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DaddyMorenike:
I can feel the vibe in your replies. Since you wanna go back, kindly pinpoint where the op bashed ladies. Shebi you know how to nosedive like a Hot goat sniffing on rotten ass. See how she came running to the reply section. We could all tell you are frustrated so bad. Some said you're kinda like Kemi okunloyo, that's disrespectful to her. You're just a lowbudget thing of the low budget thing Im confident you are.. .

He bashed ladies because from my own point of view, GUYS cheat more in relationships but we women always forgive. Why must u guys always behave like its women that cheat more and if women cheat u guys won't forgive yen yen yen

Lol.. You're d one nosediving into people's replies like the frustrated human u are. I commented and u nosedived into my comment like a very unproductive person.. Maybe u should learn to waka pass if u see a comment u don't like instead of u looking for who to drag into the unproductive life you're living

And as for the kemi olunloyo thingy.. As far as I'm concerned she's a journalist who writes on what she hears, I'm merely stating my own point of view so how am I behaving like her? That shows you're too slow to understand. You sound like an illiterate

ImModern:
He bashed ladies because from my own point of view, GUYS cheat more in relationships but we women always forgive. Why must u guys always behave like its women that cheat more and if women cheat u guys won't forgive yen yen yen

Lol.. You're d one nosediving into people's replies like the frustrated human u are. I commented and u nosedived into my comment like a very unproductive person.. Maybe u should learn to waka pass if u see a comment u don't like instead of u looking for who to drag into the unproductive life you're living

And as for the kemi olunloyo thingy.. As far as I'm concerned she's a journalist who writes on what she hears, I'm merely stating my own point of view so how am I behaving like her? That shows you're too slow to understand. You sound like an illiterate

why I dey follow this buzzzu argue since. You can't even pinpoint just a word or a line I swear you're frustrated and I'm sorry for adding to it. Ain't replying you again.

DaddyMorenike:
why I dey follow this buzzzu argue since. You can't even pinpoint just a word or a line I swear you're frustrated and I'm sorry for adding to it. Ain't replying you again.

Why are u running. Come back let's argue
Why must I pinpoint a word or line. I summarized what d op said and you're here saying I should pinpoint. Ode like you

You're the he-goat that is frustrated. Rushing into people's comment and insulting them shows you're very frustrated

ImModern:
Who men EPP sef

You guys like forming messiah. Well point of correction, the only thing we women need u guys for is for procreation. Aside that u guys are just useless, prideful, egoistic poachers looking for where to spill your rotten akamu's

Dogs!!

we are on earth before u came, we know so many things than u do, besides u were taken from us. That's why a lady cries when she has grown breast if no man told her he loves her. Then as she grows she is having no man to call her own. And after having kids now divorced she can't stay alone for long she must seek a companion that will deliver dicking pleasure.
WOMEN CANT DO without Men.
Ask single mums with all their wealth they still cry for a man. That's when they fall into the hand of sugar boiz or fvck boiz
So upgrade ur orientation.

zexy2030:
we are on earth before u came, we know so many things than u do, besides u were taken from us. That's why a lady cries when she has grown breast if no man told her he loves her. Then as she grows she is having no man to call her own. And after having kids now divorced she can't stay alone for long she must seek a companion that will deliver dicking pleasure.
WOMEN CANT DO without Men.
Ask single mums with all their wealth they still cry for a man. That's when they fall into the hand of sugar boiz or fvck boiz
So upgrade ur orientation.

If a man is still thinking like this in this 21st century then that shows our level of illiteracy in Nigeria

ImModern:
If a man is still thinking like this in this 21st century then that shows our level of illiteracy in Nigeria

my love I will guess ur age to be a teen..u don't know why u r created....not just for procreation
...that's ur limited understanding... u have been brainwashed... when u meet ur man...definitely will complement ur lacks...u r not grown...so u don't need so much time...u would have turned 30 before u begin to understand... some feminist aunties wu hates u latently have brainwashed u..u better b urself, free urself and seek ur type of man...u need a man for too many things not just sex my dear. Go out and let ur man find u.
The mistake u make is that some of u r too quick to give sex, because ur hormones r ravaging.

BigJoe19:
This is obviously MZrapper, guys stop arguing with this woman, she is seriously insane just like kemi olunloyo.

Mzrapper kee you there.
Oloshi.

ImModern:
Who men EPP sef

You guys like forming messiah. Well point of correction, the only thing we women need u guys for is for procreation. Aside that u guys are just useless, prideful, egoistic poachers looking for where to spill your rotten akamu's

Dogs!!

The rotten akamu which you need. Reading through your senseless post I came to understand that you are a wanna be Western feminist forgetting all what you wrote there applies also to your father, brothers and your sons also.

iClef:
Okay, alpha.

boss to me alpha male is synonyms to a lie and also a job....

