To be in loved with a girl and start a relationship is a wonderful thing. Long term relationships are usually based on love, trust and honesty. Even if honesty is very important in a relationship, sometimes may be hurtful. There are some things you shouldn’t tell your partner because it may hurt her or make her change the opinion about you.

Even if you love her very much and you are getting close, these things can affect your relationship and should be kept in secret. Sometimes you can best show her your love by keeping your mouth shut. So, before you start telling her somethings, you should look at these things that may destroy your relationship.

Never tell her if your family doesn’t like her
Even if your family dislike her, it is better to not tell her because she will get angry and insecure. This will create future problems and tension between her and your family. If you truly love her, all you can do is to let your family know that she is the one you have chosen, and they have to respect your decision. Try to make them change their minds about her.

Never tell her she is getting fat
Even if this is true, please don’t tell her this. It will make her feel very bad and she will think that you don’t like her anymore. Think about how she would feel, and you can say: ” honey, let try to lose a little weight ”. Let her decide when is the time to lose weight because she will do it without you hurting her.

Don’t criticize her when she is trying to do her best
This is the worst thing you can do. If she sees that she is trying hard to do the things fine and you begin criticizing her, she would feel disappointed that you don’t know to appreciate her for the fact that she is trying her best. So, you should get over it, and you can help her in doing that job. Maybe next time she’ll be doing better.

Don’t tell her how your mother would have done things
I know that for men their mothers always represent a model in life, but we must admit that all the families are different. So, we have been raised by different kinds of parents and in different ways of life. Everyone is taught to do things in their ways and that’s why you can’t ask your girlfriend to do things or to live like your mother. A woman can have her views and opinions, and all you can do about this is to tell her stories about how you were raised and how things have been done in your family. You should adapt at this new way of life, without comparing her with your mom.

Don’t remind her about your ex in a special moment
Never ever compare your dating nights or things you do together with the ones you have done with your ex, don’t remind her that. It is a hurtful thing for her to see that you are still thinking about the other.

Don’t tell her some bad things you have done in the past
If she doesn’t find out already, you better keep your mouth shut; it is in your favor. If you tell her that you have cheated your past girlfriends, for example, she will have a totally bad opinion about you, and fell disappointed. So, these things you shouldn’t disclose.

Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her.
Even if is an important game, don’t tell her to let you alone in that moment because you are busy and don’t have time for her. You better smile and pretend that you are listening to her too and try to catch the key words. She might ask you one or two things to test you.

Don’t ask her to relax when she is very angry
When she is very upset, scared, or very angry the worst thing you can do is to ask her to relax. This will make her angrier because she will think that you don’t take her serious. If you upset her by doing some bad things, and you just tell her to relax, she will fell that you are denying that there is a reason to be upset.
Don’t tell her that you are insecure

In a relationship or dating woman is looking after a strong and confident man. So, if you are insecure, or you are jealous on her because, for example, she has a better salary than yours, you have to keep this aspect just for yourself.

Don’t declare your love during a fight
The words ‘‘I love you ‘‘mean a lot for a woman that’s why it should be said at the right moment. But most of guys say this during a fight. She doesn’t believe a word in what you say because she considers that if you really loved her you wouldn’t upset her. You may say you love her but only after your fight is over.

Do not tell her that you like her girlfriend[b][/b]
Maybe one of her girlfriends is very beautiful and you like her so much, please your partner shouldn’t find out this. If you say that her best friends look very good and you like her, she will feel hurt, angry and will never trust you around her friends. So, keep it to yourself.

If you want to have a long and strong relationship you shouldn’t permit or say some things that can destroy it to your partner. Don’t be completely honest about the things which should not be told.

https://daybydaylifelessons.com/10-things-you-should-never-tell-your-partner/

So true

Don't tell her that you have knack her jJunior sister

So many insecure people in this world...why pretending?! Be fully honest with your woman, ALL THE TIME...

unitee2011: Never tell her if your family doesn’t like her

If your family doesn't like her then there is nothing wrong with it....they must have a genuine reason and that's OK...you cannot force others to like your wifey, but you certainly shouldn't pretend they love her either. Tell her exactly why they feel this way, and most importantly, how their views won't change ONE BIT how you feel about her.

Never tell her she is getting fat

So that she can get more fat?
So that you can lie to her that she doesn't look fat in her dresses?!?!
Be honest with your woman ALL THE TIME, so that she can do something about it. If she is indeed getting fat then never lie to her about it because guess what? She probably already know about it herself.

