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How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 9:32pm On Apr 23, 2020
This is hypothetical / a story /

Hello

God smiled on me and I am on a Job that pays very high. I'm also relatively young. Less than 27.

I want to start serious dating and hopefully start something serious with a good girl that would be marriage worthy down the line.

How do I make sure I don't attract gold diggers. we all know we have them many. Do I hide my money? Like use a cheap car, fake a cheap house and other stuff like that. How else do I ensure not attracting women who would only be with me cos of money

Thanks. I welcome all advice

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Nobody: 9:37pm On Apr 23, 2020
Op, you sabi write fantasy movie o

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 9:41pm On Apr 23, 2020
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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by klbakare(m): 10:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
Speak to the holyghost. You are changed in christ ba? I believe you already have a regular communion with your maker by now
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 10:28pm On Apr 23, 2020
klbakare:
Speak to the holyghost. You are changed in christ ba? I believe you already have a regular communion with your maker by now
yh, that's a definite for me but it's good to get general wisdom on things like this. Just felt like asking for general wisdom even if i know the holyspirit would lead me rightly at the end
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Nobody: 10:31pm On Apr 23, 2020
pick any of those girls who were dating u b4 u made ur money
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 10:31pm On Apr 23, 2020
lefulefu:
pick any of those girls who were dating u b4 u made ur money
i was not the dating type out of choice. I was deep into my career, hardwork and studies at the time. So there were no serious dates b4 now
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 23, 2020
changedinchrist:
i was not the dating type out of choice. I was deep into my career, hardwork and studies at the time. So there were no serious dates b4 now
then e go hard cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 10:33pm On Apr 23, 2020
lefulefu:
then e go hard cheesy cheesy cheesy
chai.. cry . My fears lol
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Nobody: 10:34pm On Apr 23, 2020
changedinchrist:
chai.. cry . My fears lol
u can still pretend u dont have money and start looking for a girl and see if anyone will agree cheesy.dont flaunt ur money cheesy
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Kseafresh: 10:39pm On Apr 23, 2020
First Rent A much smaller house,Leave car firat cus dem no dey use eye see any ride..
Don't dress bling bling but dress Neatly nd smell nice..Just look Normal nd moderate
then find a beautiful girl, Just Forge one moderate job nd tell her that thats what you..
Then as the love increases,Just fake That you lost your job, Fake brokeness for like 3-6 months nd watch how she takes it and behaves to you..Even try to borrow money from her.
Then if she passes the tests
it certain she lovesyou for who u are
Bring back the money but gradually as if u juat found out a new online job..
Still be watchful tho, very watchful for women can change at anytime.
If you are now very sure of her,By all means do take it to the next level Bro

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 10:45pm On Apr 23, 2020
Kseafresh:
First Rent A much smaller house,Leave car firat cus dem no dey use eye see any ride..
Don't dress bling bling but dress Neatly nd smell nice..Just look Normal nd moderate
then find a beautiful girl, Just Forge one moderate job nd tell her that thats what you..
Then as the love increases,Just fake That you lost your job, Fake brokeness for like 3-6 months nd watch how she takes it and behaves to you..Even try to borrow money from her.
Then if she passes the tests
it certain she lovesyou for who u are
Bring back the money but gradually as if u juat found out a new online job..
Still be watchful tho, very watchful for women can change at anytime.
If you are now very sure of her,By all means do take it to the next level Bro

Thanks a lot for this.

Would welcome other advice/experiences from others

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by ViktorCash: 10:49pm On Apr 23, 2020
Dm me bro,i have your solution.
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by CAPSLOCKED: 10:50pm On Apr 23, 2020
changedinchrist:
Hello,

God smiled on me and I am on a Job that pays high plus would me making more money on the side. In total - say like over 40m per year. I'm also relatively very young. Less than 27

THESE DETAILS ARE IRRELEVANT. BUT WE KNOW THE FORMAT.
YOU GET PM'S AND TAKE IT FROM THERE.. SHARP! cheesy

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by daddycee91(m): 10:51pm On Apr 23, 2020
ViktorCash:
Dm me bro,i have your solution.

Beware of scammers o
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Kingarthur21: 10:55pm On Apr 23, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


THESE DETAILS ARE IRRELEVANT. BUT WE KNOW THE FORMAT.
YOU GET PM'S AND TAKE IT FROM THERE.. SHARP! cheesy
lol...girls will bombard him with PM after which they will ask for money for one "training on how to make wigs or mini importation" (all these online classes people are paying money). When they realize his Pocket is empty like vacuum they will block him and start opening "never date a broke guy" thread or start trolling him.

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by CAPSLOCKED: 10:58pm On Apr 23, 2020
Kingarthur21:
lol...girls will bombard him with PM after which they will ask for money for one "training on how to make wigs or mini importation" (all these online classes people are paying money). When they realize his Pocket is empty like vacuum they will block him and start opening "never date a broke guy" thread or start trolling him.



PAY SOME MONEY TO LEARN THIS OR THAT, OR PAY FOR SO SO JOB CONNECTION. YOUR MONEY GO JUST WEEZ. cheesy
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by bestabigaelever(f): 10:58pm On Apr 23, 2020
Kingarthur21:
lol...girls will bombard him with PM after which they will ask for money for one "training on how to make wigs or mini importation" (all these online classes people are paying money). When they realize his Pocket is empty like vacuum they will block him and start opening "never date a broke guy" thread or start trolling him.


