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A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Undissputed(m): 10:08pm On Mar 13, 2020
The title says it all.

If you are a man who's broke or struggling to put food on your table, yet still holding a lady hostage in the name of love/romantic relationship, then you are disaster waiting to happen.

Leave that lady alone and fix your life!

This doesn't mean you can't make friends with the opposite sex. This doesn't mean that you can't admire a lady from afar, this doesn't mean that a lady cannot crush on you. But first, make fixing your life your priority rather than chasing vain satisfactions.

There is nothing, virtually nothing a broke man can offer in a love relationship. Forget about having a big **** or whatever you think can be your advantage. So many things can go wrong in a love relationship and you need money to fix many of them.

If a lady is crushing on you and you are broke, please let her know you are not in a position to be in a love relationship. You can have her as a friend though. If she loves you so much and have the means to help you fix yourself financially, then that is a good catch. Otherwise, don't be unfortunate!

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by gift2xl: 10:17pm On Mar 13, 2020
Hmm... No man is broke, it's just lack of opportunity to step forward.

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Slimdada(m): 10:32pm On Mar 13, 2020
Na just opportunity for the broke guy to know one or two,three,four,five things all those niggas wey don cash out dey work,so he would ball too,all those men balling no get two Head's,
Overtaking is allowed,you don't line up in a queue to hustle money.....
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Ladylite: 10:54pm On Mar 13, 2020
gift2xl:
Hmm... No man is broke, it's just lack of opportunity to step forward.

Never ever say that again


There are broke men. Their minds so broken... Even if you give them millions or opportunities to make millions with full sponsorship and government backing.... They will use all the money to drink, womanize and eat.... Without saving or investment.


I have seen and met many.

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by coolestofall(m): 11:06pm On Mar 13, 2020
Ladylite:


Never ever say that again


There are broke men. Their minds so broken... Even if you give them millions or opportunities to make millions with full sponsorship and government backing.... They will use all the money to drink, womanize and eat.... Without saving or investment.


I have seen and met many.
Broke guys we don suffer. Hope u know not all guys are broke cos of the reason u typed up there. Some of us have husstle na just baba God finishing touch we dey wait.
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Westernlove: 11:28pm On Mar 13, 2020
Undissputed:
The title says it all.

If you are a man who's broke or struggling to put food on your table, yet still holding a lady hostage in the name of love/romantic relationship, then you are disaster waiting to happen.

Leave that lady alone and fix your life!

This doesn't mean you can't make friends with the opposite sex. This doesn't mean that you can't admire a lady from afar, this doesn't mean that a lady cannot crush on you. But first, make fixing your life your priority rather than chasing vain satisfactions.

There is nothing, virtually nothing a broke man can offer in a love relationship. Forget about having a big **** or whatever you think can be your advantage. So many things can go wrong in a love relationship and you need money to fix many of them.

If a lady is crushing on you and you are broke, please let her know you are not in a position to be in a love relationship. You can have her as a friend though. If she loves you so much and have the means to help you fix yourself financially, then that is a good catch. Otherwise, don't be unfortunate!

It's very easier for a camel to pass through the eyes of a needle than to find such ladies In Nigeria. Greed & Hunger na hin full everywhere......Don't let anybody deceive you, Na packaging most Nigerian families dey now. The few people who are Wealthy or Rich doesn't wanna have anything to do with an Average or not well to do families....

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Ekakamba: 11:30pm On Mar 13, 2020




Seems to agree with you. This applies to the broke ladies too.

There's nothing good about being broke.



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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Ladylite: 12:20am On Mar 14, 2020
coolestofall:

Broke guys we don suffer. Hope u know not all guys are broke cos of the reason u typed up there. Some of us have husstle na just baba God finishing touch we dey wait.

So from my comment who told you that you are broke?

You only proved it by the way you replied.

Have you been given millions?

Have you been sponsored and helped?

If no, then you are hustling NOT broke.


I clearly spoke of broke guys.... Not hustling guys. Read with understand abeg

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by coolestofall(m): 5:59am On Mar 14, 2020
Ladylite:


So from my comment who told you that you are broke?

You only proved it by the way you replied.

Have you been given millions?

Have you been sponsored and helped?

If no, then you are hustling NOT broke.


I clearly spoke of broke guys.... Not hustling guys. Read with understand abeg
Oh! Since u said it, i dont think im broke anymore I now have money 2 get all I want.

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Randy100: 6:14am On Mar 14, 2020
I beg to differ @ op. To be broke for sometime is a blessing and this are my reason.

1. Being broke will let you know your true friends, friend that stick in time of trouble and same applies to girlfriends who stick with you in time of trouble.

2. Having a true girlfriend who cares at the time of being broke will help you to swim the ocean of brokeness.

3. Having a girlfriend will help you cure your libido if you can't afford money for call girls or olosho.

In reality, it is difficult to find such girl.

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Nobody: 6:40am On Mar 14, 2020
I LOVE THIIIIIIIIIIIS!

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Nobody: 6:41am On Mar 14, 2020
Randy100:
I beg to differ @ op. To be broke for sometime is a blessing and this are my reason.

1. Being broke will let you know your true friends, friend that stick in time of trouble and same applies to girlfriends who stick with you in time of trouble.

