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BrilliantGigolo:
1. Last child in a family of 2 , I and my father. I'm a test tube baby born artificially. I am an experiment.

2. Never had a mother figure . The egg that was fertilized through artificial insemination was that of a lunatic edo prostitute picked up from a street in Italy.

3. I am proudly gay

4. I am a proud homosexual.

5. I enjoy paid sex with high ranking fine men.

6. May God help lost souls out there and forgive children who bring shame upon their families over the internet because of free data.

mofeoluwadassah:
you can call me mtn

tk4rd:
The final decisions of any man is being influenced most of the time by the opinions of the women in his life.

At every stage in life, the order of importance of the opinions of these women vary a lot.
With this topic, I tried to pinpoint these stages in a man's life and the order of importance of the opinions of these women in his life.
..
1. Long Before Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Sisters
c. Girlfriends
..
2. Close To Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Fiancée
c. Sisters
..
3. Immediately Into The Marriage
a. Wife
b. Mother
c. Sisters
..
4. When The Children Are All Grown
a. Wife
b. Daughters
c. Mother
...
...
5. Randy Husband
a. Wife
b. Girlfriend
c. Mother
..
6. Crazy Husband
a. Girlfriend(s).
...
Ok..
This now brings me to the argument about why mothers have a very big opinion in the choosing of life-partners of their sons.
..
Assuming that it was a decision that would affect the man alone such as business, place of work, investments, projects and so on, he has the liberty Not to involve anybody, nor seek anybody's opinion, and nobody would say anything about it.
..
But in the case of choosing a life partner, the man's family will definitely be involved. Both families will be involved. Kindreds are involved too.

The man in an attempt to carry his family along, would go to seek his father's opinion. His father would then discuss with his own wife and his other grown children (that is, the man's mother and brothers and sisters).

After that, the man's mother (wife of the man's father) who now knows what the problem of the son is, would now make out time to talk to him in a language he would understand better, which includes knowing more about the lady in question, and having her invited over at the house once or twice for series of one-on-one interactions with her.

And trust me, if the fiancée had not done her homework well, and it happens that the man's mother doesn't like what she sees in the lady, the mother can easily talk her son out of it, and the fiancée's opinion cannot do much at this point because the man's father will support his own wife (the man's mother), and the man in question wouldn't want to be against his father.
..
Meanwhile, a woman's family can also reject a man they don't like too., but there must be strong reasons for that to happen.

If a woman's family happens to reject a suitor and the woman went ahead to bring him home, they would reject the bride price openly, and there would not be any marriage rites performed again.

This particular topic about women would be discussed another day anyway.

I am more interested in the men for now.

NaijadrivaCars:

To most Mommy's boys/halfmen it is one stage all their lives:
a. Mother
b. Sisters
c. Girlfriends/wives

And their moms be like...

kalufelix:
...Even if na people wey get below N500 for acct. I still qualify flawlessly...FG abeg check my signature...man pikin wan crase

missimelda01:
True to an extent.

It still bothers me how a mother can reject a lady her son has spent time knowing, does it mean that she doesn't trust his judgement or something. Obi is gonna be a man someday and would need a mind of his own, women should know where to draw the line.

NOETHNICITY:
I know that most of the weak gutlless guys on NL will coming here and be pretending that thier mothers are important to them, whereas in real life most of them are pussiesss

jericco1:
Fool!

Sonnobax15:
Tanx..and GOD blex u bro...i lost a very dear 1 today..so,i won't really fight back since na me kuku find trouble..so no vex

tk4rd:
The final decisions of any man is being influenced most of the time by the opinions of the women in his life.

At every stage in life, the order of importance of the opinions of these women vary a lot.
With this topic, I tried to pinpoint these stages in a man's life and the order of importance of the opinions of these women in his life.
..
1. Long Before Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Sisters
c. Girlfriends
..
2. Close To Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Fiancée
c. Sisters
..
3. Immediately Into The Marriage
a. Wife
b. Mother
c. Sisters
..
4. When The Children Are All Grown
a. Wife
b. Daughters
c. Mother
...
...
5. Randy Husband
a. Wife
b. Girlfriend
c. Mother
..
6. Crazy Husband
a. Girlfriend(s).
...
Ok..
This now brings me to the argument about why mothers have a very big opinion in the choosing of life-partners of their sons.
..
Assuming that it was a decision that would affect the man alone such as business, place of work, investments, projects and so on, he has the liberty Not to involve anybody, nor seek anybody's opinion, and nobody would say anything about it.
..
But in the case of choosing a life partner, the man's family will definitely be involved. Both families will be involved. Kindreds are involved too.

The man in an attempt to carry his family along, would go to seek his father's opinion. His father would then discuss with his own wife and his other grown children (that is, the man's mother and brothers and sisters).

After that, the man's mother (wife of the man's father) who now knows what the problem of the son is, would now make out time to talk to him in a language he would understand better, which includes knowing more about the lady in question, and having her invited over at the house once or twice for series of one-on-one interactions with her.

And trust me, if the fiancée had not done her homework well, and it happens that the man's mother doesn't like what she sees in the lady, the mother can easily talk her son out of it, and the fiancée's opinion cannot do much at this point because the man's father will support his own wife (the man's mother), and the man in question wouldn't want to be against his father.
..
Meanwhile, a woman's family can also reject a man they don't like too., but there must be strong reasons for that to happen.

If a woman's family happens to reject a suitor and the woman went ahead to bring him home, they would reject the bride price openly, and there would not be any marriage rites performed again.

This particular topic about women would be discussed another day anyway.

I am more interested in the men for now.

ShameOnAPC:
Another thread for good boys association, where do I have the time to be analysing about the importance of a woman , check my profile to be earning small small change in this lockdown

jericco1:
My mum definitely has no say in whom I'm gonna get married to

Wayne4uall:
Dat Means u have to make enough money

Nnemuka:
idiotic post

missimelda01:
True to an extent.

It still bothers me how a mother can reject a lady her son has spent time knowing, does it mean that she doesn't trust his judgement or something. Obi is gonna be a man someday and would need a mind of his own, women should know where to draw the line.

ojun50:
Order of importance of the women in a man's life

MansoryMX:
Anambra mothers just left the group chat.

BrilliantGigolo:
1. Last child in a family of 2 , I and my father. I'm a test tube baby born artificially. I am an experiment.

2. Never had a mother figure . The egg that was fertilized through artificial insemination was that of a lunatic edo prostitute picked up from a street in Italy.

3. I am proudly gay

4. I am a proud homosexual.

5. I enjoy paid sex with high ranking fine men.

6. May God help lost souls out there and forgive children who bring shame upon their families over the internet because of free mobile data.

NaijadrivaCars:

To most Mommy's boys/halfmen it is one stage all their lives:
a. Mother
b. Sisters
c. Girlfriends/wives

And their moms be like...

missimelda01:
I know right

P.S the man on your DP is cute.

Oh thank you. Likewise the cutie in urs

Mizwisdom:
A man should love his wife more

tydi:
What is this one saying Are you lost or just hungry

BrilliantGigolo:
1. Last child in a family of 2 , I and my father. I'm a test tube baby born artificially. I am an experiment.

2. Never had a mother figure . The egg that was fertilized through artificial insemination was that of a lunatic edo prostitute picked up from a street in Italy.

3. I am proudly gay

4. I am a proud homosexual.

5. I enjoy paid sex with high ranking fine men.

6. May God help lost souls out there and forgive children who bring shame upon their families over the internet because of free mobile data.