crackkhaus:
The very first day you begged her before she had sex with you, was the day your problem began.
Shit-test score = F9


You must either quit begging, or simply continue begging.
The choice is yours and it ain't that complicated.

MrBrownJay1:


what has the above got to do with refusing sex with your husband AND/OR giving husband no reason or explanation whatsoever?!

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

See him dirty mouth, I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever . You will not allow the poor nursing mother rest

Olofin2:


I don't keep friends. So I'm always at home. Our baby understands me more than anyone because if she's crying and refuses to be soothed by her mother, she would stop crying once her mother angrily dumps her on me. It's only breastfeeding that our baby can't get from me. I know so much about medical things and wife would consult me first before applying anything on the baby. Financially, it can be said that I'm the one working for the salary she's receiving monthly (you can't understand this aspect) and we only spend my own salary.

So, does she wants me to get intimacy from somewhere else?

Olofin2:


I don't keep friends. So I'm always at home. Our baby understands me more than anyone because if she's crying and refuses to be soothed by her mother, she would stop crying once her mother angrily dumps her on me. It's only breastfeeding that our baby can't get from me. I know so much about medical things and wife would consult me first before applying anything on the baby. Financially, it can be said that I'm the one working for the salary she's receiving monthly (you can't understand this aspect) and we only spend my own salary.

So, does she wants me to get intimacy from somewhere else?

scrolldown88:
Women!
I would have said talk to her, but since this has been going on for months I'm going to go ahead and assume you've already done that.

So ignore her for now.
If my calculations are right, she should come crawling back when she notice that you've ignored her.

Let me tell y'all a secret. It doesn't matter if you are married to her or not, when they want, women will always use sex as a bargaining chip. This is highly manipulative to say the least and it works everytime. Call it Powe play, call it whatever. She is using sex to manipulate you. Now she already has you begging.

My advice: don't beg her anymore. Give her the space she seem to crave so much. Ignore her even. That's the only way to swing the balance.

But let's pray she's not seeing someone else, because if she is, then there's little chance that whatever you do will change anything.

Then again I'm not married, so, what do I know?

MrBrownJay1:
since she stopped way before the child was born then obviously, the "childbirth" is not the issue... why dont you sit down and communicate with your wife to know exactly what the problem is (and possibly find a solution)?

so instead of begging for sex, why dont you beg for a sit down and open heart discussion...

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

doitforyou:
She is nursing a three month old and a CS scar, so obviously she’s had big changes. Sometimes the way to a woman’s pvssy is not just by words but by actions, if you offer to take care of the baby for just a day or even give her the weekend off it will make a difference. You come across as selfish in your post, I wonder if your wife thinks so too.

Edit: It’s great that you’re bonding with your baby but do you also help in bathing the baby? Feeding? changing the diaper? Are you awake at 2.00am to feed the baby? Do you get to sleep for only 3 hours a day? Have your hormones being put through the ringer for a year?

If she’s a first time mother then you’ve to be patient she had a CS and your child is just 3 months. Also, you need to stop looking at your marital sex from a perspective of its only your right to enjoy. Sex should be enjoyed by both of you and if there’s a problem why one of you isn’t then it’s your problem too.

If your wife’s happiness is your priority and not just your libido then give her a day, a weekend off, tell her to take time off to take care of herself, let her take a break and she will come back to you fully recharged.

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

Plead:


Only sensible post on the thread

Oyindidi:
Mr man sex no be food, allow the woman to rest. She never heal from the cs you want shook again. You dey talk of she no gree you do since her 7th month, you no feel sorry for her? Abeg see reason with your wife instead of reporting her to kids here.

MRbitcoin869:
She is stupid.....u have the right to rape her....if she doesn't submit herself to you
It under the law..... Remember you paid her bride price



See my signature for something nice

MRbitcoin869:
She is stupid.....u have the right to rape her....if she doesn't submit herself to you
It under the law..... Remember you paid her bride price



See my signature for something nice

OlawaleBammie:



Oga if i were u i wil just leave her alone for like 8months to 1 year and see what she's up to.

1) just avoid her touching ur sensitive parts to avoid arousing u
2) provide watever ur family need as u hav always done.
3) smile to her always, pls with her, tickle her but dont let her tickle u back
4)plsy with her and take her out
5) Dont sound sissy while with her, sounds like a scary man at times
6) Dont always give deep details of ur whereabouts, just say i want to get to underbridge, final. What u want to do there, who h want to meet there is not much of her concern.
7) as i said earlier, PLS TRY TO B RESPONSIBLE AT HOME EVEN AS TWICE AS BEFORE. BUT DONT ASK FOR SEX
Dont ever report her to anybody
9)Try as much as posible to play out with ur niggas, wen u get home just take ur shower, go to her and peck her den go to bed straight..




In all u do just try as much as posible to confuse her with how u deal with tins, i swear she would call u for board meeting.

The pure thin is dat she wont have anything to hold against u but she would b feeling the sidelining terribly.

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

incogni2o:


Are you married Mr.

If Yes , advice with experience.

If No reply with a cancel of your post

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?