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Bola146:
As for me, the woman was right. I don't see anything big deal in cooking

FeliciaOja:
You can't expect me to cook on MY FIRST VISIT..
Maybe on the 2nd or 3rd meeting.. haba


Am I a maid, that on the first day of introduction you will be flexing mother in-law power.. Abeg the girlfriend was right.

First meetings with parents are meant for formal introduction.
Then after the first meeting
I get used to his mother and then we can now get along, crack jokes with each other before I step into your kitchen to cook with you.
My opinion

Guest911:
The girlfriend is right.

She was invited into the kitchen and declined.
It doesn’t prove disrespect or lack of cooking skills.

It only proves she’s a realist and would not fake her respect. Besides respect is mutual and the mother should give her some dignity at the very least.

mezarddinny:
the girlfriend is right, why you go tell person wey come your house first time make she come cook, una no dey cook before?

Sunshyne200:
What if the mum wanted to do that to show the lady that she is as much welcome and part of the family as can be, not to check the culinary skills, but to make her comfortable.

What if the mom feels she wants to establish a relationship with her would be sis-inlaw.

The response of the girl already showed someone who came for war?

I am sure the first day she visited the guy, she slept with him self.

Yeye policy, try that with my mum and we are done.

Arrant disrespect

FeliciaOja:
You can't expect me to cook on MY FIRST VISIT..
Maybe on the 2nd or 3rd meeting.. haba


Am I a househelp, that on the first day of introduction you will be flexing mother in-law power.. Abeg the girlfriend was right.

First meetings with parents are meant for formal introduction.
Then after the first meeting
I get used to his mother and then we can now get along, crack jokes with each other before I step into your kitchen to cook with you.
My opinion

Theobserver835:
Well as for me,what the girl did was absolutely right.
For God sake is her first visit na,Courtesy demand the boyfriend's mum to do that maybe when she visits another time.
Because you are a mother or an elderly woman doesn't give you the right to boss me around on one flimsy African culture.
I like women that stand for their right and damn the consequences.
Respect is mutual and reciprocal.
The boyfriend's mum lost it.

2dice01:
Alright madam

What will be your response when your boo mum calls you to join her in the kitchen?

gunners160:
Anty, mummy, granny, it seems you are having issues with comprehension. The mum only asked her to aid her in the kitchen, please what is the big deal there? A wise lady will jejely accept this kind gesture and even turn the whole event into jokes and play so as to connect with the mother. In fact she will even try to have good amebo gist with the mother and from their she creates a friend for life.
ladies like you make their husband's mother look evil meanwhile you are the witch yourself forgetting that you will some day be a mother

Theobserver835:
You re mistaken it young man, it seems you are the one that has problems with understanding a situation.
Will you sit their and watch your mum turn your wife into a house maid because she is doing her a favour of been married to you?

gunners160:
Are you for real?
Gosh, there is nothing bad in a lady helping her mother in law to cook in the kitchen in fact doing that shows the mother in law is the free type and giving the lady a room or a chance to see the home as her own too.
women like you will never and I say never last in their husband's house because they want to flex one stupid and nitwit muscles

FeliciaOja:
I will gladly cook with my mother in law any day anytime
But NOT ON THE FIRST MEETING!!!
Are you dumb that u can't read??

Do you start working the first day you do a job interview?? Noo
Do you start asking for sex the first day you meet a girl?? Noo
There are certain things you don't do on a first meeting with someone..
The mother inlaw should know how to respect her visitors.
The next time I come then now I'm familiar with everyone so I will gladly join her in the kitchen without her asking.

FeliciaOja:
I will gladly cook with my mother in law any day anytime
But NOT ON THE FIRST MEETING!!!
Are you dumb that u can't read??

Do you start working the first day you do a job interview?? Noo
Do you start asking for sex the first day you meet a girl?? Noo
There are certain things you don't do on a first meeting with someone..
The mother inlaw should know how to respect her visitors.
The next time I come then now I'm familiar with everyone so I will gladly join her in the kitchen without her asking.

gunners160:
Like seriously? Then you for no eat for the house na, after all it is your first visit or better still buy pure water for road wey you go drink or bring your food along

This issue of moral decay needs to be properly addressed in this country. If spinsters who would be mothers' tomorrow can reason this shallow, menh moral in this country is so freaking doomed because everything revolves around family.

Theobserver835:
Well as for me,what the girl did was absolutely right.
For God sake is her first visit na,Courtesy demand the boyfriend's mum to do that maybe when she visits another time.
Because you are a mother or an elderly woman doesn't give you the right to boss me around on one flimsy African culture.
I like women that stand for their right and damn the consequences.
Respect is mutual and reciprocal.
The boyfriend's mum lost it.

oludolars:
If for any reason, Folorunsho Alakija, Mike Adenuga's wife, Femi Otedola or Dangote's wife asks you such to join her in the kitchen and not wanting any of their cooks involved.

Kindly give such answer. You will regret the day you were born by ur parents.You will be thrown out like a peice of thrash.

When millions of pretty naija girls are dreaming of just an oppotunity with such family.

All these poor people thinking.

Being polite is part of the attribute of a highly educated and exposed person.

oludolars:
If for any reason, Folorunsho Alakija, Mike Adenuga's wife, Femi Otedola or Dangote's wife asks you such to join her in the kitchen and not wanting any of their cooks involved.

Kindly give such answer. You will regret the day you were born by ur parents.You will be thrown out like a peice of thrash.

When millions of pretty naija girls are dreaming of just an oppotunity with such family.

All these poor people thinking.

Being polite is part of the attribute of a highly educated and exposed person.