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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by TheMohican(m): 10:31am On Apr 07, 2020
fcdgrand:
my virgin wife will be full time house wife, no friends, her only friend will be her mother, i will only permit her to have friends when she is 60 yrs. non-virgin teens, over used pussy, evening newspapers are for Bleep while 18 to 22 yrs hymen intact virgin are for wife

FOOLL!!!!!! OLODO.
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Nobody: 10:35am On Apr 07, 2020
wany:

Whaoooo how wack can you be,where are the virgins,even teens are now sexually very active.we laugh last undecided
maybe in your wrapped mentality, but on reality there are many virgins forget what the corrupt liberal media has brainwashed you with.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by TheMohican(m): 10:35am On Apr 07, 2020
fcdgrand:
i bet my brocus you are not a virgin not to talk of hymen intact virgin

'Amu pencil' pencil sized dick, president of the association of 2 min men.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Nobody: 10:41am On Apr 07, 2020
SeverusSnape:

A virgin doesn't know what "horrible" in bed is. She doesn't know anybody's performance to compare with yours. Simple.

... Virgins bond better. It shouldn't be the only thing a guy should look out for, But there are more chances of you as a guy having a better marriage if you get married to one.

My dear brother, VIRGINS either male or female have high expectations about sex. THOSE WHO MASTURBATE THE MOST ARE VIRGINS. THEY GOT SEXUAL FANTASIES.

In REALITY, most people's first sexual encounter comes with DISAPPOINT and they tend to ask in their minds ISN'T SEX OVER RATED? With such a mind set unchanged over time. A once a virgin lady (true Life story) became tempted to see if the grass is greener on the other side. She seduced a young boy of 16 living in the neighbourhood just to have a taste of what another Pen!s feels like. Adventure went wrong, the boy was too immature to keep their sexual affair a secret one, the cat was let out of the bag eventually to everyone's surprise.

She broke down in tears only to mutter this words " I SWEAR I NEVER EVER HAD SEX BEFORE I GOT MARRIED. THE TRUTH IS I CANT GET TO UNDERSTAND WHY SEX FEELS SO AWFUL. I DID THIS OUT OF CURIOSITY. I AM VERY SORRY".

We all felt very sorry for her. Cases like this are real.

What Sixfeetbelle is telling us is that there is more to just marrying a VIRGIN thinking that and so, it AUTOMATICALLY GUARANTEES FIDELITY. Their is so much more to it. Infact the real test of 'ABSTAINANCE' is after that first sex in marriage after being disvirgined. THAT'S WHEN THE VEILS COVERING YOUR EYES BEFORE LETS GO AND YOUR MIND BECOMES A BATTLE FIELD AGAINST SERIOUS TEMPTATIONS, BECAUSE THAT IS WHEN YOU START FEELING SEXUAL URGES YOU NEVER FELT BEFORE, AND START TO SEE THE WORLD IN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE WHICH IS MORE SENSUAL, THE VEILS ARE NO MORE THERE, THAT INNOCENCE HAS BEEN TAKEN AWAY.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by biggy26: 10:47am On Apr 07, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more grin cheesy
Everything depends on who she hangs out with. No be all women get time for trash. And not every woman is looking for an experience. No time!
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by biggy26: 10:54am On Apr 07, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


In the days of our forefathers, women hid their high libido to avoid being termed horrible names. Prostitution was a secret society back then, known only by the men but dominated by women. If you didn't know this, ask around, or how did you think FGM came about? How did you even conceive a widow being pushed to remarry immediately came about?

Civilization and modernity freed women from those shackles, which is why what you're seeing now is shocking you. And I understand, you're a traditionalist, but if your definition of a virtuous woman is a woman with low libido, then you have to test a lot of women before marriage to find your wife cause some virgins can't determine their libido untill they experience sex from an expert, ie assuming your criteria for 'virtuous woman' is a virgin.
When you hear people talk these days, you will think the world is glued in place by sperm. It's unfortunate!
To the point, why cheat or gossip when all you need to do in this modern civilization, is to give your partner the lead? Tell him what you want, since everyone is now bold! Satisfaction is achieved through cooperation.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by yeko68: 10:59am On Apr 07, 2020
J111333:
...and how is it my problem? If she likes, she can discuss it at the village square.