I am just naturally rude and unkind to the opposite gender.
The irony about it is that they still love me... Atimes I wish I wasn't like this, I wish I was different but on a second thought.... I think I am misogynistic

A new day


2 grown up people bashing themselves in social media



So sick?

BigJoe19:
This is obviously MZrapper, guys stop arguing with this woman, she is seriously insane just like kemi olunloyo.

I was beginning to see the pattern, just waiting for someone to say it

AeroplaneApple:
boss to me alpha male is synonyms to a lie and also a job....

I am just naturally rude and unkind to the opposite gender.
The irony about it is that they still love me... Atimes I wish I wasn't like this, I wish I was different but on a second thought.... I think I am misogynistic

Okay.

ImModern:
He bashed ladies because from my own point of view, GUYS cheat more in relationships but we women always forgive. Why must u guys always behave like its women that cheat more and if women cheat u guys won't forgive yen yen yen

Lol.. You're d one nosediving into people's replies like the frustrated human u are. I commented and u nosedived into my comment like a very unproductive person.. Maybe u should learn to waka pass if u see a comment u don't like instead of u looking for who to drag into the unproductive life you're living

And as for the kemi olunloyo thingy.. As far as I'm concerned she's a journalist who writes on what she hears, I'm merely stating my own point of view so how am I behaving like her? That shows you're too slow to understand. You sound like an illiterate

Whether u agree or not what the Op said is the actual truth.. Matter of fact he just told women a secret truth that nothing can and will ever change. Most men including myself can forgive anything but a cheating partner. It doesn't go well at all. No be fight. Na just the way e be , u either accept it or not. No need throwing insults at every one pls ahh??

ImModern:
Mumu. You're d one deceiving yourself because I opened an account and u carried your useless self to my mention to say I'm another person

You sound slow

This girl is really mad
You must be the product of a crazy union

You're too unlucky to be this angry with guys.

There's alot to enjoy when you let go of the hate

We're all same people and we need each other

Sorry for the insult though you truly deserve it

You better face the guy that broke your heart and stop saying trash here.

ImModern:
Who men EPP sef

You guys like forming messiah. Well point of correction, the only thing we women need u guys for is for procreation. Aside that u guys are just useless, prideful, egoistic poachers looking for where to spill your rotten akamu's

Dogs!!

ImModern:
Who men EPP sef

You guys like forming messiah. Well point of correction, the only thing we women need u guys for is for procreation. Aside that u guys are just useless, prideful, egoistic poachers looking for where to spill your rotten akamu's

Dogs!!

you sound like someone who kpekus has been damaged by multiple dicks... hahahahahahahahahaha

ImModern:
Lol.. You're the one frustrated oga. Since the op wrote a post bashing girls when himself isn't a saint and I replied, u jumped on my mention. Why

You for carry your frustrated, unproductive life go comment your own.. I swear, I know you're a father but u sound like a kid.. Go to school son

babe calm down, This attitude will get you no where...

have u seen any woman respects a man who forgives her when she cheats on him?
she will use it to mock the man and still sleep with the same man she cheated on with her boyfriend
better u end such a relationship with a girl and earn ur self respect before she turn u to cuckhold
though i know men with low self esteem will disagree and hence thats why their girlfriends and wives look down on them
if u have a girlfriend who cheats on u instead of u to force her to change leading to quarrel or forgive its best u forgive her but then still break up with her.dont beat her because she cheated..just break up with her and tell its over and u both walk ur opposite ways.its that simple.

iClef:
I wanted to yell at you, but I'm not that kind of person.

Let me tell you something and please, tell it to all women. "Men and women are different."

Starting from the day a man speaks with you, never you cheat on him. Men don't forgive cheating and NEVER will — it's our pride. If they say they have forgiven you, trust me, they are pretending.

Even if you carry Jesus along to come apologize to a man after cheating on him, he will not forgive you. For the sake of God, he will say he has forgiven you and starts acting normal for months or years or even marry you, but dear, he has not forgiven you.

One day, the marriage will crash with just a minor misunderstanding, but the underlying truth is: your cheating when the two of you were dating caused it.

After a woman has cheated, she should know no amount of tears or plea can make a man forgive her, but the man will pretend to have forgiven her.

Even if you forget everything I have told you above, don't forget "Men DON'T forgive women who cheated on them, but they'll pretend to have."

After a woman has cheated on a man, she should end the relationship IMMEDIATELY because it has already ended even though they are still having sex with each other and professing how much they love each other.

In the guy's mind, he is single and you're his f*ck buddy. One day, it will be finally made official when you'll see his new girl or hear he has wedded another women when you traveled to see your parents or someone.

At the end, you'll either start from scratch, commit suicide, or try to ruin his marriage.

Men are not fools, so women shouldn't be fooled after cheating on a man.

