Sixfeetbelle:


And how many of these men do you reckon know female nature?

What I'm saying isn't a propaganda. If you're good in bed, it hardly matters if you marry a virgin or not cause you know how to satisfy a woman, you know how to turn a virgin into your personal whøre. Most of these men who want virgins as wives are not good in bed, so in their feeble mind, they believe that because she's a virgin, she won't know she's being shortchanged in that department. My 'propaganda' is to warn them to up their game. Simple.

To some extent You re right but stop discouraging keeping virginity till marriage.

The facts remains, it doesnt matter how much you satisfy a woman if she wants to cheat on you she'll still cheat. I've had cases after several ramps of sex and the lady even going on a deep sleep waking up, took a shower the next moment she was in the next guy's room having another ramp of sex.

Bottom line, there's nothing any man can do to satisfy a woman weather sex or any other thing.

A woman decides whom and when to be loyal and faithful to a man and sex is not even part of the reasons.

angelfallz:


The truth is that once a man ejaculates that is the end of the sex, this is natural there is nothing the man can do about it. That is why it is good to engage in pre-intimacy before penetration. Because once the man penetrates the woman, on average he has 2 to 3 mins before he ejaculates, this is the truth.

You are right that pre-intimacy is essential and pre-intimacy entails knowing what works for your partner. You also have to understand your partner sexual needs; is your partner the type that comes from fast or slow thrusting? Or is your partner the type that comes when she does the cow girl ride or the type that only comes when receiving head? You would be surprised how many clueless husband are out there. Wait the hear horror stories from some married women.
For those that think the being a virgin magical make a woman's desire less dangerous they have failed to realise the length an unsatisfied woman would go to sort herself out.

I guess that was her argument but it seems most people took it wrongly and started attacking her.

Randy100:
As long as it takes to find a virtuous woman. It is shocking and shameful that this generation of women have high libido. Women don't talk about satisfaction during the time of our forefathers. It was the job of the women to satisfy their husbands and not the other way round. I hope you learn this.

that's why that generation men were mostly useless and women constantly unhappy. see the generation they raised

Sixfeetbelle:


And how many of these men do you reckon know female nature?

What I'm saying isn't a propaganda. If you're good in bed, it hardly matters if you marry a virgin or not cause you know how to satisfy a woman, you know how to turn a virgin into your personal whøre. Most of these men who want virgins as wives are not good in bed, so in their feeble mind, they believe that because she's a virgin, she won't know she's being shortchanged in that department. My 'propaganda' is to warn them to up their game. Simple.

U are obviously inexperienced in this matter by assuming inexperienced men are the ones that want virgins.... it’s the other way round...

Sixfeetbelle:


Seriously I'm tired of replying mentions. If I knew it would get like this, I won't have said pim.

Thank you joor. You are wise and you have insight.

Don't get yourself worked up over the mentions because like they say experience is the best teacher, u have given your own 2kobo the rest is left for those who have eyes to decipher.

From my own little experience ladies do discuss about their sexual life with friends just as much as guys especially in relationships,a married lady might be a bit more possessive to divulge info.

Marrying a virgin does not guarantee the fidelity of a lady especially in this 21st century there are virgins who are pros in anal sex and what not,even if this virgins have no prior experience at least u can be sure they will know something is missing if u cant give them an orgasm same way a virgin guy would be left in blue balls if he cant cum after a sexcapade in the other room and with porn and experienced friends in the picture your guess is as good as mine.

Virgins are good for marriage just like non virgins it actually boils down to the individual,unfortunately virgins are like cats who are inquisitive and like to explore so if u must marry a virgin pls be average in bed and dont just assume she is satisfied anyway since she is a virgin,if u cant make her cum she would go to the moon and back just to have that experience.

Getting a virgin is hard enough but trust me if u dont satisfy her based on she is a virgin anyway even if a fool gives her some mind blowing sex trust me all her love for u would be turned to resentment in a jiffy.

