe I don't have
She will definitely want to para for you like saying shit just tell her the ones you've been collecting before I met you did you use it to build house or what tangible thing did you use it to do

You don't tell them straight ��

see it as a game of the mind, a mental puzzle to get what you want diplomatically without raising suspicion.

You must be good at creating attention to yourself and starve them of attention, don't make them see you as nice and not rude either. They shouldn't be able to master your moves or read your next action.
be like the wind.

most importantly don't ask them out, hang them on suspense and maintain that 'bestie ' relationship and free pussy with goodies go kill you.

pryme:
The only translation is I see here is that you are a weak, and spinless male that can't tell a woman to go jump.
You are seeking acceptance from low life and good for nothing females.
Whatever happened to looking them in the eye and telling them you dont have any to spare?

Luckyhubby, read this comment ten times and delete this post or forever remain a coward.

churchee:
Luckyhubby, read this comment ten times and delete this post or forever remain a coward.

Sorry I lost you there.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]Then you've got to find ladies who have insecurities and vulnerabilities....just "hold the promise" that you can solve her problems or find a way to "blow smoke up her ass" the way pastors spellbound their women worshippers and boom! you are swimming in pussies without having to do too much..[/color]

Wow bad guy.

First and foremost if a girl you have been wooing or have gotten down with and you guys have not spoken in some days just decided to chat you first or call you out of the blues. bro bro be at alert there is %95 chance you will be billed in my mind I will be like I’m I wizkid that this girl remember me today. Secondly it’s does small small bill that makes you scope cos you are worth much more than the money 3k 5k in this case I only tell them to chill I’m a bit cash tight but not promising but will see if I can send or not. You no the rest of the story now I cant send it I’m sorry.

seanwilliam:
Since I started reading Ubunja miseducation, mehn , I don dey gather sense. I'm still young though.. so I decided to get a serious relationship with this beautiful but brainless with full entitlement mentality girl some weeks back, we started dating and before I know it, i started to loose guard.. as in after 3 days of meeting, I invited her over to my place ( my first mistake, which i would never make again).. she is an upcoming actress. So I knew what I was in for.. the day she came, she met my mum, and they had a very short dialogue and all that... well we make out that day and I escorted her to junction.. she is beautiful no doubt.. I gave her 2k that day( reason was that she came from a very long distance and she didnt go work that day and I dont wanna start the relationship off with complains).. after 3days, she asked me for 1 thousand naira.. I asked her that what did she need it for. She said she just need it that she wanna put it for piggy bank.. i tested her by saying I'm sorry, I dont have... mehn


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Come see the way she dey para? I maintained my coolnees).. she didnt call or text me for days..
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So I just decided to call her and ask whatsup ( just to make sure everything is alright with her).. she started spewing rubbish...
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This is a girl I want to help find work oo.
This is a girl I want to be serious with o
So I concluded it was infatuation all along.
I got to know her true character through the test I did for her... and I was gonna send the money to her that night oo, I just said, make I see wetin she go talk ... mehn I'm still disappointed up till now..

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After her. Other girls I met after her. Na NO NO NO NO NO.. I dey tell them... well I don jam one girl now sha, i don test her wit money and she pass.. make I watch her till month end before I go take her serious..

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At op. If girls ask you money and you dont have or u domt want to give, just tell her straight without explanation

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If she go stay , she go stay

How did you test her?

seanwilliam:
Since I started reading Ubunja miseducation, mehn , I don dey gather sense. I'm still young though.. so I decided to get a serious relationship with this beautiful but brainless with full entitlement mentality girl some weeks back, we started dating and before I know it, i started to loose guard.. as in after 3 days of meeting, I invited her over to my place ( my first mistake, which i would never make again).. she is an upcoming actress. So I knew what I was in for.. the day she came, she met my mum, and they had a very short dialogue and all that... well we make out that day and I escorted her to junction.. she is beautiful no doubt.. I gave her 2k that day( reason was that she came from a very long distance and she didnt go work that day and I dont wanna start the relationship off with complains).. after 3days, she asked me for 1 thousand naira.. I asked her that what did she need it for. She said she just need it that she wanna put it for piggy bank.. i tested her by saying I'm sorry, I dont have... mehn


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Come see the way she dey para? I maintained my coolnees).. she didnt call or text me for days..
.

.

So I just decided to call her and ask whatsup ( just to make sure everything is alright with her).. she started spewing rubbish...
.
.
.