This is deep
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by LeRabbite: 11:06pm On Apr 23, 2020
Anarchy01:
Op, you sabi write fantasy movie o

I bind and cast away every spirit of poverty in your life and destiny in Jesus name. Amen

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 11:10pm On Apr 23, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


THESE DETAILS ARE IRRELEVANT. BUT WE KNOW THE FORMAT.
YOU GET PM'S AND TAKE IT FROM THERE.. SHARP! cheesy
I put it there for context. And I'm not doing this for any ulterior motives. I just need advice anonymously. If I didn't put such detail, I felt I wouldn't get serious feedback. And because I'm anonymous, I didn't feel the need to hide details. I'm a good Christian seeking for worldly advice on such issues even though I know the holy spirit is the utmost directive
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2020
LeRabbite:


I bind and cast away every spirit of poverty in your life and destiny in Jesus name. Amen
I really don't know why they think such earnings are impossible. The top guys in the industry and work line earn a lot along those lines although some older than me

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by CAPSLOCKED: 11:13pm On Apr 23, 2020
changedinchrist:
I put it there for context. And I'm not doing this for any ulterior motives. I just need advice anonymously. If I didn't put such detail, I felt I wouldn't get serious feedback.

OUR COMMENTS TOO ARE FOR CONTEXT.
ISN'T THAT TRUE? KINGARTHUR21
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Toluwashe778: 11:13pm On Apr 23, 2020
Am a lady and I feel somethings u could do is
1. still invest in other things because this will make u see urself as every other normal man and avoid excessive flow of cash, u will be forced to live with in ur means

2. pls have marriage in view .... if u date to test run, hummm u will meet runs girl oooo

3. avoid sex with ladies u wish to date for now
when u do that, u have already lay a faulty foundation and the chances of having good result is slim.
this will enable u to study the person well before being blindfolded with sex
look before u leap.

4. pls don't disclose ur worth . let them take u the way u are .

I see u at the top

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by excanny: 11:16pm On Apr 23, 2020
Hide your wealth as much as you can and never talk about it with a lady you are interested in dating.

For now, move into a modest house and drive a very modest car until you finally find that woman who truly loves you without the money.

Avoid dating students, except they have a business already else stick to working class girls.
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by changedinchrist: 11:17pm On Apr 23, 2020
Toluwashe778:
Am a lady and I feel somethings u could do is
1. still invest in other things because this will make u see urself as every other normal man and avoid excessive flow of cash, u will be forced to live with in ur means

2. pls have marriage in view .... if u date to test run, hummm u will meet runs girl oooo

3. avoid sex with ladies u wish to date for now
when u do that, u have already lay a faulty foundation and the chances of having good result is slim.
this will enable u to study the person well before being blindfolded with sex
look before u leap.

4. pls don't disclose ur worth . let them take u the way u are .

I see u at the top

Thanks a lot. Would take those points into consideration. Investments are no worries.
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Okeytus(m): 12:04am On Apr 24, 2020
Bro I usually advice men this

when you have money, any one that love you the way you are is your true lover because the person is definitely isn't in the relationship because of your money or material gain.
once you have the money, it's an enemy of true love so Go for ladies of your class, those that "really" don't value your money more than you and these ladies are those that earn close to what you earn or from a wealthy home, this is where you can find true love especially when she is working and not a demanding type.

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by KingNom(m): 11:42pm On Jun 22, 2020
People change, my brother.
The Best step is to Take QUALITY TIME to pray (and fast too) and ask the Holy Spirit for His life partner for You.

He'll order and direct your steps

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Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by callmeRichie(m): 12:28am On Jun 23, 2020
changedinchrist:
This is hypothetical / a story /
Hello
God smiled on me and I am on a Job that pays high. I'm also relatively young. Less than 27.
I want to start serious dating and hopefully start something serious with a good girl that would be marriage worthy down the line.
How do I make sure I don't attract gold diggers. we all know we have them many. Do I hide my money? Like use a cheap car, fake a cheap house and other stuff like that. How else do I ensure not attracting women who would only be with me cos of money
Thanks. I welcome all advice

Don't just try to impress bro. A babe that would stay, love and cherish you even without spending a shit still dey! Just don't overdress, spend lavishly(cuz if you do, it becomes normal and you would be taken for granted) and don't impress.
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by SavageResponse(m): 7:40am On Jun 23, 2020
changedinchrist:
This is hypothetical / a story /

Hello

God smiled on me and I am on a Job that pays high. I'm also relatively young. Less than 27.

I want to start serious dating and hopefully start something serious with a good girl that would be marriage worthy down the line.

How do I make sure I don't attract gold diggers. we all know we have them many. Do I hide my money? Like use a cheap car, fake a cheap house and other stuff like that. How else do I ensure not attracting women who would only be with me cos of money

Thanks. I welcome all advice

I hope you know that if you're dating a billionaire's daughter you yourself would be classified as the gold diger!
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by paulolee(m): 9:42am On Jun 23, 2020
disguise as an average looking man dts struggling to survive, if she asks what u doing tell her u are a school teacher, always make sure your looks ans everything abt u looks convincing bt some grirls go still code sha...guy the matta no go easy o
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by Ladikwa(m): 9:54am On Jun 23, 2020
I Wish you the best finding the one who love you bro.
Re: How To Make Sure A Woman Doesn't Marry Me Because Of Money by lilmonarch(m): 9:56am On Jun 23, 2020
There's no point in disguising when u can get a lady that earns close to or as much as u.. Don't settle for less. NB. If i earn that much, marriage will be the last thing on my mind.

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