₦airaland Forum

Belafonte:
We’re still saying the same thing. The difference is in the approach.

culturedboss:
I got my 17yr old gf pregnant at 18.She was so naive that she only knew she was pregnant when she was 4months gone.My dream before then was to never to have a child out of wedlock,nor a baby mama but boom!!We were fresher's in a private Christian university,It had happened.She was 5months pregnant before I knew it.We were both depressed and confused,Soon She dropped out of school coz of the pregnancy.I also had to drop out coz I couldn't concentrate.
We Couldn't have pulled through if not for the kind of understanding parents we both had they were so supportive.Up til this moment my life has never been the same.That particular incident changed my world,changed me.
Depression is not a mood you can just get over, it's a disease in which the brain ceases to register pleasurable activities as pleasurable.Pls, If you know someone who's suffering from this terrible debilitating condition, give them a hug, hold their hand, tell them they are loved and care for them. Tell them to fight for the light.
Life itself can be like a cliff and u can be at Verge.I pray someone will be there to catch u when u fall.

Oyindidi:
I wish I fit open up

Xavfra:
Bro I feel your pain....
But you love the girl?

On depression....hmmmmm
I don't like to talk about it...cos Nigerians like to claim super strong that they don't suffer from depression....
If you do a statistics you'll find out that over 88percent of Nigerians are suffering from depression.....

kestolove95:
I became pregnant and since den business has totally stop, no man wants to go closer to a pregnant girl

SweetCunt97:
Nothing really but I seem not to be able to attract good men my way... Only tete boyfriend with too many sad stories.. Mtcheew

Oyindidi:
This your sharp mouth eeh e wrong to look for abroad Bobo? Leave my sweetheart for me, she fit dey go through a lot

Gcool2:
I feel for you sis...Be a good girl urself,u will see how good girl will flock u

crackkhaus:
She's going through poverty, not boyfriend issue.

Getting a man (abroad or oil worker) is just the easiest way to get out of financial distress.

SweetCunt97:
Look at this braggart oo! Ehen, will I b the first to be poor or what abi na sin? Childish loafer... Yenyen yen. Typical Nigerian witchcraft mentality. Tufia

Vyvyanvyvy:
My husband doesn’t want my son to come and stay with us. I’m pregnant and depressed

Oyindidi:
Please take it easy on yourself, their is solution to everything we go through. Right now your focus should be on yourself and the unborn child.

culturedboss:
Bro, it's been far more than a decade.we are over each other.no harm,no foul.
But You've stated the obvious truth here.
Many are Depressed.

MichaelBukamzy:
Born and raised poor.Got admission to unn when i was 17,no money to sponsor my education so i dropped,then uncle romanus begged me to be his apprientice which i accepted skeptically.after six years of serving him with loyality and uprightness he dissapointed me.he said he doesn't have money to settle me.it have been 3 months i came back to village empty.mom's bp went high.last month i negotiated 50k with someone to teach me work,paid him 20k,started learning and recently he started showing me attitudes and unseriousness.the trauma,the pain,the shame of relying on mom for even ordinary mtn 100 is killing me slowly.have been sucidal for a while now but whenever i reason ending me i imagine what my poor mom would feel when it happens.

peacefulhome:
Please just keep holding on. You will smiles at the end.
You see that your uncle who think his smart, will surely meet his match( that is if ur story is true), it just a matter of time.

Belafonte:
Crackkhaus, you see this? . Tomorrow they will be screaming for gender equality. But this madam is clearly using bobby to attract customers. No sales strategy, no marketing tactics. Just flirt and smile and get simps to come shop at her store.

This is also what they do in the workplace and expect to get promoted over men who have no breasts and vagina to attract patronage. It’s madness.

Stop typing crap. Y'all just be look for opportunities to take a swipe. Create issues where there's none.

When have you ever seen the mentioned girl(s) talk about gender equality? When?

crackkhaus:
Two men above mentioned things that have to do with business, very valid reasons to be depressed... Yet take a look at the two females, just like a lot of young Nigerian women, their only problem in life always has to do with lack of men - no ambition, no personal development, nothing...

And dem go dey vex with me anytime I deal with dem hot hot.. just imagine

Magnoliaa:
Before nko? When the society tells women they are nothing without a man, why should they not be depressed? When women are crazy over men, you cry; women don't give an f about men, you still lament.


Mtcheewww.

pocohantas:
When a man talks too much, he becomes less mysterious and more contradictory. Very terrible situation to be in, as a man.

Magnoliaa:
Before nko? When the society tells women they are nothing without a man, why should they not be depressed? When women are crazy over men, you cry; women don't give an f about men, you still lament.


Mtcheewww.

Belafonte:
Na so. The true Scotsman fallacy.

Not all SARS officers are crazed killers, doesn’t mean you won’t give yourself brain if one stops you and starts asking questions.

The human mind has evolved to understand patterns and act accordingly in order to ensure survival of the species. You are all guilty until proven innocent.

Lmao. But when a lady said, 'all men are rapists until proven otherwise,' you'll start tearing your shirts and scratching walls. Ok.

You'll employ an argument stance when it suits you. But discard when it's the other party using it.

I can argue same for men's behaviour. I know not all men are the same, but I'll be highly wary and suspicious when one random one approaches me. I can't help it.

Magnoliaa:
Stop typing crap. Y'all just be look for opportunities to take a swipe. Create issues where there's none.

When have you ever seen the mentioned girl(s) talk about gender equality? When?

pocohantas:
When a man talks too much, he becomes less mysterious and more contradictory. Very terrible situation to be in, as a man.

Magnoliaa:
It's such a pity.

Magnoliaa:
Lmao. But when a lady said, 'all men are rapists until proven otherwise,' you'll start tearing your shirts and scratching walls. Ok.

You'll employ an argument stance when it suits you. But discard when it's the other party using it.

I can argue same for men's behaviour. I know not all men are the same, but I'll be highly wary and suspicious when one random one approaches me. I can't help it.

crackkhaus:
Just like you asked my friend above, when have you ever seen me lament over women who are crazy or don't give a fvck about men?

Are you and that local champion Poco girl still mistaking me for someone that I don't know about?

You're doing it right now. On this thread.

And other times, you've shamed women (and feminists) for not obsessing over men. Your line runs somewhere along 'woke modern women.' You use that a lot.

And jusst a while ago, you said you give it 'hot' to them. Abeg, watin e mean to give it hot to someone? If you obviously were unconcerned like you're trying play off rn, why are you everywhere, commenting, mentioning Chimamanda?

Any 21st century woman issue, you must chook mouth.

Magnoliaa:
[s]You're doing it right now. On this thread.

And other times, you've shamed women (and feminists) for not obsessing over men. Your line runs somewhere along 'woke modern women.' You use that a lot.

And jusst a while ago, you said you give it 'hot' to them. Abeg, watin e mean to give it hot to someone? If you obviously were unconcerned like you're trying play off rn, why are you everywhere, commenting, mentioning Chimamanda?

Any 21st century woman issue, you must chook mouth.[/s]

Belafonte:
I actually live my life with that generalization in mind. I’m uncomfortable being alone in an enclosed space with a woman I don’t know well enough. It’s a matter of survival for me. I don’t want to be a victim of false accusations. And if a woman takes precautions because of my gender, I take no exception to such actions. Better safe than sorry biko.

I don’t feel entitled to someone else’s benefit of doubt. Na benefit no be right

Belafonte:
Oya no vex. Happy weekend