It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

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Oga, abeg reduce the volume.

The table is shaking oooo

Please leave this matter if it doesn't concern you.

Note to op and all posters on the thread.

Undissputed:
It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

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so what about the dude inviting the babe? stop living in the middle age bro!

Undissputed:
It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

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What about the ones that are actually prostitutes and they visit their client's house with their parents consent? I guess those ones are not prostitutes.

Davash222:
Oga, abeg reduce the volume.

The world is becoming crazy. Now the crazy ones are trying to make the sane ones think they are crazy, while it's the other way around.

Everybody is doing it doesn't make it right. We have to seek relationships that are guided, nurtured and built the right way.

Nowadays, a woman will marry, get pregnant or even do abortion and her parents won't even have an inkling. What a life!

MrBrownJay1:
so what about the dude inviting

stop living in the middle age bro!

Times don't change morals bro. Travel to some core Muslim countries and see for yourself. Morals is morals!

With her parents consenting to it or not, if sexual relation is involved, she is still a prostitute.

coolestofall:

What about the ones that are actually prostitutes and they visit their client's house with their parents consent? I guess those ones are not prostitutes.

That can happen, yes. But that will be an abnormally since she can't be courting more than one person at a time. My point is, as long as parents are involved, the relationship becomes an accountable one.

Mtcheww dis one just got a free data bundle

chatinent:
With her parents consenting to it or not, if sexual relation is involved, she is still a prostitute.

No, she is not. While it can be frowned upon in today's religious setting, parents giving both their consent to court with the idea that marriage is in the horizon is as good as they giving consent for marriage. Normally, a man asks a girls parents for consent and takes her home if they agree. But because of today's ceremonial and financially oriented communion, getting married immediately becomes difficult and they have to prepare towards a "formal" marriage.

And the man she's visiting is a saint?

Undissputed:


No, she is not. While it can be frowned upon in today's religious setting, parents giving both their consent to court with the idea that marriage is in the horizon is as good as they giving consent for marriage. Normally, a man asks a girls parents for consent and takes her home if they agree. But because of today's ceremonial and financially oriented communion, getting married immediately becomes difficult and they have to prepare towards a "formal" marriage.

If I'm to get you right, if she visits a man with her parents' consent, she's not a prostitute even if premarital sex is involved. But if she visits a man without her parents consent and doesn't have sex, she's a prostitute?

dominique:
And the man she's visiting is a saint?

Of course not. Both are culpable.

dominique:
And the man she's visiting is a saint?



If I'm to get you right, if she visits a man with her parents' consent, she's not a prostitute even if premarital sex is involved. But if she visits a man without her parents consent and doesn't have sex, she's a prostitute?

It's not about being a saint or not. My point is that relationships need to be created on the basis of accountability, not just moving around and sleeping with everyone you can have access to. The moral decadence need to stop if we want to build a sane society.

Undissputed:
It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

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OP let me epp you push this further off the cliff.


Parents who visit pastors and prophets whose churches they do not attend seeking solutions are...... IDOL WORSHIPPERS


Anyone who visits a hospital that is not his family hospital is not PATIENT even if they get admitted.

Parents who visits children's school or homes unannounced are KIDNAPPERS

Parents who enter child's room without knocking are just RUDE

Mr OP... Shey our mumu never do?? So if parents are dead nkor and the person has been surviving alone, she is still a prostitute.

OP you are a self-servicer and hypocrite. You are regurgitating doctrines from your ignorant pastor. Open your Bible and read and have some sense before you shave.

So the ladies that gave Jesus food and he went to their houses, they were not married o yet they didn't ask their parents for permission. Your Jesus didn't even ask his parents if he could stay back in the temple when he got missing at 13 years old.

So in your church, the "Christian sisters" don't follow up brothers? So if two single Christian sisters go to a brother's home it is a threesomeee?

OP Your brain is Menstruating.

Jesus sent you to preach good news, here you are condemning what you don't understand.

Undissputed:


Times don't change morals bro. Travel to some core Muslim countries and see for yourself. Morals is morals!

I was actually trying to process ur line of thought until u ruined it with islamic states as ur reference.
seriously, countries that force children into marriage, deprive women of their human right and freedom just cos they have two boobz and a puzzy is what u consider as standard....
Morality standard shouldn't be made only the responsibility of women in the society. the men should also be held accountable.
you are saying women shouldn't visit men, but men who haven't taken consent from their parent are free to do whateva..... u see this kind of evil thinking was why it was considered OK for women to be stoned for adultery in the olden days but nobody bothers to ask about the man raming d¡ck into another man's wife

Lol absolute rubbish.
This is what you get when your judgement is based on shaming the female gender.

Every woman that is no longer under her parents, every independent and mature woman has all the right to visit any man she wants.

It's her choice and decision and her parents has no say In her relationship Life.

The most important thing is that she don't mingle with a senseless man.

It's like you are going to write your own dictionary because the meaning of a prostitute is clear in the dictionary.

The effontery cheap data gives people is alarming, writing Nonsense all in the name to massage the ego of some senseless guys all in the name of alphas.

This is the problem with universal access to the Internet: it gives cretinous fvcktards the avenue to free speech.

Additionally, like I've stated previously on this forum. People who make posts like the OP are:

- Unexposed
- Underemployed or unemployed
- Frustrated with life in general
- Poorly educated
- Suffer from acute lack of essential nutrients for improved mental capacity
- Financially depressed and many more.

