MrBrownJay1:


this is a guy/girl issue, so of course guys must be brought to the issue. isnt he the one inviting the babe?!

btw so what you are saying is that...
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent) she is a prostitute an[size=8pt][/size] he is knight in shining armor, abi?
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent), to go to a party there with 100people, she is a prostitute, abi?
- if a man invites a babe at home (without her parent consent) and she goes to meet boy's parent for dinner, she is a prostitute, abi?

You are dragging the question. My hypothesis can go either way. What is wrong is wrong no matter who is involved.

But na still you dey call the babes to come and sleep over..
Hypocrite

BlueDomera:
Lol absolute rubbish.
This is what you get when your judgement is based on shaming the female gender.

Every woman that is no longer under her parents, every independent and mature woman has all the right to visit any man she wants.

It's her choice and decision and her parents has no say In her relationship Life.

The most important thing is that she don't mingle with a senseless man.

It's like you are going to write your own dictionary because the meaning of a prostitute is clear in the dictionary.

The effontery cheap data gives people is alarming, writing Nonsense all in the name to massage the ego of some senseless guys all in the name of alphas.

I'm not shaming the female gender. In fact,I know some women who I adore and can swear by.

I woman will always remain under her father's authority until that authority is passed to another man. She has no right to make marital decisions by herself. However, there is an exception where a woman is ageing and would like to give birth before her fertility fades.

Romanoff:
And someone will be praying to marry @OP o.

You are making assumptions. You don't know if I'm married.

victorian:





I understand where u are coming from and u are right but

How about an orphan lady?

Who must she seek consent from?

As long as she is surviving, she has some authority over her and must respect that authority enough to involve them in her relationships

Lostz:
you guys can't address the op point without involving men?

so according to you, it is okay to jail men for consensual relationship with 17yrs old girls but not okay to stone women to death?

seriously? u are asking me this question like u don't know this law has been made applicable to women sleeping with under age since the late 80s

Froshloaded:


But na still you dey call the babes to come and sleep over..
Hypocrite

I might be doing so. I might not be doing so. I may even be a self-righteous hypocrite. But leave me and my devices alone and digest the matter on the table.

Undissputed:
You are dragging the question. My hypothesis can go either way. What is wrong is wrong no matter who is involved.

yet if babe goes to meet boy's family, or go to a party with 100s of people in that home, she will still be viewed as a prostitute?!?!?

1StopRudeness:


seriously? u are asking me this question like u don't know this law has been made applicable to women sleeping with under age since the late 80s

I don't know what you are talking about

Undissputed:


As long as she is surviving, she has some authority over her and must respect that authority enough to involve them in her relationships

SassyGem101

Some people go just count something wey no necessary mtcheee

Undissputed:


That can happen, yes. But that will be an abnormally since she can't be courting more than one person at a time. My point is, as long as parents are involved, the relationship becomes an accountable one.

I very well agree with you as regards accountability in a relationship: sexual or not.

It keeps the guy and lady sane and grounded.

They might necessarily not be accountable to their parents. They can be accountable to older siblings.

What about ladies who go to guys' house with their parents consent, fvck and collect transport fare. What do you say about them ?

MrBrownJay1:


yet if babe goes to meet boy's family, or go to a party with 100s of people in that home, she will still be viewed as a prostitute?!?!?

I don't get you. What I'm saying is that we should apply a little bit if morality and involve authorities in our relationships.

In the case where the girl's parents have met the boy's parent and know his background, things like ritual killing or love homicides will drastically reduce because they both know that someone is watching them.

If a lady gets pregnant for a man her parents are yet to meet, let her swallow her shame and involve her parents rather than taking useless risks with a man that may not have her safety in mind.

Marriage is honorable in all things. A man that is in a committed relationship and planning towards marriage is highly motivated to pursue his goals and become the best version of himself. Because his plan is already public knowledge, he would behave himself and act accordingly. The same cannot be said of a man who can have access to sleep with 10 women with just 10k in his pocket.

bukatyne:


I very well agree with you as regards accountability in a relationship: sexual or not.