Marrying a virgin on a basis of future fidelity is an exercise in futility except u are ready to time travel to get you some homo erectus.

Felicity0001:

To some extent You re right but stop discouraging keeping virginity till marriage.

The facts remains, it doesnt matter how much you satisfy a woman if she wants to cheat on you she'll still cheat. I've had cases after several ramps of sex and the lady even going on a deep sleep waking up, took a shower the next moment she was in the next guy's room having another ramp of sex.

Bottom line, there's nothing any man can do to satisfy a woman weather sex or any other thing.

A woman decides whom and when to be loyal and faithful to a man and sex is not even part of the reasons.

I agree with your line of argument loyalty and that you can't do anything to satisfy someone that isn't loyal.

But have you considered that there could be more to your example than sex? For women sex is more than sex unlike men. Which is why you need have a good understanding of your partner. That mutual understanding is something I think most couple lack in our society. People may date but given our culture and norms there issues that never get discussed and we don't really date properly in sense of getting to know someone better..

Gabm they are married and before you say congratulations they throw kids into the mix and the everyday life takes a toll on them and some start seeking solace and solitude in other people codedly.

GreatResearcher1:
Not abt being wounded. I got this mindset since wen i was 19. I do see my friends drink all sort of rubish just to last long and satisfy a woman. This is the last shit i'd do. If d little Bleep i do no satisfy her make she finger herself. After all according to a researcher, no man can ever satisfy a woman. The ones that tried died at the process

Lol! Your mindset needs cleansing with soap and water. Your upbringing definitely failed you. I won't say more than that.


Your mindset shapes your reality, and you can adjust it.

Sixfeetbelle:
That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more

What a load of tripe!
All in a bid to make whoring acceptable, you are subtly trying to make virginity unappealing.

Try projecting your insecurities somewhere else. Our mothers were virgins and lived with our fathers till their death. No accounts of infidelity. For degenerated minds like you, you think sex is the only ingredient in marriage. Sex is not the only ingredient, neither is it the main ingredient. It is a cherry on the top.

With mindset like yours it's no wonder we have a lot of broken homes, bastard children and abortions. Our parents knew that family life meant responsibility, selflessness, integrity, self control, morality and virtue.

The holy book said that he gave Sodom and Gomorrah to unattainable sexual lust. That is exactly what is happening with you and your ilk. When your vaginas have suddenly overriden your brain. Blame no one but yourself for the fact that you have overrun your mileage and have no control of your own libido again.

Project your degenerative thinking elsewhere. You try to 'smartly' paint abhorrent black to become white.

When you talk about sex, you talk about it in a way that will make the unwary think it's rocket science, and that there is more to gain than the minutes of gratification. Let me ask you. Who taught Adam how to satisfy his wife eve? Is it your degenerate self? Who taught our parents who were virgins, both male and female to have sex, procreate and have happy families? Is it your degenerate self i ask again.
Who taught you how to suck your mothers breast? Didn't you learn as every adaptive creature does?

For men and women virgins reading this, don't lose your self worth because of wolves like these who have lost them trying to demean what is naturally vitreous. A man and woman who love themselves would have all the time in the world to learn about sex among themselves and experiment all they need to with themselves. They would have the love and patience to seek medical help and consultation if they have a need to do so while maintaining the bonds of their marriage.

The way these sluts talk, it is clear that the only thing in their cranium is sex. That is why say if for example their husband or their wife becomes handicapped and can no longer carry out their sexual duties, they cheat on them, or worse yet they leave them. Our forefathers and parents knew what marital commitment and true love, a ride and die kinda love truly meant.

Remain vitreous, have your own standards for what is right and stick with them no matter what others may say.

TO these whores I say, go reap what you've sown.

neyobills:


Don't get yourself worked up over the mentions because like they say experience is the best teacher, u have given your own 2kobo the rest is left for those who have eyes to decipher.

