Parts posted separately below

Part 1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXBnsfastNs

Part 2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3S1I4AFcPM

Part 3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Of9u5TwpDpU

Part 4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lB7-Lp6uYX0

Part 5

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3iR9AV2FEMA

Part 6

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qjfS9ixehWQ

Part 7 (final)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qAMlW7uGck

Learn the differences and transform your life for good

What differentiates you from women /men?

Men and women are not the same. Know this and know peace

Men are slower than women in some aspects which annoys women, but... they must be patient

Women talk while they think, men need more time to think first before they talk

This can cause confusion for the woman when the man needs to process his thoughts

More often than not a man will do or say anything to get sex while a woman will do anything to secure a committed relationship

Women usually lose out in this trade off by giving men "husband privileges" without the ring

This is why so many bachelors are opting to stay single for so long

Men talk for information, women talk for affection.

So men should not be angry if their woman calls on phone and says she just wanted to check up on him

Men should also try and do the same on phone

Women conversely, should sometimes have factual conversations with their man and not get angry if he gives a one word answer.

He may be tired from the day he has had and may be telling the truth when you ask him "what's wrong?" and he says "nothing".

Women are detail oriented, men are task oriented

A woman expects the romance from her man in a relationship to follow a script in her head (from movies, books, tradition etc).

This is due to her highly meticulous and detailed nature.

Whereas a man just wants to get from point A to B

Women must realise that most of what she expects is different from the reality and should cut her man some slack where necessary.

Ladies must be realistic. You live in a gated estate and go from work-> to church -> to home. You never leave your house to walk around the estate and make yourself available and then expect to enter a relationship magically. No. You put your social media account on private, how will suitors assess and access you?

As for men...
They must learn to put in some effort as details matter to ladies.

In the bedroom, don't just jump straight to sex, engage in verbal and physical pre-intimacy with her. The romance starts from outside the bedroom. So, send her loving text messages during the daytime, help her out with chores, take her on date nights etc

Men are future oriented, women think more of the past

So a woman usually keeps past misdeeds of many people including her partner, in her mind for years

She will spill all the built up offense from the past on the man, If she reaches a high stress level

As a man, you must keep her stress free as much as possible by monitoring her emotional needs and seeking to meet them regularly so that her emotional tank does not run dry

Her brain is structured to multi task and so she has too many thoughts running through her mind all day at once and gets stressed very easily

Watch the video above to learn how men are future oriented

Women need love men need respect

As a woman, you can't hold down a home if you don't respect your man. He needs to feel like his input matters in the relationship. Never belittle him with your words. You submit to your hairdresser so why not do same for the man you chose to go along with? It doesn't mean you are weaker, it just means you are smart if you do so.

As for men, you're wife cannot go days without being loved by you. She must feel like you are emotionally present or else she will seek that connection elsewhere. Even if you are not physically present much, you must make the times that you are count by giving her all your attention.

Ultimately, love and respect go both ways but men need respect more than women do and women crave love more than men.

Women communicate poetically men communicate literally..

Women should realize that men are not mind readers and therefore communicate their needs plainly as often as possible for him to understand.

"Honey there's no more water" is not the same as "honey please can you switch on the generator to pump water? it has run out"

Men on the other hand should serenade their women with poetic speech and acts occasionally as the mood permits. E.g. flowery language such as "you look radiant like the sun right now" is welcomed.

See example of poetic acts here >>>
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CopepHAIRWS/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Do according to your pocket size

Men are moved by what they see women are moved by what they hear

Men should continue saying the sweet things they said to get into the relationship, when inside the relationship...

Women should always be conscious of looking attractive and visually appealing even when indoors with their man

In summary both genders should not become complacent when inside the relationship but keep doing what made your partner attracted to you in the first place

More often than not men are more logical than emotional and women are more emotional than logical.

Women should learn to harness their emotions and think logically. When trying to persuade their man, they should appeal to his logical side.

E.g. instead of I want junior to go to that school because all my friends kids are there, explain the benefits of the school for junior's education such as scholarship availability there etc.

Men should cheer their woman up constantly with jokes etc as she can experience a lot of down times from overthinking.

Don't always try to fix issues she brings to you, instead be available emotionally to listen to her vent and she will appreciate that.

She is very intelligent and usually already knows the solution to the problem she has come to talk with you about.

Unless she specifically asks for help and advice, just listen attentively and provide verbal feedback cues.

Women should learn to observe the facts of a situation above the emotions behind it.

For example: If your boyfriend gives you good feelings such as excitement and laughter, but beats and abuses you physically or verbally.. common sense should tell you to leave such a relationship

If he promises you heaven on earth but you look at the pattern of his life and how he is not progressing in any way.. run

Because you must elevate patterns over potential

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Happy new month

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Courtesy: David's Christian Centre, Lagos

Study

Know what makes you unique

A woman will offer food on her plate to her child whereas a father more often than not will say no if the child asks him depending on what the situation demands

Women are more nurturing while men are disciplinarian in nature. This balance helps the child to grow into a responsible adult that has empathy but its also not entitled

The differences are there for the genders to complement each other

Embrace the points of agreement, work on the areas of divergence

Happy Monday

Know and know peace