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You need to relax your mind bro....and stat taking ginger..trust me

spiano11:
You need to relax your mind bro....and stat taking ginger..trust me

Relaxing my mind is what I am finding hard to do whenever she's around me but I have read couple of counsels on the thread which I pray it will work for me with time.Having erection is not my problem especially when I'm alone but I can't get the di'ck up whenever she's around and when we start smooching my mind is always on the d'cik to get up but always fail me

You are Normal. What you are experiencing is performance and erection anxiety.

Be relaxed.
See sex as a no big deal.
Then limit your porn and masturbation.
Your fore-play game must be top-notch.

Lastly lift heavy. Squatting and dead-lifts very necessary.

[quote author=sammychimex post=88514725][/quote]Masturbation doesn't stop him from sleeping with his gf once it's not excessive.....dude is having an underlying issue ....let him deal with it.

sighting:
The last time she came somebody advised me to take Viagra of which I did but I did not feel aroused all through my mind was just panting as if I have not had sex with a woman before.I am fed up

dude, take your mind off sex and see everything fall in place.....you just need to stop taking drugs. Do you have any underlying ailment or you do take drugs to fvck women before? If yes, stop and stay off sex for a while....and change your diet...go protein and eat lotta fruits and more water.....

sighting:
I do exercise and I'm comfy with my body it's just the anxiety that is giving me headache that I'm trying hard to overcome

When you are ready you will

Skmoda:
dude, take your mind off sex and see everything fall in place.....you just need to stop taking drugs. Do you have any underlying ailment or you do take drugs to fvck women before? If yes, stop and stay off sex for a while....and change your diet...go protein and eat lotta fruits and more water.....

No I don't take drugs it was my first time of taking it but unfortunately it didn't work for me I thought it was going to get me aroused regardless of my anxiety but it never did She was completely naked for me to penetrate I cold not get hard but the moment she left I had a relief like a massive load off me and my di'ck was getting up again....the last girl I dated and broke up with mere looking at her smile alone will give me a hard dic'k but we broke up and I met this lady and she loves me so much I don't want to lose her and I think she wants us to have sex but anxiety won't let me

sammychimex:
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my guy go and look for this nollywood movie miss flawless that's exactly what happened to the guy ,you will get your answers there ,(in broda shaggy's voice) because oyibo says a problem shared is half solved .thank you

bestabigaelever:
Relax brother Relax

I do try but my mind do play tricks on me every time

Austine567:
my guy go and look for this nollywood movie miss flawless that's exactly what happened to the guy ,you will get your answers there ,(in broda shaggy's voice) because oyibo says a problem shared is half solved .thank you

okay,will look for it

sighting:
I swear to God you have just narrated my ordeal especially the part anytime she says she's coming to see me my mind will go up in the roof like it's going to explode.

lol....its always like that
you have to stop working hard for a solution cus the solution is you, just remove your mind from it.

why are you anxious?? its cus your afraid of not getting an erection, therefore tell your gal there wont be sex for now, give her any reason or tell her the truth but with that u have suppressed that which makes you anxious

I had the same problem some weeks back.This was d problem:Each time i tried to penetrate after i might have got erection,my prick just goes flat.
The solution:I told my doctor n he said I sud get sidafi tablet,I got to the nearest pharmacist,I explained n he recommended a pill "embagral forte"...
After I finished using the tablet,my system got back to normal.
Note:calm ur nerves down before u penetrate n do a lot of romance

Anti anxiety medication like setraline will help you.

Randy100:
Anti anxiety medication like setraline will help you.

can I get the "Setraline'' at the pharmacy?How much is it

klenton:
lol....its always like that
you have to stop working hard for a solution cus the solution is you, just remove your mind from it.

why are you anxious?? its cus your afraid of not getting an erection, therefore tell your gal there wont be sex for now, give her any reason or tell her the truth but with that u have suppressed that which makes you anxious

my mind pounds too much i see myself talking to the d'ick get up get up don't screw me up and at the end of the day it will remain flaccid.Somebody suggests here that I should get anti anxiety drug 'setraline'? can it work

klenton:
lol....its always like that
you have to stop working hard for a solution cus the solution is you, just remove your mind from it.

why are you anxious?? its cus your afraid of not getting an erection, therefore tell your gal there wont be sex for now, give her any reason or tell her the truth but with that u have suppressed that which makes you anxious

I have been battling with this anxiety a very long time ago my brother.Sometimes I I look at my dic'k and say why do you remain flaccid when you're needed...it usually gets freaking hard when it is not needed.but when it is needed my heart will start racing I become restless and sweating I will now start easing myself at intervals as though I have drank a drum of water

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sighting:
No I don't take drugs it was my first time of taking it but unfortunately it didn't work for me I thought it was going to get me aroused regardless of my anxiety but it never did She was completely naked for me to penetrate I cold not get hard but the moment she left I had a relief like a massive load off me and my di'ck was getting up again....the last girl I dated and broke up with mere looking at her smile alone will give me a hard dic'k but we broke up and I met this lady and she loves me so much I don't want to lose her and I think she wants us to have sex but anxiety won't let me

You need to see a psychologist or sex therapist . ....or better still you suffering from pussy phobia...... Or maybe it's anxiety disorder.... my take though.

