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funmercy1:
rude children

how i wishe i have the effrontery like dem

Designerdollars:
forget it no "worthwhile" man will consider you for marriage at that age. Most decent guys you're likely to come across will only Bleep and dump.
You will probably have to settle with someone below you.
by the way, can you still have kids even?
I hope you're still seeing your period.
You don old oo 32!!! Chai!

This is unnecessary prank bro, u dont joke with every little thing na

Chi59:
If I get married, that is.

If you afraid because of your condition, it's okay you could just have a baby. And I'm not showing you pity before you shove my pity back my ass, lol. But if you independent enough and want a guy that can give you a baby without being around, I can help with that. Though I won't like you to show another man to my baby as his father. Either show me to him or tell him his father died. Was just joking all along. Don't take a word serious except where I said I don't pity you, and that's because you make it clear you don't need pity.

Today I was going to my work place at vi ikoyi as I stepped down from the taxi I noticed two couples who just wed today and I was like wtf!! �‍♂️� even in this world or country situation people are still getting married not minding mr corona virus lol

vickydankal:


You are correct. I’d wanted to say my view on the reason why early marriage is important, but some people here had made themselves judges as though this is a political debate arena.

I had an experience and I am entitled to my own opinion.

Is delaying marriage always the best path, though? While getting married young isn’t for everyone, there are actually some distinct benefits to doing so.

I believe too much Un-arrange and unbalanced knowledge causes people to be very choosy about marriage.

I was raise by a single mum and she taught that a woman should be self dependent. As good as that is if you are not careful to balance that truth, you will become a low key feminist.

When you marry late you will understand that there are many things you could do and even get better preference when you are married.

We (Women) need a man in our lives. Let me make controversial statement but truthful.

A woman job and fulfillment is truely tied to her assistant to her man’s assignment (Vision)

This is not to say that without a man you are not fulfilled but to say that there’s a level of favor you release when you come into a man’s live and that feeling is fulfilling .


Had I married by 25 by now I would be done with child labor.

My advice , look for a place in your life and struck a balance. What do you want and what’s your motivation in life and about marriage.

But take it from me, if you wait till 30 and above you will want to get it right, and that feeling of getting it right will make you choosy and years are counting. That’s when you marry for necessity and not love. That’s when you hear all man na man.

With less criticism I could share some personal experiences I had for marrying late. In respect to child bearing, marital life, career issues and financial problems not to talk of comparisons that comes with it.

Please we are all self isolating. Don’t give me BP. If you curse me I will come to your house and beat you .

Hmmm, bro sense dey inside this tin oo, u talked sense i swear.

tho na experience make u talk am sha, no b say u know am before, experience dey say is d best lecturer.

MrHandsome2013:
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sorry about that.

thanks...

OlawaleBammie:


how i wishe i have the effrontery like dem

........

OlawaleBammie:



Hmmm, bro sense dey inside this tin oo, u talked sense i swear.

tho na experience make u talk am sha, no b say u know am before, experience dey say is d best lecturer.

I’m a lady lol

saxxyb:


@vickdankal, You are very insane, a right thinking lady that is want to get married should have a source if income

Personally I don't support the idea of early marriage(20-25) for ladies because it comes with different problems such as , delay in achievement of one goals, marrying someone who isn't your mate, .not fully independent and finally not fully understanding the concept of marriage

As a lady you should also have a source of income to support you husband, don't be a liability, life is just unfair in this part of a country, very imbalance , a man will want to do everything, starting from paying exorbitant bride price

Ladies trust me men usually seek and respect women of value, if you are well to do as a lady men will come to you for marriage, no one wants to marry a liability, another reason for a lady to have a source if income is because at a time your family will need your financial help, just imagine a scenario where a girl from a family whose sibling are all girls and they all decide to be liabilities looking to all marry rich men and here is an urgent need (mama don fall sick), what will happen? Is that how you will calling your husband for every little thing, common to buy sanitary u no fit na your husband go provide, another is if a wife unfortunately lost one spouse and there is widowhood, Is that how your children will suffer?

Please girls equip yourself and add value to a man life and stop minding all those feminism movement valuable women are real women.
#my2cent

Bro u re senseless to call someone insane just cus she aired her opinion.
Someone with a good home training doesnt talk dat way.
Just apologise to her.

vickydankal:

I’m a lady lol

Hmm, see sorry jare, i just learnt a lesson from you.

vickydankal:


I wanted to throw the home training of my mum and give you the insult of your life, but nah I won’t come to your level.

Why call me insane when I’m entitled to my opinion. Can’t you intelligently air your view without throwing stones?

I believe you have understanding to know there are differences to working and pursuing career.

The first is a working class lady who earns her salary etc

The second is a working class who determined that no marriage until She is the director, PhD holder, regional manager etc this is what we call career .