From my own little experience ladies do discuss about their sexual life with friends just as much as guys especially in relationships,a married lady might be a bit more possessive to divulge info.

Marrying a virgin does not guarantee the fidelity of a lady especially in this 21st century there are virgins who are pros in anal sex and what not,even if this virgins have no prior experience at least u can be sure they will know something is missing if u cant give them an orgasm same way a virgin guy would be left in blue balls if he cant cum after a sexcapade in the other room and with porn and experienced friends in the picture your guess is as good as mine.

Virgins are good for marriage just like non virgins it actually boils down to the individual,unfortunately virgins are like cats who are inquisitive and like to explore so if u must marry a virgin pls be average in bed and dont just assume she is satisfied anyway since she is a virgin,if u cant make her cum she would go to the moon and back just to have that experience.

Getting a virgin is hard enough but trust me if u dont satisfy her based on she is a virgin anyway even if a fool gives her some mind blowing sex trust me all her love for u would be turned to resentment in a jiffy.

Marrying a virgin on a basis of future fidelity is an exercise in futility except u are ready to time travel to get you some homo erectus.

Your head is the one good head that is better than 20 stupid heads. Keep it up bro.

Bondatt:


What a load of tripe!
All in a bid to make whoring acceptable, you are subtly trying to make virginity unappealing.

Try projecting your insecurities somewhere else. Our mothers were virgins and lived with our fathers till their death. No accounts of infidelity. For degenerated minds like you, you think sex is the only ingredient in marriage. Sex is not the only ingredient, neither is it the main ingredient. It is a cherry on the top.

With mindset like yours it's no wonder we have a lot of broken homes, bastard children and abortions. Our parents knew that family life meant responsibility, selflessness, integrity, self control, morality and virtue.

The holy book said that he gave Sodom and Gomorrah to unattainable sexual lust. That is exactly what is happening with you and your ilk. When your vaginas a have suddenly overriden your brain. Blame no one but yourself for the fact that you have overrun your mileage and have no control of your own libido again.

Project your degenerative thinking elsewhere. You try to 'smartly' paint abhorrent black to become white.

When you talk about sex, you talk about it in a way that will make the unwary think it's rocket science, and that there is more to gain than the minutes of gratification. Let me ask you. Who taught Adam how to satisfy his wife eve? Is it your degenerate self? Who taught our parents who were virgins, both male and female to have sex, procreate and have happy families? Is it your degenerate self i ask again.
Who taught you how to suck your mothers breast? Didn't you learn as every adaptive creature does?

For men and women virgins reading this, don't lose your self worth because of wolves like these who have lost them trying to demean what is naturally vitreous. A man and woman who love themselves would have all the time in the world to learn about sex among themselves and experiment all they need to with themselves. They would have the love and patience to seek medical help and consultation if they have a need to do so while maintaining the bonds of their marriage.

The way these sluts talk, it is clear that the only thing in their cranium is sex. That is why say if for example their husband or their wife becomes handicapped and can no longer carry out their sexual duties, they cheat on them, or worse yet they leave them. Our forefathers and parents knew what marital commitment and true love, a ride and die kinda love truly meant.

Remain vitreous, have your own standards for what is right and stick with them no matter what others may say.

TO these whores I say, go reap what you've sown.

Bros why are you barking?

Can you show me anywhere in the post you quoted where she discourage anyone from being a virgin as asserted in your write up?

Bondatt:


What a load of tripe!
All in a bid to make whoring acceptable, you are subtly trying to make virginity unappealing.

Try projecting your insecurities somewhere else. Our mothers were virgins and lived with our fathers till their death. No accounts of infidelity. For degenerated minds like you, you think sex is the only ingredient in marriage. Sex is not the only ingredient, neither is it the main ingredient. It is a cherry on the top.

With mindset like yours it's no wonder we have a lot of broken homes, bastard children and abortions. Our parents knew that family life meant responsibility, selflessness, integrity, self control, morality and virtue.

