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Is He Interested In Me.? by Preciousgirl(op): 4:11pm On Mar 24, 2020

My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by DoubleEngine007: 4:14pm On Mar 24, 2020

Except he is Santa.. Even a child will know that he is after something.. And you said you are married.. Have you talked to your husband about the gifts?

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Mar 24, 2020

Question is, are you really married and staying married? undecided

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Kingsteve(m): 4:26pm On Mar 24, 2020

Do you need a soothsayer to tell you?
He wants to chop you well well.
As in...proper chopping o!

The more you receive those gifts, the more you empower him.
Be guided!

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by faithfull18(f): 4:27pm On Mar 24, 2020*

Lol, he is just being nice, he probably sees you as his sister.

You better ask him why huh

This story looks fabricated imho.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by KaideeGee(m): 4:31pm On Mar 24, 2020

Does he do it for others also? If no, then there is a high probability that he is in to u.
Discuss ur stand with him and see his reaction and any obvious attitude change, that should give u a good hint of what he is after

Just my thought

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 24, 2020

Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks

Why not ask your husband this question.? He will have the perfect advice for you.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by evil1: 4:32pm On Mar 24, 2020

Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks

Ur married and collects unsolicited gifts from the opposite sex.
Are you sure u want to stay married ?

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Preciousgirl(op): 4:33pm On Mar 24, 2020

KaideeGee:
Does he do it for others also? If no, then there is a high probability that he is in to u.
Discuss ur stand with him and see his reaction and any obvious attitude change, that should give u a good hint of what he is after

Just my thought

How do I do it without hurting him?

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by XhosaNostra(f): 4:34pm On Mar 24, 2020

Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks

How about not taking his stuff? I hope that's not too crazy a suggestion.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Preciousgirl(op): 4:34pm On Mar 24, 2020

Gaggi:
Why not ask your husband this question.? He will have the perfect advice for you.

Hmm, he doesn't trust me, even though I am clean. Opening up to him on this will add fuel to his fire of untold suspicion. Hmmm

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by osuofia2(m): 4:35pm On Mar 24, 2020

IN THIS TIME OF COVID 19, NA SHE BE UR PROBLEM

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Quality20(m): 4:41pm On Mar 24, 2020

kindly tell him that u r very grateful for the gifts but u r sorry u don't need ,that u have more than enough.

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Mar 24, 2020

No he is not interested in you, he is interested in making you useless and mocking you, you better clear him out of your head, what your husband and daddy can't buy for you, you don't need it.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Jaqenhghar: 5:09pm On Mar 24, 2020

XhosaNostra:
How about not taking his stuff? I hope that's not too crazy a suggestion.

A sensible suggestiin. That and being upfront with him.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Jaqenhghar: 5:11pm On Mar 24, 2020

Kingsteve:
Do you need a soothsayer to tell you?
He wants to chop you well well.
As in...proper chopping o!

The more you receive those gifts, the more you empower him.
Be guided!

Do you know if she wants to be chopped? As in proper chopping. She knows what she must do. Of she didnt like the colleague we wont be having this conversation.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Shugavee(f): 5:15pm On Mar 24, 2020

XhosaNostra:
How about not taking his stuff? I hope that's not too crazy a suggestion.

well said sis

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:17pm On Mar 24, 2020

as a married woman, you shouldnt have accepted (from this unwanted admirer) these "gifts" that certainly come with strings attached.

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Mar 24, 2020

Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks

Do you have a pussy? If yes, he will continue to be nice to you until he enter the gate

If you don't have a pussy, then he is such a nice gentleman

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Mar 24, 2020

Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks

Tears loading

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Mar 24, 2020

You're married? And collecting hand bag from a man?
I wonder why a married woman would even be close to another man in the first place.
You know very well what you are doing. So stop asking childish questions.

I'm out.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Kingsteve(m): 5:29pm On Mar 24, 2020

Jaqenhghar:
Do you know if she wants to be chopped? As in proper chopping. She knows what she must do. Of she didnt like the colleague we wont be having this conversation.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Tripitaka: 5:34pm On Mar 24, 2020*

"Is he interested in me?" Clearly he is.

If you have a job, just like him and a family too, it means you can at least afford to buy your own lunch. Your "kind" colleague also knows you can buy your own lunch, but has decided out of "kindnesss" to take that responsibility upon himself. What a sweet soul.

