jimmyolasun:
survive the epidemic first

pocochantas keep using an alternative account you hear

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Do you really think marriage is that wonderful(Especially to a Nigerian man)? The only reason I want to get married is to appease my family and also I want a kid, being a christian I cannot have one outside marriage. Why would I spend a huge portion of my life with someone I barely know and who might not be worth it? You people think you're so important that you believe that every female needs to clinch one of you by the time she's 22. God forbid. In fact, no marriage till I am 35. I need to enjoy life before subjecting myself to eternal bondage.

forget it no "worthwhile" man will consider you for marriage at that age. Most decent guys you're likely to come across will only Bleep and dump.
You will probably have to settle with someone below you.
by the way, can you still have kids even?
I hope you're still seeing your period.
You don old oo 32!!! Chai!

glasscup:
This year I am 32 already. Hope to meet a serious man soon.

Lavendra:


I sent you an email, please reply. Thanks

vickydankal:


You are correct. I’d wanted to say my view on the reason why early marriage is important, but some people here had made themselves judges as though this is a political debate arena.

I had an experience and I am entitled to my own opinion.

Is delaying marriage always the best path, though? While getting married young isn’t for everyone, there are actually some distinct benefits to doing so.

I believe too much Un-arrange and unbalanced knowledge causes people to be very choosy about marriage.

I was raise by a single mum and she taught that a woman should be self dependent. As good as that is if you are not careful to balance that truth, you will become a low key feminist.

When you marry late you will understand that there are many things you could do and even get better preference when you are married.

We (Women) need a man in our lives. Let me make controversial statement but truthful.

A woman job and fulfillment is truely tied to her assistant to her man’s assignment (Vision)

This is not to say that without a man you are not fulfilled but to say that there’s a level of favor you release when you come into a man’s live and that feeling is fulfilling .


Had I married by 25 by now I would be done with child labor.

My advice , look for a place in your life and struck a balance. What do you want and what’s your motivation in life and about marriage.

But take it from me, if you wait till 30 and above you will want to get it right, and that feeling of getting it right will make you choosy and years are counting. That’s when you marry for necessity and not love. That’s when you hear all man na man.

With less criticism I could share some personal experiences I had for marrying late. In respect to child bearing, marital life, career issues and financial problems not to talk of comparisons that comes with it.

Please we are all self isolating. Don’t give me BP. If you curse me I will come to your house and beat you .

SweetCunt97:
As per God?

funmercy1:
I will be 30 this year funny enough I don't have a boyfriend or a job........I always want a marriage where we are friends,I don't just want to be married ...............

Beolly:

You won't die be positive minded, There's always one person for someone and it's not the end of the world rather. Can I send you a P.m please? Cheer up

ehix89:
Good morning and hope you're observing the sit at home instruction. How do i reach you outside this platform by the way.

Lavendra:


yes you can.

fatymore:



I don't have another moniker now... I don't change it like pants joor

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Hon I won’t want to get married to a 40-45 year old man either because that tells me he is grossly irresponsible and trifling

SweetCunt97:
Toh. I need muscles bro. 6 packs. As I no get Benz, make I manage 6 packs

safarigirl:
Not likely to ever happen for me

Some of us will just come and go. No marriage, nothing.

Not everybody will find love, and some will find love, but with the wrong person.

Me, I'm tired of looking forward to anything about marriage. If it happens, it happens, if not, we come and go. Nobody ever made it to history books, for being married anyway.

safarigirl:
Not likely to ever happen for me

Some of us will just come and go. No marriage, nothing.

Not everybody will find love, and some will find love, but with the wrong person.

Me, I'm tired of looking forward to anything about marriage. If it happens, it happens, if not, we come and go. Nobody ever made it to history books, for being married anyway.

SweetCunt97:
two extra mouth cos the woman na handicapped and hungry na.. She no fit support ba.

saxxyb:


@vickdankal, You are very insane, a right thinking lady that is want to get married should have a source if income

Personally I don't support the idea of early marriage(20-25) for ladies because it comes with different problems such as , delay in achievement of one goals, marrying someone who isn't your mate, .not fully independent and finally not fully understanding the concept of marriage

As a lady you should also have a source of income to support you husband, don't be a liability, life is just unfair in this part of a country, very imbalance , a man will want to do everything, starting from paying exorbitant bride price

Ladies trust me men usually seek and respect women of value, if you are well to do as a lady men will come to you for marriage, no one wants to marry a liability, another reason for a lady to have a source if income is because at a time your family will need your financial help, just imagine a scenario where a girl from a family whose sibling are all girls and they all decide to be liabilities looking to all marry rich men and here is an urgent need (mama don fall sick), what will happen? Is that how you will calling your husband for every little thing, common to buy sanitary u no fit na your husband go provide, another is if a wife unfortunately lost one spouse and there is widowhood, Is that how your children will suffer?

Please girls equip yourself and add value to a man life and stop minding all those feminism movement valuable women are real women.
#my2cent

bonnyhope:


There is no right lady anywhere

They all have the same attitude towards relationship

Ginaz:



Hahaha yes o sis, it can be really annoying I swear. Just last week someone I’ve been talking a lot with on phone told me he is 22. I was shocked to my bones, we never talked about age till that fateful day, I stopped picking his calls cos he’s too small for me . He looks 26-28 facially .

The struggle no be here especially when they treat you like a kid cos you have a young look .

OlawaleBammie:

MrHandsome2013:
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why is it that you do not have bf?

funmercy1:
I don't known

Designerdollars:
forget it no "worthwhile" man will consider you for marriage at that age. Most decent guys you're likely to come across will only Bleep and dump.
You will probably have to settle with someone below you.
by the way, can you still have kids even?
I hope you're still seeing your period.
You don old oo 32!!! Chai!