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Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op):
I usually stand with the principle that says, spare your feelings only for that person who chooses to to be with you for the long term by matrimony.

You practically owe only the person you marry everything and not a boyfriend nor a girlfriend.


people fall in love with persons who really dont care about them. when the chips are down they abandon you for someone else despite the sacrifice.

Never for a moment be misguided and let ur emotions or feelings fly freely for boyfriend or a girlfriend. You owe your spouse everything... including Love... Take charge of it
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 2:43pm On Apr 14, 2020
Typing ...
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Garrieveryday: 2:45pm On Apr 14, 2020
Marry the one you love.
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 3:36pm On Apr 14, 2020
Garrieveryday:
Marry the one you love.
what if the one you love doesnt return the love?
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Garrieveryday: 3:38pm On Apr 14, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
what if the one you love doesnt return the love?
That is always the problem.
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 3:53pm On Apr 14, 2020
Garrieveryday:
That is always the problem.
u see. my point is that u av no business risking ur feelings with someone whose status is still just a girlfriend or boyfriend. I believe love should be a conscious choice under a persons control and not a helpless feeling u let to control or influence ur judgement or decisions.
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Apr 14, 2020
in 9ja u need eyes 2 marry oh
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 4:07pm On Apr 14, 2020
lilfort:
in 9ja u need eyes 2 marry oh
not necessarily
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Deeminaj(f): 6:20pm On Apr 14, 2020
Base on my kind of person,i will marry the one that loves me
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:39pm On Apr 14, 2020
Deeminaj:
Base on my kind of person,i will marry the one that loves me
really?
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Deeminaj(f): 7:04pm On Apr 14, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
really?
yes o
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 14, 2020
In simple tenses , Marry the one you love and also at the same time love the one you marry
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:28pm On Apr 14, 2020
huh
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:30pm On Apr 14, 2020
Masonkaycares:
In simple tenses , Marry the one you love and also at the same time love the one you marry
dont be rude !
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by adexpa(m): 7:52pm On Apr 14, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
u see. my point is that u av no business risking ur feelings with someone whose status is still just a girlfriend or boyfriend. I believe love should be a conscious choice under a persons control and not a helpless feeling u let to control or influence ur judgement or decisions.
This is a powerful key many youth never really identify and it is causing a lot of issues. People tend to go into relationship full force(with full feelings n emotions) and by the time slide issue occurs, they became broken and damaged. we need to always have that little distance which will help us during tough time. we are human beings and shit is allowed to happen. guide your feelings and emotions jealously.
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 8:25pm On Apr 14, 2020
adexpa:
This is a powerful key many youth never really identify and it is causing a lot of issues. People tend to go into relationship full force(with full feelings n emotions) and by the time slide issue occurs, they became broken and damaged. we need to always have that little distance which will help us during tough time. we are human beings and shit is allowed to happen. guide your feelings and emotions jealously.
word !
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Favy1235(f): 8:45pm On Apr 14, 2020
I date guys that love me not the ones i love. If you want to experience love in r/ship go for wio loves you. He will always tolorate and forgive you no matter what. I can't risk my heart for heartbreak
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 8:47pm On Apr 14, 2020
Favy1235:
I date guys that love me not the ones i love.
If you want to experience love in r/ship go for wio loves you.
He will always tolorate and forgive you no matter what.
I can't risk my heart for heartbreak
hmm
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 14, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
dont be rude !
How am I rude?
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by ayitty(f): 10:27pm On Apr 14, 2020
Love the one you marry. That's my take.
One needs to be very wise not to allow emotions cloud ones judgement. Loving someone is a risk and you have to carry your brain along.
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by lanibi(f): 11:12pm On Apr 14, 2020
adexpa:
This is a powerful key many youth never really identify and it is causing a lot of issues. People tend to go into relationship full force(with full feelings n emotions) and by the time slide issue occurs, they became broken and damaged. we need to always have that little distance which will help us during tough time. we are human beings and shit is allowed to happen. guide your feelings and emotions jealously.
hmmmmm
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 11:21pm On Apr 14, 2020
ayitty:
Love the one you marry. That's my take.
One needs to be very wise not to allow emotions cloud ones judgement. Loving someone is a risk and you have to carry your brain along.
my take too
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 11:24pm On Apr 14, 2020
Masonkaycares:
In simple tenses , Marry the one you love and also at the same time love the one you marry
what if the one you love doesnt love u enough go marry you?
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by UncleJJ(m): 11:25pm On Apr 14, 2020
Favy1235:
He will always tolorate and forgive you no matter what.
I can't risk my heart for heartbreak
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Lamanii22(f): 11:52pm On Apr 14, 2020
I'd choose the latter... I'd rather my feelings grow...
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Nobody: 12:57am On Apr 15, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
what if the one you love doesnt love u enough go marry you?
I give up

Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 4:33pm On Apr 15, 2020
Masonkaycares:
I give up
y?
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Dyonne:
Interesting question.

Both can work, both can fail.

Love is assured from your end but what is the other person's disposition towards you?

Tell me that and I'll tell you which is better.
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Apr 15, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
y?
cos I quit
Re: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:12pm On Apr 16, 2020
Masonkaycares:
cos I quit
y?
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