MrBrownJay1:


so what about the dude inviting the babe? stop living in the middle age bro!

are they being forced? must guys be brought into everything?

Undissputed:


It's time we start to change the narrative......

if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.




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Boko Haram alert.

You no get talk at all.I just wonder if your mum( apologies for mentioning ur mum) and sisters happen to fall in this category how will they} feel when they see this, you just not post think

Lostz:
are they being forced? must guys be brought into everything?

this is a guy/girl issue, so of course guys must be brought to the issue. isnt he the one inviting the babe?!

btw so what you are saying is that...
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent) she is a prostitute an[size=8pt][/size] he is knight in shining armor, abi?
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent), to go to a party there with 100people, she is a prostitute, abi?
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent) and she goes to meet boy's parent for dinner, she is a prostitute, abi?

And someone will be praying to marry @OP o.

Lostz:
are they being forced? must guys be brought into everything?

sex is a two way street. these women don't visit themselves...u can't put the responsibility of sexual morality on one gender only. that was why our society found it OK stoning women to death for adultery but bother not to hold the man straffing another man's wife accountable.....
look at it from this angle, when western world was making laws against unde age rape, u think they are not aware that many of this young girls of 14 to 17 years are sometimes the ones seducing men. but the law is to make the men more responsible enuf to say no so as to discourage inappropriate relationships

MrBrownJay1:


this is a guy/girl issue, so of course guys must be brought to the issue. isnt he the one inviting the babe?!

btw so what you are saying is that...
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent) she is a prostitute an[size=8pt][/size] he is knight in shining armor, abi?
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent), to go to a party there with 100people, she is a prostitute, abi?
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent) and she goes to meet boy's parent for dinner, she is a prostitute, abi?

face the op points and leave guys out of this.

there are different rules with guys. the earlier you accept this, the better for everyone

Undissputed:
It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

.

I understand where u are coming from and u are right but

How about an orphan lady?

Who must she seek consent from?

1StopRudeness:


sex is a two way street. these women don't visit themselves...u can't put the responsibility of sexual morality on one gender only. that was why our society found it OK stoning women to death for adultery but bother not to hold the man straffing another man's wife accountable.....
look at it from this angle, when western world was making laws against unde age rape, u think they are not aware that many of this young girls of 14 to 17 years are sometimes the ones seducing men. but the law is to make the men more responsible enuf to say no so as to discourage inappropriate relationships

you guys can't address the op point without involving men?

so according to you, it is okay to jail men for consensual relationship with 17yrs old girls but not okay to stone women to death?

Ladylite:

OP let me epp you push this further off the cliff.


Parents who visit pastors and prophets whose churches they do not attend seeking solutions are...... IDOL WORSHIPPERS


Anyone who visits a hospital that is not his family hospital is not PATIENT even if they get admitted.

Parents who visits children's school or homes unannounced are KIDNAPPERS

Parents who enter child's room without knocking are just RUDE

Mr OP... Shey our mumu never do?? So if parents are dead nkor and the person has been surviving alone, she is still a prostitute.

OP you are a self-servicer and hypocrite. You are regurgitating doctrines from your ignorant pastor. Open your Bible and read and have some sense before you shave.

So the ladies that gave Jesus food and he went to their houses, they were not married o yet they didn't ask their parents for permission. Your Jesus didn't even ask his parents if he could stay back in the temple when he got missing at 13 years old.

So in your church, the "Christian sisters" don't follow up brothers? So if two single Christian sisters go to a brother's home it is a threesomeee?

OP Your brain is Menstruating.

Jesus sent you to preach good news, here you are condemning what you don't understand.

You have to learn to discuss issues without name-calling. That doesn't say much good about you.

That said, my hypothesis is always open for criticism and is not meant to put me or the male folks in better light, or even to shame women.

Your first four assumptions are just trying to justify your uprightness and drag the question.

A parent can be a ward or an authority that has moral guidance over your life. Being an orphan is not a one-way ticket to become a prostitute.

A woman can visit a man in the company of others without her parent's content. Likewise the man. Jesus went to visit Mary and Martha because he was a friend to their brother Lazarus. It was not a private visit to a sister. In this case, the reason for the meeting would likely be formal. But I tell you, don't tempt the devil. Visiting a man or woman you are romantically interested in without any formal consent or guidance is love-peddling. The way of a man and a woman, no one can know.

1StopRudeness:


I was actually trying to process ur line of thought until u ruined it with islamic states as ur reference.
seriously, countries that force children into marriage, deprive women of their human right and freedom just cos they have two boobz and a puzzy is what u consider as standard....
Morality standard shouldn't be made only the responsibility of women in the society. the men should also be held accountable.
you are saying women shouldn't visit men, but men who haven't taken consent from their parent are free to do whateva..... u see this kind of evil thinking was why it was considered OK for women to be stoned for adultery in the olden days but nobody bothers to ask about the man raming d¡ck into another man's wife

Note that I'm not trying to justify the actions of men with this post. In fact, my hypothesis can be applied on both sides. I referenced the core Muslim nations to buttress my point that morals don't change with the times. Most of their morals whether good or bad have been upheld over the years until this moment.

Adgideon:
You no get talk at all.I just wonder if your mum( apologies for mentioning ur mum) and sisters happen to fall in this category how will they} feel when they see this, you just not post think

If my sister or niece visits a man without their parent's consent, then she is a prostitute.

I think I agree with you on this but what about those of us that don't have parents any longer?