OP, it seems your mind wants to have sex but your body is telling you otherwise. You are forcing your body. Your mind is not there. Settle every problem that's bothering you. That could be the root of your anxiety. Discuss with her to let her know that you're not interested in having sex, for now.
Cc sighting

DriggityDre:
OP, it seems your mind wants to have sex but your body is telling you otherwise. You are forcing your body. Your mind is not there. Settle every problem that's bothering you. That could be the root of your anxiety. Discuss with her to let her know that you're not interested in having sex, for now.
Cc sighting

thank u

sighting:
thank u

No problem.

sighting:
The link is not opening.Please,can you repost?

Its opening https:///IfdJLOylrEF4VQh8hSiCy2 or you drop your number to be added to the group.

Smoke some weed bro

congratulation you have a jeolous spiritual wife..

Try to av s*x with another woman and let's see how it goes before final conclusion

sammychimex:



Oga just relax take your time and do your do, stimulate each other's body well. You go dey alright last last. There is nothing inside the hole that bites.

O boy.. Comment of the year.

There is nothing inside the hole that bites... Lol

sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?

Don't commit suicide trying to please people you do not know but you think you know just because you spent few of your hours in life with them. The anxiety you get whenever you want to have sex is the same anxiety you just displayed by posting this on nairaland which is sad. Well my brother just try adjusting to the single life that serves you better than all these you are doing. Giving yourself and making the less important people in your life make you feel something is wrong and too much masturbation should be avoided.

sighting:
It can be embarrassing when you're about making love to a woman and your prick will not stand.I do smooch her and sometimes I do have erection but the moment I want to initiate sex I lose the erection completely and I'll be restless.I don't know what is wrong with me

I’ve experience this during my Sch days after so my years without sex it happened to me, you need to relax your mind, eat very well, exercise too absent from anything porn and masturbation then if you can see goko cleanser buy it like two bottles it will flush your system including excess sugar that’s all just relax your mind you will be fine

Well.... It depends on d mind set bro... Change it.. Change how u see d girl.. Whenever she comes, treat her normally, remove ur mind from sex infact see her as a normal girl or a very good friend... When d urge comes don't rush it... Allow it build up gently... Tell her things that turn u on, discuss sex with her, let her know d things dat drive u crazy sexually.. Does she ever seduce u? Is she seductive? Do u guys dry hump


I used to feel like dis wit my ex but her own case was dat she was a virgin.... D erection was not always strong enough t do d job and when it becomes, she complains of pains and den I becomes flaccid again.. She wasn't really seductive tho beautiful but she wasn't slutty if u know what I mean... I get hard wit her at first, den wen I persuade her and she becomes reluctant I loose d erection or I become semi erect...
Its really embarrassing bro.. And now av been wit diff girls and am doing perfectly fine... So one thing is ur anxiety another thing is her bedmatics skills, for play etc.. So free ur mind.. Play wit her, build up d tension... Let her stand up, watch her dance on panties, allow her give u a lap dance, dry hump her and watch urself come out victorious...

Two tin re involve..if u try all medication and d exercise plus d relaxation and others.. If u still experience network failure my guy d Simple truth..run faster Dan ur shadow... D second part !!!der is somerin misery abt d babe..it might b some protection in u,preventing d bad incident to happen..e don hapun to my friend..in his own case.e don dey date d babe for skool b4 and dem dey Bleep dem self wella..after many year dem reconnect.. As d saying, once logging is forever logging..my friend tried almost five time with d babe no action BT with other he get network..he travelled home to consult his father..he was told DT if not what my guy don chop for body..no b wetin dem go dey talk..if u try all mean and yet no action..just jejely withdraw.. Otherwise

You too dey rush...leave that prick inside trouser first...use your hand & tongue until the prick can't hold any longer...Also there's a chance you are making love to boring log of woods...

