Good evening everyone... lemme go straight....
(pardon my typos)
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There is a friend of mine,we met in school infact he's my course mate, but we were not as close as this when we were in 100lv , but as we were entering higher levels we started relating better.
I never had the thought of him being gay but when he started doing some creeping things,i started having doubts in my mind....
Could you believe this guy has gay porn on his phone ....he even had the audacity to ask me to come and watch i just turned a deaf ear.
Sometimes if am talking to him about relationship matters like my girlfriend lying to me he will just tell me:na u no dey 4lo girls.
To the extent he told me that i shouldn't trust girls when i have guys. Can you imagine?...
He also likes complementing me and am not comfortable with that...
But on his good side this guy dey dash me money pass my uncle .......
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But am fed up with the friendship i don't know if i should end it or help him be straight that's if it's possible...
Please i need advices

Why don't you just go into a relationship with him.

You could do both worlds or, don't you just like exploring.


In all things, marry your friend and not a wife.

Advise him to talk to a psychologist maybe that could help. To stop being friends with him shouldn't be hard na. Just avoid him and he will get your message.

Oga, if he isn't asking for help, bro do well to protect urself by cutting all form of communication/relationship/contacts. Never play with a snake that can bite U tomorrow.

On a norms
Advice
If he no gree
Japaaaaaaaaa
Except u can............ Cuz of money

CoronaVirusPro:
Why don't you just go into a relationship with him.

You could do both worlds or, don't you just like exploring.


In all things, marry your friend and not a wife.

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your opinion is not needed

Be careful not to be influenced by him. you can advise him but Pray more for him as they hardly change.

He is a ritualist. Avoid him like plague. He is going to use u once you succumbe to his advances.

Oga, let him be.

Never try to change someone's sexuality.

The way you don't like him showing you gay stuff is the same way he wouldn't want you condeming his sexuality.

Cut him off completely.

Na wa oh. This thing will be on the rise.

I don't believe people are born gay, they are programmed via movies, porn, TV etc. the things they see, to think it's normal. We are getting to the time, it will be seen as normal, God help us.

Op, I believe you know what to do.

Oga, stop looking for advice. Follow your head.

Queer friends are the sweetest ever. They've got a heart of gold and would be willing to do anything for you.

CoronaVirusPro:
Why don't you just go into a relationship with him.

You could do both worlds or, don't you just like exploring.


In all things, marry your friend and not a wife.

u are crazy man , lol

CoronaVirusPro:
Why don't you just go into a relationship with him.

You could do both worlds or, don't you just like exploring.


In all things, marry your friend and not a wife.

Nice words man.

Hey nigga, gays are very unhappy people.. You know? I wish y'all could feel 'em in their hearts... I'm a straight nigga, but I got pack of 'em gays; blackeys, whiteys. I swear, they make good friends. Be vigilant! Cover your butt always! Ha ha

osaskywire:
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your opinion is not needed

lol. The guy was advising you na which was what you wanted. Why are you telling him off.
Anyway, my advice for you is if your friend is of good character, not selfish, ACADEMICALLY SOUND which is the number one thing that brought you to school, then he is not a bad person. Stick with him. So long you don't indulge in the act or has he raped you? Sexual orientation differs yes! Only let him know your standards. That's all. Don't carry him along in your relationship stories as he's not even interested. Keep that to yourself and focus on other aspects of your relationship with him. Good friends I know are hard to come by and sexual orientation is not a wise basis for rejecting a good friend so long you make your boundaries and make them well known with love pls. It's his orientation, it's his life. Mind your business but state your boundaries. And last of all, don't ever gossip him. If you do, life is like a cycle. One day you'll need him and the gossip you have done would give you zero (0) esteem before him as your conscience would have pricked you and trust me, you must have had a broader view about life and then seriuosly regret your actions. You can be caught doing anything in life but please no matter what, never be caught GOSSIPING. it destroys reputation faster than fornication/Adultery and even theft. Yes theft! I know why im saying this (gossip) cos I sense that will be your next action. (Don't even gossip your lecturers as this can put you in trouble). No matter what always be the good friend. It gives you a free conscience. Avoid the "Had-i-knows" please. Some of us have learnt our mistakes and learnt them in tears. Use brain in everything. Ignore what some nairalanders would tell you. They are only kids and don't know life (Talk about people who rely on their parents, guardians etc. for data) God bless

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CoronaVirusPro:
Why don't you just go into a relationship with him.

