Olofin2:

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

Olofin2:
I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever.

Ningen:


Says someone who begged to put the tip

Powerexpert:
Hope you've been supportive all through the process.
Communication is key though.
It also depends on who is in charge?
Hope you also meet her expectation in the other room?

Olofin2:


I don't keep friends. So I'm always at home. Our baby understands me more than anyone because if she's crying and refuses to be soothed by her mother, she would stop crying once her mother angrily dumps her on me. It's only breastfeeding that our baby can't get from me. I know so much about medical things and wife would consult me first before applying anything on the baby. Financially, it can be said that I'm the one working for the salary she's receiving monthly (you can't understand this aspect) and we only spend my own salary.

So, does she wants me to get intimacy from somewhere else?

Oluneutral:
How come nobody is seeing.........
1. Their baby is just 3 months old and the baby is their first child.

2. She delivered through CS.

3. She started refusing sex when she was seven months pregnant.

Na wa o! Women, always at the receiving end.

Mr Man, try and empathize with your wife.

She has fears, maturely find out the cause of her fears and not by ignoring her.

I pray for wisdom for you.

CAPSLOCKED:
BUT IF TIDY SOAPY FOR THE NEXT 2-6 MONTHS YOU WON'T DIE.
THE CS WOMAN NEEDS A BREAK, AND THE BEST YOU CAN DO IS TO UNDERSTAND, TOLERATE, AND ENDURE.

MrBrownJay1:


no man can "understand/tolerate/endure" while no excuse nor explanations is given to him...

doitforyou:
She is nursing a three month old and a CS scar, so obviously she’s had big changes. Sometimes the way to a woman’s pvssy is not just by words but by actions, if you offer to take care of the baby for just a day or even give her the weekend off it will make a difference. You come across as selfish in your post, I wonder if your wife thinks so too.

Olofin2:


Talking of being supportive, her people think I'm from a different planet because of the length I went in suppoting her.

In the other room, no one does that better than I do, I think.

MrBrownJay1:


no man can "understand/tolerate/endure" while no excuse nor explanations is given to him...

scrolldown88:
Women!
I would have said talk to her, but since this has been going on for months I'm going to go ahead and assume you've already done that.

So ignore her for now.
If my calculations are right, she should come crawling back when she notice that you've ignored her.

Let me tell y'all a secret. It doesn't matter if you are married to her or not, when they want, women will always use sex as a bargaining chip. This is highly manipulative to say the least and it works everytime. Call it Powe play, call it whatever. She is using sex to manipulate you. Now she already has you begging.

My advice: don't beg her anymore. Give her the space she seem to crave so much. Ignore her even. That's the only way to swing the balance.

But let's pray she's not seeing someone else, because if she is, then there's little chance that whatever you do will change anything.

Then again I'm not married, so, what do I know?

Casemiro:

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL, WHO NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND, TOLERATE, AND ENDURE IN THE REAL SENSE OF THINGS WHEN YOU CAN EASILY SEND HER PACKING, AND START TO PATRONIZE CODEDRUNS AND CO.

Olofin2:


I don't keep friends. So I'm always at home. Our baby understands me more than anyone because if she's crying and refuses to be soothed by her mother, she would stop crying once her mother angrily dumps her on me. It's only breastfeeding that our baby can't get from me. I know so much about medical things and wife would consult me first before applying anything on the baby. Financially, it can be said that I'm the one working for the salary she's receiving monthly (you can't understand this aspect) and we only spend my own salary.

So, does she wants me to get intimacy from somewhere else?

Ningen:
Give her space.
She's probably insecure about her body.




Says someone who begged to put the tip