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Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Apr 01, 2020
GboyegaD:
Advise him to talk to a psychologist maybe that could help. To stop being friends with him shouldn't be hard na. Just avoid him and he will get your message.
Some of these psychologists are terrible o.
What if he meets one who's a closeted gay?

He should help his friend by turning him in to the authorities lol.
I'm joking, but he should save his head first instead of trying to solve the puzzle on helping the friend.
I think the money he receives is still holding him back Sha.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by GboyegaD(m): 1:28pm On Apr 01, 2020
kingkakaone:

Some of these psychologists are terrible o.
What if he meets one who's a closeted gay?


He should help his friend by turning him in to the authorities lol.
I'm joking, but he should save his head first instead of trying to solve the puzzle on helping the friend.
I think the money he receives is still holding him back Sha.

There are professional ethics and I wouldn't expect he brings his personal life into his profession.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Apr 01, 2020
GboyegaD:


There are professional ethics and I wouldn't expect he brings his personal life into his profession.
Bro, I know of how one who was depressed pushed a client of her to almost commit suicide.

You are right but some can be very terrible.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:21pm On Apr 01, 2020
faithfull18:
Na wa oh. This thing will be on the rise.

I don't believe people are born gay, they are programmed via movies, porn, TV etc
. the things they see, to think it's normal. We are getting to the time, it will be seen as normal, God help us.

Op, I believe you know what to do.

Yup. The way people in Sodom and Gomorrah were conditioned through mags, movies and pornography, right?
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:23pm On Apr 01, 2020
kingkakaone:

Bro, I know of how one who was depressed pushed a client of her to almost commit suicide.

You are right but some can be very terrible.

Wow, scary.

What'll happen when the person meant to provide help needs help?
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:27pm On Apr 01, 2020
GboyegaD:
Advise him to talk to a psychologist maybe that could help. To stop being friends with him shouldn't be hard na. Just avoid him and he will get your message.

'Conversion therapy' doesn't work, I've heard.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:31pm On Apr 01, 2020
FuckHomophobes:
Oga, stop looking for advice. Follow your head.

Queer friends are the sweetest ever. They've got a heart of gold and would be willing to do anything for you.

smiley They are some of the most interesting people I've met. Intelligent. Analytical. Nonconformist. Oh, and verry creative, too.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 4:36pm On Apr 01, 2020
Magnoliaa:


smiley They are some of the most interesting people I've met. Intelligent. Analytical. Nonconformist. Oh, and verry creative, too.


Hey God. See me blushing hard. Thanks for this wink smiley grin cheesy

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Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by faithfull18(f): 5:45pm On Apr 01, 2020
Magnoliaa:


Yup. The way people in Sodom and Gomorrah were conditioned through mags, movies and pornography, right?
For this generation, partly. There are a lot of factors though, I only mentioned a few, left out some for reasons best known to me.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Apr 01, 2020
Magnoliaa:


Wow, scary.

What'll happen when the person meant to provide help needs help?
It's scary.
Some of these people are going through hell, some can work through it while others can't.

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Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by finalboss(m): 9:18pm On Apr 01, 2020
CoronaVirusPro:
Why don't you just go into a relationship with him.

You could do both worlds or, don't you just like exploring.


In all things, marry your friend and not a wife.
which kind talk be this grin grin grin grin
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by BeLookingIDIOT(m): 4:35am On Apr 02, 2020
HenryDion:
At this age, you can be friends with a gay, bi, trans, and dogs, without having issues. Friendship is the same, irrespective of each individual's sexuality.

The only prerequisite for a healthy friendship is for both parties to feel comfortable with each other's orientation, without being an ass.

The only thing I don't like is, being friend with a queer and he tries to lure me into doing shits. I would count him or her as irresponsible and cut off the tier. Unless perhaps I want to experiment, then advances become welcomed.

You want to experiment wetin sad
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Nobody: 11:03am On Apr 02, 2020
BeLookingIDIOT:

You want to experiment wetin sad

You're obviously quoting me because you have such a fantasy. Get the right person and you won't regret it.

