lalasticlala:

I think there something wrong about celebrity Nd d job DT d media is hiding 4rm us.d rate celebrity divorce globally is alarming.am sure there is negative reality when u marry celeb.

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Officialgarri:

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Nigerians are very mad people .. lol una like judging issues from far .. how una take know say their marriage get problem??

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FrLukas:
Awon stalker.

People generally feel a sense of thrill when misfortune befalls other people's marriages.

Not cool.

A successful marriage is the union of two excellent forgivers.

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mtinfx:
Mercy Johnson

And the few celebs who keep their marriage are very matured people

What a dumb standard to apply to EVERYONE

So every case is the same?
Every individual is the same?

makydebbie:


Including domestic violence dear?

Take it from me, her husband will most likely not embarrass her ..

Who does that to a reasonable wife?, few.

Moreover, my dad once beat my mum once in their early days , then we were young , just once..if she has divorced my dad cox of beer parlor analysis of domestic violence, she will b somewhere else I can't fathom. Today she's happily celebrating 30years in marriage and thanking God for how far the've gone with Joy + healthy promising children/grandchildren to show for it..

Ladies of today, make una calm down, Social theories and marriage are two different thing.. ask ur mum. she's ur best teacher.

May God bless who invented this meme

LifeMapEmpire:
I tell people "FORGIVENESS" is key in the success of any marriage... Been married for about 10years now and I can say without mincing words that "NOTHING IS A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME".


I have forgiven in advance for the things my spouse will still do!

May the almighty God bless you and your home, may He bless your wisdom and shower your family with an unbreakable cord, i am inspired by your post, gracias.

danilmo:


Take it from me, her husband will most likely not embarrass her ..

Who does that to a reasonable wife?, few.

Moreover, my dad once beat my mum once in their early days , then we were young , just once..if she has divorced my dad cox of beer parlor analysis of domestic violence, she will b somewhere else I can't fathom. Today she's happily celebrating 30years in marriage and thanking God for how far the've gone with Joy + healthy promising children/grandchildren to show for it..

Ladies of today, make una calm down, Social theories and marriage are two different thing.. ask ur mum. she's ur best teacher.

Every case is different, that something worked for one person does not necessarily mean it will work for another. So many different factors to consider that we the people looking in from the outside will not always be privy to too, we don’t know the details so perhaps the issue is something she/he could’ve fought harder for but perhaps it isn’t. Stop going by assumptions and using these blanket standards for scenarios that may very well be different and unique

If it does not end soon...... The end is much much closer.........


All this people that marry for the wrong reasons, without understanding the real and true essence of marriage......

Oniru pickins marriages, no dey last........

danilmo:


Take it from me, her husband will most likely not embarrass her ..

Who does that to a reasonable wife?, few.

Moreover, my dad once beat my mum once in their early days , then we were young , just once..if she has divorced my dad cox of beer parlor analysis of domestic violence, she will b somewhere else I can't fathom. Today she's happily celebrating 30years in marriage and thanking God for how far the've gone with Joy + healthy promising children/grandchildren to show for it..

Ladies of today, make una calm down, Social theories and marriage are two different thing.. ask ur mum. she's ur best teacher.

What if your mum had died in the process of the beating. Just maybe your dad would have remarried and life would go on while your mum would be resting in peace.

Morale of my analysis: learn to consider issues from every side not just from your limited lense of experience

ibkayee:

Every case is different, that something worked for one person does not necessarily mean it will work for another. So many different factors to consider that we the people looking in from the outside will not always be privy to too, we don’t know the details so perhaps the issue is something she/he could’ve fought harder for but perhaps it isn’t. Stop going by assumptions and using these blanket standards for scenarios that may very well be different and unique

Anyway, ure right sha , I'm just talking base on what I read from social media ladies who are bent on divorce at slight provocation, meanwhile most of the workable marriage today, none of them is perfect, I just to give my own parent into it. meanwhile most problem is from men , our wahala too much, if not aggression it ll b cheat, it is on d woman's discretion to make it work, u divorce him on discretion , within a month another Lady is in ,Who is doing who?

watch out , we ll have so many single mums in few years time compare to single dad..

lastly if u can't tolerate Man's wahala, don't marry man. Marry something else or stay single instead all this divorce.

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Celebrities are everyday people who live in the public eye, so everything they do or don't do is always blown out of proportion.

This is interesting. How can a man cheat on a woman like toolz with all the packages wey she carry for front and back. Wetin the man dey find again?[color=#000099][/color]

Incandescent:


What if your mum had died in the process of the beating. Just maybe your dad would have remarried and life would go on while your mum would be resting in peace.

Morale of my analysis: learn to consider issues from every side not just from your limited lense of experience

And thank God my mum didn't die, but we the children know for sure, if she is to come back to life , she ll love to marry dad 100times.. in fact today she's my Dad's gold despite their old age. I envy them.

