Bbbwings:

I concur.
But my own no serious o, he lost a year cos of change of course.
The thing pain me gan.

Tamakay:
The age at which you are showing this level of desperation is disgusting. 24yrs, probably you don't have anything to offer rather than opening only your legs. Mtcheeeew....a bunch of a liability!

makydebbie:
24 and you're fussed about marriage like this? 24!

You no get goals or ambitions?
You act too desperate for a 24 year old.

dominique:


̷I̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷d̷̷d̷̷i̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷e̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷a̷̷n̷̷n̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷l̷̷s̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷e̷̷k̷̷e̷̷e̷̷p̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷i̷̷s̷̷h̷̷w̷̷a̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷r̷̷r̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷i̷̷r̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷i̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷u̷̷w̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷(̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷e̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷u̷̷n̷̷n̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷e̷̷)̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷H̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷i̷̷r̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷p̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷y̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷j̷̷u̷̷m̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷l̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷s̷̷h̷̷i̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷i̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷m̷̷i̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷a̷̷g̷̷g̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷e̷̷r̷̷?̷̷ ̷̷E̷̷v̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷v̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷u̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷w̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷m̷̷i̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷b̷̷l̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷t̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷o̷̷n̷̷t̷̷i̷̷n̷̷u̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷i̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷e̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷a̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷e̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷e̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷l̷̷a̷̷m̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷s̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷e̷̷d̷̷.̷̷
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̷̷S̷̷h̷̷e̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷u̷̷c̷̷k̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷d̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷t̷̷u̷̷n̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷t̷̷t̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷e̷̷g̷̷n̷̷a̷̷n̷̷t̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷'̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷a̷̷w̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷o̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷o̷̷k̷̷i̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷u̷̷y̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷a̷̷b̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷k̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷l̷̷e̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷y̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷u̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷m̷̷i̷̷l̷̷y̷̷.̷

PrimadonnaO:


Did you start a company at 24? And I don't mean a hair vendor kinda company.

Married people don't read and travel and build careers? A 24-year old damn well knows what's good for her. She didn't ask you for advice as to whether or not she should get married.

It's nauseating when y'all act like you know better what's best for a person. What do you know about her life to think that your advice is necessary?

UBGGA:


Oh grandma, I apologise for mentioning dry bones in your presence.

victorian:





Babe u gave him the power to chase off other suitors.

But why even consider a man whose family and granny lives with him?

That day he called u to. Come cook for everyone should have been an eye opener for u.

All he needs is a maid not a wife.

I said last night, that guys in their 30s are not ready to settle down, especially if he's financially OK.

The ones clamouring for let's leave together as husband and wife without getting married are guys in their 30s that are still struggling to feed, how. Much more marry. They look out for a working class babe, be it younger, older or same age. Sweet talk her into moving in with him or he moves in with her, so he can have frees sex whenever he wants and free home mademeals, with free children whom his babe will definitely be taking care of, while he feeds off her in the name of :

I GO MARRY YOU.


I have seen several naive desperate women fall into this trap!


the earlier u throw away that bondage called engagement ring and date someone with less baggage the better for you.

Think!

UyaiIncomparabl:


I hope you'll learn to see that he's really not into you like that. A man who hasn't made plans to leave and cleave definitely has no business getting married. That he is 31 doesn't mean he's ready. You cook and tend to his family whenever you are around them, right? You'll do worse when you get married. You'll become head chef and senior nanny to his siblings and aging Grandmother.

Have a serious discussion with him, tell him to give you a time, set your own time too since you're the one whom the shoes hurts. If he still shows signs of unseriousness and unwillingness, then I see no reason why you shouldn't start extending your search outside. This is your future. Don't ruin it. The partner you marry is liable to make or mar you.

In the end, it's all your brunt to bear. Choose wisely now to avoid coming to the front page of Nairaland tomorrow seeking for marital advice.

Ladies, even if you date a douchebag, please endeavor not to marry that douchebag. Please, see it as an importance to marry a man that has sense. You're Queens and Queens do not eat debris nor settle for less.

Thread wisely and carefully.

Godmademan:
I sincerely think she should jusT discuss with the dude. know what his plans for both of them. If he's not responding appropriately she can walk away. The situation with his family might be the cause of tge delay. He probably can't afford paying fir another apartment simultaneously. The siblungs can help if they get themselves busy and get another apartment.

HelloHolla:
Good evening everyone, I've been a guest for quite a while, created an account cause I need advice from the audience.

How long should an engagement ring be worn for? I've been engaged since last year May (dated for 4yrs), my Fiance hasn't talked about proceeding to do introduction or marriage, it's like he just proposed to me because he felt like.

This man has refused to be on his own, his Grandma and 5 siblings (younger and older) live with him and he takes responsibility for them all, two of his siblings living with him also have their partners living with them. It's only a 3 bedroom flat. I feel like quitting the whole thing cause I don't feel comfortable going to his house. When I do, he wants me to cook for everyone which gets me strained.

With the look of things, he has no plans of moving out for them cause he rented the apartment, neither do they have intentions of moving out on their own, it's more like a family house. My period is two days late and I'm scared to the marrow.

Please advice me on what to do cause I can't live with him if they're still there after marriage, he's not even talking about marriage, I've not asked him yet so as not to sound desperate but why propose if you don't have plans of doing the next thing after a max of 6 months?

He's 31 and I'm 24

Thanks.

rozario01:
Is this jennifer?

Viciyke00:


Awon any male that is "25 and below" don't near me Geng

You go soon turn Lord of the rings dear

Don't go and learn a skill and be useful to yourself, Keep hoping on marriage helplessly.

#ode

HelloHolla:


So, I shouldn't worry about his plans after engaging me? I wish your sisters end up with the same man, peace.