Thank You!
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by RedEagle: 11:42am On Apr 02, 2020
osaskywire:
Good evening everyone... lemme go straight....
(pardon my typos)
.
There is a friend of mine,we met in school infact he's my course mate, but we were not as close as this when we were in 100lv , but as we were entering higher levels we started relating better.
I never had the thought of him being gay but when he started doing some creeping things,i started having doubts in my mind....
Could you believe this guy has gay porn on his phone ....he even had the audacity to ask me to come and watch i just turned a deaf ear.
Sometimes if am talking to him about relationship matters like my girlfriend lying to me he will just tell me:na u no dey 4lo girls.
To the extent he told me that i shouldn't trust girls when i have guys. Can you imagine?...
He also likes complementing me and am not comfortable with that...
But on his good side this guy dey dash me money pass my uncle .......
.
But am fed up with the friendship i don't know if i should end it or help him be straight that's if it's possible...
Please i need advices

Don't try to help anyone be straight.

You can tell him clearly that you aren't open to his advances and he should please mind boundaries around you, if he doesn't it is ok to give him some distance.

If he learns to mind his boundaries, then no issues. Let him be gay and stop trying to convert him and enjoy the other parts of your friendship.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 12:03pm On Apr 02, 2020
HenryDion:


You're obviously quoting me because you have such a fantasy. Get the right person and you won't regret it.

Thank You!


Hehehe grin
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by BeLookingIDIOT(m): 11:03pm On Apr 02, 2020
HenryDion:


You're obviously quoting me because you have such a fantasy. Get the right person and you won't regret it.

Thank You!
So I shouldn't be surprised that you can contemplate experimenting whatever on your fellow man...and you're not queer
You also think quoting you implies I have a fantasy of choking on your d*ck lipsrsealed
You obviously wrote this because you have such a fantasy.Get the right person to gag on your D and you won't regret it cheesy

Thank You!
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Apr 02, 2020
BeLookingIDIOT:

So I shouldn't be surprised that you can contemplate experimenting whatever on your fellow man...and you're not queer
You also think quoting you implies I have a fantasy of choking on your d*ck lipsrsealed
You obviously wrote this because you have such a fantasy.Get the right person to gag on your D and you won't regret it cheesy

Thank You!

Psychology suggests that homophobes are most likely to be closet gays battling with internalized homophobia.

And based on the checklist, you succeeded in ticking all the boxes.

Stop exposing yourself further young man, you are an open book. You have fantasies, and you're trying to project such toward me in an attempt to save your di*k. Unfortunately, it dropped!
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Frankicent(m): 11:26pm On Apr 02, 2020
Nawa for you oo. Why you dey complain? He hasn't done any brutal. He still dey give you money.. Eh play along but use your head make he no go rape your N@sh..


Gimme him number make I turn am to client.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 11:35pm On Apr 02, 2020
Frankicent:
Nawa for you oo. Why you dey complain? He hasn't done any brutal. He still dey give you money.. Eh play along but use your head make he no go rape your N@sh..


Gimme him number make I turn am to client.

Sharp guy grin grin
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Bigbutter1(m): 6:15pm On Apr 04, 2020
osaskywire:
Good evening everyone... lemme go straight....
(pardon my typos)
.
There is a friend of mine,we met in school infact he's my course mate, but we were not as close as this when we were in 100lv , but as we were entering higher levels we started relating better.
I never had the thought of him being gay but when he started doing some creeping things,i started having doubts in my mind....
Could you believe this guy has gay porn on his phone ....he even had the audacity to ask me to come and watch i just turned a deaf ear.
Sometimes if am talking to him about relationship matters like my girlfriend lying to me he will just tell me:na u no dey 4lo girls.
To the extent he told me that i shouldn't trust girls when i have guys. Can you imagine?...
He also likes complementing me and am not comfortable with that...
But on his good side this guy dey dash me money pass my uncle .......
.
But am fed up with the friendship i don't know if i should end it or help him be straight that's if it's possible...
Please i need advices
Please give me his number
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by ehmmy11(m): 6:44pm On Apr 04, 2020
So the homos are getting bolder... Kindly avoid him like a plague
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 6:51pm On Apr 04, 2020
ehmmy11:
So the homos are getting bolder... Kindly avoid him like a plague

