₦airaland Forum

khiaa:
The amount of Nigerian women bleaching is astronomical. You can see the black nuckles, knee caps, ankles, while the other parts are near white. It's disgusting. You can only name a couple of black American celebrities who bleach.

And you stay in Nigeria to know that.

You are too bitter and mule headed to argue with

khiaa:
Nigerian women would choose a broke drug addict, criminal, ugly gay white boy over a successful black man simply because his skin is white. The inferiority complex is real.

Over a Nigerian man, no. But over an African American man. Yes and Yes.

But don't lump us in your category pls. You guys have privilege and achieve nothing with it. We have nothing and continue to fight to get at the top

funmisticqueen2:
With media conditioning of white,light, bright as the standard of beauty, it is truly hard for beauty to be in the eye of the beholder.

It is what it is. Even black women would marry white, but because black men guilt them to stay in the black race, as brooding mares for their sons.

If I was an African American woman, I would date every single other men, African, carribean, Latina, Chinese, Indian, white, except for African American men.

Besides the whites are more open to life, African Americans to me, seem closed off and bitter.

This nurse don't fool yourself or overestimate yourself African American women and Black women in General are the LEAST desired in the dating game followed by those chinko Asian men and the funny thing is it has nothing to do with COLOR most African American women always come off as "Crazy and very Aggressive". They're masculine it came from their Societies ravaged with bitter single mother's everywhere who feed their daughters HATE which makes their Societies Matriarchal.

Chukapage:
This nurse don't fool yourself or overestimate yourself African American women and Black women in General are the LEAST desired in the dating game followed by those chinko Asian men and the funny thing is it has nothing to do with COLOR most African American women always come off as "Crazy and very Aggressive". They're masculine it came from their Societies ravaged with bitter single mother's everywhere who feed their daughters HATE which makes their Societies Matriarchal.

Don't ignorantly refer to me as a nurse

funmisticqueen2:
Over a Nigerian man, no. But over an African American man. Yes and Yes.

But don't lump us in your category pls. You guys have privilege and achieve nothing with it. We have nothing and continue to fight to get at the top

We are at the top so stop your stereotypical bullcrap. It only make you look envious and inferior.

khiaa:
We are at the top so stop your stereotypical bullcrap. It only make you look envious and inferior.

Lol!!

I'll leave you alone. The wounded animal parole bus pathetic to watch

khiaa:
Americans do not bleach, nobody bleaches like Nigerians orhter than Indians. You guys have a sickness for light skin

it's this your STRONG HATE for African and Nigerian people that made me bash your people one time even though you denied your HATE you've started again.

Deepfeel:
This is what I want to hear , I don't consider them as true Africans.

Arabs born in europe are still arabs because their parents teach them be still be arabs, the same with indians in europe and africa, the same with europeans in africa. Its simple, a lot of africans have low IQ and cant teach their children better and are killing of their african identity once they get to europe. Even in Africa some of our low IQ , even one of the most popular nigerian star Osita Iheme has white wife, thats wouldn't be imposible if he wasnt searching. Low IQ ah.

funmisticqueen2:
Don't ignorantly refer to me as a nurse

who doesn't know you're a health worker or Nurse whatever who also doubles as a feminist man eater/man hater.. you don chop man today??

John not James Steinbeck.

Jaubdu:
. Yeah it's a choice but don't you think the way we bashed our women, they may force to make a choice?

They can make their choice so can we too we can marry white women which is more rampant these days.......plus u women also bash us just like d op above

Jaubdu:
. Yeah it's a choice but don't you think the way we bashed our women, they may force to make a choice?

I can't speak for bigots. But this silly thread of us paints all black men you have dated or seen someone dating brings down their ladies - like everything black men do around you is bad. There are good exceptions out there.

Getting married outside one's race is good cause we all belong to one complete human race.

You can be loved by anyone in as much as you create the place for love and respect to blossom. I will not generalise but some characters portrayed by Black Women can lead to what comes up in their relationships. Except you are with a bigot

Originalsly:
At OP.... aren't you guilty of the same thing you are complaining about? ..... Black men putting down Black women and here you are putting down Black men. If your preference is White men you don't have to justify it by putting down MoC. There are hundreds of thousands of happily married educated Black women married to Black men. There are sooo many Black men who treat their women like like Queens. But too many of our women say they are Queens.... want to be treated that way...... but don't behave like Queens. Do Black men put down their women? ..hell yes... but there is a double standard. What they would never allow the Black woman to get away with.... they would allow the White woman to get away with twice as much. Same goes for Black women dating White men.... double standards all around.