If you cheat on me, even Jesus can't make me forgive you, though, I'll still keep you as a friend and pretend to have forgiven you.

Telling a man to forgive a woman who cheated on him equals to telling him "you're an idiót." No real man wants to be an idiót — except being an idîot is hereditary to him.

A woman sees sex as "just sex and fun," but the original man of that woman sees it as DISRESPECT, DISREGARD, AND LACK OF FEAR FOR HIM. How will you feel if your child has no fear and respect for you as a woman? The same way you feel is how a man who has been cheated on feels.

Show me one man who wants his woman to disrespect, disregard, and don't have fear of him and I'll show you a weak man who will die early during marriage — which the death is caused by the women.

High BP and depression awaits any man who forgives a cheating woman or a nagging woman.

Two things a woman should NEVER do to someone like me is cheat or nag. Your beauty, money, intelligence, Godly pretentious behavior, fat ass, big breast, etc. won't save you.

So, I'm angry with you for saying he should forgive her. Men don't forgive a woman who has cheated on them, but men will always pretend to have forgiven.

Though, weak men with low self-esteem and are poverty-stricken who can't get another woman will forgive. When this same weak man becomes rich, he will remember how you cheated on him years ago and divorce you, starts sleeping with small girls or a get a second wife. You'll be in his house, but like a slave. You won't know where his anger is coming from.

Na that time you go tell your pastor to come counsel the two of you. After several attempts by the pastor to make you people become one happy family again to no avail, you too will start sleeping with the pastor and one day the pastor will be caught.

At the end, the cheating you did in your 20s to your boyfriend, now husband, has crashed your marriage, your pastor's marriage, and the image of the Church.

You see? So don't cheat on your boyfriend and if you accidentally cheat, end the relationship because the wrath awaits you in the future if you continue.

One woman's cheating habit can break a nation. A cheat never changes even though he/she vowed to have changed — it's just a word or fake remorse. No be today yash dey for back.

A word is enough and I speak from wisdom bestowed on me from above and from experience.

Thank you and all the best.


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Extra Info:

Here is the guy's thread https://www.nairaland.com/5763822/girlfriend-confesses-how-ex-force

Here is the post I wanted to recommend for him to read before I saw that advice that got me angry. https://www.nairaland.com/5698470/how-know-wife-cheat-even

So so true.. Experience is costly but you nailed it.

MZrapper:
Mzrapper kee you there.
Oloshi.

We know you are frustrated

iClef:
I wanted to yell at you, but I'm not that kind of person.

Let me tell you something and please, tell it to all women. "Men and women are different."

Starting from the day a man speaks with you, never you cheat on him. Men don't forgive cheating and NEVER will — it's our pride. If they say they have forgiven you, trust me, they are pretending.

Even if you carry Jesus along to come apologize to a man after cheating on him, he will not forgive you. For the sake of God, he will say he has forgiven you and starts acting normal for months or years or even marry you, but dear, he has not forgiven you.

One day, the marriage will crash with just a minor misunderstanding, but the underlying truth is: your cheating when the two of you were dating caused it.

After a woman has cheated, she should know no amount of tears or plea can make a man forgive her, but the man will pretend to have forgiven her.

Even if you forget everything I have told you above, don't forget "Men DON'T forgive women who cheated on them, but they'll pretend to have."

After a woman has cheated on a man, she should end the relationship IMMEDIATELY because it has already ended even though they are still having sex with each other and professing how much they love each other.

In the guy's mind, he is single and you're his f*ck buddy. One day, it will be finally made official when you'll see his new girl or hear he has wedded another women when you traveled to see your parents or someone.

At the end, you'll either start from scratch, commit suicide, or try to ruin his marriage.

Men are not fools, so women shouldn't be fooled after cheating on a man.

If you cheat on me, even Jesus can't make me forgive you, though, I'll still keep you as a friend and pretend to have forgiven you.

Telling a man to forgive a woman who cheated on him equals to telling him "you're an idiót." No real man wants to be an idiót — except being an idîot is hereditary to him.

A woman sees sex as "just sex and fun," but the original man of that woman sees it as DISRESPECT, DISREGARD, AND LACK OF FEAR FOR HIM. How will you feel if your child has no fear and respect for you as a woman? The same way you feel is how a man who has been cheated on feels.

Show me one man who wants his woman to disrespect, disregard, and don't have fear of him and I'll show you a weak man who will die early during marriage — which the death is caused by the women.

High BP and depression awaits any man who forgives a cheating woman or a nagging woman.

Two things a woman should NEVER do to someone like me is cheat or nag. Your beauty, money, intelligence, Godly pretentious behavior, fat ass, big breast, etc. won't save you.

So, I'm angry with you for saying he should forgive her. Men don't forgive a woman who has cheated on them, but men will always pretend to have forgiven.