This is a girl I want to help find work oo.
This is a girl I want to be serious with o
So I concluded it was infatuation all along.
I got to know her true character through the test I did for her... and I was gonna send the money to her that night oo, I just said, make I see wetin she go talk ... mehn I'm still disappointed up till now..

.

After her. Other girls I met after her. Na NO NO NO NO NO.. I dey tell them... well I don jam one girl now sha, i don test her wit money and she pass.. make I watch her till month end before I go take her serious..

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At op. If girls ask you money and you dont have or u domt want to give, just tell her straight without explanation

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If she go stay , she go stay

Op is talking about playing games with materialistic ladies.

I like you’re not the mumu boys type and you were able to see through their beauty and see the rubbish attitude of some ladies.

seanwilliam:
Since I started reading Ubunja miseducation, mehn , I don dey gather sense. I'm still young though.. so I decided to get a serious relationship with this beautiful but brainless with full entitlement mentality girl some weeks back, we started dating and before I know it, i started to loose guard.. as in after 3 days of meeting, I invited her over to my place ( my first mistake, which i would never make again).. she is an upcoming actress. So I knew what I was in for.. the day she came, she met my mum, and they had a very short dialogue and all that... well we make out that day and I escorted her to junction.. she is beautiful no doubt.. I gave her 2k that day( reason was that she came from a very long distance and she didnt go work that day and I dont wanna start the relationship off with complains).. after 3days, she asked me for 1 thousand naira.. I asked her that what did she need it for. She said she just need it that she wanna put it for piggy bank.. i tested her by saying I'm sorry, I dont have... mehn


.
.
Come see the way she dey para? I maintained my coolnees).. she didnt call or text me for days..
.

.

So I just decided to call her and ask whatsup ( just to make sure everything is alright with her).. she started spewing rubbish...
.
.
.

This is a girl I want to help find work oo.
This is a girl I want to be serious with o
So I concluded it was infatuation all along.
I got to know her true character through the test I did for her... and I was gonna send the money to her that night oo, I just said, make I see wetin she go talk ... mehn I'm still disappointed up till now..

.

After her. Other girls I met after her. Na NO NO NO NO NO.. I dey tell them... well I don jam one girl now sha, i don test her wit money and she pass.. make I watch her till month end before I go take her serious..

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At op. If girls ask you money and you dont have or u domt want to give, just tell her straight without explanation

..
If she go stay , she go stay

Yours is even good, met a lady conversation and all was good , visited me twice but never asked for money ,in my mind I was like I don see wife o, third time I had to force her to take money, she complained about financial issues,i got her goods she could sell n some other stuff which were 3times it's profit,all I asked was the capital so I can invest in another venture for her, she made sales asi helped her , only to be told that the money got missing when she went out for a drink with a friend, I already knew the format , that following she requested for money ,in my mind I was like shame no de catch this girl ni?

But truth is there are still good ones out there

stanliwise:
Op is talking about playing games with materialistic ladies.

I like you’re not the mumu boys type and you were able to see through their beauty and see the rubbish attitude of some ladies.

funnily enough, I just wanna test her ni o.. as in I just wanna hear out her response.. mehn , I was damn disappointed.

jeff1607:
Yours is even good, met a lady conversation and all was good , visited me twice but never asked for money ,in my mind I was like I don see wife o, third time I had to force her to take money, she complained about financial issues,i got her goods she could sell n some other stuff which were 3times it's profit,all I asked was the capital so I can invest in another venture for her, she made sales asi helped her , only to be told that the money got missing when she went out for a drink with a friend, I already knew the format , that following she requested for money ,in my mind I was like shame no de catch this girl ni?

But truth is there are still good ones out there

bro two things I have learned so far about naija girls her.
1. If you are not ready to settle down in the next 1 or 2 years, there is not point in dating because you will be drained financially, emotionally and mentally.. just find fwb
2. All girls are potential olosho( this is the hardest truth to believe).. if girl stays with you, it is either you are satisfying her financially/sexually.. the day you fail in that area, she's gone

No girls would stay with you if you are broke.. and if she stays, it is either she sees the potential in you and she knows 100% she would be the ultimate recipient of the dividend. or she is yet to see better offer, just using you to pass time for the time being..

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I had a very brilliant plan for the girl .. I dey even think to find work for her or make i open paga shop for my self and she go dey help me manage it if i go school ...

Youngzedd:
Lol, 95% of those fair beautiful girls na olodo.

That actress is a big sign mehn. Pump and dump for people with no sense.

bro, I was bamboozled by her stories.. as in she acted innocent and sensible at first.. I really fumbled to have loose guard like that..