My case is one, and av seen more , a lot, and they didn't die.I've only heard of those that died on Social Media. just know that life itself is a risk, we play the game.


I'm not saying stay in a violent relationship, if its unbearable, Better to leave, that is wen u discovered the husband can't change..

SM ladies are always, once my husband touches me ONCE, its over.. these are the ladies I'm referring to.

Amen! Thank you

mofedamijo:


May the almighty God bless you and your home, may He bless your wisdom and shower your family with an unbreakable cord, i am inspired by your post, gracias.

jaxxy:


Lol

I said necessary things that may crop up in ur marriage not everything. U can only live a lie for so long.

Mum is the word when it comes to marriage. Especially when it concerns infidelity before or after the nuptial.

LifeMapEmpire:
I tell people "FORGIVENESS" is key in the success of any marriage... Been married for about 10years now and I can say without mincing words that "NOTHING IS A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME".


I have forgiven in advance for the things my spouse will still do!

I love this

FuckThaMod:

Do i know you? It's not my fault your father and mother are dead.

sorry to burst your bubble
They are both alive and well
As for you wishing my parents bad
So it will be for your entire family
As long as I didn't wish death on anyone
Let it be for you as bad as your heart is

Oloshi

tammie24:
sorry to burst your bubble
They are both alive and well
As for you wishing my parents bad
So it will be for your entire family
As long as I didn't wish death on anyone
Let it be for you

Before any bad thing happen to me or any single member of my family, you and your family would have bite the dust i swear.
Since you want to play dirty by first involving my parents that doesn't know toolz.
Beechass

Will you mind your business?

danilmo:


I know u ll not like this bitter truth o..

meanwhile the person u quoted is a Lady who has decided to make things work..

If a man cheat, do the necessary medical checks, forgive him, as a lady don't go and try such coz ure forever out , and he ll bring in another mistress comfortably as an alpha male within weeks, Man can't forgive a cheating wife, in fact I can't sex her again, irritating already.. that's nature bitter truth, but u ll disagree.


Men cheat and we talk it with confidence in fact, because we are Men.. One major thing that can tame a Man is a responsible wife, not d nagging ones like u, I'm very sure ur husband ll b cheating on u with confidence. ur fault..


Don't worry, wen ur husband cheat , divorce him and marry another man with ur children.. who marries single mother's this days self, tueh.. Another Man's left over, except she's a widow.

LifeMapEmpire:
I tell people "FORGIVENESS" is key in the success of any marriage... Been married for about 10years now and I can say without mincing words that "NOTHING IS A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME".


I have forgiven in advance for the things my spouse will still do!

As painful as it sounds this is the truth behind our parents successfully marriages.

Patience and forgiveness is vital especially if you could kill your pride and selfishness. Marriage can be heaven on earth but time and experience is needed for that to take place.

FuckThaMod:

Before any bad thing happen to me or any single member of my family, you and your family would have bite the dust i swear.
Since you want to play dirty by first involving my parents that doesn't know toolz.
Beechass

you wey don bite dust already

You think you are relevant as you dey so

Insulting someone you don't know for doing nothing to you

Wasted sperm

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tammie24:
you wey don bite dust already

You think you are relevant as you dey so

Insulting someone you don't know for doing nothing to you

Wasted sperm

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And you are a dust already..
How much them pay you?
Get out kid!

CSTR2:

You would die by hanging just like amina.

Why? You mean a judge will sentence me to death by hanging because my horseband died of kidney failure?

pocohantas:


Why? You mean a judge will sentence me to death by hanging because my horseband died of kidney failure?

lol
That is a new one.

I fear who no fear you.

pocohantas:
Lord knows I would never divorce a cheating Nigerian husband. I rather be a widow than a divorcee.

why not just make up ur mind n 4get marriage ia not as if yu av sumtin positive to do inside sef... some gurls are destined to be single count ursef luck mariam was not privileged to get these kind of advice. r.i.p in advance

CSTR2:

lol
That is a new one.
I fear who no fear you.

What you don’t know would come off new to you, but that is okay.

if you don't know what marriage is, or you have no knowledge about it regardless of your age, pls, don't go into it.


bitches making marriage look like a casual wear.

Big wedding can not last.. quote me anywhere.. the bigger the wedding, the lesser the blessings.
Do it moderate or low-key and enjoy happy after.

lalasticlala:
OAP Toolz Oniru removes her husband’s name from her Instagram bio. This has sparked reactions on social media as many are insinuating that there is serious crisis in the marriage.

Toolz got married to Captain Tunde Demuren in a star-studded wedding in Dubai in 2016 and they currently have a son after she lost her first pregnancy.

Toolz now trends on social media after she edited her Instagram bio to remove her husband's name.

Davash222:
Automatically, she’s now a Nigerian feminist!

Nairaland feminists, welcome your new recruit.

So, that is the future of the popular "Feminism"!!!
I thought feminism is about women discovering cure for Coronavirus ahead of 'men'!!