2. Having a true girlfriend who cares at the time of being broke will help you to swim the ocean of brokeness.

3. Having a girlfriend will help you cure your libido if you can't afford money for call girls or olosho.

In reality, it is difficult to find such girl.

Now way....A RICH GUY CAN PRETEND POOR BUT A BROKE GUY PRETENDING RICH HEAVY DISASTER

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Nobody: 7:16am On Mar 14, 2020
coolestofall:

Broke guys we don suffer. Hope u know not all guys are broke cos of the reason u typed up there. Some of us have husstle na just baba God finishing touch we dey wait.
hustle will not make you rich. Smart thinking and working will

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by speedyconnect3: 7:22am On Mar 14, 2020
Undissputed:
The title says it all.

If you are a man who's broke or struggling to put food on your table, yet still holding a lady hostage in the name of love/romantic relationship, then you are disaster waiting to happen.

Leave that lady alone and fix your life!

This doesn't mean you can't make friends with the opposite sex. This doesn't mean that you can't admire a lady from afar, this doesn't mean that a lady cannot crush on you. But first, make fixing your life your priority rather than chasing vain satisfactions.

There is nothing, virtually nothing a broke man can offer in a love relationship. Forget about having a big **** or whatever you think can be your advantage. So many things can go wrong in a love relationship and you need money to fix many of them.

If a lady is crushing on you and you are broke, please let her know you are not in a position to be in a love relationship. You can have her as a friend though. If she loves you so much and have the means to help you fix yourself financially, then that is a good catch. Otherwise, don't be unfortunate!

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At what stage or account balance is a guy considered broke?


I might be unable to date Cardi B or be deemed broke in her league but I am rich in the circle of a girl in my street.

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Liposure: 7:33am On Mar 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
hustle will not make you rich. Smart thinking and working will
if u say so, den its OK 2 be a yahooboy. Hardwork doesnt pay. Good A.M
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Belafonte(m): 9:10am On Mar 14, 2020
If you cannot take me serious when I’m broke, I cannot take you serious when I hammer. Fair weather friends deserve no love

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by onwuakpachris(m): 9:18am On Mar 14, 2020
Boys una better leave woman hustle first o...as a man ur hustle is ur identity.. ur respect..ur everything..that's why once u introduce urself as a man..the next question is always.."so what do u do?"..money sweet o..I swear..

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Angelacruz: 10:40am On Mar 14, 2020
Like seriously??
Randy100:
I beg to differ @ op. To be broke for sometime is a blessing and this are my reason.

1. Being broke will let you know your true friends, friend that stick in time of trouble and same applies to girlfriends who stick with you in time of trouble.

2. Having a true girlfriend who cares at the time of being broke will help you to swim the ocean of brokeness.

3. Having a girlfriend will help you cure your libido if you can't afford money for call girls or olosho.

In reality, it is difficult to find such girl.
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Benprass(m): 11:04am On Mar 14, 2020
gift2xl:
Hmm... No man is broke, it's just lack of opportunity to step forward.
God bless you may your wisdom increase.

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by coolestofall(m): 2:32pm On Mar 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
hustle will not make you rich. Smart thinking and working will
Yeah i knw but you missed out the most important ingredient, luck in the form of opportunity.
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Nobody: 5:07pm On Mar 14, 2020
Liposure:
if u say so, den its OK 2 be a yahooboy. Hardwork doesnt pay. Good A.M
being a Yahoo boy is not smart work, it's only a shortcut for fools
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 14, 2020
coolestofall:

Yeah i knw but you missed out the most important ingredient, luck in the form of opportunity.
NOT JUST OPPORTUNITY, BUT BEING ABLE TO RECOGNIZE AND SIEZE IT
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Sultan606: 5:13pm On Mar 14, 2020
I’m a guy and I’m brke but it’s not good to marry a broke guy. While dating him make money plans with him and help him establish before you stretch your hand for an engagement ring. That’s why as a young guy you need to work very hard so before 30years you will see your result, instead of trying to be a baller(spender).
Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by nov19(m): 8:22pm On Mar 14, 2020
This is real life.. Not telemundo or super story.

Less than 10% of worlds population are in the wealth category. That means 90 out every of 100 weddings that takes place every weekend are not BTW multi millionaires.

My dad did not marry my mum as a millionaire, 90% of our parents never married as millionaires and never became millionaires.

See...
When you are truly ready for marry the things that used to freak you about the women suddenly dies. All you now want is a decent woman, strong values, fear of God and humility to marry.

Its no more about the big boobs and back side but about dependability and trustworthiness.

If you want to marry make sure you have a source of regular income.. That is good enough, you don't need to be a multi millionaire or a movie star..

The one meant to be your wife will say yes to you for better for worse, till death do you path.

TV is not where to get advice for marriage, the western world can teach us a lot of things but not about Marriage because our parents know better and do better when it comes to marriage.

The problem with guys is that we often expend too much energy and resources looking the wrong places for a wife.

A good woman is more than what is BTW her legs.. Wise up... Open your eyes...

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Re: A Broke Man In A Love Relationship Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen by Lightangel65: 8:49pm On Mar 14, 2020
gift2xl:
Hmm... No man is broke, it's just lack of opportunity to step forward.

Yes, when you get the opportunity get the girl, but for now that you are broke stay put.

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