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I pay all the bills ....yet my fiancé isn't totally submissive got to send her back to her place today cos I can't kill myself

cooooooks:
I don't believe your brags.

Furthermore, runs is still a major thing in our country.

She's very right.

Well, I have nothing to proof. Believe what you want!

I spend on my family and occasionally send my woman something because she doesn't depend on me for her sustenance. She works and makes her own money, which actually makes me respect her the more

From experience, most girls that think of having a man as their meal ticket are unemployed and have nothing to offer. Sex is the cheapest thing to get these days. Maybe because I'm in a student environment anyways

NockMedia:
LOL there is enough to go round

Just hope , cause it happens.

Look at the US for example where almost everything is equal, our men out in the US r crying, a woman can send you packing from you own house . N u can’t do nothing , cause they feel so relaxed n don’t work ur ass off to be the provider , that’s how disrespect comes up . They leave u for a big dick n a richer man n care less about ur feeling cause add no value to their lives .

NockMedia:
LOL there is enough to go round

Maybe, this op isn't in Nigeria!

There are a lot of ladies to go round. A lot

People keep saying this but it has almost never been the case at all times

I have looked at my parents generation and in virtually all cases, the men were established before the women and helped their wives get jobs or enroll in a program. However, in most cases, the wives quickly caught up or surpassed their husbands.

Why do people keep promulgating this falsehood?

NockMedia:
You have a point, my friend. But you see, in a society like ours, the men are the chief breadwinners...so you can't fault the opposite sex

Liliantalks:
if u see a woman willing to support fine but thats until u get ur shit together

Some of u will just open ur big mouths like a whale and talk on issues you have no knowledge or understanding on at all.

Just look at you. You aint bright at all.

Liliantalks:
okay kudos

that does not mean we will sacrificed our headship

Many employed women also subscribe to the "what is yours is ours and what is mine is mine" mentality but I doubt that saying will last for long. I think it has lasted smiling because many men use this saying as a source of their unbridled pride

Samakus:
Well, I have nothing to proof. Believe what you want!

I spend on my family and occasionally send my woman something because she doesn't depend on me for her sustenance. She works and makes her own money, which actually makes me respect her the more

From experience, most girls that think of having a man as their meal ticket are unemployed and have nothing to offer. Sex is the cheapest thing to get these days. Maybe because I'm in a student environment anyways

Liliantalks:
how ?

A man opened a thread that women are confused.
A woman opened a thread that men are confused.

Inference
If both cases are true, then men and women are both confused.
If either case is true, then either men or women are confused. But we can't logically prove it since the both accusers are saying the same thing but in the opposite (gender wise) sense.
If none of the cases is true, then the accusers are both confused.

That is syllogism in the neutral view.

Samakus:
Maybe, this op isn't in Nigeria!

There are a lot of ladies to go round. A lot

lol like u can love every woman u meet ! Single men r still out there, because of this expectation.

Liliantalks:
lol like u can love every woman u meet ! Single men r still out there, because of this expectation.

Let it not seem like I brag but babe, we don't lack 'em. Trust me

Lostz:
that does not mean we will sacrificed our headship

u are still talking about leadership , u must be kidding

cooooooks:
People keep saying this but it has almost never been the case at all times

I have looked at my parents generation and in virtually all cases, the men were established before the women and helped their wives get jobs or enroll in a program. However, in most cases, the wives quickly caught up or surpassed their husbands.

Why do people keep promulgating this falsehood?

So what is your point, sir?
The OP is focused on submissiveness

cooooooks:
People keep saying this but it has almost never been the case at all times

I have looked at my parents generation and in virtually all cases, the men were established before the women and helped their wives get jobs or enroll in a program. However, in most cases, the wives quickly caught up or surpassed their husbands.

Why do people keep promulgating this falsehood?

so you are now saying that women are doing better financially in Nigeria?


almost every house in Nigeria, the man is the breadwinner. he pay the bills and the wife support

Samakus:
Let it not seem like I brag but babe, we don't lack 'em. Trust me

r u stingy ? If yes , u lack them . U just get free Pusey from girls with boyfriends

CsRockefeller:
Some of u will just open ur big mouths like a whale and talk on issues you have no knowledge or understanding on at all.

Just look at you. You aint bright at all.

Nah bro. Attack the message but not the messenger!!

You can do better. We're just cross fertilizing opinions

Liliantalks:
u are still talking about leadership , u must be kidding

headship is a God given right. it is not tied to bills

Liliantalks:
r u stingy ? If yes , u lack them . U just get free Pusey from girls with boyfriends

Yes dear. I'm stingy!! I have my family to care for materially. Babe gets things occasionally and she sends me things occasionally too. It's a mutually beneficial relationship.

There's no parasite in it whatsoever!

She gives me pussy too and I give her dick. And if she misbehaves which she hasn't yet, I draw another closer as I don't fail to have one around even though nothing is going on between us.

Lostz:
headship is a God given right. it is not tied to bills

it is o ,, there is a reason God said a man should roll the soil!! U are the breadwinner n the head!!

Liliantalks:
Just hope , cause it happens.