I have been working years way before but starting pursuing career when I was already comfortable for marriage in every wise, and this I’m still paying for it some how.

Dont mind dat oponu, its one 19 year old jambite wey just read one motivational book.

Experience will soon sit him/her down just like every other person and soon come here to say his own HAD I KNOWN.

Its just pity we may not see his rants by den.

funmercy1:
seriously ........

Dont mind him oo, if u do u re not helping ursef oo, dont just giv ursef unnecessary hypertension.


Afterall its Que Serra Serra

psylliumhusk1:
Now

Hope say you don get the money already? That's especially if you are a man!

ThaThinka:


Hope say you don get the money already? That's especially if you are a man!

I nor fit shop sand...lol

Marry ko... marriage ni.. mtchew

fattprince:

If you afraid because of your condition, it's okay you could just have a baby. And I'm not showing you pity before you shove my pity back my ass, lol. But if you independent enough and want a guy that can give you a baby without being around, I can help with that. Though I won't like you to show another man to my baby as his father. Either show me to him or tell him his father died. Was just joking all along. Don't take a word serious except where I said I don't pity you, and that's because you make it clear you don't need pity.

You don't know me, I don't know you.
Do not attempt leveraging on my challenge to crack a joke.
Now run along.

A graduate at 24, planning for 27yrs,

Yohans:
Yes and today is my birthday.

wow hbd

vickydankal:
I’m married, if I knew what I know now I would have gotten married earlier. Maybe by 24 or 25. You see this thing called career mmmm don’t worry let me not shake this table

Abeg share ur experience/opinion on the career issue cause it might save someone

My wedding is today but no guest thanks to Corona virus

Beolly:


Your story is very similar to mine, finished service this very month same age as yours. I have a savings from service but then it's not huge enough anything. God help me the last thing on my mind though is marriage, I dare not try it

Bros, wif dat token, u cud still start smtin. I concluded my service late last year nd was able 2 save sm token too, in d cause of sustainin nd hunting 4 job, I realize I've been tamperin wif d token saved, so I quickly sort 4 a buz dat d amount left cud cover dis year, nd dat's wat I've been keepin myself busy wif since job wasn't forthcoming, av stop searching sef, except 4 online application, nd so far so gud, it's beta dan stayin idle. Just start wif dat little savings b4 it goes 4 smtin else. Dia is olwez an humble beginning, so dey say. It will only get beta by His grace.


As per dis thread, my wish is 2 get married @ 30 which supoz be next year, but wif d present situation (finance precisely), I can only hope nd pray it manifest. Wudn't rule out d possibility thou.

TheLioness:
year 2022, when I'm 27.

Nice one dear

Chi59:

You don't know me, I don't know you.
Do not attempt leveraging on my challenge to crack a joke.
Now run along.

Sorry. I'm really sorry. My apologies. Just for the records, I don't mean to offend you with your challenge

Unless Buhari daughter agrees to marry me.

Topmaike007:
wow hbd

Thank you and do have a blessed day.

Designerdollars:
forget it no "worthwhile" man will consider you for marriage at that age. Most decent guys you're likely to come across will only Bleep and dump.
You will probably have to settle with someone below you.
by the way, can you still have kids even?
I hope you're still seeing your period.
You don old oo 32!!! Chai!

Bros, easy na, biko. U r too raw nd vulgar wif ur statement. Don't be a kill joy.

Learn 2 share msg of hope 2 people, u av no idea hw far it wud go.

U myt tink it's funny, but it ain't.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCh_XG_gQoM

SyrusdeHansome:
Mine is 2022, at de age of 33

Like some already said, correctly, 2020=2022
I didn't have a budget and had no savings when I said I was getting married next year (2005) only motivated by meet meeting my fiancée in 2004.
But after fixing a date and drawing up a budget, extra income outside my salary started coming.
What gave me the confidence was a statement from my colleague that no matter what my wedding budget is, it won't be the best nor worst wedding in the history of the country.
Today belongs to you. Tomorrow might be worse than today but we only hope NOT.
See how many weddings Corona has suddenly suspended and may never hold.
If you are not a local man, use the opportunity extend your search worldwide. Use the page I earlier posted for guide. I have seen some very solid notification from their platform before.
All the best.

Yohans:
Thank you and do have a blessed day.

mine is 4 days time

CsRockefeller:




but he is the one meant to find u

Things have changed. If mountain doesn't come to Mohammed, Mohammad will go to the mountain

shammahyaro:
Next year 2021 by God's grace at 23. Even at that my parents are on my neck just because we're in the North. Left for them, I should've married since 19.

Why do I have the inspiration to tell you "Abeg don't rush!" Take your time... prayerfully and patiently. It will end in praise.