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Should I Break Up With Her? by Spman: 9:31pm On Mar 21, 2020
My bae have been acting strange which i don't even understand but am sure she is no longer interested..
Okay this is what happened

I was outside my home town when shs was admitted to the hospital Bcus of Malaria so when she was discharged i happened to came home that same week.
So she was eager to see me and requested i should come check her at home so i summon d courage to go despite the shyness Bcus it was a family house she live in..
So hugged me when she saw me and we got talking then since she was requesting for 1k since i said i will transfer it for her when i reach home...

The mistake i made was instead i should have said when she visit me she will get the money..
So that evening i sent her 1k which is nothing compared to how we spend dz days..

Then it was time for her to visit me which was last weekend then she lost her uncle wife which i understand then i gave her time,so she promised to come on Monday Bcus of her i stayed home all through then she didn't show up, i called her no answer...

Then i said i won't call her till my guy begged me to just call and know what's up then i called she picked it and was like she is sorry that it's Bcus she doesn't have call card and during the convo on phone she never gave me reason why she didn't come that day... Then i jokingly said what of 'pls call me back' code she hissed and cut the call then i still call her back and she promised to come on Wednesday so Bcus of her i stayed around yet no show, then again she promised to come today knowing fully well i will be traveling tomorrow, then i waited for her bcus she promised to come by 10am yet no show.
So i called between 1pm and 2pm no answer....
So i have made promise not to call again..

This is not the first time she act like this....


And i am tired of that shiit but at d end she will start calling me..




What i observe about her is that she has a cunning and deceptive attitude...

So i dont know if i should tell her bluntly that am not interested again or just leave her with her decision while i seek for another alternative....

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Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by NextD18: 9:37pm On Mar 21, 2020
All these wailing and rants na because of 1k

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Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Mar 21, 2020
who told u she is ur girlfriend.its obvious she is not ur girlfriend from ur writeup

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Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by shamsin6300(m): 9:44pm On Mar 21, 2020
I guess she is having a tough time for failing u on several occasions. Why can't u go to their side (her house) & meet her one-on-one to knw watx actually her problem?

Trust me, if u approach her @ her own side, she will respect u a lot, she will gladly visit u even without u requesting for it.
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by cyprus000: 9:50pm On Mar 21, 2020
NextD18:
All these wailing and rants na because of 1k
Ok, being condescendingly petty is your blasted idea of mirth.
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by paqman: 9:55pm On Mar 21, 2020
Find an alternative that relationship is not going to be fruitful. Relationship guidelines. 1. If you invite your girl for the first time if she came up with an excuse, the second time if she did the same thing , if it repeat the third time my brother you not in a relationship you are in a situationship

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Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:32pm On Mar 21, 2020
NextD18:
All these wailing and rants na because of 1k



Don't be naive, read and understand
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by greyce: 2:30am On Mar 22, 2020
NextD18:
All these wailing and rants na because of 1k
Lol,nairalanders are something else grin grin. They never disappoint with their funny comments

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Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Eberechi24(f): 2:35am On Mar 22, 2020
End the relationship already. You are not inviting her for something important other than sex.
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:38am On Mar 22, 2020
Break up with who? Yourself? Don't you know you are dating yourself?
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Skmoda360(m): 6:55am On Mar 22, 2020
Gaggi:
Break up with who? Yourself? Don't you know you are dating yourself?
you should have told him in private undecided.....you cast him last last..... grin

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Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by biobash(m): 7:05am On Mar 22, 2020
Spman:
My bae have been acting strange which i don't even understand but am sure she is no longer interested..
Okay this is what happened

I was outside my home town when shs was admitted to the hospital Bcus of Malaria so when she was discharged i happened to came home that same week.
So she was eager to see me and requested i should come check her at home so i summon d courage to go despite the shyness Bcus it was a family house she live in..
So hugged me when she saw me and we got talking then since she was requesting for 1k since i said i will transfer it for her when i reach home...