My own na to last my usual one minute like big Churchill and pull my pant up. grin


It's your responsibility to satisfy your woman sexually and it's not rocket science just patience to understand her body and know what to do. It's not what you do in that your 1 minute on top of her that matters but what you do before or after. You can actually satisfy a woman well before you penetrate her and do your one minute stuff if only you're not selfish and patient enough.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by stormborn28(m): 11:00am On Apr 07, 2020
Randy100:
Op, you should be bothered about what she gossip with other women as long as your sperm is impregnanting her. As a man whenever you cum, that is when the sex ends. If she wants to cum, she can help herself. If she cheats and get caught, you send her ass out of the house. My piece of advice.
this is exactly what I always think in my head but I don't say it out... Don't let me catch you...
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by stormborn28(m): 11:02am On Apr 07, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Then get ready to marry and divorce all your life as long as you continue to be an insensitive prick.
girls dey Fvck well well now oooooooo

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by atiku4President(m): 11:06am On Apr 07, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Is it a taboo for a woman to talk about sex?
.
No.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Victoria25(f): 11:11am On Apr 07, 2020
Reasonable women don’t discuss their love affairs with others believe me.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by stormborn28(m): 11:12am On Apr 07, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


FGM was done on young girls aged 10 to 15 at the start of puberty to help them remain virgins until their wedding night by cutting off their clitoris and labia majora, meanwhile most ladies lost their virginity aged 12 to 16. Can you see the correlation here?

A virtuous woman will meet all her husband's needs when he meets her halfway. If she's always feeling unsatisfied after sex, she'll feel something is wrong with her especially if she's been told by friends and well wishers that sex gets better after the first week or so (emotional distress might affect her productivity in the home) That's where a man upping his sexual game would be an advantage. Are you in tune with ways to give a woman sexual gratification?

I talk about modernity cause that's where the world is at now. Kick it all you want, we will continue to march forward. High libido in women has been discovered to not be a bad thing after all, men can testify. Trust me you don't know frustration until you meet a wife who doesn't see the need to have sex except on days marked for procreation. (Women who underwent FGM full this table).

And yes, I agree. You can go the way of your forefathers but remember it will only work well if you meet a woman with low libido or you up your sexual game. (No be only 3 sex positions dey for this world cheesy)

Peace. I'm out.
why will they cut the labia majora... That is the pvssy lips

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by NevetsIbot(m): 11:24am On Apr 07, 2020
I really must say that I'm not Impressed with what a few Nairalanders are saying. Especially the fact that some of it is coming from ubunja. Sighs


You mean to tell me that you'd have sex, satisfy yourself and get up whether or not she's satisfied? That's the height of selfishness. It's also even more saddening because these thoughts just show how much you guys have sexually objectified ladies. All y'all just want to do is cum and stand up.... With someone you're supposed to be in love with!!!!!


Stop trying to twist the bible support your claim. The Bible also asked a man tk love his wife... And to love, you must act it. Senseless bigots. These people are human beings too. They may have a lot of shortcomings but it does not make almost all of them useless.



For the record.. This is coming from someone who's not new to the world of female. I'm no woman wrapper but I try to do what's right..... There is no guarantee that your virgin girlfriend will not cheat on you. Just the same way people differ in characters, libido differs too in people.


As long as she's not a prostitute and isn't laying the pussy up to the next guy who comes for her, I have no right to judge her. It's her body. She's an adult and is responsible for her choices.


Y'all can take your traditional thoughts about female subjugation and shove it up your azzz. Cretins

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by ffo(m): 11:28am On Apr 07, 2020
Hoephase:


If I may ask what is the rave about virgins?
I married a virgin so I know what I'm saying. The loyalty, the love, the bond, etc.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Biglittlelois(f): 11:30am On Apr 07, 2020
Mariangeles:


Is sex that serious? grin
Nna na wah o



grin
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by mofresh(m): 11:34am On Apr 07, 2020
It is true,I had an experience similar to that,my colleague in my place of work she introduce me to her bestie and we started dating and we have great sex,infact I spread her leg well and I Bleep her greatly and with that excitement I believe she told her friend about it that is my colleague and she started eyeing my cock like talking about my penis any time we see in the building but she is shy to open up to me for my service cos me and her friend are no more hanging out..

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by NevetsIbot(m): 11:35am On Apr 07, 2020
WORDWORLD:


My dear brother, VIRGINS either male or female have high expectations about sex. THOSE WHO MASTURBATE THE MOST ARE VIRGINS. THEY GOT SEXUAL FANTASIES.

In REALITY, most people's first sexual encounter comes with DISAPPOINT and they tend to ask in their minds ISN'T SEX OVER RATED? With such a mind set unchanged over time. A once a virgin lady (true Life story) became tempted to see if the grass is greener on the other side. She seduced a young boy of 16 living in the neighbourhood just to have a taste of what another Pen!s feels like. Adventure went wrong, the boy was too immature to keep their sexual affair a secret one, the cat was let out of the bag eventually to everyone's surprise.

She broke down in tears only to mutter this words " I SWEAR I NEVER EVER HAD SEX BEFORE I GOT MARRIED. THE TRUTH IS I CANT GET TO UNDERSTAND WHY SEX FEELS SO AWFUL. I DID THIS OUT OF CURIOSITY. I AM VERY SORRY".