The holy book said that he gave Sodom and Gomorrah to unattainable sexual lust. That is exactly what is happening with you and your ilk. When your vaginas a have suddenly overriden your brain. Blame no one but yourself for the fact that you have overrun your mileage and have no control of your own libido again.

Project your degenerative thinking elsewhere. You try to 'smartly' paint abhorrent black to become white.

When you talk about sex, you talk about it in a way that will make the unwary think it's rocket science, and that there is more to gain than the minutes of gratification. Let me ask you. Who taught Adam how to satisfy his wife eve? Is it your degenerate self? Who taught our parents who were virgins, both male and female to have sex, procreate and have happy families? Is it your degenerate self i ask again.
Who taught you how to suck your mothers breast? Didn't you learn as every adaptive creature does?

For men and women virgins reading this, don't lose your self worth because of wolves like these who have lost them trying to demean what is naturally vitreous. A man and woman who love themselves would have all the time in the world to learn about sex among themselves and experiment all they need to with themselves. They would have the love and patience to seek medical help and consultation if they have a need to do so while maintaining the bonds of their marriage.

The way these sluts talk, it is clear that the only thing in their cranium is sex. That is why say if for example their husband or their wife becomes handicapped and can no longer carry out their sexual duties, they cheat on them, or worse yet they leave them. Our forefathers and parents knew what marital commitment and true love, a ride and die kinda love truly meant.

Remain vitreous, have your own standards for what is right and stick with them no matter what others may say.

TO these whores I say, go reap what you've sown.

No one is trying to make virginity unappealing. If not male non virgins will also be viewed as sluts who bring nothing but diseases.

But men measuring a woman by something as friable as a hymen, that a lot of virgins aren't born with and nothing else is as shallow as a chicken scratching the ground.

chuksstanlo:
Women gossip amongst themselves about sex even more than men. They go into more details. You know the size, how long you lasted, and so on.

Just pray that you satisfy your wife/girlfriend if not the way her friends will be making mockery of you. You won't like it. I'm telling you.

How would you feel If after having sex with your woman and she said to you i didn't cum, baby you are not satisfying me. It will hurt you right?

I know for a fact that most women are not that straightforward. Some will look for a way to tell you nicely in order not to destroy your ego.

Some women will not even tell you at all. They would rather lie to you and pretend then when you travel or go for work they would cheat on you with the gateman. LOL

Stop dating small pikins u no hear
Who de fu....k will be analyzing his or her spouse sexuality with a third party.
That person must be having a mental problem.

anonimi:


Why the gender difference in quantity

Lolss...more common amongst women according to report of 2018.

Sixfeetbelle:


Keep telling yourself that, especially in this day and age and with the introduction of 5G...

you talk like someone Wu will cheat in marriage,,God4bid I marry someone like u cos weda I satisfy you or not den catch u cheating,,if am with gun or knife that moment u re dead

Randy100:
As long as it takes to find a virtuous woman. It is shocking and shameful that this generation of women have high libido. Women don't talk about satisfaction during the time of our forefathers. It was the job of the women to satisfy their husbands and not the other way round. I hope you learn this.

God bless you. A lot of things has really changed. It use to be, man provide for the house while the woman take care of the house, gradually, women now ask men to provide for the house and still help in house work as a sign of "Love".
Even those that are not working are also demanding that the man should assist them in house work as a prove of stupid true love.

Randy100:
As long as it takes to find a virtuous woman. It is shocking and shameful that this generation of women have high libido. Women don't talk about satisfaction during the time of our forefathers. It was the job of the women to satisfy their husbands and not the other way round. I hope you learn this.

No one actively documented the achytypical mode of sexual exchange between acient people for you to draw from as authority in validation of your argument. You are exploring your bias mysgygonist fantasy as source of truth.

A woman need bot be shamefully if she experience high lobido. A man worth his salt can match that. There are no intensity displayed by a woman as regards any variations of acts across human span that a man cannot match. Unless that man as we say is not "man enough".