Plague kor, award ni. Check that person closest to you, he's queer grin
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Stacyomolola(f): 7:52pm On Apr 04, 2020
Germi9:
Until u wake up one day and discover semen in your anus hahaha
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by ehmmy11(m): 7:59pm On Apr 04, 2020
FuckHomophobes:


Plague kor, award ni. Check that person closest to you, he's queer grin
you homos have this delusion that you out number the heterosexuals... Repent now that you still can
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 12:33pm On Apr 05, 2020
ehmmy11:
you homos have this delusion that you out number the heterosexuals... Repent now that you still can

Hehehe, oga if you're not careful your closest friend will do you grin
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by ehmmy11(m): 1:14pm On Apr 05, 2020
FuckHomophobes:


Hehehe, oga if you're not careful your closest friend will do you grin
funny indeed grin ..Once again brother i besiege you it's not too late to repent.
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 1:54pm On Apr 05, 2020
ehmmy11:
funny indeed grin ..Once again brother i besiege you it's not too late to repent.

Okay sir cheesy. But how far nau , me go like hookup with you tongue
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by ehmmy11(m): 2:17pm On Apr 05, 2020
FuckHomophobes:


Okay sir cheesy. But how far nau , me go like hookup with you tongue
it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of the needle than for that to happen....
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 2:22pm On Apr 05, 2020
ehmmy11:
it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of the needle than for that to happen....


Hahahaha... Well rightly said. But don't underestimate the power of networking and the internet. Dazzal I've got to say
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by snitchbitch: 2:32pm On Apr 05, 2020
I don't blame a man who says he is gay!! But before we castigate and crucify them let's look at the bigger picture. I learnt now that there is a high percentage of gays in imo state. Most don't ask why but here is my own theory. You can correct me if I am wrong.

To do wedding with an IBO lady nowadays is like for a camel to walk though the eye of a needle!! The list that her family members will give to you will be endless!!! Where will he get money for it? Should he steal, kill or join cult? That is why most guys end up masturbating, watching porn or even being gay.

You all abuse Hausa people of underage marriage. I don't support it too, but now we are having gayism on the rise in the Southeast due to not willing or not being able to foster a very important aspect of our society, marriage.

My opinions though!! #ARGUEWITHYOURKEYBOARD
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Apr 05, 2020
You are under no obligations and indeed have no right to try to "help" an adult out of his sexuality. What you do have a right to do and I advise you to is to calmly but firmly let him know your sexual orientation and that you have no interest whatsoever in same sex relations. Also, encourage him to go about it in a cleaner way. Not trying to lure guys into what they obviously are not by showing them gay porn and giving monetary gifts, that might get him set up and dealt with if he does it with the wrong person
Re: Help My Friend Is Gay, Can I Help Him? by FuckHomophobes: 2:38pm On Apr 05, 2020
snitchbitch:
I don't blame a man who says he is gay!! But before we castigate and crucify them let's look at the bigger picture. I learnt now that there is a high percentage of gays in imo state. Most don't ask why but here is my own theory. You can correct me if I am wrong.

To do wedding with an IBO lady nowadays is like for a camel to walk though the eye of a needle!! The list that her family members will give to you will be endless!!! Where will he get money for it? Should he steal, kill or join cult? That is why most guys end up masturbating, watching porn or even being gay.

You all abuse Hausa people of underage marriage. I don't support it too, but now we are having gayism on the rise in the Southeast due to not willing or not being able to foster a very important aspect of our society, marriage.

My opinions though!! #ARGUEWITHYOURKEYBOARD


I jump and pass this comment grin

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