Though, weak men with low self-esteem and are poverty-stricken who can't get another woman will forgive. When this same weak man becomes rich, he will remember how you cheated on him years ago and divorce you, starts sleeping with small girls or a get a second wife. You'll be in his house, but like a slave. You won't know where his anger is coming from.

Na that time you go tell your pastor to come counsel the two of you. After several attempts by the pastor to make you people become one happy family again to no avail, you too will start sleeping with the pastor and one day the pastor will be caught.

At the end, the cheating you did in your 20s to your boyfriend, now husband, has crashed your marriage, your pastor's marriage, and the image of the Church.

You see? So don't cheat on your boyfriend and if you accidentally cheat, end the relationship because the wrath awaits you in the future if you continue.

One woman's cheating habit can break a nation. A cheat never changes even though he/she vowed to have changed — it's just a word or fake remorse. No be today yash dey for back.

A word is enough and I speak from wisdom bestowed on me from above and from experience.

Thank you and all the best.


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Extra Info:

Here is the guy's thread https://www.nairaland.com/5763822/girlfriend-confesses-how-ex-force

Here is the post I wanted to recommend for him to read before I saw that advice that got me angry. https://www.nairaland.com/5698470/how-know-wife-cheat-even

you dey write o . Nice post sha

But if women can forgive Men while should men not same. That is just been stereotypic.

Men who wouldn’t forgive people because she cheated should be ready to carry same cross when they do same. Our society has advance beyond those archaic way of doing things, although Africa is lagging behind seriously.

stanliwise:
you dey write o . Nice post sha

But if women can forgive Men while should men not same. That is just been stereotypic.

Men who wouldn’t forgive people because she cheated should be ready to carry same cross when they do same. Our society has advance beyond those archaic way of doing things, although Africa is lagging behind seriously.

Nice reply. Some archaic things are meant to be that way forever.

A man can pull his shirt on TV and no one will complain, but a woman can't do that. That's archaic, but it's good.

A woman can wear trouser and everyone will ignore, but a man wearing skirt will make people talk. That's archaic, but it's good.

A woman can apply makeup and no one will complain, but if a man does it, (Bobrisky) everyone will complain. That's archaic, but it's good.

There are things women shouldn't do and one of them is cheating on her man.

There are things men shouldn't do and one of them is physically abusing a woman.

What Africa needs is technology and a functional law, not African men being cheated on and labeling those men who hate being hated on "archaic" for not forgiving a cheating wife or girlfriend because she said she won't do it again.

Men forgive people, but they don't forgive a woman who cheated. Will you forgive your woman if she cheated on you three times? Yes or no?

iClef:
Nice reply. Some archaic things are meant to be that way forever.

A man can pull his shirt on TV and no one will complain, but a woman can't do that. That's archaic, but it's good.

A woman can wear trouser and everyone will ignore, but a man wearing skirt will make people talk. That's archaic, but it's good.

A woman can apply makeup and no one will complain, but if a man does it, (Bobrisky) everyone will complain. That's archaic, but it's good.

There are things women shouldn't do and one of them is cheating on her man.

There are things men shouldn't do and one of them is physically abusing a woman.

What Africa needs is technology and a functional law, not African men being cheated on and labeling those men who hate being hated on "archaic" for not forgiving a cheating wife or girlfriend because she said she won't do it again.

Men forgive people, but they don't forgive a woman who cheated. Will you forgive your woman if she cheated on you three times? Yes or no?

I didn’t say them not forgiving their spouse when she cheat on them is bad, I am saying they should be ready to carry same cross when they cheat on their own spouse.
Ofcourse a man is not a woman and woman isn’t a man but there are some things that shouldn’t change between us based on our gender and those things should be how we respect each other. Beautiful people(I mean beautiful to mean Good) should be respected no matter what gender and bad people should not. If a woman is on her right she should not be cheated on so as a man.
Stay safe

stanliwise:
I didn’t say them not forgiving their spouse when she cheat on them is bad, I am saying they should be ready to carry same cross when they cheat on their own spouse.
Ofcourse a man is not a woman and woman isn’t a man but there are some things that shouldn’t change between us based on our gender and those things should be how we respect each other. Beautiful people(I mean beautiful to mean Good) should be respected no matter what gender and bad people should not. If a woman is on her right she should not be cheated on so as a man.
Stay safe

Now I get you. At first, I thought you meant a man should just forgive and continue the relationship, else he is archaic. Yes, what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

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ImModern:
Who men EPP sef

You guys like forming messiah. Well point of correction, the only thing we women need u guys for is for procreation. Aside that u guys are just useless, prideful, egoistic poachers looking for where to spill your rotten akamu's

Dogs!!

Ur Head!!!! Check it up some screws are missing. (Bookings:::Shrink).

Jokes apart...