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Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by kings59: 7:55am On Mar 29, 2020 |
PuZZyNegro: Na you con make sense abi? Even your advice to the Op is dangerous. Some of you like "I too know" which is really disgusting. The guy never insulted the Op, but you did to him. The difference is clear, just like someone said above. 3 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by kings59: 7:56am On Mar 29, 2020 |
KosiGee: Auto correct never do you something. "hug" vs "huge" it is somehow close. Just the "e" Na auto'C tins e fit be 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Phelixblaq(m): 8:01am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Purplekush: Most sensible way to solve this issue, kudos @purplekursh |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by kaili(f): 8:06am On Mar 29, 2020 |
She saw you guys in the act and if you don't talk to her about it as parents, she will become curious and find out herself. Sit down and have a conversation. Born20win: |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by hardbody: 8:08am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: From cut to cote you.. This covid-19 dey affect brain too? Sorry sir. |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Stillthebest: 8:08am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: Cote? Do you mean cote'd voire 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Light78: 8:10am On Mar 29, 2020 |
PuZZyNegro: So it is your own sentence construction that is right You corrected and you have also insulted him He corrected, made it simplistic and never insulted the OP. I am still reasoning why the quoted him, but never bothered to quote the OP I have just learnt something from your post. Know the type of friends you row with for you might not know what's in their mind. Immediately you read his post, first thing that came to your mind was to insult and correct so that Nairalanders would give you likes, hail you and so as to be noticed. SMHAYR 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Nobody: 8:27am On Mar 29, 2020 |
see what coronavirus had caused |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Vulcanheph(m): 8:28am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Kdon2:Dear op ......this person advice is probably the best i've read so far. |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by BoboKush(m): 8:35am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Kylekent59: Quiet nt quite 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by PuZZyNegro: 8:49am On Mar 29, 2020 |
federal9: Who cares? Did I ask for your "choosing"? WTF Abeg |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by PuZZyNegro: 8:50am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Light78: My brother, did I ask for your friendship? Do I know you? GTFOH |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by PuZZyNegro: 8:51am On Mar 29, 2020 |
kings59: Go hug Corona patient. As if I care |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by SweetCunt97(f): 8:59am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Well, what is done is done... Imagine Nigerian father, na to beat d 7 year old be him next line of action...pitiful. Personally, make the explanation a scary but matured one so she wouldn't wanna experiment with friends. |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Born20win: 9:35am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Thanks all. The door is faulty she know to always knock before entering the room because I chatted with her asking her why did she not knock before coming in, she said she heard the music in our room she tote we are dancing that why she entered to join us to dance too and I ask her what did she saw she first said nothing and I ask her again why did she run she said nothing mummy I want to go and eat she was shy to talk to me, I then sit her on my lap and was petting her so she can talk to me what she saw she then said ok mummy I tell you but don’t tell my daddy, I said ok talk she then said everything she saw us doing while we didn’t know she was standing there and when we notice she was there she had to run because she was scared of her daddy to beat her. then I told her me and her daddy was playing something only married people do and is bad for children to do and next time it will be better for her to knock. She said ok and that was all , but I notice she is Afraid of her daddy she is not talking to me much like she use to before maybe she thinks he was hurting me she is now scared of me should my husband talk to her too? |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Nobody: 9:37am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: How does one write like this?This is painful to read. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by OlawaleBammie: 11:02am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: Aaahhhh wahala deeee Omo ti mo kilonsele Omo ti gbon ju parenti looo. sangba foooo See dat pikin don sabi all, dont just try to palmoil is green in colour again, Pikin wey don dey shy, pikin wey dey swerve convo, pikin wey dey stylishly tell u say she wan go chop meaning "mummy let forget this talk" ahhhhhh Lobatan!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by OlawaleBammie: 11:07am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: A WONDERFUL PRACTICAL APPROACH TO SEX EDUCATION SXD 413 |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by pk2me: 11:31am On Mar 29, 2020 |
She actually knw what happened coz my 5 year old son always monitors my closeness with his mum. Once we are lying too close on the bed gisting, i sometimes put the TV on in order occupied his attention but he will be coming inside the room on intervals for nothing but my mind always tell me he's monitoring us. The day we were having sex while the door is locked,he came knocking and we ignored him but after the whole show, he was looking at us somehow. NB. He has never caught us having sex before. |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Elimon(m): 11:39am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Bet anything in this life...but that girl will never let go of that memory...ever! Funny thing is shell get to tell someone Talking from experience |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by OyinKris(f): 11:48am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Teach her how to knock b4 entering your room |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by pk2me: 11:48am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win:The reason why she was watching the action is to get the clear picture of what's going on. She thought both of you are fighting but since you weren't crying she was confused and thus the reason for her standing for sometime. She's a girl and won't be happy with her Dad's action but she will soon get over it. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Nobody: 11:53am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Kylekent59:you can never satisfy people,you've tried,thumbs up 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Ryda(m): 11:54am On Mar 29, 2020 |
O.P modify your post and insert caught Someone even typed titus instead of correcting her |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by frozen70(f): 11:56am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: To me ohhh, I think you have to let her know that you guys are trying to have another baby that's why she met you and dad playing Then ask her what gender she wants After that, tell her to pray for God to help you and daddy get another child Then you advise her that anytime any body wants to touch your body, run away because they have HIV AIDS sex education should be taught to these children at early age so that they know what it is about Then you guys can go to eateries and have a meal and when you cone back tell her they took her out to enjoy herself, so she should pray hard for you to have another baby I don't want to blame you for the carelessness because you must have learnt your lessons 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by frozen70(f): 12:00pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: To me ohhh, I think you have to let her know that you guys are trying to have another baby that's why she met you and dad playing Then ask her what gender she wants After that, tell her to pray for God to help you and daddy get another child Then you advise her that anytime any body wants to touch your body, run away because they have HIV AIDS sex education should be taught to these children at early age so that they know what it is about Then you guys can go to eateries and have a meal and when you cone back tell her they took her out to enjoy herself, so she should pray hard for you to have another baby I don't want to blame you for the carelessness because you must have learnt your lessons OlawaleBammie: OlawaleBammie: OlawaleBammie: OlawaleBammie: Noo ❗ ❗ ❗ She is already sacred of daddy it's normal Let your husband stay off the topic, with time she will be fine Just continue your relationship with her |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Yoyostic: 12:02pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Better sit her down and tell her the truth.Daddy and we're having sex,tell her the meaning of sex and when it's okay for her to start having sex.You see children of this age,they know more than we think.If you don't educate her now,she will take the story to her friends. |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by pek(m): 12:14pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Mods, please modify the topic, it's embarrassing. |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by OlawaleBammie: 12:18pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
frozen70: See dis Man oo, Noo kini?? make i hear. Did u know how catchy and interpretive my brain was wen i was small?? I remember asking my dad dat was is d meaning of Ojuara(VJ) just wen i was small, my dad said to me dat i shouldn't worry, i dont need to know it now and i shut up. But mind u, i knew the meaning just immediately. could u bliv i was only 5 goin to 6yrs?? hmm, sidon der oo |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by frozen70(f): 12:24pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
OlawaleBammie: If you reason well, this is a girl child not a boy child Mothers to daughters and sons in terms of sexual matters Fathers to son, in terms of sexual matters See it from that direction |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by travelland(f): 12:27pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Born20win: Sorry no contribution |
Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Mizwisdom(f): 12:39pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Just tell her what you were doing, explain to her why you were doing it and make her know only married adults are allowed. |
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