Don’t criticize her when she is trying to do her best

If her best is not good enough then you should encourage her to try harder or do better... and certainly not celebrate her for her mediocre action.
This is your other half and you shouldn't be afraid to be FULLY HONEST with her, without being afraid to hurt her feelings. She knows that you only want the best for your family.

Don’t tell her some bad things you have done in the past

If you can't be FULLY HONEST with this woman about any of your past that can affect her in anyway whatsoever, then you have NO business being married to this woman.

Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her.

How can a football match be more important that your woman?! Get real now... but as much as a football match can never be more important than your woman/Family...if wifey wants you to go shopping with her while there is the champions league final or important WC matches, then I am sorry but shopping will have to wait.

its incomplete if everyone don't add there own.
don't tell her that .. you have money in one bank unless u trust trust her. don't tell her where you keep your house key . don't tell her all your secret remember Samson and Delilah.


ad yours everyone lets have great Sunday.

Lol

AJIBOLA840:
Don't tell her that you have knack her jJunior sister

IDIOT!

In as much as she is more important than a football match, some things can wait for an important football match.

Is it wise to tell how u broke up with ur ex?
Just like in a job interview where you'd be asked why u quit ur last job...

AJIBOLA840:
Don't tell her that you have knack her jJunior sister

the kind eye wey I dey try look you so eh!

All but no 1 is absolutely true.

Don't tell her your family doesn't like her but don't hide it.

She'll find out sooner or later. She may think that you thought the relationship was going nowhere so you didn't bother to tell her such an important fact.

Pharaoh4rin:
Is it wise to tell how u broke up with ur ex?
Just like in a job interview where you'd be asked why u quit ur last job...

I don't think it is wrong, because I do not have a problem with it.

However, I have a problem with guys who demonise their exes. I had one guy do that with me. Today I am friends with his ex- I don't even know where the young man is.

Lol,you some of you are so serious.
My papa bear has told me some of those things while we were in a playful moment. Sometimes,not even when i am in a good mood but the way he says it jokingly makes me tease him with something similar in return.

I take exception to his mother jokes and his ex jokes tho, those ones are a NO GO, don't even tell me none of them playfully

missjo:
Lol,you some of you are so serious.
My papa bear has told me some of those things while we were in a playful moment. Sometimes,not even when i am in a good mood but the way he says it jokingly makes me tease him with something similar in return.

I take exception to his mother jokes and his ex jokes tho, those ones are a NO GO, don't even tell me none of them playfully

where are your boobs? @dp

AntiBrutus:


I don't think it is wrong, because I do not have a problem with it.

However, I have a problem with guys who demonise their exes. I had one guy do that with me. Today I am friends with his ex- I don't even kn
ow where the young man is.

Thanks.
I once confessed to a new girl I gat, that d breakup I had before I found her was my fault; that I cheated on d said girl couple of times and when she found out, it was a red card. The new girl asked if there was no 2nd chance and I said I messed d whole chances up. Do u know that it was d turned point? My raw honesty was what won d new girl for me. She told me that that means I've learnt my lesson. She is a daughter of a strong politician, though they relocated to U.S when this administration came in.

Fejos:
where are your boobs? @dp

Went to do manicure and pedicure

The only thing I know I can't tell any woman is my account balance... shît's so dissapointing.


If you're getting fat: I'll tell it to your face BAE YOU'RE GETTING FAT do something about it before I text Sade my slim neighbor.

If she misbehave: I'll tell it to her face: BAE YOU'RE LOSING YOUR SENSES AGAIN put it in check.

I'm not that stupidly nice guy, if I praise you when you did good... don't expect me to pamper you with words with you go off key.

Number 0: I just got my salary


Meanwhile. Contact in Sig

That means we should not tell each other truth

Number 1 deal breaker for me is telling me how your momma would have done it. I wont take it.

I will tell her everything just as am doing now

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Don’t tell her you are HIV+

Don’t ask her to relax when she is very angry

This is dumb. I should tell her to keep shouting?
Don't relax. Burn the house

I just did

Never tell her her kpekus stinks even if it does.

You should only tell her how to make it cleaner and odour free.

dont tell her her kitty is loose or smells of fish. runs away

Thanks op cos I was actually considering confessing Abt knacking her roommate n her sister....

you're a clown though right in some instances but wrong in many



like I should not tell her relax when she's angry? like what kind of joke is that? my bae know say she no fit dey angry in my presence and be bombing or talking, she can't try it. I don't tolerate that nonsense



most of these your instances will just turned already dummy guys to complete imbeciles in the hand of their feminist wannabe gf/wife

But my Ex girlfriend always reminded me that I'm a broke nigga . I had to terminate the toxic relationship before she leads me to crime