You could do both worlds or, don't you just like exploring.


In all things, marry your friend and not a wife.

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pbreturned:
lol. The guy was advising you na which was what you wanted. Why are you telling him off.
Anyway, my advice for you is if your friend is of good character, not selfish, ACADEMICALLY SOUND which is the number one thing that brought you to school, then he is not a bad person. Stick with him. So long you don't indulge in the act or has he raped you? Sexual orientation differs yes! Only let him know your standards. That's all. Don't carry him along in your relationship stories as he's not even interested. Keep that to yourself and focus on other aspects of your relationship with him. Good friends I know are hard to come by and sexual orientation is not a wise basis for rejecting a good friend so long you make your boundaries and make them well known with love pls. It's his orientation, it's his life. Mind your business but state your boundaries. And last of all, don't ever gossip him. If you do, life is like a cycle. One day you'll need him and the gossip you have done would give you zero (0) esteem before him as your conscience would have pricked you and trust me, you must have had a broader view about life and then seriuosly regret your actions. You can be caught doing anything in life but please no matter what, never be caught GOSSIPING. it destroys reputation faster than fornication/Adultery and even theft. Yes theft! I know why im saying this (gossip) cos I sense that will be your next action. (Don't even gossip your lecturers as this can put you in trouble). No matter what always be the good friend. It gives you a free conscience. Avoid the "Had-i-knows" please. Some of us have learnt our mistakes and learnt them in tears. Use brain in everything. Ignore what some nairalanders would tell you. They are only kids and don't know life (Talk about people who rely on their parents, guardians etc. for data) God bless

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thank you sir ... this will really go a long way ...

osaskywire:
Good evening everyone... lemme go straight....
(pardon my typos)
.
There is a friend of mine,we met in school infact he's my course mate, but we were not as close as this when we were in 100lv , but as we were entering higher levels we started relating better.
I never had the thought of him being gay but when he started doing some creeping things,i started having doubts in my mind....
Could you believe this guy has gay porn on his phone ....he even had the audacity to ask me to come and watch i just turned a deaf ear.
Sometimes if am talking to him about relationship matters like my girlfriend lying to me he will just tell me:na u no dey 4lo girls.
To the extent he told me that i shouldn't trust girls when i have guys. Can you imagine?...
He also likes complementing me and am not comfortable with that...
But on his good side this guy dey dash me money pass my uncle .......
.
But am fed up with the friendship i don't know if i should end it or help him be straight that's if it's possible...
Please i need advices

He's gay. You're straight. As friends, you have to accept each other's sexuality, or it's not a well-grounded friendship.
While I do not know either of you, it sounds like he is giving you money to keep you around and liking him...and you are accepting the money because you like money...and that is not a good grounding for friendship, either.

faithfull18:
Na wa oh. This thing will be on the rise.

I don't believe people are born gay, they are programmed via movies, porn, TV etc. the things they see, to think it's normal. We are getting to the time, it will be seen as normal, God help us.

Op, I believe you know what to do.

I think most people re... My ex girlfriend told me she is bisexual.. That no matter the size of a d*ck... If she hasn't been touched by a lady.. That her sexual desires haven't been satisfied... Nd it all started at her tender age....

Until u wake up one day and discover semen in your anus hahaha

NiCurious:


He's gay. You're straight. As friends, you have to accept each other's sexuality, or it's not a well-grounded friendship.
While I do not know either of you, it sounds like he is giving you money to keep you around and liking him...and you are accepting the money because you like money...and that is not a good grounding for friendship, either.