Hoephase:


Bros why are you barking?

Can you show me anywhere in the post you quoted where she discourage anyone from being a virgin as asserted in your write up?

Bros I have lived long enough to know when someone is trying to subtly imply something.

See, I'm not about to go all religious and spiritual, but we live in times when people who say and do abhorrent and morally reprehensible things are now celebrated, while those who do what is natural, virteous and moral are shamed.

She was saying it doesn't matter if you marry a virgin, that a man who is poor in bed (in her words) will lose his wife to their driver. That is a lie from the pit of hell, and nothing could be farther from the truth. How can a non virgin like her self who has lost all sense of commitment and attachment because of been rammed through by so many dicks know what it feels like to be a virgin woman who sticks to her husband?

She's trying to make sluttiness and virginity the same. We see through that veil, and we will have no place for that nonsense. She's trying to make herself feel better about whoring. That message is destructive as it can make unwary young women and men alike who have value for their bodies to begin whoring themselves and think it makes no difference.

Of course she's entitled to her opinion, but so are we. We are entitled to call her bluff and expose her falsehoods.

Randy100:
Firstly, FGM was done to initiate young girls into womanhood from what I know or what I heard.
Secondly, a virtuous woman for me was described in the book of proverb 31 vs 10-31. The verse 11 says the husband trust in her and in her he will get all he needs(including sexual need). That is what I mean by a virtuous woman.
Thirdly, you keep talking about civilization and modernization freeing women from shackles of conserving themselves to wildness as we see today on social media. Is it a good thing? As a traditionalist that I am that is why I am kicking. I want women to know their place when it comes to sexuality. I don't want to compare us to lower Animal even though we are Higher Animals, the coc.k chase the female and mount when it get tired it comes down. The female don't complain and start chasing the male. Same with other Animals.
Finally, every man will have to determine how he treats his woman but as for me I am going the way of my forefathers.

My brother the matter tire me, that's why they can't even stay in a marriage because they try to equate themselves at par with the man.

xendra:
that's why that generation men were mostly useless and women constantly unhappy. see the generation they raised

Taa....... Those generation of men was the best. These generation of our men are what I called weak ass men.

Hoephase:


You are right that pre-intimacy is essential and pre-intimacy entails knowing what works for your partner. You also have to understand your partner sexual needs; is your partner the type that comes from fast or slow thrusting? Or is your partner the type that comes when she does the cow girl ride or the type that only comes when receiving head? You would be surprised how many clueless husband are out there. Wait the hear horror stories from some married women.
For those that think the being a virgin magical make a woman's desire less dangerous they have failed to realise the length an unsatisfied woman would go to sort herself out.

I guess that was her argument but it seems most people took it wrongly and started attacking her.

For those that think the being a virgin magical make a woman's desire less dangerous

Those that think like that have a point. Let me explain. Try to remember the first time you played PS1 or the first time you Sega, at that point in time you must have been thinking it can't get better than this. You saw your PS1 or Sega games as the ultimate.
A village person can't desire nokia torchlight, if he does not know what a nokia torchlight is. Another village person can not desire Iphone 11 pro if he does not even know what a smartphone is.
this also applies to virgins to an extent.
You can't desire something that you have no idea about.

funmisticqueen2:
No one is trying to make virginity unappealing. If not male non virgins will also be viewed as sluts who bring nothing but diseases.

But men measuring a woman by something as friable as a hymen, that a lot of virgins aren't born with and nothing else is as shallow as a chicken scratching the ground.

Male non virgins are sluts. I make no apologies for that, neither am in the business of trying to make friends by saying what they want to hear.

It goes both ways. Men and women who are 'actively' in the business of sleeping with those who are not their marriage mates are sluts. If their is another euphemism for the act, I'm open to hearing it, but for now that is what they are.

Of course those have stopped giving their bodies and private organs to every John and Jane do not come under the slut tag. But those who are actively doing it are sluts.

