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Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Goodmarlian: 6:10pm On Apr 03, 2020
I noticed women handle heart breaks better than men they easily move on. i have seen countless thread where guys cry and even go as far as committing suicide because of heartbreak but you will rarely see women do that.but when it comes to rejection women they are very bad at it they can go any length to pay you back for destroying their ego since they believe their boobs andass can get them any man very wrong belief. grin

on the other hand men are good at handling rejection we are use to it since our childhood so infact its has become normal since we will surely get another girl accept even better girls but we are very bad at handling heartbreak smaybe it's because we are always the ones who invest the most .
men handle rejection better and women handle heartbreaks better.
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by ademasta(m): 6:13pm On Apr 03, 2020
Transgendered like Bobrisky handles it well.

Cos if the problem comes in female way, she behaves femininely... cool

And if it comes in male way, he tackles it masculinely grin

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Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Goodmarlian: 6:18pm On Apr 03, 2020
ademasta:
Transgendered like Bobrisky handles it well.

Cos if the problem comes in female way, she behaves femininely... cool

And if it comes in male way, he tackles it masculinely grin

whats the difference between masculine and feminine.
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by ademasta(m): 6:20pm On Apr 03, 2020
Goodmarlian:


whats the difference between masculine and feminine.
See

Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by arnoldogiamien: 6:47pm On Apr 03, 2020
Goodmarlian:
I noticed women handle heart breaks better than men they easily move on. i have seen countless thread where guys cry and even go as far as committing suicide because of heartbreak but you will rarely see women do that.but when it comes to rejection women they are very bad at it they can go any length to pay you back for destroying their ego since they believe their boobs andass can get them any man very wrong belief. grin

on the other hand men are good at handling rejection we are use to it since our childhood so infact its has become normal since we will surely get another girl accept even better girls but we are very bad at handling heartbreak smaybe it's because we are always the ones who invest the most .
men handle rejection better and women handle heartbreaks better.



ladies
have alternative. They date more than two guys same time. They can move on easily.

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Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by ibkayee(f): 6:47pm On Apr 03, 2020
I've found that men handle rejection better, in the long run, since they go through it more and are used to it

As for the two people in a relationship, the person who invested or cared more will naturally handle a heartbreak the worst

As for male and females generally, we deal with it..differently, whichever is 'better' is a matter of opinion I guess.

Females tend to have more of an emotional support system since socially, it isn't a big deal for girls to be emotional, thus they tend to be provided with a 'healthier' space to grieve the relationship as soon as it ends

Males, on the other hand, aren't encouraged to express their emotions publicly. More often than not, they'll end up dealing with it by themselves or (if they're lucky) a VERY small handful of people who they probably can’t be vulnerable with because it isn’t considered ‘manly’. I've found that they usually do things to 'distract' themselves and fill the void vs actually 'tackling through’ it, at first anyway, then it 'hits' them later

This is just what I've noticed, there will always be exceptions obviously

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Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Nobody: 7:02pm On Apr 03, 2020
Goodmarlian:
I noticed women handle heart breaks better than men they easily move on. i have seen countless thread where guys cry and even go as far as committing suicide because of heartbreak but you will rarely see women do that.but when it comes to rejection women they are very bad at it they can go any length to pay you back for destroying their ego since they believe their boobs andass can get them any man very wrong belief. grin

on the other hand men are good at handling rejection we are use to it since our childhood so infact its has become normal since we will surely get another girl accept even better girls but we are very bad at handling heartbreak smaybe it's because we are always the ones who invest the most .
men handle rejection better and women handle heartbreaks better.



For now I'm more interested in what inspired this post. You wanna talk about
I'm a good listener

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Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Goodmarlian: 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2020
Dicktion:
For now I'm more interested in what inspired this post. You wanna talk about
I'm a good listener

a lil shorty want me to breakup with my bae because of her i refused now she hates me grin
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Naomila: 7:10pm On Apr 03, 2020
To me, I think men handle it better, the most he does is to go out with his friends more and get drunk.
A girl sometimes would even be planning revenge, some guys do that but it's mostly girls.
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Apr 03, 2020
Goodmarlian:


a lil shorty want me to breakup with my bae because of her i refused now she hates me grin
Y'all live in the same neighborhood? If No then why you bothered she hates
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Apr 03, 2020
The key to handling it better is ; never invest what you can't afford to lose.

Secondly, you should be the key to your own happiness
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:20pm On Apr 03, 2020
we handle it differently...
- most women handle rejection/heartbreak harder right after it happens then moves on with time
- while most men wouldnt care so much right after being rejected/heartbroken but then with time (when we realizewe lost a great person) it hits us hard


Lostz:
The key to handling it better is ; never invest what you can't afford to lose.
Secondly, you should be the key to your own happiness

the above is only the key to being a lonely person who never invest in anyone....and sadly, if you never invest in someone, then you will never find true happiness (as you will always be on your guard). IMHO thats a coward way to look at life.
rejection and heartbreak is part of the game, and if you are so afraid of it, then you have no business being in a r/ship.
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 03, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
we handle it differently...
- most women handle rejection/heartbreak harder right after it happens then moves on with time
- while most men wouldnt care so much right after being rejected/heartbroken but then with time (when we realizewe lost a great person) it hits us hard




the above is only the key to being a lonely person who never invest in anyone....and sadly, if you never invest in someone, then you will never find true happiness (as you will always be on your guard). IMHO thats a coward way to look at life.
rejection and heartbreak is part of the game, and if you are so afraid of it, then you have no business being in a r/ship.
so you will be lonely without women? Foolishly investing in relationship have lead to early death, suicide and poverty.

Your heart is the most important part of your body and you need to guard it jealousy.
Re: Between men and women who handles rejection and heartbreak better. by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:51pm On Apr 03, 2020
Lostz:
so you will be lonely without women?

YES you will be very lonely if you are with women but cant open up to them... its like being with a stranger for months/years.

Foolishly investing in relationship have lead to early death, suicide and poverty.

it also led to
- you becoming the best version of your self
- stronger and deeper r/ship
- peace of mind
- less stress in any union,
- understanding of your partner (and vice versa)


Your heart is the most important part of your body and you need to guard it jealousy.

if you never open it to someone and let them in, you would always remain single in a r/ship. your woman will NEVER understand you, let alone fully know you...therefore whats the point of being in a r/ship??!?!? thats a coward way of thinking...you are so afraid of being hurt that you'd rather be with someone who doesnt understand/know you fully!

btw its not every person you meet that you should open up your heart to, but if you have been with someone for a few months/years and she still doesnt know you fully, then you are just wasting your life away.... and might as well dump that person.

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