₦airaland Forum

babyfaceafrica:
you already have a fiancee and you have already chosen a date?,.. Whatever we say won't make a difference.. Are you ready to cancel the wedding if we say so?.. Nope...so why the questions?

valentineuwakwe:
you taken a bold step my brother...at 30yrs Jesus started his ministry so you are on the right track....make sure you are ready for this, have a heart to heart conversation with your wife and both of you should be sincere on this path you are about to take....
send me an invitation, I will gladly attend...lol 0.9.0.6.2.1.5.2.3.2.7
cheers!

karnap:
already set, just a word of advise kawai.

aaking:
My guy marriage is not about money is about wife understanding. My frd married when he only has 15k in his account but has a good handiwork today is a millionaire. Once u know use money start your relationship ,you are good to go

belcom10:
Good one. Let God reigns in your family

babyfaceafrica:
do DNA for all your future kids... Life ain't fair

karnap:
I'm.writing this one down,less I forget.

boxer022:
Congratulations in advance my brother, what else can I tell you; always put God first in your every day life. I don't want to repeat what others must have said which are good and commendable. Treat her as you treat yourself, also as it is written in the Bible, the two of you are now one body.

karnap:
thanks very much sir,I appreciate you.

karnap:
hello nairalanders!
it was nice to be in this forum,how ever its something I would love to hear from matured minds, preferably married people
I'm 30,I have already set my traditional wedding on 23th May before the lockdown of covid 19 virus.
as its now marriage is not for immature minds as many of my elderly people do tell me,
marriage come with different fashion in life.
please I would love to hear your advise.
thank you

karnap:
hello nairalanders!
it was nice to be in this forum,how ever its something I would love to hear from matured minds, preferably married people
I'm 30,I have already set my traditional wedding on 23th May before the lockdown of covid 19 virus.
as its now marriage is not for immature minds as many of my elderly people do tell me,
marriage come with different fashion in life.
please I would love to hear your advise.
thank you

akaahs:
Congratulations bro. mine, I was supposed to meet her uncles during the Easter period but unfortunately due to the lockdown, I couldn't go but looking up to God to bring healing in our land to continue with the preparation.
Just remember that two good head are better than one. What matters most, is for both of you to enjoy the union to the fullest.
Accept the reality that U ll have conflicts and they aren't a sign that U have married the wrong person but affirm we humans.
Always communicate both horizontally and vertically i.e God and ur partner.
Wish you all the best.

ekitimanalways:
Just lower your expectations.

karnap:
hello nairalanders!
it was nice to be in this forum,how ever its something I would love to hear from matured minds, preferably married people
I'm 30,I have already set my traditional wedding on 23th May before the lockdown of covid 19 virus.
as its now marriage is not for immature minds as many of my elderly people do tell me,
marriage come with different fashion in life.
please I would love to hear your advise.
thank you

frozen70:
You didn't state where you need advise on

But marriage in general is sweet and has a bitter taste, get this clear

The first 3 yrs of marriage is always like a child having bitter taste

But with love, prayers, commitment from both sides, patience, tolerance and above all, understanding is the only way out

Be good and let God handles the ones you can't

Remember, communication is the key

Righttip:
The moment you see your wife as your best friend and love as that as she does that too then you are cool.
Then learn to pet her even when she's wrong but be firm in your leadership role
Listen to her o
It's fun

babyfaceafrica:
do DNA for all your future kids... Life ain't fair

karnap:
feels good to hear this, thanks so much...

luminouz:
Learn to PET her even when she is wrong and being FIRM in leadership roles are direct opposites.

Righttip:
Firm in leadership means show purpose and direction without fear.
PET o as alot of ladies adopts that as assurance

luminouz:
It still makes no sense to me.