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You need sexual healing

sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?

bro... Ur problem here is more of psychological. Why u do have failed erection is because of the thought of ur previous sexual failures thereby causing anxiety and immidiately renders u incapable. Hope u know sex itself is psychological, so anything that distracts u immediately takes u off the mood. So always bear it at the back of ur mind that failed erection is a complete normal thing that could happen to anybody depending on is mood and circumstances. So haven known this, u need to relax ur mind and never allow ur previous failed attempts ever cross ur mind again. Once ur mind is sound, relaxed and focuses on the sex which is meant to be enjoyed, u sure have a great sex. Always see urself as boss which u are

Also, pls quit masturbation and pornography, it kills ur self esteem... Always face real sex, it's more healthier....

clevybrown:
bro... Ur problem here is more of psychological. Why u do have failed erection is because of the thought of ur previous sexual failures thereby causing anxiety and immidiately renders u incapable. Hope u know sex itself is psychological, so anything that distracts u immediately takes u off the mood. So always bear it at the back of ur mind that failed erection is a complete normal thing that could happen to anybody depending on is mood and circumstances. So haven known this, u need to relax ur mind and never allow ur previous failed attempts ever cross ur mind again. Once ur mind is sound, relaxed and focuses on the sex which is meant to be enjoyed, u sure have a great sex. Always see urself as boss which u are

Also, pls quit masturbation and pornography, it kills ur self esteem... Always face real sex, it's more healthier....

Thank you for your advice

Have you for once consider the fact that you might not be really STRAIGHT? You can be romantically attracted to someone, but not in a sexual way.

We have diverse sexualities and romantic Identities today, and you have to take your time to discover yours. It seems you're still on the verge of discovery.

I'm suspecting that you're either Demi-sexual or Grey Asexual.. Well, it's your job to confirm!

sighting:
can I get the "Setraline'' at the pharmacy?How much is it

It is around 3k for a card. You can get it from pharmacy.

sighting:
Thank you for your advice

uwc bro... Trust me I was once there, that's y am here laughing so loud to ur descriptions and illustrations, exact thing happened to me, bro it wasn't funny at all
Just stop overrating sex, stop seeing it as a big deal, learn to turn down sex even wen it's stirring at u in the face, stop premeditating sex... With all this done, u will b perfectly back to normal. All u need is gaining that confidence back. Pls don't take drugs... Eat well, exercise well, reduce ur sugar intake and eat more fruits...

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I remember what happen to me around April 2012. I met this girl, she came to write NECO in my home town that year. We met in our Church and we started talking, from there we fell in love with each other and we started dating. One afternoon I invited her to our house and she came. After long discussion and gists, we started romancing and the greatest surprise of my life was that my Mr. D did not rise and I was very worried. Something like that has never happen to me before, I was worried. It was even gotten to a moment the girl expected me to off her trouser and begin the thing but my Mr. D disappointed me, the girl even used style to check if I have Mr D. After everything did not work the girl stood up and left that afternoon. I was embarrassed and shame full all over my body. I kept asking myself what could be the cause since have not experience such before. So I went to see one average old man and I explained everything to him, after my explanations the man just started laughing. I was like "shey ewo werey sha? nkan to n pa oloko MI lekun ni aparo yin fe fi ma rerin" Was saying that inside. So the man said its two things.
1, Either the girl is an ogbanje and she don't want me to have sex with her and she used that to overcome me. (I was very sure the girl need it that moment)
2, Or She possessed some evil sprites that might affect my Glory, life etc if I have sex with her and maybe my parents has done something for me when I was a baby to save from such things or the God am serving always protecting me even if am sinning.
I later leant the girl went to another guy's place when she left my side that day.

So after everything later that day, I invited my old girlfriend so that I can confirm what my problem was, the girl came and am telling you, we had good 3 rounds that evening and since then I haven't experience such again.

sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?

What if God is protecting you some infections on those two occassions

Guy be careful it maybe ur body warning u

sirmyke:
Guy be careful it maybe ur body warning u

my body warning me?I have been battling with it for long