Look at the US for example where almost everything is equal, our men out in the US r crying, a woman can send you packing from you own house . N u can’t do nothing , cause they feel so relaxed n don’t work ur ass off to be the provider , that’s how disrespect comes up . They leave u for a big dick n a richer man n care less about ur feeling cause add no value to their lives .

I get your point, sweetie but not all American women are that way. You're stereotyping. Stop it.
Anyways, grand feminism in the states is one of the reasons American men travel out to marry Filipinos and eastern European women.
These foreign ladies then become feminists like their American counterparts when brought to the states by their American spouse. After awhile.
The cycle continues

Samakus:
Yes dear. I'm stingy!! I have my family to care for materially. Babe gets things occasionally and she sends me things occasionally too. It's a mutually beneficial relationship.

There's no parasite in it whatsoever!

She gives me pussy too and I give her dick. And if she misbehaves which she hasn't yet, I draw another closer as I don't fail to have one around even though nothing is going on between us.

just hope she doesn’t meet a better guy who would swept her off her feet . And spend on her

Lostz:
but that is what submission actually mean; a man should have the final say

Yes in all cases he should especially if he's reasonable but when it comes to things like asking your wife to prepare dinner after a long hard day at work and she doesn't that's not insubordination. That's more of a man who is not understanding

I said even if the marriage starts with the man as the breadwinner, many families eventually get to the dynamic where the woman is earning as much or more.

I think it's not a majority of families but it's not a distant minority. Probably between 30 - 60%

Lostz:
so you are now saying that women are doing better financially in Nigeria?


almost every house in Nigeria, the man is the breadwinner. he pay the bills and the wife support

'submissiveness' should be banned from our dating vocabulary.

If a guy says this, all girls should run and if a girl indicates this, guys should run (because she likely expects you to be the sole provider).

NockMedia:
So what is your point, sir?
The OP is focused on submissiveness

NockMedia:
I get your point, sweetie but not all American women are that way. You're stereotyping. Stop it.
Anyways, grand feminism in the states is one of the reasons American men travel out to marry Filipinos and eastern European women.
These foreign ladies then become feminists like their American counterparts when brought to the states by their American spouse. After awhile.
The cycle continues

I am talking of Nigerians marrying Nigerians in the foreign world!!
The Americans r used to that life .
Nigerian men dating white women hv this boundaries they don’t cross , nothing like head u are equal,
But men taking Nigerian women to the US with the allusion that a Nigerian woman hv values , while they expect her to work n share bills is what I mean

Liliantalks:
just hope she doesn’t meet a better guy who would swept her off her feet . And spend on her

She has her money! When you have money to take care of your bills, dude will concentrate on giving you treats. That's what I do.

And she loves me like kilode. Everyday, she's afraid of losing me. Probably because we're both in a campus environment and she sees the quality of ladies flocking around. When you work in a student environment, you will understand that girls are cheap to get. No offense meant

If a woman loves you more than you love her, it reduces the chances of her misbehaving

Now, I really have to go

Liliantalks:
I am talking of Nigerians marrying Nigerians in the foreign world!!
The Americans r used to that life .
Nigerian men dating white women hv this boundaries they don’t cross , nothing like head u are equal,
But men taking Nigerian women to the US with the allusion that a Nigerian woman hv values , while they expect her to work n share bills is what I mean

LOL maybe it's because I didn't include African women or should I say Nigerian women to the list of filipinas and eastern European ladies.
You see, the truth is, the society determines the way and manner women behave.
If you take a Nigerian lady to the States, it's just a matter of time before her eyes gets opened and she starts to behave and reason like her American counterparts.

Samakus:
She has her money! When you have money to take care of your bills, dude will concentrate on giving you treats. That's what I do.

And she loves me like kilode. Everyday, she's afraid of losing me. Probably because we're both in a campus environment and she sees the quality of ladies flocking around. When you work in a student environment, you will understand that girls are cheap to get. No offense meant

If a woman loves you more than you love her, it reduces the chances of her misbehaving

Now, I really have to go

lol be like u never hear say man money Dey sweet !!

R u a student ? I don’t understand the school environment issue

cooooooks:
I said even if the marriage starts with the man as the breadwinner, many families eventually get to the dynamic where the woman is earning as much or more.

I think it's not a majority of families but it's not a distant minority. Probably between 30 - 60%

where did you get those lies from?

men are still bread winners till old age.



check the workforce stats, men earn more on the average.

women are minorities in top job

DominusPrime:
Yes in all cases he should especially if he's reasonable but when it comes to things like asking your wife to prepare dinner after a long hard day at work and she doesn't that's not insubordination. That's more of a man who is not understanding

submission means she will obey as long as she is married

NockMedia:
LOL maybe it's because I didn't include African women or should I say Nigerian women to the list of filipinas and eastern European ladies.
You see, the truth is, the society determines the way and manner women behave.
If you take a Nigerian lady to the States, it's just a matter of time before her eyes gets opened and she starts to behave and reason like her American counterparts.

true definitely n who regrets it? If u want a woman not to think of the possibility of doing without you , give her reasons to

Liliantalks:
it is o ,, there is a reason God said a man should roll the soil!! U are the breadwinner n the head!!

God said the woman should also support financially