It keeps the guy and lady sane and grounded.

They might necessarily not be accountable to their parents. They can be accountable to older siblings.

You get the point.

Undissputed:


You get the point.

Maybe you start by changing your topic if you want more engagement.

Ariza:
What about ladies who go to guys' house with their parents consent, fvck and collect transport fare. What do you say about them ?

A good parent will not give their consent to their daughter to be visiting different guys alone in their houses. Stop dragging the question.

The man visiting the woman without the consent of his own parents nko??

SassyGem101:
I think I agree with you on this but what about those of us that don't have parents any longer?

Hmmm... if you have guardians, you can obtain their consent but if you are independent, tell follow your heart and do what you feel is right just know that when the consequences cones, recieve all the blames and move on

dontrulee:


Hmmm... if you have guardians, you can obtain their consent but if you are independent, tell follow your heart and do what you feel is right just know that when the consequences cones, recieve all the blames and move on

Guardian? At my age?
No guardian o. Only God is my guardian now o. Always tell him though.

SassyGem101:

Guardian? At my age? No guardian o. Only God is my guardian now o. Always tell him though.

hmmm, can I say what I want to say without you misunderstanding?

dontrulee:

hmmm, can I say what I want to say without you misunderstanding?

Better you say it the way I'll understand.
I know where you're going though.

And a man who visits a woman without his parents consent is what?

SassyGem101:

Better you say it the way I'll understand. I know where you're going though.

okay, I guess I will keep quiet for now. somethings are better left unsaid? sassygem101, where do you think am going?

dontrulee:

okay, I guess I will keep quiet for now.
somethings are better left unsaid?
sassygem101, where do you think am going?

Hmm...

I GUESS YOUR SISTERS ARE OLOSHOES

Undissputed:


If my sister or niece visits a man without their parent's consent, then she is a prostitute.

Oga you dey hsrsh

Why you wan spoil market for some people guy?

Undissputed:
It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

.

Same as a man who invites a lady to his huz without his parents consent is a brostitute

Undissputed:


Times don't change morals bro. Travel to some core Muslim countries and see for yourself. Morals is morals!

Like Sambisa forest where "core" muslims are raping innocent CHRISTIAN teen girls and getting them pregnant without their parents consent.

Op you need a brain reset. Have you not seen where a man meets a girl a virgin and still dumps her for a prostitute. Your mumu no be here. Women please never ever allow your parents decide for you.They wont bear the brunt when the unexpected happens.

Once you are a full grown adult, your life decisions should be entirely up to you.

Op claiming self righteous.You are probably one promiscuous ancestor who is now protective of his hoe daughters. Karma is a bitch yo.

Sensini123:
Why you wan spoil market for some people guy?

Which market is he spoiling? You really think people are so dumb to listen to every empty head on a faceless forum? Think again bro.

Undissputed:


I don't get you. What I'm saying is that we should apply a little bit if morality and involve authorities in our relationships.

In the case where the girl's parents have met the boy's parent and know his background, things like ritual killing or love homicides will drastically reduce because they both know that someone is watching them.

If a lady gets pregnant for a man her parents are yet to meet, let her swallow her shame and involve her parents rather than taking useless risks with a man that may not have her safety in mind.

Marriage is honorable in all things. A man that is in a committed relationship and planning towards marriage is highly motivated to pursue his goals and become the best version of himself. Because his plan is already public knowledge, he would behave himself and act accordingly. The same cannot be said of a man who can have access to sleep with 10 women with just 10k in his pocket.

Dumb analogy. Did you not read the viral story where after dating the girl WITH her parents consent, the man went to do introduction and murdered the girl right after the introduction in broad daylight? So many cases like that.


So once he has met her parents to you, ,it automaticallly means she is good to go? Hmmmn. You people never see anything. Some will meet the girls parents, do introduction, do marriage, get her pregnant and still dump her right before her parents eyes. Thats quite rampant with the Yoruba. So na only God. May our daughters not meet such.