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A friend of mine is in a state of confusion from the statement he received from a lady he wooed. He said and i qoute

[i][/i]There is this lady in my hostel i developed feeling for,i made my move but the lady replied "For now, NO"
I asked her why NO for now and her response was she has no reason.

What should he do?
What does the lady mean by her statement?

She doesn't want to go into a relationship for now. So leave her let her be or ask her when she will be ready. If you want to wait till then let her know your intention and see her response.. Her response will tell you if you will wait or move on..

Oyadorf:
A friend of mine is in a state of confusion from the statement he received from a lady he wooed. He said and i qoute

[i][/i]There is this lady in my hostel i developed feeling for,i made my move but the lady replied "For now, NO"
I asked her why NO for now and her response was she has no reason.

What should he do?
What does the lady mean by her statement?

You should leave her alone. It was simple English she spoke.... But your dik hormones won't make you hear...

How are you not ready for rejection. Must she be ready because you are? Men like you are selfish. Grow up abeg.

Have you considered that she has plans and goals for her life and a relationship might be a distraction? Do you have any goal for your life that you want to bring a lady prematurely into your unsettled life?


Ladies don't say NO any how, you may not even be her type or be rich enough or she has someone else in mind. Pls respect yourself and accept her answer. You can call her proud but you need to know, that ladies make the choice, you can not force yourself on her.

Also if you are not ready for marriage then walk away. If your urgency is legit then go and pray or meet her parents and friends. Stop doing like a thief

Lol, get the fck outtA here... Who head u wan use?

Ladylite:
You should leave her alone. It was simple English she spoke.... But your dik hormones won't make you hear...

How are you not ready for rejection. Must she be ready because you are? Men like you are selfish. Grow up abeg.

Have you considered that she has plans and goals for her life and a relationship might be a distraction? Do you have any goal for your life that you want to bring a lady prematurely into your unsettled life?


Ladies don't say NO any how, you may not even be her type or be rich enough or she has someone else in mind. Pls respect yourself and accept her answer. You can call her proud but you need to know, that ladies make the choice, you can not force yourself on her.

Also if you are not ready for marriage then walk away. If your urgency is legit then go and pray or meet her parents and friends. Stop doing like a thief

Ahha...wetin happen

Hit like if you think the lady is trying to avoid coronavirus.

Reichel99:
Hit like if you think the lady is trying to avoid coronavirus.

hmmmn miss Coro sannu..Some guys just get wahala...Girl say no, e din turn puzzle for him mind

Oyadorf:
[i][/i]There is this lady in my hostel i developed feeling for

So the lady is in his hostel

Issokay.

That's clear enough but you should understand that the future could be now or you wait for the future but anyway you take, corona love no go jam you

I think she is just enjoying the cock carousel, and does not want anyone or anything to get in her way.
OR
She doesnt find him sexually attractive.

Oyadorf:
A friend of mine is in a state of confusion from the statement he received from a lady he wooed. He said and i qoute

[i][/i]There is this lady in my hostel i developed feeling for,i made my move but the lady replied "For now, NO"
I asked her why NO for now and her response was she has no reason.

What should he do?
What does the lady mean by her statement?

What is so puzzling here?

The statement is clear enough, the lady is probably in a relationship and does not want any distractions

Ladylite:
You should leave her alone. It was simple English she spoke.... But your dik hormones won't make you hear...

How are you not ready for rejection. Must she be ready because you are? Men like you are selfish. Grow up abeg.

Have you considered that she has plans and goals for her life and a relationship might be a distraction? Do you have any goal for your life that you want to bring a lady prematurely into your unsettled life?


Ladies don't say NO any how, you may not even be her type or be rich enough or she has someone else in mind. Pls respect yourself and accept her answer. You can call her proud but you need to know, that ladies make the choice, you can not force yourself on her.

Also if you are not ready for marriage then walk away. If your urgency is legit then go and pray or meet her parents and friends. Stop doing like a thief

bitchy talk, xo the guy must be rich enough to be in a relationship, dat iz why rich guys will continue fuckin dis gold digging bitches and kicking dem out with beta beating, will he be rich and settle for a low life girl. come take time oh.