HornyTave:
You don't tell them straight ��

see it as a game of the mind, a mental puzzle to get what you want diplomatically without raising suspicion.

You must be good at creating attention to yourself and starve them of attention, don't make them see you as nice and not rude either. They shouldn't be able to master your moves or read your next action.
be like the wind.

most importantly don't ask them out, hang them on suspense and maintain that 'bestie ' relationship and free pussy with goodies go kill you.

well, if her pussy is your ultimate goal then you fit no tell am straight but if na relationship bro, no matter how u dey parry her questions, you go give answer one day.. so these days anytime I meet girl, walai I go ask am straight that how much is your bill, if she tells me the amount, I go turn am to hooker.. but if she said no that she is not the type, then I will turn her to friend with benefit these days ehn, even though I'm broke now, pussy just dey swim left,right and centre for me...lol the bolded has been working for me and in addition to it, I have rest of mind.. no emotional blackmailing, no financially responsibility and so on.. and I notice that whenever I bullshitt girls, na dat time dem go dey flock around..but if i act like jesus, dem go dey take me for granted.. mehn I'm turning bad..

seanwilliam:
well, if her pussy is your ultimate goal then you fit no tell am straight but if na relationship bro, no matter how u dey parry her questions, you go give answer one day.. so these days anytime I meet girl, walai I go ask am straight that how much is your bill, if she tells me the amount, I go turn am to hooker.. but if she said no that she is not the type, then I will turn her to friend with benefit these days ehn, even though I'm broke now, pussy just dey swim left,right and centre for me...lol the bolded has been working for me and in addition to it, I have rest of mind.. no emotional blackmailing, no financially responsibility and so on.. and I notice that whenever I bullshitt girls, na dat time dem go dey flock around..but if i act like jesus, dem go dey take me for granted.. mehn I'm turning bad..

I prefer my method when I'm not in edo.
can't get killed on top woman

missimelda01:
Only cowards look for ways to scope a lady, if she ask and you can't give her, just say NO.

And do you girls take "No" for an answer without Feeling entitled??

seanwilliam:
funnily enough, I just wanna test her ni o.. as in I just wanna hear out her response.. mehn , I was damn disappointed.

May people parade with facade and mask up and down tho. You case was understandable sha but next time you might need to observe more before letting people go. Some are a good mix of bad and good. So they have many better part. Just saying.

stanliwise:
May people parade with facade and mask up and down tho. You case was understandable sha but next time you might need to observe more before letting people go. Some are a good mix of bad and good. So they have many better part. Just saying.

bro no matter her condition or the situation, she no supposed vex on top say I no give her 1k.. and no be say she one use am do better thing oo, she said she one put it for piggy bank or rubbish like that ... bro, first impression lasts longer... take people for their actions not their words bro..

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Whenever I remember how much I would have loved her, I go just dey pity and laughing myself at the same time

seanwilliam:
bro no matter her condition or the situation, she no supposed vex on top say I no give her 1k.. and no be say she one use am do better thing oo, she said she one put it for piggy bank or rubbish like that ... bro, first impression lasts longer... take people for their actions not their words bro..

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Whenever I remember how much I would have loved her, I go just dey pity and laughing myself at the same time

Some people do things because they are not mature, she may not be like that anymore. Some are just habits they learned form friends over time. Just ovserving a little longer is dangerous tho but gives us a better understanding.

Wowww

Small boys

RisenPhoenix:
Before I got married, I would sometimes take girls out to meals or drinks (alone, at a place of my choosing and at reasonable expense) as a reward for sex AFTER the deed. I considered it a mutually fair exchange.

But when any of them asked me directly for money, I would pointedly ask her what her usual charges for 'short time' and 'all night' are. Normally at this point, she would just go dead silent and you can see the anger seething wildly underneath the wig/weave on/Brazilian hair. Of those who later decided to stay, complete the meal and go back for dessert at my place, not one ever asked for money a second time.

I have pointed out to many of my female acquaintances that there is a well-known word for women who ask for money in exchange for sex.

A king!

See there are two ways to answer such a forward leech.

1. Ignore her request and move on.

2. Tell her no and move on.

One thing is imperative: you must leave such girls alone and move on.

Why?

Cos they have demoted you to maga status and I tell you, the affection or respect you’d get after is only as good (as prompt or as frequent) as your last payment.

They have no shame. So you too should have no shame to tell them a clear no. No matter how small the amount is, tell her no.