We all felt very sorry for her. Cases like this are real.

What Sixfeetbelle is telling us is that there is more to just marrying a VIRGIN thinking that and so, it AUTOMATICALLY GUARANTEES FIDELITY. Their is so much more to it. Infact the real test of 'ABSTAINANCE' is after that first sex in marriage after being disvirgined. THAT'S WHEN THE VEILS COVERING YOUR EYES BEFORE LETS GO AND YOUR MIND BECOMES A BATTLE FIELD AGAINST SERIOUS TEMPTATIONS, BECAUSE THAT IS WHEN YOU START FEELING SEXUAL URGES YOU NEVER FELT BEFORE, AND START SEE THE WORLD IN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE WHICH IS MORE SENSUAL, THE VEILS ARE NO MORE THERE, THAT INNOCENCE HAS BEEN TAKING AWAY.


God bless you. You have spoken very intelligently.

I believe fidelity is based majorly on the woman's character. I've had a gril who was a virgin but was loyal to a fault. I even got mad at her at a point because I searched through everything about her and couldn't pin anything on her. Girl is the the best woman I've met so far. Would have loved to marry her but genotype compatability screwed things up.


Also dated a virgin who needed up having romantic affairs with other guys (no penetrative sex)... A friend broke up with his woman recently, she was a virgin but a guy kept sleeping over at her place for four nights. This is not to say non virrgins have not cheated to.


But deep down.. Its all about the character of the lady
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by 3verblazing(m): 11:35am On Apr 07, 2020
ubunja:
shut up.

Players and Bad Boys marry Virgins. It's not about hiding anything. It's about knowing female nature. After screwing 200 men, a woman can't bond with number 201. Players and Bad Boys know this. Remember JayZ married Beyonce while she was a virgin. You would be crazy to think JayZ had poor bed skills.

Take your propaganda elsewhere.

And I personally always tell guys to find a virgin and turn them into a wh0re. That's how things work.
hmmm.. Mule!! ...how did u know .. Where u there when dey were doing it?.. Or dey sent u the picture of beyonce's hymen ... Smh ...

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Garrieveryday: 11:38am On Apr 07, 2020
Sex issues boom
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by ehay(f): 11:43am On Apr 07, 2020
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ffo:

I married a virgin so I know what I'm saying. The loyalty, the love, the bond, etc.

She's not all that because you married her as a virgin but because you love and have regard for her. My sister married as a virgin and she feels the opposite for her husband.....i did not marry as a virgin and my husband is my best friend. Virginity has nothing to do with loyalty, love, bond etc....its all about how you treat your partner both sexually and otherwise.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by ehay(f): 11:59am On Apr 07, 2020
Victoria25:
Reasonable women don’t discuss their love affairs with others believe me.

You Neva see... All our discussion and complaints about our husbands even with our mothers always ends in hope "o na emetu kwa gi aka" or "o na esukwa gi efe Ofuma"....Oga women love sex more than men. Women watch and share porn more than men (That was how I got to know about Ugandan pussy lips elongation etc)

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Mariangeles(f): 12:04pm On Apr 07, 2020
Moji12:
Is this not b.s? So to the wife that wiill discuss the performance of her husband with her friend, to what extent is that? Is it for

1. To let the friends know how good the husband is so they can anticipate to get their own share of it or
2. So the friends can make mockery of the husband and to you it makes sense. Nawa ooo. I v never discussed that with my friends before anyways it depends on the kinds of friends one keep.

You can tell the OP reasons as a child.
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by ffo(m): 12:17pm On Apr 07, 2020
ehay:
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She's not all that because you married her as a virgin but because you love and have regard for her. My sister married as a virgin and she feels the opposite for her husband.....i did not marry as a virgin and my husband is my best friend. Virginity has nothing to do with loyalty, love, bond etc....its all about how you treat your partner both sexually and otherwise.
I'm not disputing that, but it adds to it especially if you value it and know the worth as a man.
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Hoephase: 12:19pm On Apr 07, 2020
ffo:

I married a virgin so I know what I'm saying. The loyalty, the love, the bond, etc.

So how can you make such a bold face statement about all virgins based on your personal experience alone?

Bros you are smarter than this, to make a bold statement based on one single personal experience. grin

Well I was taught that you can't generalize or assign casual inference to any event that can't be reproduced to reconfirm the results. I also was taught that for some behavioural analysis we cannot replicate such mostly for ethical reasons but we should have enough data to confirm our cases with control before making such a sweeping generalisation.