After alllll...... are you now married to your gentle and understanding
White man?

Shw sounded like a bleep of a Thot.ake you choice and don't say bullshit. Just leave with your actions

Petyprincess:
I believe different strokes for different persons
I lost interest in black guys the day my ex cheated on me nd it has been my best decision ever!! Interracial relationships are beautiful if we see human not colours!
One thing i noticed about white guys is they are straight forward nd honest unlike...... Naturally i am attracted to white men bt it seems Nigerian guys can't accept the fact we finding love outside our race!! Guys here insult nd bash you for your choice bt will lick a old white ass woman for green card! I think we should respect people's choice of whoever they want to date or marry irrespective of their race!!

You do have some valid points but i always have an issue when people generalize..dated most races but never dated a Nigerian or african,not out of spite but simple cos i hardly have any around me and if i was to judge a whole race based on my relationships or based on shows i have watched..i will die single..each race..tribe or nation has those crazy people and leys just hope and pray we get that person who appreciates us for who we are..regardless of race

milehigh06:
You do have some valid points but i always have an issue when people generalize..dated most races but never dated a Nigerian or african,not out of spite but simple cos i hardly have any around me and if i was to judge a whole race based on my relationships or based on shows i have watched..i will die single..each race..tribe or nation has those crazy people and leys just hope and pray we get that person who appreciates us for who we are..regardless of race

Amen

So I was wondering why our Queen are throwing in the towel for white man. I stumble on this interesting write up. Hope we black men can learn one or two.

Why? You don't get the bullshit some Black men give.

White men who are like-minded (educated, articulate, open minded, etc.) will not do the following:

Down your beauty while they uphold White women as the sole standard of it.
Call you Bitches, Hoes or Thots (Thot means “That hoe over there.”)
Make asinine distinctions between dark skinned and light skinned Black women. The idiotic phrases “Dark skin or light skinned girls be like” sickens me to my core.
In addition, having gainful employment is NORMAL. Attending college is NORMAL. No unemployed, uneducated Pookie from the corner living off of a woman types of situations.

Growing up and seeing this sickened me.

Yeah Brothers go to school. They play sports. But what do they forget about once they reach that success? Black women. Then what they do? Talk down about us worse than bigots.

Some of us (raises hand) ME and more Sisters like me could care less. I wouldn't have them in my bed so have at it.

I'll say the non MoC (men of color) I've met throughout my life have treated me MUCH better. They're not ashamed of our melanin. They love it. I LOVED my college years!!

When I stopped dating Black men many moons ago, that's when I began to be loved and respected for who I was.

I wasn't expected to live up to a stereotypical image Media conjured out of thin air.

The non MoC in my life weren't jealous that I was educated or expected me to be ignorant and ghetto.

They didn't laugh at how I loved JRR Tolkien, Charlotte Bronte or James Steinbeck.

I wasn't accused of trying to be White.

I wasn't called bitter when I spoke up about disrespect.

They didn't try to hold me down or back or make feel unworthy.

Do you have assholes in every race? Sure. Do you have some that will fetish us just for being Black? Yes, and I steer clear of them. They're sick.

However, I prefer not to be with Black, Jamaican, Hatian, African, etc men. And won't be.

Does it offend? Sure. Do I give a Bleep? Not at all.

I notice some get REALLY bitter and jealous when we date outside of our race.

Since they perceive Sisters as ugly and second class animals, they attempt project their asinine bullshit onto non MoC.

Nah. Save it.

They can't abide seeing us be treated with kindness and dignity, yet these are the same ones who are laid up with Becky with the good hair. *stirs tea* Yeah. Okay.

Why do we date White and other Non MoC?

We've grown weary of Black male antics.
We refuse to be labeled as inferior to White women due to their own self-hatred.
We've become desensitized to just about everything about them.
We will not be treated like trash, called names and disrespected.
We want to live good lives. Not in poverty.
We date them because they treat us like the Queens we are. Who wouldn't want that?

Now some Sisters will hold on to Black men no matter how much they dog them. They'll go to the grave being cheated on and exploited. Well, they can have all of that nonsense.

I've often been accused of hating Black men. I wouldn't go that far but *shrugs* I certainly don't care what they think of me nor do I allow my self confidence to rely on their limited perception.

If that's hate, they'll get over it. So yeah. I'm team Interracial. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

1) the answer is in the question

(They are educated)

2) are you joking? The average black man is racist to his own race

9 times out of 10 a black man will choose a lighter skinned black over a darker skinned black woman

To us, its not the same. Beautiful is beautiful darker or lighter

Grow up and see the flaws in your nationality of men and stop cherry picking