Danny110:
Well.... It depends on d mind set bro... Change it.. Change how u see d girl.. Whenever she comes, treat her normally, remove ur mind from sex infact see her as a normal girl or a very good friend... When d urge comes don't rush it... Allow it build up gently... Tell her things that turn u on, discuss sex with her, let her know d things dat drive u crazy sexually.. Does she ever seduce u? Is she seductive? Do u guys dry hump


I used to feel like dis wit my ex but her own case was dat she was a virgin.... D erection was not always strong enough t do d job and when it becomes, she complains of pains and den I becomes flaccid again.. She wasn't really seductive tho beautiful but she wasn't slutty if u know what I mean... I get hard wit her at first, den wen I persuade her and she becomes reluctant I loose d erection or I become semi erect...
Its really embarrassing bro.. And now av been wit diff girls and am doing perfectly fine... So one thing is ur anxiety another thing is her bedmatics skills, for play etc.. So free ur mind.. Play wit her, build up d tension... Let her stand up, watch her dance on panties, allow her give u a lap dance, dry hump her and watch urself come out victorious...

I'll do accordingly thank you

kalufelix:
You too dey rush...leave that prick inside trouser first...use your hand & tongue until the prick can't hold any longer...Also there's a chance you are making love to boring log of woods...

I always expect it to get hard fast the way it does when I watch porn but I have been advised to utterly stay away from watching porn which I will do to get my sex life back in good shape like every other men i can't continue battling with anxiety over sex ,so when it doesn't get hard the nervousness increases.

sammychimex:
Is your acute sexual anxiety covid-19 related? If not, We are prioritizing right now. We will deal with your sexual fantasy/anxiety later.


WE ARE ONLY OPEN TO COVID-19 CASES ONLY.

second the motion

sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?

Do you smoke SK, loud, ice crystal e.t.c, if yes stop for 3 days, consume vodka within that 3days invite your girl for sex and thank me later. Make sure nothing is stressing you of any kind. Of is not about this I have listed already then see a doctor

Spman:
I had dx same issh earlier dx year.

Pls reduce ur sugar intake.
Stop masturbation

then do exercise mostly squats and kegel then chew bitter kola,eat fruits and when she is around watch movies with her first or any comedy skit and laugh together thenn proceed let ur mind be on her ....dont let anythin distract u

I dont really know kegel exercise
Cos I heard if done wrongly. U tamper with some muscle and fu**k everything up

My Dear the only forward is to go to men clinic..

It happened to me at the age of 23 and now am 44.

It was men clinic that helped me out of that shameful situation.

Do not look back ..
Go for it .

It can even lead you to suicide.

Is humiliating.

sighting:
The last time she came somebody advised me to take Viagra of which I did but I did not feel aroused all through my mind was just panting as if I have not had sex with a woman before.I am fed up

Calm down though sex is meant for married people...
Most times the problem is that you may not be proud of your body...
You're too scared to let her see your flaccid body...
get stalk naked before her...
relax and play with her...
the miracle will happen...
stop hiding it...

0806 472 9707 WhatsApp for relationship issues. talk to a qualified counselor a sex therapist and a relationship expert Mr. T

It could be your location ,fear of being caught or the need to do it quickly may be your problem. Get a neutral ground, have some fun before the deal.

Dear o.p, we sell sex enhancers but dear you don't need it. Your issue is more psychological than medical, first of all change your mindset. I don't know why you should get scared of having sex. Sex is fun and relaxing,it strengths the bond of marriages and relationship. Change your mindset sir, avoid stressing your self, eat fruits, don't get too excited, put the fun mindset on mind.

Dear o.p, try some pre-intimacy, sex isn't a lake, it's an ocean with big waves, you need to warm up.
If you are not charged during pre-intimacy, thEn
there's more to it

welturebotanical:
Dear o.p, we sell sex enhancers but dear you don't need it. Your issue is more psychological than medical, first of all change your mindset. I don't know why you should get scared of having sex. Sex is fun and relaxing,it strengths the bond of marriages and relationship. Change your mindset sir, avoid stressing your self, eat fruits, don't get too excited, put the fun mindset on mind.