See, call me old fashioned or anything but that is the truth we all like to run from. What is bad is bad, what is good is good.

I'll rather be called a mad man in a morally decayed world than be called a sane among the morally bankrupt.

ubunja:
we know..

So how do get pass that? How do u know her sexual contact

Her body count?

We are in deep waters my frnd.

funmisticqueen2:
No one is trying to make virginity unappealing. If not male non virgins will also be viewed as sluts who bring nothing but diseases.

But men measuring a woman by something as friable as a hymen, that a lot of virgins aren't born with and nothing else is as shallow as a chicken scratching the ground.

I don't even think the guy understood the text he quoted.

My dear I have said it before African culture raise men with so much false sense of importance that some people are so so emboldened in their own stupidity.

Bondatt:

Male non virgins are sluts. I make no apologies for that, neither am in the business of trying to make friends by saying what they want to hear.

It goes both ways. Men and women who are 'actively' in the business of sleeping with those who are not their marriage mates are sluts. If their is another euphemism for the act, I'm open to hearing it, but for now that is what they are.

Of course those have stopped giving their bodies and private organs to every John and Jane do not come under the slut tag. But those who are actively doing it are sluts.

See, call me old fashioned or anything but that is the truth we all like to run from. What is bad is bad, what is good is good.

I'll rather be called a mad man in a morally decayed world than be called a sane among the morally bankrupt.

Out of curiosity what is the yard stick on which the moral value that consider people that sleep with people that are not their partner as sluts, are based on?

Sixfeetbelle:
That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more

very harsh true

Bondatt:

Male non virgins are sluts. I make no apologies for that, neither am in the business of trying to make friends by saying what they want to hear.

It goes both ways. Men and women who are 'actively' in the business of sleeping with those who are not their marriage mates are sluts. If their is another euphemism for the act, I'm open to hearing it, but for now that is what they are.

Of course those have stopped giving their bodies and private organs to every John and Jane do not come under the slut tag. But those who are actively doing it are sluts.

See, call me old fashioned or anything but that is the truth we all like to run from. What is bad is bad, what is good is good.

I'll rather be called a mad man in a morally decayed world than be called a sane among the morally bankrupt.

No only a gal or guy that sleeps with more than one partner at a time or different/seprate relationship partners in close succession is a slut. Most especially ladies. Lol

Sixfeetbelle:


A virgin at 25 would want sex once having and raising kids is done eg at age 35 and thereabout, or haven't you seen cougars? Don't make the mistake of thinking women loose interest in sex, unless the man doesn't know how to satisfy her. Household chores might occupy most of her time but remove those factors and you'll be amazed by what you see. Of course at 50, it may decrease in a woman with low libido but don't think menopause depletes sexual desire.

Moving on, I hope you know that there are virgins with high libido. Some of these oloshos were once virgins until they met sex and were unhinged. So cancel that thought that virgins are inexperienced and fearful cause a virgin is like a little child in a candy shop who has never had candy before. Give her one and watch how she'll want to have more. She won't say it but if you aren't in tune to her needs, a cunning player may be the one to give her the next candy.

In summary, if you marry a virgin, show her the bedmatics you would your olosho lover. Let her learn everything from you, or else...

Well said

PerfectMaster:
shattap there, who want to marry a hoe

Stop the insult. That's why many females nairalanders don't comment on topics like this. We need to read different perspectives

Randy100:
As long as it takes to find a virtuous woman. It is shocking and shameful that this generation of women have high libido. Women don't talk about satisfaction during the time of our forefathers. It was the job of the women to satisfy their husbands and not the other way round. I hope you learn this.

You just dey talk your nonsense

Shameful that women have high libido?

[quote author=zexy2030 post=88142405]
Well said. I married my wife a virgin. Initially she was hesitant to have sex only willing when she want to conceive a baby. Guess what, after 3 kids now she will almost tear my boxers get my dick inside her.