I like this. This may be the case. But whatever it is, he should use wisdom. Wisdom is very profitable to direct you know. Good contribution!!!

Lipslikecandy11:



I think most people re... My ex girlfriend told me she is bisexual.. That no matter the size of a d*ck... If she hasn't been touched by a lady.. That her sexual desires haven't been satisfied... Nd it all started at her tender age....

It's nature bro. And people are becoming aware and coming to the acceptance of this too. I love her honesty and transparency! And relationships BUILT on transparency never suffers. (For the matured minded though)

The money when he de give you na to lure you enter trap. That's the way they are. They give to their prey.

osaskywire:
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thank you sir ... this will really go a long way ...

Use wisdom in all things brother and face your studies too. That's the number one thing that brought you to school.

14 years

osaskywire:
Good evening everyone... lemme go straight....
(pardon my typos)
.
There is a friend of mine,we met in school infact he's my course mate, but we were not as close as this when we were in 100lv , but as we were entering higher levels we started relating better.
I never had the thought of him being gay but when he started doing some creeping things,i started having doubts in my mind....
Could you believe this guy has gay porn on his phone ....he even had the audacity to ask me to come and watch i just turned a deaf ear.
Sometimes if am talking to him about relationship matters like my girlfriend lying to me he will just tell me:na u no dey 4lo girls.
To the extent he told me that i shouldn't trust girls when i have guys. Can you imagine?...
He also likes complementing me and am not comfortable with that...
But on his good side this guy dey dash me money pass my uncle .......
.
But am fed up with the friendship i don't know if i should end it or help him be straight that's if it's possible...
Please i need advices

For the single fact that he dashes you money

Withdraw from him

He will definitely get you into his act

Just stylishly withdraw and stop accepting gift from him

'He dashes you money more than your uncle' is not enough for you to start using diapers after he must have been done with you.

My widow's mite......*JAPAA*

osaskywire:
Good evening everyone... lemme go straight....
(pardon my typos)
.
There is a friend of mine,we met in school infact he's my course mate, but we were not as close as this when we were in 100lv , but as we were entering higher levels we started relating better.
I never had the thought of him being gay but when he started doing some creeping things,i started having doubts in my mind....
Could you believe this guy has gay porn on his phone ....he even had the audacity to ask me to come and watch i just turned a deaf ear.
Sometimes if am talking to him about relationship matters like my girlfriend lying to me he will just tell me:na u no dey 4lo girls.
To the extent he told me that i shouldn't trust girls when i have guys. Can you imagine?...
He also likes complementing me and am not comfortable with that...
But on his good side this guy dey dash me money pass my uncle .......
.
But am fed up with the friendship i don't know if i should end it or help him be straight that's if it's possible...
Please i need advices

Dash you money abi? You better run...

Lipslikecandy11:



I think most people re... My ex girlfriend told me she is bisexual.. That no matter the size of a d*ck... If she hasn't been touched by a lady.. That her sexual desires haven't been satisfied... Nd it all started at her tender age....

Can u connect me with her please? I love bi ladies like mad!!!

He gives you money more than your uncle, and you keep taking the money.
When it's time to submit your yansh, better do so sharp sharp and with immediate alacrity.
Brhoe, there is no free lunch in free town .
You must vomit all you've swallowed, otherwise be ready to swallow

Vega100:

Can u connect me with her please? I love bi ladies like mad!!!

Bro.. Seem like ure in ma thought..!! Wan tyme i tried to persuade her for a 3some buh she told me her partner is into ladies alone..

At this age, you can be friends with a gay, bi, trans, and dogs, without having issues. Friendship is the same, irrespective of each individual's sexuality.

The only prerequisite for a healthy friendship is for both parties to feel comfortable with each other's orientation, without being an ass.

The only thing I don't like is, being friend with a queer and he tries to lure me into doing shits. I would count him or her as irresponsible and cut off the tier. Unless perhaps I want to experiment, then advances become welcomed.