The mistake i made was instead i should have said when she visit me she will get the money..
So that evening i sent her 1k which is nothing compared to how we spend dz days..

Then it was time for her to visit me which was last weekend then she lost her uncle wife which i understand then i gave her time,so she promised to come on Monday Bcus of her i stayed home all through then she didn't show up, i called her no answer...

Then i said i won't call her till my guy begged me to just call and know what's up then i called she picked it and was like she is sorry that it's Bcus she doesn't have call card and during the convo on phone she never gave me reason why she didn't come that day... Then i jokingly said what of 'pls call me back' code she hissed and cut the call then i still call her back and she promised to come on Wednesday so Bcus of her i stayed around yet no show, then again she promised to come today knowing fully well i will be traveling tomorrow, then i waited for her bcus she promised to come by 10am yet no show.
So i called between 1pm and 2pm no answer....
So i have made promise not to call again..

This is not the first time she act like this....


And i am tired of that shiit but at d end she will start calling me..




What i observe about her is that she has a cunning and deceptive attitude...

So i dont know if i should tell her bluntly that am not interested again or just leave her with her decision while i seek for another alternative....

OP, you're emotionally attached to her. If you really love her and want her badly, then you need to put her in place. Man up, reduce the rate at which you call her, do as if you didn't care about her, if she truly love you, she will have a rethink.

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Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by DenreleDave(m): 7:13am On Mar 22, 2020
Spman:
My bae have been acting strange which i don't even understand but am sure she is no longer interested..
Okay this is what happened

I was outside my home town when shs was admitted to the hospital Bcus of Malaria so when she was discharged i happened to came home that same week.
So she was eager to see me and requested i should come check her at home so i summon d courage to go despite the shyness Bcus it was a family house she live in..
So hugged me when she saw me and we got talking then since she was requesting for 1k since i said i will transfer it for her when i reach home...

The mistake i made was instead i should have said when she visit me she will get the money..
So that evening i sent her 1k which is nothing compared to how we spend dz days..

Then it was time for her to visit me which was last weekend then she lost her uncle wife which i understand then i gave her time,so she promised to come on Monday Bcus of her i stayed home all through then she didn't show up, i called her no answer...

Then i said i won't call her till my guy begged me to just call and know what's up then i called she picked it and was like she is sorry that it's Bcus she doesn't have call card and during the convo on phone she never gave me reason why she didn't come that day... Then i jokingly said what of 'pls call me back' code she hissed and cut the call then i still call her back and she promised to come on Wednesday so Bcus of her i stayed around yet no show, then again she promised to come today knowing fully well i will be traveling tomorrow, then i waited for her bcus she promised to come by 10am yet no show.
So i called between 1pm and 2pm no answer....
So i have made promise not to call again..

This is not the first time she act like this....


And i am tired of that shiit but at d end she will start calling me..




What i observe about her is that she has a cunning and deceptive attitude...

So i dont know if i should tell her bluntly that am not interested again or just leave her with her decision while i seek for another alternative....


Wise girl.... She know u r a dummy and she wudnt Wana open her leg for a dummy again
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Sotland: 7:16am On Mar 22, 2020
I don't see any faulty her.. The only person that is creating sef headache is you... Why do men allow their emotions get the better of them when it comes to rel'ship.. Brah try and face the important things that are before you and worry less about what is not important
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Spman: 7:22am On Mar 22, 2020
DenreleDave:



Wise girl.... She know u r a dummy and she wudnt Wana open her leg for a dummy again

tell me reasons why u tag me dummy?...

If u have no sensible comment to make thhen just keep shut instead of insulthing me..

