BoredBerry:
Sorry... I'll rather trust a snake than a Nigerian man... Snakes make more sense... The latter are spawns of the devil... Breed like rats, generally unintelligent, have issues settling down, evil...and the list goes on...

I've never thought of being loyal to one... They don't deserve it

sandra50:
If we can't be loyal and trust each other how then are we expected to become one?sad..didn't see this one coming,he was too peaceful for this.

Iyaebe:
Never be in a relationship for more than six months, quit that time wasting relationship immediately it hits six months and no concrete moves from your boyfriend.

BoredBerry:
Most marriages in Nigeria are informal agreements... It's all tolerance..

Iyaebe:
Never be in a relationship for more than six months, quit that time wasting relationship immediately it hits six months and no concrete moves from your boyfriend.

Stenewiser:
you turn down three marriage proposal sake of your ego, now you are contemplating cheating, my dear I see you washing church toilet everyday for a husband, some areas of life wouldn't have need prayer but we make it need prayer due to our carelessness.

everythinggirly:
Sorry darling. Some men always want to play on our faithfulness while they go after the unfaithful. But be the best you and believe God's time is the best. Ikechukwu can never change the plans of God in your life.

everythinggirly:


Kindly say what you can really do. How can you date a man for six months and want him to make moves? Do you want to be used? Pray you meet the right one not saying six months and all that. You can still be in for three months and get married. When you meet a man, be clear on your terms. You don't have to tell him. If he is for marriage, you'll know.

sandra50:
Fault finder have landed..Oga did you see where I said the reason why I turned down the proposals is because of ego?I said 2 were older than my father and one was acting like my boss and carrying girls in my presence so I turned him down..now tell me how I wasted those proposals?I should have gone ahead..again the one that left because he needed someone wild is still around..wants to come back but it's not that easy after all he deed that I didn't mention here.

Iyaebe:
Never be in a relationship for more than six months, quit that time wasting relationship immediately it hits six months and no concrete moves from your boyfriend.

Stenewiser:
the bossy guy how long did you know him, if not long(6months) were you expecting him to drop is lifestyle easily, you should've waited a little bit, if he changes significantly, then you accept his marriage proposal, this girls he was taking, have you confronted him on it before, your mind wasn't there at all, Maybe that's why you didn't even care to try something. if I'm to ask what was he doing with these girls, or were you just concluding to suit yourself.

farady:
Sorry for all that happened to you. I will tell you that your Daddy, Almighty God is your father and is ever faithful. Don't I the misbehaviour of one or some men to judge all men. If you believe in Him, go to Him in prayer as your father, talk to Him same way you would converse with your dad and pour out your heart to Him. Tell Him what you truly want. Remember to first have a relationship with Him by being born again and then connect. There's nothing He cannot do. Wish you all the very best of 2022. Cheers and shalom.

sandra50:
You don't know how long I was with him..yes I spoke to him about it and he said it's only a woman that makes marriage work..I can't say every here.

Stenewiser:
madam, even Allison madueke married at 39, and she is still married and happy, just be careful, and cut-down your standards a little bit.

everythinggirly:


Kindly say what you can really do. How can you date a man for six months and want him to make moves? Do you want to be used? Pray you meet the right one not saying six months and all that. You can still be in for three months and get married. When you meet a man, be clear on your terms. You don't have to tell him. If he is for marriage, you'll know.

OloshoMan:
Women in their 20s- I want to date a bad boy, good guys are boring

Women in their 30s- Where are all the good guys are?

You people created monsters and I'm here for it.
When I look back at my SIMPing duys, I just laugh and sometimes annoyed for the good gentle man I was.

Thanks to YouTube content creators for teaching me the female nature. I swear we all need a strong male figure in our lives.
The amount of Chicks looking for marriage I've tossed... Oh my! Y'all ain't seen nothing yet. We niggas were good at some point in our lives. You made a monster. Let the games continue.

Iyaebe:
Yes,six months is enough time to make concrete moves if you are dating a matured man who knows what he wants and not some amateur men that are still testing the strength of their manhood and how many rounds they can go on a woman.Bottom line is be with a man who is ready and willing to settle down and not some game boy.

Michelle55:
I'm deeply sorry sweetie for the hurt you're going through, you will be fine okay.
Don't think it and give yourself time to heal, age is just a number, and never put pressure on yourself because of that after all, dem no dey catch late comer for marriage.

sandra50:
Thanks dear..really appreciate

Iyaebe:
Yes,six months is enough time to make concrete moves if you are dating a matured man who knows what he wants and not some amateur men that are still testing the strength of their manhood and how many rounds they can go on a woman.Bottom line is be with a man who is ready and willing to settle down and not some game boy.

toujurs:
My dear you are right on that bad character side oh, Any lady i see still single at 32 and doesn't even have a boyfriend, i see them as disrespectful ladies with bad characters, as a reason for them being single at such old age.

On the part on about being faithfull, i agree with you, you can't put all your eggs in one basket, that other guy that is telling you he likes you, keep me at a side. I said keep oh, i didn't say you should be knacking him. While you stay with the main guy. Incase main guy mess up. Even in business you can't invest all your money in one business na, Most of you ladies are smart, it's good to be faithfull and loyal. But human will always be humans. Madam ehn at 36yrs. Any guy that comes and his serious, just accept the person. It's just four years remaining for your time to give up. Or you inject a sperm and take care of your child, if you are lucky you will give birth to a boy

Michelle55:

What kinda negative energy is this?
When do you suddenly turn God to map out her life like that?
Kindly keep mute if you've got nothing tangible to say!
PS: before you call me names, I acknowledge the fact that I'm 42, old and wrinkle already. Whatever you would say next wouldn't hold water!