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I don't wanna get heartbroken in the end that's why i'm asking this question...i have this girl i'm dating,she always say she loves me...and she prays our relationship leads to marriage,and besides we just started our life...she is yet to gain admission,me too same.cos i know that the road that lies ahead is rough,that is the journey of life...i fear everything she is saying might not be true...

she is 19,i'm 21...i'm done with secondary education since 2016,yet to secure an admission...she finished 2018...we are working at the same place that's where we met...
for me not gaining admission doesn't mean i'm not brilliant...i had 212 in my first jamb(not my real score though) in 2016,2nd had 247,3rd had 248,4th had 259...i'm considering going for p.t next year...the person supposed to sponsor me passed away early last year...
PLEASE SAY THE TRUTH...I LOVE TRUTHS NO MATTER HOW PAINFUL IT SOUNDS.
Good people Advice Me.

She will break your heart or you'll break hers.

Oluwasaeon:
She will break your heart or you'll break hers.

i don't want a life where i'll look back and say "i've dated many girls before" no...i don't want...that's why i thought it's good to keep her alone.

marttol:
I don't wanna get heartbroken in the end that's why i'm asking this question...i have this girl i'm dating,she always say she loves me...and she prays our relationship leads to marriage,and besides we just started our life...she is yet to gain admission,me too same.cos i know that the road that lies ahead is rough,that is the journey of life...i fear everything she is saying might not be true...

she is 19,i'm 21...i'm done with secondary education since 2016,yet to secure an admission...she finished 2018...we are working at the same place that's where we met...
for me not gaining admission doesn't mean i'm not brilliant...i had 212 in my first jamb(not my real score though) in 2016,2nd had 247,3rd had 248,4th had 259...i'm considering going for p.t next year...the person supposed to sponsor me passed away early last year...
PLEASE SAY THE TRUTH...I LOVE TRUTHS NO MATTER HOW PAINFUL IT SOUNDS.
Good people Advice Me.

At 21, securing a girl’s love should be the least of your worries young man. Truth is, she’ll leave you sooner or later. Do you really want to go through that process?

At 19, it's probably true FOR NOW. Nobody should be thinking about all these things, in their teens. That's too much unnecessary stress. She's young, she's still gonna go through the infatuation phase with several other guys. At 19 I had a new crush like every other week. It's also easier to move on to the next one at that age because emotionally you have not fully matured. Don't invest too much if you wanna avoid a sobering heartbreak.

marttol:
i don't want a life where i'll look back and say "i've dated many girls before" no...i don't want...that's why i thought it's good to keep her alone.

Believe me, You do.
That's just an excuse - a buffer.
I mean, getting girls is a lot harder than settling for that one girl who'd fūck - "love" - you.
That excuse is a way of convincing yourself that the path of least resistance you've chosen is the righteous one.

Before u reach 25 you'll answer yourself this question. .

mattfeuter:
At 21, securing a girl’s love should be the least of your worries young man. Truth is, she’ll leave you sooner or later. Do you really want to go through that process?

NO [sup][/sup]