Bcus i see no reason for tagging me a dummy
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Spman: 7:23am On Mar 22, 2020
biobash:


OP, you're emotionally attached to her. If you really love her and want her badly, then you need to put her in place. Man up, reduce the rate at which you call her, do as if you didn't care about her, if she truly love you, she will have a rethink.

alright thank you very much
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Spman: 7:24am On Mar 22, 2020
Sotland:
I don't see any faulty her.. The only person that is creating sef headache is you... Why do men allow their emotions get the better of them when it comes to rel'ship.. Brah try and face the important things that are before you and worry less about what is not important

alright thanks
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by DenreleDave(m): 7:25am On Mar 22, 2020
Spman:


tell me reasons why u tag me dummy?...

If u have no sensible comment to make thhen just keep shut instead of insulthing me..

Bcus i see no reason for tagging me a dummy

I didn't say u r a dummy.. Am saying that she sees u as one... She sees u as dummy and dts y she is playing u
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Problemkid1: 9:40am On Mar 22, 2020
NextD18:
All these wailing and rants na because of 1k
Mad ooo grin grin grin
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by steve279(m): 9:51am On Mar 22, 2020
She already knows if she honours ur invitation u will probably want to have sex with her and she's not psychologically ready for such
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by samdavjustin(m): 10:20am On Mar 22, 2020
Spman:
My bae have been acting strange which i don't even understand but am sure she is no longer interested..
Okay this is what happened

I was outside my home town when shs was admitted to the hospital Bcus of Malaria so when she was discharged i happened to came home that same week.
So she was eager to see me and requested i should come check her at home so i summon d
courage to go despite the shyness Bcus it was a
family house she live in..
So hugged me when she saw me and we got talking then since she was requesting for 1k since i said i will transfer it for her when i reach home...

The mistake i made was instead i should have said when she visit me she will get the money..
So that evening i sent her 1k which is nothing compared to how we spend dz days..

Then it was time for her to visit me which was last weekend then she lost her uncle wife which i understand then i gave her time,so she promised to come on Monday Bcus of her i stayed home all through then she didn't show up, i called her no answer...

Then i said i won't call her till my guy begged me to just call and know what's up then i called she picked it and was like she is sorry that it's Bcus she doesn't have call card and during the convo on phone she never gave me reason why she didn't come that day... Then i jokingly said what of 'pls call me back' code she hissed and cut the call then i still call her back and she promised to come on Wednesday so Bcus of her i stayed around yet no show, then again she promised to come today knowing fully well i will be traveling tomorrow, then i waited for her bcus she promised to come by 10am yet no show.
So i called between 1pm and 2pm no answer....
So i have made promise not to call again..

This is not the first time she act like this....


And i am tired of that shiit but at d end she will start calling me..




What i observe about her is that she has a cunning and deceptive attitude...

So i dont know if i should tell her bluntly that am not interested again or just leave her with her decision while i seek for another alternative....

She knows you want to chop her kpomo so instead of keep inviting her over to ur place, y don’t you take her outside have fun then bring her to your place for final match. You got to be cunning with these girls they are wise now.Goodluck young chap grin
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by IamDavids: 10:21am On Mar 22, 2020
NextD18:
All these wailing and rants na because of 1k

Guy you wicked lol
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by Winneygirl(f): 11:16am On Mar 22, 2020
You want to collect your 1k back in 'kind'.
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by slan87(m): 12:33pm On Mar 22, 2020
Bro, don't bother telling her anything.
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by 24kmagic: 3:22pm On Mar 22, 2020
Kids everywhere
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by seniorgozman(m): 4:47pm On Mar 22, 2020
NextD18:
All these wailing and rants na because of 1k
You just made my day
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by stormborn28(m): 6:10pm On Mar 22, 2020
Eberechi24:
End the relationship already. You are not inviting her for something important other than sex.
Oturugbeke ooooo
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by stormborn28(m): 6:11pm On Mar 22, 2020
Winneygirl:
You want to collect your 1k back in 'kind'.
you mean Fvck
Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by helinues: 6:19pm On Mar 22, 2020
All this epistle because of 1k?

Jeez!

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