Dear o.p, try some pre-intimacy, sex isn't a lake, it's an ocean with big waves, you need to warm up.
If you are not charged during pre-intimacy, thEn
there's more to it

I don't know why I panic but I'm sure I will overcome it

sighting:
I don't know why I panic but I'm sure I will overcome it

You will overcome it indeed just like I am doing right now.
Let me share my case with you; Around mid March when this Corona virus issue started to escalate and countries began to close borders, I recorded quite a substantial loss in my business (I am a Flight Ticketing officer). Most of my customers who had boarded were sent back before entering the countries of their destination. I began to receive complaint calls from customers and it made me panic.
My fiancée was spending a week at my place. I returned from work one night and was seriously down, that night, we made love and it was hot and great as usual. After a round or two, I laid on the bed, cuddling my girl but my mind was on the problems I was having at work. About an hour later, my woman started doing her trademark touching, smooching that often signal that she wanted more action. I had always risen to the occasion anytime she came knocking, I reciprocated the romance and my P-man got the message that he was needed. I became hard but I noticed that it wasn't as hard as I used to be. After about 15-20mins of fore-play, she was already craving to have me inside her, I was ready to dive in as well. As I was about diving in when my mind wondered to my problems at work and I became flaccid. Omg! I didn't think of it much but my girl wasn't happy, she kept touching to see maybe P-man will rise but it didn't, I apologised and promised her a good session by dawn before I prepare for office.
At dawn, she was already awake, with kisses over me and all, I drew her close and was ready for action in no time but as I was about diving in, I went flaccid again. This really pained my girl and she started crying, she tried all she could but my P-man won't bulge. I felt so embarrassed that I thought about it all through the day at work. I wanted to make her smile again, I put my mind on doing wonders that night after work but I couldn't. Panic sets, anxiety followed, I started thinking of so many things. What is wrong with me? Am I going impotent? Is my many years of masturbation/porn getting at me now? Is this what I am gonna start enduring onward?
I started avoiding sex, I stopped porn and masturbation, I told my girl what was happening, she was unhappy and scared, we argued, she accused me of getting tired of her and feared that I might have eye for a new lady, I fought back, she left the morning after our fight. I became so scared of losing my girl that I took a day off work and went to a doctor nearby, after my complaint, the doctor told me that I was suffering from Performance Anxiety. She advised I start taking some supplements (Reload for Men and Re-youth men capsule), she also gave me Vam Vira by Tuyil pharmaceuticals to take an hour before sex, and most importantly, I had to start taking fruits (Watermelon, Carrot, Apple and bananas), ginger, garlic and lime blended with warm water and exercises too. My fiancée came back about 3days later, begged and apologised for her actions, she promised to fight the issue with me, I told her about the drugs too. We had sex that night and it was like we used to (even better as the Vam Vira made me really rock hard). After about 3 rounds of hot, sensual sex with multiple of orgasms, my girl started begging . I felt so good that night, my girl was happy and slept like a baby.
I took all what the Doctor said and started doing them religiously. I took the Vam Vira just twice and I have not taken it since then. My girl came around last week for my birthday and we had good sex session. She confessed to me during one of our sessions saying, 'Honey, you are really back!'
I won't say I have fully recovered but I am getting myself back steadily and I pray to keep going.
Note: I have stopped porn and masturbation since and I have been exercising in my room every morning. My ginger/garlic solution I have been taking on a regular and I Don become one baddest fruits lover

I hope you can learn and pick few things from my experience to help you recover. But one thing is certain and that is
'Millions of men have experienced and recovered while more will experience and recover from what you are experiencing right now' This too shall pass. SHALOM

tobby20:

I dont really know kegel exercise
Cos I heard if done wrongly. U tamper with some muscle and fu**k everything up

search it on youtube

oprah007:

You will overcome it indeed just like I am doing right now.
Let me share my case with you; Around mid March when this Corona virus issue started to escalate and countries began to close borders, I recorded quite a substantial loss in my business (I am a Flight Ticketing officer). Most of my customers who had boarded were sent back before entering the countries of their destination. I began to receive complaint calls from customers and it made me panic.
My fiancée was spending a week at my place. I returned from work one night and was seriously down, that night, we made love and it was hot and great as usual. After a round or two, I laid on the bed, cuddling my girl but my mind was on the problems I was having at work. About an hour later, my woman started doing her trademark touching, smooching that often signal that she wanted more action. I had always risen to the occasion anytime she came knocking, I reciprocated the romance and my P-man got the message that he was needed. I became hard but I noticed that it wasn't as hard as I used to be. After about 15-20mins of fore-play, she was already craving to have me inside her, I was ready to dive in as well. As I was about diving in when my mind wondered to my problems at work and I became flaccid. Omg! I didn't think of it much but my girl wasn't happy, she kept touching to see maybe P-man will rise but it didn't, I apologised and promised her a good session by dawn before I prepare for office.
At dawn, she was already awake, with kisses over me and all, I drew her close and was ready for action in no time but as I was about diving in, I went flaccid again. This really pained my girl and she started crying, she tried all she could but my P-man won't bulge. I felt so embarrassed that I thought about it all through the day at work. I wanted to make her smile again, I put my mind on doing wonders that night after work but I couldn't. Panic sets, anxiety followed, I started thinking of so many things. What is wrong with me? Am I going impotent? Is my many years of masturbation/porn getting at me now? Is this what I am gonna start enduring onward?
I started avoiding sex, I stopped porn and masturbation, I told my girl what was happening, she was unhappy and scared, we argued, she accused me of getting tired of her and feared that I might have eye for a new lady, I fought back, she left the morning after our fight. I became so scared of losing my girl that I took a day off work and went to a doctor nearby, after my complaint, the doctor told me that I was suffering from Performance Anxiety. She advised I start taking some supplements (Reload for Men and Re-youth men capsule), she also gave me Vam Vira by Tuyil pharmaceuticals to take an hour before sex, and most importantly, I had to start taking fruits (Watermelon, Carrot, Apple and bananas), ginger, garlic and lime blended with warm water and exercises too. My fiancée came back about 3days later, begged and apologised for her actions, she promised to fight the issue with me, I told her about the drugs too. We had sex that night and it was like we used to (even better as the Vam Vira made me really rock hard). After about 3 rounds of hot, sensual sex with multiple of orgasms, my girl started begging . I felt so good that night, my girl was happy and slept like a baby.
I took all what the Doctor said and started doing them religiously. I took the Vam Vira just twice and I have not taken it since then. My girl came around last week for my birthday and we had good sex session. She confessed to me during one of our sessions saying, 'Honey, you are really back!'
I won't say I have fully recovered but I am getting myself back steadily and I pray to keep going.
Note: I have stopped porn and masturbation since and I have been exercising in my room every morning. My ginger/garlic solution I have been taking on a regular and I Don become one baddest fruits lover

I hope you can learn and pick few things from my experience to help you recover. But one thing is certain and that is
'Millions of men have experienced and recovered while more will experience and recover from what you are experiencing right now' This too shall pass. SHALOM

I suppose my panic and anxiety issue could be related to porn and masturbation based on counsels I have read here so far of which I am going to stop engaging in them totally and for good.I don't want to lose this girl like I lost others owing to this same problem of anxiety.When I feel they can't arouse me in my anxiety condition I do everything to cut off the relationship but this girl I don't want to lose her.

Not a sexual problem pls.its pure a psychnlogical problem.

fetrillion:
I had the same problem some weeks back.This was d problem:Each time i tried to penetrate after i might have got erection,my prick just goes flat.
The solution:I told my doctor n he said I sud get sidafi tablet,I got to the nearest pharmacist,I explained n he recommended a pill "embagral forte"...
After I finished using the tablet,my system got back to normal.
Note:calm ur nerves down before u penetrate n do a lot of romance

Was it a permanent solution or temporary... I mean after u finushd the dose...like u dont have to keep repeating

Ballotelle:

Was it a permanent solution or temporary... I mean after u finushd the dose...like u dont have to keep repeating

Yes..I stopped after taking the 4th pill

Do you use to have sex in dreams and have you ever masturbated before?

Mystery9:
Do you use to have sex in dreams and have you ever masturbated before?

Yes I have had wet dreams it usually happens when I don't have sex for a long time plus I do masturbate once or twice in a month