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Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:27pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad. Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning. And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves. If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic. Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG! It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance. Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist. 77 Likes 14 Shares
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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:32pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF? The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do.. 63 Likes 13 Shares
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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:34pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: It beats my imagination because these men will never meet half the standards they set for women. And I am not capping! They want virgins, but ain't virgins. They want a woman who can cook, clean, be a mistress in the bedroom and also a top-performing manager at work like Alakija, while they are under performers. They can't meet half of what they set. 108 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Jeon(f): 7:38pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: And a submissive woman 61 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:41pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Jeon: That one sef follow. 40 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:41pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:They are st**pid for a reason.. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by advanceDNA: 7:47pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
You sound angry... All for what?? Someone's opinion....?? Its funny how you invalidate people's opinion becos you dont agree....but you somehow wnt them to agree with yours for whatever reason best known to you... 443 Likes 39 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Jeon(f): 7:48pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
LOL.. IF YOU LIKE GO DIVIDE UR HEAD INTO SEVEN PIECES OR ACT LIKE AN ANCIENT BLACK SLAVE, YOU WILL STILL BE HATED FOR BEING A SISTER IN-LAW IN SOME FAMILY . so no time to please anyone.... just be yourself. 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Jeon(f): 7:50pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: And an Independent woman that will run around 24/7 with a housewife tag. 53 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Tozic: 7:51pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
And in the end, it all end with ''carry me de go my husband house'' 442 Likes 43 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:06pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Tozic: Well, it can't be me. 28 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:08pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
advanceDNA: I am angry because men are hypocritical most times. They can't take what they dish out! So, why won't I sound angry? I'm pained for the female gender. 40 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Tozic: 8:12pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Why? 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:22pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Tozic: I'm a spec. 28 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by talk2hb1(m): 8:42pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Las Las Everyone go get him own spec, virgin ooo, Mumu man Ooo, Submissive housegirlwife ooo, Tall Handsome Rich,... 37 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by anthonyuncle(m): 8:49pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
one man made a statement, you are attacking men. 134 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by advanceDNA: 9:02pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Men...?? You posted just one man's twitter post.., yet you are angry with all men for his opinion... Well..you are entitled to your views.....im sure the many guys feel the same way about the female gender too No one one is perfect....why not find yourself a man thats not hypocritical and leave the men that want their wives to care for the home... belive me, some women are happy to care for their home...no pretence 283 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Karleb(m): 9:05pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Has the world gone mad? How were you raised? When elders are doing a chore, are you not supposed to at least offer to help? It's what guys do easily. This is a type of conversation that needs to happen real life. Someone needs to slap you back to your senses. 348 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:43pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Karleb: You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter! 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Nazgul: 9:43pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
The pic you uploaded has nothing to do with standard, it's all about how the girl was brought up. We're Africans not Americans, African culture demands that when an elder is doing a chore or carrying something, you should offer to help. I've gotten up for a pregnant woman to sit down during my NIN registration, I didn't know her from anywhere, but I felt since she's pregnant she ought to sit while me the agile young man should do the standing...that's the way I was brought up. Even on the ATM, if line is long and I see an elderly person at the back, I'll go behind him/her as ask him/her to take my position and withdraw before me. Like I said, it has nothing to do with standard, it's just about how you were brought up. The girl on that pics you uploaded, has no respect for elderly people and one can easily conclude that she has little regard for her parents at home. The guy's mom did right by walking her out of her house, such behavior is not part of our culture. 448 Likes 53 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:44pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
talk2hb1: Yes. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:45pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
anthonyuncle: Oya, lie that you would have acted differently. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by anthonyuncle(m): 9:49pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: you, lie that i wouldn't 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by shege45: 10:02pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:would you settle for a broke man? 38 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Karleb(m): 10:02pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You tell the owner of the house what to do in her own house. Do you pay her rent? Do you know what you are talking about? What sort of insolence is this? 101 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by shege45: 10:03pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:if you dad is lifting something heavy in my presence, would I sit there and ignore him? 127 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:09pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
UpInTheSky: The entitlement mentality is nauseating. Disgusts me to the heavens. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:09pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
shege45: Broke is relative. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by techWriter3: 10:11pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
And in the beginning, it all beginning with ''bring me de betweens my husband bedroom'' |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:12pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Karleb: I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house. It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep? 25 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:14pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
shege45: You are a guest. My dad will never oblige your request. 5 Likes |
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