I hope you get my drift.
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Hoephase: 12:21pm On Apr 07, 2020
ehay:


You Neva see... All our discussion and complaints about our husbands even with our mothers always ends in hope "o na emetu kwa gi aka" or "o na esukwa gi efe Ofuma"....Oga women love sex more than men. Women watch and share porn more than men (That was how I got to know about Ugandan pussy lips elongation etc)

Can you share the link to the Uganda elongation I am asking for a friend to "science some shift out of it" grin grin
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 07, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


In the days of our forefathers, women hid their high libido to avoid being termed horrible names. Prostitution was a secret society back then, known only by the men but dominated by women. If you didn't know this, ask around, or how did you think FGM came about? How did you even conceive a widow being pushed to remarry immediately came about?

Civilization and modernity freed women from those shackles, which is why what you're seeing now is shocking you. And I understand, you're a traditionalist, but if your definition of a virtuous woman is a woman with low libido, then you have to test a lot of women before marriage to find your wife cause some virgins can't determine their libido untill they experience sex from an expert, ie assuming your criteria for 'virtuous woman' is a virgin.
just go ahead and do wat u always wanted. Cheat, ave multiple partners since ur cunt won't stop itching and stop ranting.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Sixfeetbelle: 12:29pm On Apr 07, 2020
Uniquekriss:
i beg to differ, not all virgins o. There are girls who vowed to keep their virginity for only their husbands, if they could be disciplined enough not to explore those bedmatics as single girls when the temptation was higher and when they had "nothing to lose" then when they marry and aren't getting what they desire I'm sure they would be as disciplined to find a remedy within the confines of marriage. Thank you(i am dating a virgin) [b][/b]

Factor in outside influence from jealous women and respond to me again
Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Sixfeetbelle: 12:32pm On Apr 07, 2020
Edet08:
My dear there are so many ways to satisfy a woman sexually and mind you every man has that one woman he can Bleep till she is out of cums. That a man bleeps a girl and gets tired quick without making the girl cum could signify their sexual incompatibility. Yea! Same way a girl has a guy that always bleeps her well to her satisfaction. Also, if due to unforeseen circumstances one finds himself in a relationship where the sex is not so satisfying, the man can always use his tongue to suck that cum out from wherever it is. The tongue is very powerful on the pussy you know! Suck the cum outta it’s hiding and trust me, that babe would be mad over the guy.


How many men do you think like doing oral on a woman? How many even care enough about her sexual satisfaction? Now factor in a virgin with such man and tell me if problem won't arise in that marriage

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Sixfeetbelle: 12:37pm On Apr 07, 2020
Mandeyy:
Don't pity them. It's because you're not a virgin. Virginity is still a virtue. It's even those ladies that have had a lot of boyfriends before marriage that sleep around most of the time. Only about 1 percent of married virgins sleep around while 99 percent of married women who sleep around are non-virgins. Besides, women should stop keeping bad company, especially the company of women who have had a lot of boyfriends before marriage. Your reasoning is myopic.

And who will stop these virgin wives from keeping company of oloshos? Or don't married men keep friends with their guys who were woman wrapper in their youth?

Wifey might not discuss her sex, others will and that's where comparison sets in consciously or subconsciously.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Jaapu: 12:40pm On Apr 07, 2020
Chisaedhor:
U are just so unreasonble nd very stupid for this trash u just said, it is vegetables lik u dat deceive nd distract young girls wit ur suga coated tongue nd afta satisfin ur lustful desires, u inturn cal dem 'whores' Make mother nature punish u 2oo times.... Sh*tty asshole.

Mumu. No be me do you do you sotey you rotten na o. Goan meet those useless dirty pigs that used their tongue to control your brain and used you till you started feeling worthless. I am not your type. As long as you u freely presenting yourself to any willing dick outside marriage...you are a LovePeddler and nothing can change that. Not even abusing Virgin women can reduce you miserable life of shame, regret and worthlessness. Ode oponu.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Jaapu: 12:45pm On Apr 07, 2020
Hoephase:


If I may ask what is the rave about virgins?

You can never understand..what a pity.

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Re: The Truth Is Your Woman Talks About Your Performances In Bed With Her Friends by Felicity0001: 12:56pm On Apr 07, 2020
Hoephase:


I agree with your line of argument loyalty and that you can't do anything to satisfy someone that isn't loyal.

But have you considered that there could be more to your example than sex? For women sex is more than sex unlike me. Which is why you need have a good understanding of your partner. That mutual understanding is something I think most couple lack in our society. People may date but given our culture and norms there issues that never get discussed and we don't really date properly in sense of getting to know someone better..

Gabm they are married and before you say congratulations they throw kids into the mix and the everyday life takes a toll on them and some start seeking solace and solitude in other people codedly.
My dear dont make the mistake believing you can know somebody well enough.

Listen, havent you heard of the adage "change is constant"? Conditional, situational and environmental change are all directly proportional to human beings. So no matter how many years you date your gf or bf or even are married to your spouse you never can know them well enough especially women.

Women change like weather.

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