You know the thing about chasing married women? You don't go all gung ho, you have to be as stealth as possible, dropping subtle clues everywhere hoping that the woman picks up on them. The food, airtime and handbag are all clues. Clearly it worked, because you now know he likes you, I also believe you like him too (certainly you do, spare us the BS).

The problem with cheating in women is that they go all emotional, leaving a shìtload of evidence behind. No wonder your husband doesn't trust you, he already sees the potentials and tendencies. You event even started cheating, but he already feels it. You see?

There's good and bad news anyway. Bad news - At the end of the day, you will lose your marriage and job. Good news - you'll have the handbag as a memento - a reminder of when you veered off the path of sensibility - that's if it hasn't started peeling by then.

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by KaideeGee(m): 6:14pm On Mar 24, 2020

Preciousgirl:
How do I do it without hurting him?

Try asking him why he is doing what he is doing, after his reply, state clearly thau u are married and that he should not expect any extra-marital affair with you all this while be as serious and unflinching as possible

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by KaideeGee(m): 6:15pm On Mar 24, 2020

Preciousgirl:
How do I do it without hurting him?

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Edyice: 6:26pm On Mar 24, 2020

My kind of guy cool

Time for knacks is almost here grin

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by wizdomnzube(m): 6:45pm On Mar 24, 2020

Madam swear say u nor dey enjoy the attention and gift he dey dash you.

Abeg cheat if u one cheat nor dey act like say u nor dey feel the nigga. Na niggaz wen dey marry una I dey pity undecided

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Gadafii: 7:13pm On Mar 24, 2020

Ask Abba kyari huh

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by extol1(m): 7:14pm On Mar 24, 2020

wizdomnzube:
Madam swear say u nor dey enjoy the attention and gift he dey dash you.

Abeg cheat if u one cheat nor dey act like say u nor dey feel the nigga. Na niggaz wen dey marry una I dey pity

Na for this coronavirus era you dey tell person make she cheat. if you no pity her abeg pity her innocent husband

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by JohnnyPalmer: 7:53pm On Mar 24, 2020

Wrong quéstion

See @ OP you already know he's Interested in you

But you know what you don't know

Is that you are already a goner

You probably see him in your dreams and get wet at the thought of him

You are cheating emotionally

Very soon, perfect opportunity will present itself
Una go knack

You will now come here and say it's a mistake... You got drunk.... You do not mean to cheat on your husband blah blah blah

You are married and receiving unsolicited gifts... . To what end if I may ask?

If you still have sense.... You will run

But I know you like those freebies too much

You will continue

So, I won't waste time advising

It's not a matter of if it will happen... It's a matter of when una two go dey do kerewa

And if you go down that line..... May you be exposed

Iranu

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by JohnnyPalmer: 7:56pm On Mar 24, 2020

wizdomnzube:
Madam swear say u nor dey enjoy the attention and gift he dey dash you.

Abeg cheat if u one cheat nor dey act like say u nor dey feel the nigga. Na niggaz wen dey marry una I dey pity

Well said..... This is the ugly truth

She dey try to deceive herself he's just a friend and he's such a nice guy

Mama wey Don lust/lost

She just needs permission to cheat

Imagine..
She said her husband dey suspicious and he doesn't trust her

Why would he... When she's acting suspicious
She's been taking freebies for over a month and the husband has no idea

All these gals of nowadays sef

This is a supposed married woman oo

May God help us

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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Mar 24, 2020

DoubleEngine007:
Except he is Santa.. Even a child will know that he is after something.. And you said you are married.. Have you talked to your husband about the gifts?

Of course she hasn't; and she is never going to either; until it's time to hurt the husband.

XhosaNostra:
How about not taking his stuff? I hope that's not too crazy a suggestion.

You are a woman and you're asking how crazy a suggestion that is? On a scale of 1-10 it's a 12 for craziness.

Preciousgirl:
Hmm, he doesn't trust me, even though I am clean. Opening up to him on this will add fuel to his fire of untold suspicion. Hmmm

I wonder why he doesn't trust you.

JohnnyPalmer:
Well said..... This is the ugly truth

She dey try to deceive herself he's just a friend and he's such a nice guy

Mama wey Don lust/lost

She just needs permission to cheat

Imagine..
She said her husband dey suspicious and he doesn't trust her

Why would he... When she's acting suspicious
She's been taking freebies for over a month and the husband has no idea

All these gals of nowadays sef

This is a supposed married woman oo

May God help us

If I had seen this comment before, I would have been satisfied to just pass through.

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